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Charity begins at home Enyi a...Which one have u donated to Nauth or unth..ndi ara

Why leave out Enugu..is Enugu not part of South East..when Enugu is the capital of the old eastern region which Ebonyi was under

Juliusmalema:
Even if Buhari farts, Umahi go bow and appreciate...

You are appreciating buhari that youths receive 20, 000 naira?

Youths?

You have really lost it this man?

Enugu should have actually being the ones to receive this..

You mean audio organisation released from by T.A orji

braveheart77:
When u start your business and the same thing happen, people that could save your business will mind their business!

U de mind the guy ..ppl hardly reason if they're on the same shoes

mhizv:
Marriage isn't child's play. If you're not mentally prepared you'd have problems.

Both parties have to contribute,to making the home work. Both financially,and other wise
I advise all my make friends to marry a woman with a job or one with a business.

Marry a woman that can carry the home when you're at your lowest!
Marry a woman that respects you enough,and wants the best for you
One that wants you to achieve more than you already have.
One with ideas,and you can turn to anytime and you're sure she'd deliver.

Personally I feel a woman without a source of income has no business getting married(unless you and your husband agree to it)

Depending on your husband for literally everything possible isn't something I'd want to do.

I love you I love you isn't enough to sustain a marriage my own piece anyway

Thanks sis for this piece of advise...that has been my greatest worry to settle with a woman who's doing nothing..My uncle who did so regretted it ...esp when the man is sick who will take care of things when the woman is not working?

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Juliusmalema:
Oga dey your lane.



Anything between 0-19 is not poverty but average live.


Just solve your issues and stop dragging Igboland around.


Work for the better and not waiting for NBS statistics to know whether you are rich or poor.


Most of these states are fantastically poor. Leave NBS and do the right thing.

Anything more than 5% is poverty actually

Well you maybe right about the NBS because it bits logic how the south West states will have a better value than those of the east when in reality is not what it is... whatever is their motive ,

Juliusmalema:
Story story story

Remove Anambra from such nonsense...

I wonder when 3.2% became 15 Percent.


Enugu state is getting poorer. Leave Igbo land out of the mess.

The problem with you guys is that you can't face your issues squarely but will look for who to drag in the name of Ana-Igbo ...


Mtcheew.

I guess you're so ignorant.. Anambra poverty rate is 14.8 % which is appr 15% and poorer than most south West states....we Igbos should unite and fight the increasing poverty once and for all..even Anambra has noticed increased poverty like other Igbo states...let's wake up and invest home, leave the divide

Juliusmalema:
Ndi Enugu, una done hear ba?

Is not just Enugu anyway... Ala-igbo in general
See Ebonyi- 70sth %
Abia- 30%
Imo- 28%
And Anambra almost 15%

That's much ...the whole igboland is getting poorer than they used to be ..is absurd , we must think home

Akwa-Ibom is very much overhyped..it's people are poor..no moral standards...married women still go out for prostitution..makes zero sense

TripleOh7:
If you have tasted the goodness that abound in the west, you will know that that is mission impossible.

We even had a 5-year plan which we have chucked into the waste bin.

Please don't derail the thread, if it doesn't concern u, just waka pass

Ndi Enugu B'anyi, our poverty index is now alarming as never seen before meaning we're getting poorer ...Please let's invest home and bring all the investments back home ...Is not getting funny again..we need to act fast..

We need to invest in Agriculture, education and most importantly in industries to give jobs to our teaming youths..This wasn't like this when Sullivan was our governor but since gburugburu entered we have been going backwards..let's correct this

Thanks for reading

Be sure is not abortion ooo..e dey happen

Unless she has an ultrashort cycle

humilitypays:
I have said it over and over again, 99% of the problems in today marriages is as a result of money and then sex!

Guys don't allow anybody to push you to marry when you are not financially ready and settled because majority of ladies today want a flamboyant life even in marriage....social media have influenced today women, they now live for the gram!

Op, with the kind of life most Nigerian ladies of today want to live in marriage, no federal civil service job without corruption can afford it. How much do they pay most civil servants; NGN250,000 at most for level 12 above which most young people cannot attain until they have approached 50yrs+.


It is not a must to marry. If you cannot find a lady ready to work and till the soil with you to make that billions she wants to enjoy and flaunt, please stay single oh, the world is already overpopulated, we have enough humans so if you no born, its not a big deal!!

If you must marry, marry a working class lady, working class ladies seem to have sense small, more than jobless, unemployed ladies who only sit at home watching TV and fantasising to live flamboyant life like those they spend their whole time watching on TV. Guys stop glorifying unemployed, manner less ladies with wedding ring!!!

Marry financially productive ladies, they understand the pains of making a dime, they appreciate the little you have and are ready to put effort with you to build that dream future, not all those lazy, jobless ladies una de marry all because of big ass and big breast that you will still get bored and tired of after you marry her

You made sense bro..this advise will help me personally

klenton:
you are just an empty vessel, na coconut water full that your head

what is it with Africans and religious belief, kneel down pray, have faith like a mustard seed!!! must everything be about religion the woman's request is stupid and that is what it is, which one is pray for God to give you the money, what happens to the woman praying on her own for God to give her the money.

do you know how many families that are looking for money just to eat, money to buy drugs, do you know how many families that does not have a decent shelter over there heads, families that cant afford a hospital, what happens to thanking God and been grateful, must it be pray for one luxury or the other.

and let's say u prayed ur way to a dubia trip, what if the woman needs a gwagon tomorrow or even cravings to fly private jet or a cruise trip round the world and you couldn't pray yourself out of it....i dont know why some women have failed to be reasonable as a people, is it that there processing brain is limited from birth, honestly it differs logic.

