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Romance / Re: Stop! Don't View That Blue Film (porn) by Notedlifestyles(m): 3:38am On Dec 22, 2017
Na wah oo this one na thread of the millennium Hmmm what should I call this one sef Nollywood yes wetin concern us Nigerians concern porn movies abi Change no reach your side I taya ooo... pls ooo #AmNorFeelingFineOoo
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Notedlifestyles(m): 3:34am On Dec 22, 2017
As per the topic I think it's because it makes them feel less important especially for the deflowed like those girls that has been disvirgined when they hear such topic they’ll be very angry check try ask chip in the topic to your girlfriend you'll see her reaction Lols I know some of you will be thinking by now.
As for the call she's just been jealous, feeling she's been used or scare of being dumped.
Religion / Christian Dating is it a SIN? All About Christian Dating - Discussion Thread by Notedlifestyles(m): 11:32pm On Dec 21, 2017
Dating in the Kingdom – Christian Dating By Suzan Dare

Hi there! Now let’s talk about Christian Dating; It is true that there comes a time when a man has to leave his father’s house and cleave to a woman (his wife) now that’s what the Bible say. But like the saying every great story has a beginning and an end and so that’s where dating comes into play in every relationship whether in christian or secular world. this is where both parties can relate with each other, know their difference’s and also get to know each other better to today we’re going to be talking about;

[center]I don’t like brothers in Church…. They are too spiritual….. I am actually dating a nice guy…..although he doesn’t go to church…….don’t know if he is really born again[/center]

Well my sister I have seen nice guys who beat their wives and have extramarital affairs…

There is nothing like marrying a brother in the Lord……what is the definition of nice guy? Buy your chocolates and change your phone? Takes you out abi?? No matter how nice he is… A dead man is a dead man!!!!

What makes our relationship in the Lord beautiful? It is that we are of “one Spirit” and that spirit is alive!!!!

Only a living man can make a good marriage!!!! Forget the “I will change him ideology” that’s 1 in 100% possibility. Like the possibility of him changing is 1%.

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The headship of Christ over the Church is the model we use in marriage!!!! So if he is not one of us….he is against us no matter how “nice” you think he is.

What makes a man alive is not because he is breathing…. What makes him alive is that he has eternal life…..

1John 5:12

NET : The one who has the Son has this eternal life; the one who does not have the Son of God does not have this eternal life.

An unsaved guy is asking you out……don’t drive him….get him born again….fill him with Holy Spirit… Send him to a sound new covenant church…teach him the word….. Let him grow…..end of story

Oh what do you want to hear? Marry him after get him saved? No naw! We don’t get people saved for marriage!!!!! Let him grow in Lord…..leave him like that to grow!!!

That’s why I have an issue with this statement from brothers “I have been training you so I can marry you”

That’s wrong!!! We train and equip the saints for maturity…. Not for marriage!!!!

Well……sha don’t marry an unsaved man….there is no connection between light and darkness!!!!!!!

If he is too Churchy…then that’s good news….!!!!

If he lacks the necessary ethics in dating…. Glory to God he has a Pastor….he will be taught and he will learn!!!! But to trade him for a cool guy on the street because the cool boy has swag is be ‘tired’ and of course suicidal!!!!
Your Friend Suzan

Selah!!

Source: Dating in the Kingdom – Christian Dating

Question: Is Christian Dating Really Wrong Or Right? If Yes How Come Its Not Encouraged In Most Churches in Nigeria And If No, Please State Your Reasons...Let's Reason Together

Career / Re: 10 Things Every Young Man Should Strive To Achieve Before 30 by Notedlifestyles(m): 11:16pm On Dec 21, 2017
greatnaija01:
be in a SERIOUS relationship? LOL.... that is not a must o. cos ONCE in a relationship.... HIS MONEY WONT BE COMPLETE.
Lols that could be overlooked though I think the writer was trying to say, be in a serious relationship so you won't be distracted for those who jump from one woman to the other
Career / 10 Things Every Young Man Should Strive To Achieve Before 30 by Notedlifestyles(m): 11:12pm On Dec 21, 2017
It is true that success is not a day’s work and Rome was not built in a day but everyone is expected to have attained a level of balance by 10 years, 20 years, 30 Years and even by 40 years.

We take a look at 10 things every Nigerian guy should strive to achieved on or before 30…

1. Be Matured – Maturity is not an age thing, but if by 30 years, a guy isn’t matured; then he’s on his way to multiple failures on all front.

2. Be in a serious relationship – If not married, then he should be in a serious relationship and getting ready to settle down soon.

3. Be Educated (formal or informal) – He should have attained his first degree or should have a qualification in his chosen field.

4. Have a Home of his own (rented, brought or built) – We don’t expect that by 30, any guy should be living with his parents and feeding on their pot, he can, however, live in a property built by his father/mother if he has a flat owned by himself alone.

5. Have a paying job or business – He should either have a good paying job, even when it’s below what he thinks he deserves or he should be in business, building a life.

