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Salmon & rice I had yesterday

Salad this a.m with poppyseed dressing. This poppyseed dressing is sooo sooo good.

What kinda government is this? 36 days and counting. I'm sure they know how to rescue them but don't want to. Na wa.

May his soul rest in peace.

Fresh Coho Salmon

Of course, one should be observant of red flags and if the person doesn't change, walk away. It's just like the thread on fp where the op said she noticed the bad breath before marriage but overlooked it. They've been married for Idk how long now and the bad breath is still there, not to mention he also has BO, on top stinginess and other issues. Let her carry her cross.

Women like this want other women to be single mothers like them. Go on FB and you'll see many single mothers in Nigeria looking for husbands. Nigeria must be the single mother capital of the world because why is every other woman there a single mother or babymama? Some will have kids for different men. Some will boldly say it's married men they want now. Why would you want to go after another woman's man? Anyhow country with anyhow people. Everyone's after their own selfish interests.

Anyways, no sensible person should listen to someone whose wig is approaching her eyebrows . The last wig I bought was over $900 and that thing shedded like crazy, not to mention the lace was rubbish. I've been loc'ed for years now and never looking back.

Why are you having segz on your son's bed and you want him to be watching you? I hope you're both ok in the head. This is a form of child abuse. Even if she insists, you should tell her no, that you'll go to the other room, not do it there and your 4-year old son is watching you. Sickening.

1. We're talking about Tinubu and insecurity in Nigeria, you're jumping like a frog and talking about Trump. What does Trump have to do with the thread or my comment? Are you obsessed with Trump? It's ignorant Nigerians like you who have never stepped foot outside of Nigeria who worship Trump, someone that many Americans themselves detest. Americans are waking up and blaming Trump for the many problems he's causing but that's a different topic for another thread.

2. Unlike useless Nigeria with a totally useless government, criminals and perpetrators are found and held accountable in America. Many people commit heinous crimes in Nigeria and get away with them and have gotten away with them. You won't see someone being beheaded in the U.S and the authorities will just be silent and not fish out the criminals and punish them to the full extent of the law. So many terrible things are happening in Nigeria and the government is just allowing them. I've never seen a more useless, irresponsible and unconcerned government than the Nigerian government.

3. Who said I live in America? I go whenever I want and leave. You should know there're other countries in the world. It's obvious sense is far from you and you're just talking wetin you don't know. Na my fault for reply you.

Kushites:
45,000 AMERICANS ARE SHOT DEAD EVERY YEAR BY AMERICANS.

WHY HASN'T THE WHOLE COUNTRY BLAMED TRUMP FOR IT?

EVEN YOU WORSHIP TRUMP.

SO QUIT THAT NASTY PROPAGANDA.

YOU CANNOT BLAME THE PRESIDENT FOR ALL THE CRIME HAPPENING IN NIGERIA, JUST AS YOU WILL NEVER BLAME TRUMP FOR THE DAILY SHOOTINGS HAPPENING ALL OVER AMERICA.

He's just a useless President. I watched a video of someone being beheaded in Nigeria last week. How will the President of Nigeria see that and not being moved? Mtchew

You were going to slap her for what? You don't have any right to hit a woman. Perhaps if you were a responsible husband who takes initiative, you would've noticed she needed new underwear and would've gone out to buy them for her. The fact that she was spending the peanuts you were giving her to buy "clothes and ladycare" for herself on your children means the money you've been giving her hasn't been enough and she has had no choice but to continue wearing ripped underwear that she had to sew.

Her father didn't go out to buy them himself but gave his wife (your wife's mother) to go and buy them for her. They did what any loving parents would do.

His Bad breath
You noticed the bad breath before the marriage. Perhaps you could've brought it to his attention to see his response and decide if you wanted to continue seeing him. A man with breath before marriage who doesn't care about fixing it will be a man with bad breath after marriage who doesn't care about fixing it. If you've taken him for dental checkup and he was treated but there's still no difference, then perhaps he's not keeping up with or doesn't have a good oral hygiene routine at home. He should be flossing, brushing and using mouthwash twice daily (in that order). Until he no longer has bad breath, he should also brush his teeth/mouth before kissing or intimacy. Complaining that he has to brush and expecting you to kiss him with his stank breath is absurd and inconsiderate on his end.

