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Dyt:
I stepped out to the city first time since March yesterday and I was going crazy
I couldn't breathe shittt

Mehn I took off the damn thing

You created a thread and same u is derailing it... Awesome

mydeporch:
Thanks so much sir for this piece.
You have said it all...
In d diaspora nd entitlement thing..its so sad many people carry dt mentality abroad..and dts y some marriage do not last these days
My siblings are there nd my two immediate brothers never dated nigerian ...even now in serious relationship they dating white......I tell them all dt matters is them having peace of mind nd being happy together. Am glad dy are doing great.

People do know how to claim all claimable in UK....I remebe when I went for Masters, there was this woman in my church. The husband worked in London and comes home every weekend...the woman was claiming single mothers allowance....... once I was chanced to be in d midst of some women and they were explaining to themselves how they can get entitlements for free claims......and when their fight starts... envy...jealousy, competition....its another world entirely.

Are you married dear?

SweetCunt97:
Their fathers ain't banging them so y would they ask such from him? Besides the old man has done well to raise a lady that you see and willing to date so all these imput about "fathers" is really unnecessary and irrelevant. Quite childish if you ask me. There's always a limited, you give what you can give... Be in charge of your relationship and not a mumu

But the banging goes both wells...they enjoy it even better..I mean the females

Nooil:
What's the natural default of men?

He has said the one for a woman... maybe you tell us

fELiscatus:
Shebi your mom is a woman

Including your own mom.. double wahala for dead body

Amarabae:
Nigeria police are trying especially when it comes to tracking down kidnappers.
they also rescued my mother in law who was kidnapped last month,

Rivers and kidnapping.. thank God for her

husbandsnatcha:
...Abum onye umuchim in Rivers State , but I stayed in abagana during my unizik days

Ok... udo

He doesn't need to salute ...he's not an elected official..these guys don't know their boundaries

husbandsnatcha:
...I heard ukpo fought abagana , all is d fault of Arthur eze ,

Ukpo vs Abba
Ukpo vs abagana
Ukpo vs enugu agidi
Even ukpo vs awkuzu , Arthur eze tufiakwa gi...

Kedú ebe isi?

petitejolie:
U don’t have school hostel? You are not even rugged. U can’t survive anywhere with this your sime sime attitude. U don’t want to grow. Let me tell u something. I’m a lagosian and got admission into a northern school at age 16 . My parents had to let me go. My school is in Zaria and my uncles stay in kaduna. I visit dem once in a blue moon. I didn’t stay dere I stayed in school. During Nysc was posted to the east I didn’t know anybody there at age 20 that was d first time I crossed river niger. Also I got one of my jobs in Ilorin Nd I went there where I knew nobody. Those times were my first travel to these places.My friend u better open up to your parents and tell dem u wanna go to d hostel or let dem give u money to rent a place. Ure in school na . Make contacts na, ask questions. I pity u, this avoidable thing is wat is causing u depression. Wen u start the main schooling nko cos Ure just JJC in school now. Dem neva start with una. Ure only supposed to stay in ur uncle or aunty’s place for like a month which is enough for u to gain balance and adjust. After which u find ur way . U will just be coming for visit. Better stop dulling and tell u parent wat is happening. Do u want to be dulling for the rest of your life.

Nice one dear

mrwonlasewonie:
lol so he's even older than his Bully?

Wow.well it could be envy wey dey worry the bully but whatever it is you shouldn't allow anyone Bully you much less someone younger than you.

Read naw oga.. how's he older..he's 17 getting to 18 years while the bully is 23 going to 24

Brightgem:
So his parents allow him beat up everyone in sight. Once Lockdown is over, you only need to insist to ur parents that you are not going back. Simple.

Seems you are really young. And what do people mean when they say cousin brother or cousin sister. Cousin is Cousin na.

To demarcate whether na male or female...it will be double tragedy if na woman de bully op

realoscar84:
Imagine an undergraduate who can't stand up for himself in this open eyes era. Even if you 16 or 17 yrs of age cant you prove something to urself for once. U turned urself into his punching bag for what? Bullies love somebody who is timid. U have to engage him, not necessary to win him in a fighting contest but to show him enough is enough. Tell him, no more, it ends now. You make the whole thing too easy for him and he obviously enjoy bullying you, claiming territory because you surrender too easy. Life is all about determination. Man up and speak up, fight him with all ur strength and he will get the message clearly. It only take one attempt. He is insecured nd i put it to you that young man might probably be one of the the biggest Lilly livered, coward son of a bitch in that street Shame on his parents though. I wonder how some parents can spot their children as bully. This matter dey vex me here wallahi. Imagine if this boy stab him out of anger now, then you will start reading on blogs and nairaland how a 16yrs old boy stabbed his 23yrs yrs old Cozin to death. I wish I'm in that vicinity, make I buy this fight. Wicked generations.