6. Be responsible – He should be responsible and live a responsible lifestyle.

7. Be Independent – He should take his decisions (with or without advice). He should be his own oga in that department.

8. Have a set goal – He should by this age, have a set and defined goal, a picture of where he wants to be in the nearest future.

9. Learn to Drive a car – Even if he doesn’t own a car, every 30 years old should have attained training in driving to a large extent – an opportunity could open up or an emergency that would require him driving a car

10. Have a saving – He should have a saving plan, for the future, his family and a retirement plan.

Start planning today, every day counts – and if already you’re above 30 years and yet to achieve some of the things highlighted above, start now to aim and work towards achieving them.
[urIt’s true that success is not a day’s work and Rome was not built in a day but everyone is expected to have attained a level of balance by 10 years, 20 years, 30 Years and even by 40 years.

We take a look at 10 things every Nigerian guy should strive to achieved on or before 30…

1. Be Matured – Maturity is not an age thing, but if by 30 years, a guy isn’t matured; then he’s on his way to multiple failures on all front.

2. Be in a serious relationship – If not married, then he should be in a serious relationship and getting ready to settle down soon.

3. Be Educated (formal or informal) – He should have attained his first degree or should have a qualification in his chosen field.

4. Have a Home of his own (rented, brought or built) – We don’t expect that by 30, any guy should be living with his parents and feeding on their pot, he can, however, live in a property built by his father/mother if he has a flat owned by himself alone.

5. Have a paying job or business – He should either have a good paying job, even when it’s below what he thinks he deserves or he should be in business, building a life.

6. Be responsible – He should be responsible and live a responsible lifestyle.

7. Be Independent – He should take his decisions (with or without advice). He should be his own oga in that department.

8. Have a set goal – He should by this age, have a set and defined goal, a picture of where he wants to be in the nearest future.

9. Learn to Drive a car – Even if he doesn’t own a car, every 30 years old should have attained training in driving to a large extent – an opportunity could open up or an emergency that would require him driving a car

10. Have a saving – He should have a saving plan, for the future, his family and a retirement plan.

Start planning today, every day counts – and if already you’re above 30 years and yet to achieve some of the things highlighted above, start now to aim and work towards achieving them.
Source: 10 Things Every Young Man Should Strive To Achieve Before 30

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Romance / Re: 3 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Woman In A Relationship by Notedlifestyles(m): 2:29pm On Dec 20, 2017
Lols Nigerians sef funny answers but also true yai But i hope you all are'nt talking from experience Lmao
Romance / Re: 3 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Woman In A Relationship by Notedlifestyles(m): 10:19am On Dec 20, 2017
xest:
U want us to open ur blog abi? I prefer to ask Google
lols
Romance / 3 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Woman In A Relationship by Notedlifestyles(m): 10:10am On Dec 20, 2017
Relationships are cool you know and the woman tends to be very soft emotionally than the man although, the impact on that reason cannot be over emphasized but it’s the simple truth. What makes a relationship great is really not perfection, or an endless bliss, it is being with someone you accept with all their issues, baggage’s and the special benefits that comes with a relationship; you enjoy all the good moments and find a way to deal with difficult situation.

You will accept your partner the way he/she is, never compare him/her to someone else and always wish every one could be like them and when there are difficulties in your relationship, you will know the best way to handle it and never talk down on you partner.

“As a man you need to know that there are better ways to talk to your woman, better ways to express your desires”.

Below are 3 things you should never tell your woman.

It’s either me or XYZ: “A man who knows his place and recognizes his importance would never have to make you pick between himself and your job, or your friends and at the same time, a wise woman would never push her man to the position where this will be his last resort”.

My ex did this differently: “Even if there’s something about your ex that you absolutely love, a particular way she did something that impressed you all the time, you can’t afford to express this to your new girl as you will be putting her in direct comparison with your ex, and letting her know that she came up short and no woman likes that, she won’t take that lightly with you so it is better to pass that message across more subtly and more codedly than this”.

Be more like XYZ: “If you love her, your criticisms are constructive and they will be about her, not about others because when you love a woman, you will wish everyone else were more like her”.

Source: 3 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Woman In a Relationship

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Nairaland / General / Re: What Were Your Resolutions This Year And Did You Achieve Any? by Notedlifestyles(m): 10:02am On Dec 20, 2017
My resolution this year was to be better than i was last year and i thank God for making it come to pass. Lols.
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Celebrities / Re: Simi Made Thierry Henry Sing In Yoruba Language And It Was So Beautiful (VIDEO) by Notedlifestyles(m): 5:18pm On Dec 19, 2017
Simi get level sha woman power so thiery Henry truly sing yoruba wow

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Romance / Re: Couple Take Pre-Wedding Photos To The Farm by Notedlifestyles(m): 5:11pm On Dec 19, 2017
Wow this is fine oo I hope they'll do the wedding in the farm too #AmNorFeelingFineOoo

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