I'm telling u... very illogical..such an empty brain

Naughtysite:
What other going out do you want him to do ?

Someone who works for federal govt.

By the way, what do you do for a living ??

I can bet she's a jobless gal...most ladies with job have class and know what it takes to make money..not her type

nobone:
Currently in Oyigbo

Send your number...quote me elsewhere in a non-busy thread

Dpharisee:
Whenever I see @the bolded I wonder if the thread was created to generate traffic. If you don't want us to know your past history on this forum and from there understand your temperament it will be difficult to waste our time advising you for the sake of commenting on Nairaland.

But meanwhile na the sweetness of your Sadstick inside her Kpekus scatter her brain about the other guy, so she has to live with it, don't kill yourself because of woman, just pack comot from that area go find house in a be far location since you are a tenant.
Don't marry any woman that easily abandons the guy she is dating currently, leave it at the sex level

Pppl use different moniker so they don't use it to mock them later

nobone:
PH bro

Which side for pH

Throwback:
Why not just call her Afonja and rest your liver?

She's not Afonja...she's from a minority tribe in Rivers state..

Seerade029:
One of the few Igbos that understood what Landlocked means.

Don't be deceived she's not Igbo..she is only married to an Igbo man..she hates Igbo more than Yoruba..

Amarabae:
Oriaku Amarachi speaks;
All these "South east is not landlocked" threads being created by some Igbo's here especially IPOBs are not necessary,
what exactly do you want to prove, who do you want to convince?
why dragging an issue over and over again year to year especially on a platform like Nairaland.
let's get emotionally matured please,
the term Landlocked refers to an area that does not have a "DIRECT" access to the ocean via a sea,
and as long as I am concerned, South East Nigeria do not have direct access to the ocean but they do have some Rivers that flows into the Atlantic ocean but those rivers do not flow in directly because they pass through the territory of a south southern state,
Some have suggested dredging and expanding the river to the ocean, yes it is possible besides I have watched a documentary about an artificial sea created to support a seaport in an Asian country but who is going to do the dredging and expansion?
such a capital project requires the full approval and support of the Federal Government , and it is glaring that the possibility of that happening is very minimal.
River port and Dry port are two things that we should be talking about instead of all these unnecessary noise about seaport,
its unfortunate that we found ourselves in a hate filled country, had it been that it is a country where Love and peace reign, all the seaports in South South geopolitical zone ought to be functioning fully, but we know why it is not so, so that a particular geo political zone close to south south will not benefit from it, so that they will continue to cluster in Lagos to import thereby swelling up their Internal Generative Revenue,
we know this game,
Dry ports in a developing country are used to connect landlocked states to the sea port via a rail network, it is this technology that can be used to connect the whole northern states that are far from the ocean to the seaport.
the same dry port in Aba and Onitsha will play a crucial role in the economic activities of these two cities.
Dear Ndigboo ,stop all these creation of "South east is not landlocked" threads,
A wise person does not waste his time trying to impress or correct his sworn enemy.
we are alone in this country,that is why I always insist on IPOB limiting their agitation to Igbo areas,
The Jews faced similar hate all over Europe back in those days just for the crime of being Jews,
same scenerio is playing out,
Being Igbo is not a crime,
we are not interested in their love,
Always use your head and not your heart on dealing with "ndi tribe uchu ndia gbara Igbo gburugburu nke kasi nke ndi ofemmanuu"
ndewo nu
Oriaku loves you all

You're anti-igbo ..if u like insult the yorubas it doesn't matter..u are using it to Ur selfish end...that your Igbo husband will soon divorce u..

nobone:
I'm seriously looking for job.since they surprised me without salary... I want to peacefully surprise them with resignation as soon as the lockdown ends.
Imagine!

So you're even jobless....where do you reside?

Helios85447:
lol maybe na the ones your guy met in the university or kano,Kaduna northern hoes go to sokoto, katsina or better still go and look for real Fulani tell me if you guy would even see the colour of her pant .....I stay in the north most of my life bro.

Lol...they're as far a sizeable northern young Fulani prostitutes...I have stayed in the north too..I'm not making up the story.mi know the north

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

Don't marry..just stay unmarried..

They should have paid you for the period u worked

Helios85447:
would rather go and marry a Northern virgin lady ......preferable Fulani better still make she no even get work self or wise at all that will be much better.... do mistake go marry otherwise lol sorry is ur name...some working ladies self are just worst dey can bleep their boss or one fine work co- worker behind ur back...northern ladies anytime any day

Same northern ladies my guys are bleeping left, right and centre.. talk something else oga

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

Concocted studies from your head, lmao .. quote the study and not some abstract thoughts

25tolife:
Thumbs up ! My kind of guy.

but i advice u to send her packing,no come go dae give her hope ahbeg.

But the revenge will be sweeter when she gets some hope and boom everything is scattered..it will be hotter

25tolife:
walahi, u no get sense, u be small pikin, u are not exposed a bit. Cheating dey girls gene, they are born with it, money no fit guranty anything.

a have a female friend that cheats on his boyfriend(my friend also) steady ,she left for kano rencently to see a guy, has up to 4 boyfriend but my guy is the main(can u imagine)

last 3 years he has been paying hous rent @105k...the list goes on and on.....bought a phone of 85k for her

me i know everything about the relationship because am closer to the girl, but i dont snitch.

Are you minding nairaland kids with no experience..if u check now the dude u quoted is under 20..lol..most of them no Sabi anything maybe due to lack of exposure