Lol..this one vex u so special

Investmentfreak:
Number 2 sounds cool, but what if the bully collects the knife ?

Church agbasa naw

Onnasucs1:
na person wey get sense dem dey Siddon talk with na. The person he described is definitely one of those overfed fools with nothing in the brain.

OP, I recommend option 2

...this thread is interesting to be honest..I recommend the number 2 as well..that 23 year old boy no get sense, no need to sit him down

VickyRotex:
You could still pass across your message nicely.

Take a look at Oladayo's response.

The op is already tensed, let's not make him more tense with our words.

Just saying.

You're right ..and he's also a small boy leaving home for the first time..he's inexperienced

B

Bb

Ok

Juliusmalema:
You are highly welcome. Do that immediately because that's what we have been agitating for so long.

Of what use is the people to Anambra state.

Build the border. Fully supported.

It will be done soonest because Anambra people are of no use to us except making trouble and struggling for land

Too bad... several tragedies in 2020

2020 goals still remains to be alive

Juliusmalema:
Both towns are in Anambra state....no need for such.

Borders are build at state boundaries with other states...

Oga mind your state and allow others mind theirs.

No ..they're community borders, state borders and country borders...I guess Ukpo people having secured a victory at the court want to build a wall to separate them from Abba people...that's how we're gonna do to Anambra state at the Ezeagu boundary

Juliusmalema:
We will only build high wall or gates at the borders and take over our lands .

Ukpo and Abba should face build wall to settle theirs...u can't be chasing rat when your house is on fire...

Juliusmalema why are u guys keen on fighting over land...you fight yourselves over land and still want to fight with Ezeagu over land...if land is scarce for u guys why not come and acquire land legally in Enugu we have enough to go round..make Una respect Una sef

MelaninSkinGirl:
I am sure ladies you can all relate with this, many women all believe that all men are nice but in fact they are shy, sly and slick. Women get carried away and get loved up and think love is true but these men walk all over women

Many women do not look before they leap and end up in deep water. So ladies, guard your heart, play hard to get or you will regret the day you were born when he leaves you for another woman/man because "Good men are like finding a needle in a haystack".

Are you single? I'm ready for u...I'm not perfect but...

Juliusmalema:
There is God oooo


See how we are been intimidated and bullied in our own land..



God fight for your children. We are God's people.

We now live at the mercy of Enugu people..

You're all definitely Enugu slave... Everyone knows Anambra doesn't have land..Even the few u have is filled with erosion..leave Ezeagu people land if not we will mobilize iwollo youths , nearby Ngwo and Oji-River youths to that site.. Nonsense

We will call u hanty ókú

So hilarious..like say she Sabi anything

mhizv:
Even traditional women, take responsibilities when the need arises.

Just as you can't completely depend on office jobs,same way there are risk to businesses.

If the man feels his bouyant enough to run the family and doesn't want her to work,then fine!

Anyway these are discussions to have B4 actually getting married. Cos personally I'm not going to be a housewife!
Didn't spend years in school just to keep my certificate in a box and become a house wife.


I always use my uncle as an example in discussions like this.

While he was working on the new building and school, the wife was running the home completely.

It was more like division of labor. He focused on getting the project done and she focused on taking care of the home. Feeding, bills,and every other expenses. Which made me admire her alot.(her husband is well to do )

So I feel it's not just about if he's bouyant enough. It's more of a contribution
Making that move to show you're actually concerned about the state of affairs in the home.

It's left for the man to accept or not. Just make a move

Wow..so much wisdom...are you still single please?

Juliusmalema:
Not my business who receives the money.

I'm just saying.. because recently Enugu hasn't been getting much of the things coming down to the south East

MinorityOpinion:
You see the hatred igbo have for Nigeria. Insulting Emeka just because he has a kind heart.

Emeka is different! Be like Emeka!

You can't be insulting Igbos generally BC of same Emeka offor who's also Igbo...is illogical...