Kutey:

Never will you find a doctor or a Cambridge student white girl going out, talk-less marrying a black man. For what?
And when they do marry, the black man always ends up working for both. Black couples hustle and work together even after children. The whites stay on benefit.

What a load of hogwash!

Kutey:

This is not true for all i accept but the overwhelming majority.
Masculinity? sorry but you are a joke. Look at your community, your society. Who makes money and moves into a black neighborhood?
Every black community in the UK, USA, Africa, Caribbeans, South Africa is full of gangs, violence, violation, gun crime. Is that what masculinity is all about?

Every other race including Indians, Chinese, Caucasians are looking to improve their society and standard of living. The black man lives on handouts and international aid, his only concern is how much pum pum he can get.  

 

How crude, you are assuming that I am dumber than you – thats an impossibility.

lindabon:

^^^^Ultimate male !!!!
Yeah right. . .
First of all, the ultimate race is and still remains the white race!

Thats the ultimate low self-esteem and self-hatred I talked about thanks for confirming my point.

lindabon:

Blacks always make claims to s/hit that isn't researched or proved. We say that we are the strongest race, and yet, all Caucasians win ALL the strength competitions. All "the strongest man" are ALL white (like 90% of the gold medallist).
and to top it all, the biggest p./enis in the world is a Caucasian dude! Black men even make up that poo! and it is based off of Nothing!

Education time!
1 Strongman contests are traditional european events (icelandic to be precise) which most black males have no interest in – its pay is crap!

2  The olympics has been augmented with many “new sports” which are expensive to take up and again the participation of black male athletes depends on the payscale. The original olympics was based on track and field.  For example, why dose swimming have different styles over the same distance?

3. So you believe that every joystick around the world was checked do you, don't believe everything you read, sometimes you have to apply common sense.  Furthermore, ONE man dose not represent the whole white race.

lindabon:

Well yeah, you are right. Most black women have low self esteem because of the direct impact of the black man's behaviour on them. When ever most black men mingle with a white woman, they automatically become racist to their own black women. Watch some of the racist/self hating male comments on NL and you will understand what I'm talking about. One way or another, as human beings, this definitely let down some women who allow such bulls./hit to get to them.

You have had a terrible experience with blackmen thats all.

lindabon:

Every woman can attract any man. Ever wondered why some cute dudes end up with not so pretty babes? The trick is ATTITUDE!!!

No its called “Self Love”, an attitude is fake.

lindabon:

That is the strength of a woman. So black women,  can attract any man from any race if they want to! But then, our women are very patient.

Attraction is one thing, marriage is another.

lindabon:

Despite all this BS and crap that the black men bombard them with about them being the least attractive race, majority are still on the black man's side. Upon all the faults of our black men, rarely will you see a black woman talk s/hit about them.

Have all the comments on this thread been positive? You have just contradicted yourself.

lindabon:

The black men on the other hand, are the one's that will cook up all sorts of garbage about white men and men from other races, just to keep the women away and closer to themselves. That's the selfish instinct of most black men. They will tell the women how attractive a black man is to other female races, and at the same time, they will lie to the black women that they are not attractive and that is why men from other races will never go for them. (So OP, here is the reason why black women cant do the same)

lindabon:

Its just a matter of time before the black women will begin to see through this dubious acts of their own men. Soon enough, they will start putting themselves out there for other races to see them, just like the white women.

They have been doing so since the 70s and other races don't want blackwomen for marriage.

lindabon:

Frankly, you are right to say that black women are not getting married, and this is because the black men are being taken by other races, and the black men are subsequently becoming scarce by the day. In no time, most black women will begin to explore other options available to them. 

Like I said they have already started and there is no interest.

lindabon:

The white people have always looked down on black people. .  Blacks had over the years, tried to stay strong together even through the racism, discrimination and castigation. But the pressure has pushed some of us to self hate. All Blacks do now is fight one another instead of further advancing as a whole. Most black men have decided to live the negative stereotypes that are associated with them and the successful and unsuccessful blacks have no where to turn but other races (So OP, here is the reason why most black men date other races). Black people run around with these stereotypes and making people believe them and then if someone denies them, we start screaming "racist" like an angry gibbon until everybody believes it. I live in the western world, and never have I for one day experienced racism, and the best part is dat i really don't give a s./hit about stereotypes and all that comes with it. 