If it's that bad, he needs to see a Gastroenterologist for his gut and digestive issues, if he's willing to.

His BO
Na wa ooo. He come get BO on top bad breath. I no know wetin to talk again. Does he not shower? Wipe his b.u.m properly and/or use water? Use antiperspirant? Wash his clothes and regularly? Covering BO with perfumes is futile because it doesn't address the problem and where it stems from and people can still smell him.

Him not providing for you
You're married to a man who couldn't pay for your flight tickets to see him, smh. You were paying for yours and at times paid for his. It doesn't matter that you make more than him. It's the man's duty to provide and take care of the woman. I can understand if he couldn't pay for your flight tickets once in a while but he should've been doing so most of the time, not you paying for yours all the time and paying for his. This isn't how men treat women they love. This is a selfish somebody and a taker. One might as well be single and booking those flights to vacation destinations, not to see an entitled man like this.

His lack of financial accountability
He needs to be accountable and transparent to you with his finances. If he's spending on his family and other things without informing you, then that's wrong. Since he has moved in with you, I hope he'll be contributing to the household financially as well, not you paying for everything and taking care of him while he doesn't provide and just continues to take.


~This is why women have to take their time getting to know men before marriage. Getting married after 9-months requires caution, and if you see any red flags then, address them and see if he'll change then and of not, walk away. It's not after marriage that you'll be trying to fix and change a man.

~This is why women have to be careful before doing papers for a man and bringing them to another country. They're always stories that touch.

Butterfly pasta + Salmon

As if anybody has any respect for him. This dumb administration with their wrong priorities and doing all the wrong things, mtchew.

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Breakfast

Eggs with angel tomatoes, mushrooms, gold seal skinless+boneless wild mackerel, red onions

Noodles from last night 🍜

As if they can hold other people responsible for his actions. If they can't get him to stop drinking alcohol, then he would be the one at fault for buying them and not curbing his addiction.

Blueberry bagel and eggs on a very rainy and cold Sunday morning

I pray they find the beast/s behind this heinous and calculated crime. If only there's cctv around to see who was on the premises that day, but surely someone saw or heard something. They should interview her friends, colleagues and neighbours. This was someone she definitely knew and trusted, who had visited her before and had been communicating with on the phone. May they be caught and may justice be served. Someone like this should be flung from the top of a skyscraper like the ones in New York or Chicago.

Love it and love the beat. Dope! And love the way Asake skips into the video with that dance.

Nollywood movie ft. Kunle Omisore as the Lagos Billionaire wanting to use the pad for ritual and Juliette Jatto as the girlfriend.

Take her to the hospital

Of course it's wrong. She treated the man like a slave. Definitely don't get a househelp. If she can treat a gateman like that and says there's nothing wrong with her behaviour, I can't imagine how she will treat a househelp inside the house. Good people don't treat others like they're beneath them.

You didn't think about pitying your own soul when you were sleeping with a married woman, smh. At the end of the day, it's the married person who should be held responsible for this chaos. They were the one who chose to step outside their marriage and disrespect their spouse.

What was the point of stripping her naked? Perverts.

Did you go too far how? You've not gone far enough if he's still able to contact you and is trying to get you to visit him again. Cut him off totally and stop communicating with him. Recall he was upset and went "ballistic" on you when you broke up with your ex. Idk what was in it for him if you had married her. It seems he's still carrying that animosity for him to have made this comment about who you're now married to. For him to say that means he's not happy about your marriage, it might be some type of envy on his end, he's trying to plant the seed of fear in you, or he secretly doesn't mean well for you and your wife. In any case, this is definitely someone you should distance yourself from. You really should've cut him off when he told you he has more authority over you than your parents. Some of you are the ones giving these [demonic] pastors, spiritual leaders or whatever you call him audacity. Cut him off for good.