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francdec4:
According to the man he said "..since since nau" nau is accronym for a university in awka NAU so I am guessing he is only talking of what happened when they were students in NAU possibly many years ago before you two met and since she is now working according to you that may have beings guy from the past who decided to recall events of the yesteryears.....my guess though.

Lol...she didn't school in Awka..we went to the same university...since nau is just an expression and doesn't mean Nnamdi Azikiwe University

Babyforever:
Please don't leave her alone in this trying times give her a second chances please it's not easy

She has been having sex severally with that dude, if it was once then it stands to reason..

I have a picture of the guy giving her head too(lol)

Lostz:
which night again? are you that weak?
I am throwing you out the very moment I found out.

I may do something bad to her.....if she stay longer.

She has no where to stay...if anything happens to her police will hold me responsible, I prefer to be weak and alive and safe...thanks for your contribution

seanwilliam:
you are sensible and security conscious

Thanks man

Parkleader:
Why did she come in the first place? If she no wan do the relationship again. Na you invite her abi she come by herself

She came by her self...

mrblessed:
Maybe your reason for not confronting her head on is because you are equally guilty as she is. Or do you chalk up her infidelity to the fact that your have a long distance relationship and that she might be vulnerable to man's pressure? Whatever your reason is, just muster courage and confront her, so that she will know her secrets have been revealed. Imagine the audacity of chatting her guy in your house. That is the height of thoughtlessness and disrespect.

Not confronting her is non of the reasons u stated above...I just don't want drama in my house and I don't want to risk any violent act..I will send her everything when she reaches safely in her place

Kekereekun123:
dont try that o. She fit carry knife kill you, refuse to go while forming emotionally down bla bla. Funny enough the guy she dey Bleep wont even date or Marry here. Many girls of today are a shame and disgrace

Thanks bro, the emboldened was the main reason I didn't let her know and will never let her know till she goes..she might even put shit for me for food or do any other funny thing..she was even supposed to go by month end but I encouraged her to leave earlier..and she has agreed to leave

Kekereekun123:
when she is half way into her journey, send her the chats. E go pain am well. Then block her after

Ok...so no need of telling her while she's in my house

dom80:
no matter how hard you Bleep and satisfy your gf, if she wants to cheat, she will still cheat. my gf is an example. I Bleep her to the point she tells me how tired she is and sometimes feel like squirting. she even fan her p.ssy but she still cheated behind my back. please note that I provided for all her need, love her 100%, gave her 100% attention, etc. she knows I'm not a thousandnaire but she still cheat. this makes me even get more confuse about what women want. its hard to find a loyal girl. I have not been so luck with relationship.

No one knows what they want oo...money is not my problem too, I paid for most her expenses like house rent , some additional cash and the rest

JeffreyD1:
Wetin she still de do for your house


Wait you mean say for this lock down you kept babe for your house

If na your siblings wanted to come now you for no agree

My siblings are always welcomed...infact there was a time she was around with my brother for a month..
She came because she was bored over the lockdown

[quote author=callmeRichie post=89601541][/quote]Ok ..I will try to do so

MrChriz:
I will advice you reveal to her before she leaves, maybe a day before her travelling...it's always feels good to look into someone's eyes while telling dem how dey really bleeped up....but try to careless when telling her..

What if she starts crying and forming emotional tears or even probably refuses to go,?

Or what if she harms me in the night before then?

That's why I opt for her to leave first..do you get me?

Dande55:
Naso una deh always talk when a girl seeks for better option.
Besides, your sex game might be poor, learn to satisfy your woman.

Hahahahahaha...sex game kwa... I'm a horse, I ride to stupor

EricSmallz:
If na me eh, hehehehe. I go blast that girl eh, she go carry bag run. I go dey blast her like 6 times in a day (if I no dey go work o)
Body go tell her say, this guy go kill me o.
I dey blast o especially when I dey vex for the girl

To what gain Kwanu..no be today person start to the bleep

gabson9:
Hehehehe nigga. . What are you waiting for?
Everything on that screenshot is apparent enough. . Your babe is cheating on you and the annoying thing is that, she refused to go down with you and was telling her now main nigga that she misses having sex with him.
If you don't want to be an unfortunate child before she leaves, make sure say you nack her well, turn her head Bleep her through mouth, Bleep her through her ears, bite her nipples and keep fucking her for like three days, then let her go but don't tell her yet. . When she gets home, tell her everything and move on guy. . I repeat move on.
Marriage wey go last, na for courtship you go know. . If she's cheating now, who told you she won't cheat on you when you get married to her.
Bikonnu use your head. . Good morning.

Thanks bro..it has already ended...I just don't want her to know in my house till she reaches her destination..

simplepee:
Lol.

You should stay together with any lady or guy you wish to marry for atleast 2 weeks before marriage. FOREVER is a long time.


I once said this here and ladies attacked me saying I am cheap, well I still stand by it.

You're right..is good to get to know people personally

donbachi:
The more we grow,the more our taste changes...her taste don change.

Then what da fvck is she doing in my house and her quest to really wanna end up with me

Dande55:
Girlfriend of 3years without proposing and you expect her not to seek for other options.
You time wasters are something else.

The traditional was planned for this December..not everyone believes in proposal...what difference does it make proposing to her and the ring stays there for years...

Pics here

You can see she's even asking the guy which one of their sex scenes , that's to tell u they've been intimate for long..

I have another pics the guy sent to her when he was giving her head but for privacy reasons I'm not going to upload that one....funny a thing I'm not so bothered , I don't just know why..I will continue to accommodate her till she goes back..Infact I have been extra nice to her just so she doesn't find out.

Is a human nature to be deceitful anyway..Don't ever be complacent when u suspect your partner esp when he/she misbehaves , most times what we suspect end up been the case and never ever confront a woman without evidence, she will completely deny it...I'm just enjoying myself knowing fully well I have averted a marital crises in the future

I will be straight to the point ...
My girlfriend of 3 years came to stay with me during this period of lockdown. She's been here for almost 2 months and I noticed she had changed completely from whom she used to be. She came all the way from Awka to Lagos because their work place is closed because of the pandemic.
These are the changes that made me to start suspecting her:
(1)we usually have intimacy as soon as we meet because we always stay for sometime before seeing each other, but this time around she vehemently refused and said later, someone who used to bump on me for that
(2) she started answering strange calls and even video calls
(3) she cared less about me and what happens in the house..she kept burning my food and infuriating me, something that never happened before
(4)She now said she has lossed the zeal for intimacy and we could stay up to two weeks before intimacy

Because of all these I was finding out how I can spy her phone because it is passworded...so I luckily saw when she imputed her password and noted it.She sleeps late normally and wakes late too.So I had to wake up one early morning before her and what I saw shocked me..My gal has been having sex with one guy like that severally and even receiving head from him(lol)..I don't even know whether I'm now the side niggar or not..I took screenshot of the whole thing but I have not shown it to her yet...I don't want to tell her anything, but she suspected I might have found out and has started talking nicely lately..How she might have guessed I have found out was because she wanted to go much later while I now encourage her to leave earlier, she's surprised at that...is been three days since I found out but I'm just tolerating her and waiting for her to go..This is a gal I looked up to getting married to but is all over. I will wait for her to get back to her location safely and sound before revealing it to her.
Thanks for reading