I can see what gave you that impression.

lindabon:

A white woman will be in a relationship with a black man, but you will hardly hear her make remarks like; because "white men are unattractive"or "Black men are better than our white men".
A black man will be in a relationship with a white woman, all of a sudden, he forgets that he is black. Now, he notices that the black women have very tick hair and her lips are too big. She is no longer attractive, and a white woman is now better than her by far. And they will do anything to breed the black out of themselves

My fear is that i don't know were this self hate, anger, stereotype and negative energy will lead us to in the nearest future. 
Yeah, and this is not a generalization, there are still many sensible black men, who date outside their race for genuine reasons, and will never turn around to call their own mother ugly because she is "black"!!  [/color][/b]

You are obviously very angry; but you failed to fully comprehend my response before you replied.  I was stating that:

1. Black women have tried to date interacially and in some areas in the UK for example 60% of black women (mainly Carribean) are in interacial relationships – but the marriage is still illusive.
2. Black men mistake “physical prowess” for “real prowess” hence masculinity is based on the amount of resources a man controls not his muscles or joystick

EzeUche:

No we Igbos would watch while you all start your revolution.

First sign of weakness in Nigeria we will secede.

This is exactly why an Egyptian style revolution won't happen in Naija.

Negro_Ntns:

Revolution to replace the present with what ??  

You cant revolt just for reformation sake; there needs to be a better solution replacing the old, not just as an ideal but also as a practice!

Exactly, i think a revolution has already started in the SW but its not quick enough! We have Fashola as a transformational leader and bad leaders such as Bankole, Akala and Daniel are being held accountable.

Dede1:


I am for disintegration of Nigeria and do care the number of pieces it will pan out.

Is this is a popular sentiment amongst Igbo people?

One_Naira:

This entire chest beating about Lagos.  Is it not the same Lagos used for Nigeria the worst place to live video? If Lagos is the same level as first world cities, I’ll understand all this hype about Lagos.  Abeg make we hear words. You asked why people refuses to leave Lagos? Lagos is one of the main cities developed by the Europeans and used daily for any international business. This is why people go to Lagos; business and nothing more. It is thriving because people go there.  If this pathetic government finally realizes you have to make every city an international business oriented place, you'll see people will waka commot from Lagos in the bus-load.  Don't blame us for Nigerian government incompetence.

Try to respond eloquently and you will have a constructive discussion. Now, action speaks louder than words - I am sure you would agree with that.  Let me pretend to agree with your assumption that:

One_Naira:

“Lagos is one of the main cities developed by the Europeans and used daily for any international business.”

Why Eko? Why have they not chose to develop the allegedly “Industrialised” SE? Don't you think it has something to do with Yoruba talent and leadership?

Why can't the Igbo people transform their land into an International hub for business?

Ileke-IdI:

I'm glad they spoke against it.

No more hush hush in Yorubaland. I think it's better they dispose of these so called leaders too.

I agree, what makes me happy is the fact that Yoruba people are cleaning up and not afraid to condemn or prosecute bad leaders who indulge in illegal activities - Accountability. We are showing the rest of the country the way forward. I find Daniel, Akala and Dimeji very disappointing - I hope we can make an example out of them to prevent this in the future.

One_Naira:

smh.  The OP clearly said he did not want a nigerian vs. Biafran argument.  He clearly said this thread was meant just for Biafrans. What is going on here? smh  Why do people bark so much whenever they hear Biafra.  E pain you so much.

^^^^^^@topic
Ojukwu imela.  This is an inspirational speech.

I do not understand why people will not let Biafra go.  You b1tch everyday about Biafrans complaining yet the same time refusing to allow Biafrans to leave.  you will not hear us complain if we leave.  Nigeria is a messed up country that is not going anywhere, why force us to stay in a predicament we do not feel comfortable with. Igbo wants to leave, Ibibio want to leave, Efik wants to leave, Ijo wants to leave, i don't know if they want to follow SE and other SS excluding itsekiri region or create their own nation but they want to leave.  We all want to leave, lets us leave. 

[size=18pt]You guys are FREE to leave Lagos any time you feel like, why won't you leave?[/size]

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