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Noodles with shrimps & mushrooms

This story sounds like a Nollywood storyline.

If she isn't putting a stop to it, then she's enabling him. This is also an emotional affair (aka. cheating), which is bad on its own, as she's supposedly in a relationship with you and she's not doing right by her sister either by having these chats with this man, but it could also turn physical sooner or later. It seems you're not concerned about these.

About time. C'mon now. The investigation should've been immediate.

This man dey craze. You started an unecessary war without consulting with anybody and you're now asking them to help you out. Smh. No, thanks.

Another means of defrauding their congregation. The Nigerian gov't should make this illegal.

Medium-firm Tofu + Salmon + Shrimps

Made with coconut milk, Thai curry paste, onion, garlic cloves & a lil' bit of black pepper.

Clown. After killing 175 of their schoolgirls. Make them shoot down every ship going there. Idiot.

Nice one, Tonto.

And so it begins. See what Trump has caused, smh.

Another episode of things that never happened by Donald Trump. After killing their schoolgirls and how many people? All he does is go on Twitter to lie. Smh

He is always talking nonsense, just like the clown he calls the president.

That's too bad. I wonder what happened that he chose to go that route with his life.

Happy birthday, Cococandy 🎊🥳🎈

Such a tragedy. At this point, Nigerian trailers are bloodbaths.

Did the awful trailer driver abscond? I hope he's caught and locked up forever.

May their souls rest in peace.

His wife and children never bothered to look for him when he went to Barbados? What did he go to do in Barbados? Was his marriage to his wife still intact when he went to Barbados?

I'm sure you know there're important details missing in your post.

Just imagine. Mtchew.

Where's the Nigerian Police? In a sane climate, he would be arrested for uttering threats. This is a criminal offence under the Criminal Code.

That's wonderful.

This one is not a Pastor but a beast. May he rot in hell.

Kudos to the Judge.

Chai....

Allow people to live their lives.

Finally, the butterfly pasta + shrimps + yellow bell peppers.

Getting there...

With butterfly pasta + shrimps

Cooking...

Fresh Turkey legs

radautoworks:
Y'all know what this is

I recognise spinach and what looks like yam or potatoes? Yam or potato porridge?

I almost couldn't finish your post because I feel so bad for your kids. Imagine seeing them twice in four years (from 2020 to 2024) because of the wicked, hateful woman you married. Are you a father at all? Are you even a man? As if they haven't suffered enough, one of them is now staying with you and the woman is abusing her and you're allowing it. You cannot put your foot down? Children should come first no matter what and you shouldn't allow anybody abuse them under any circumstances, not even the person you call your wife. In a sane country, she/both of you would be charged with child abuse. Don't be a useless father. Stand up for your kids.

Many Nigerian Pastors are no good. However, you yourself thought you don find maga when it's likely audio help he had promised you. I wonder if he told you he was going to help you by getting you a new apartment and paying for it while the person who took you to him was there or if other people were around and he just wanted them to think he really was going to help you knowing he had no intention to. It wasn't a good idea to rely solely on the Pastor - waiting for him to get you the new apartment he said he would get you and pay for, lol. You could've reached out to others around you, another church, come on Nairaland and people could've given you ideas on what to do next, or better yet, get your money back immediately from your ex-roommate and try to get another place with that money.

As for the broken promise claim, there's nothing you can do about it. If you were to sue him, for example, you wouldn't win because it doesn't constitute a binding legal contract. The latter involves an agreement pertaining to an exchange of some sort (e.g. a service), such as one person offering a service and then the other accepting that offer and giving them something in return (e.g. money or payment). Now if one party doesn't fulfill their own end of the agreement by the set date and the other loses money or resources involving money, then it could be a court case. In this situation, the only person offering to do anything here is the Pastor and the offer is help and to do so freely without you giving him anything (e.g. money) in return. Moreover, unless he told you he would get you the apartment by a particular date, he could claim he intended to get it for you or was working on it, and he did tell you, "There are many people I have promised. I am settling them little by little". Thus, this isn't a binding verbal contract.

As for you blaming him for not getting all your money back, that doesn't hold any water either. Whatever agreement you had pertaining to that money was between you and your roommate and perhaps her sister who threw your things out, not you and the Pastor, so if they didn't give you your full money back, you're supposed to blame them, not him. It was your responsibility to contact the Police right away when your things were thrown out to sort that out with those people. You cannot turn around now and blame him for them not returning all the money because it had nothing to do with him, somebody you didn't have a binding verbal legal agreement to begin with. You thought the Pastor was going to find you that new apartment, pay for it, and probably give you money as well, and wasn't concerned about getting your money back from those people initially, but because the so-called promise didn't work out and you failed to get your money back from those people at the right time and as a result, they didn't give you all the money back, you're blaming the Pastor when this wasn't his fault.

I'm not taking the Pastor's side at all and like I said above, many Nigerian Pastors are no good, but it's obvious you're just looking for someone to blame in this situation and refuse to take accountability for yourself. You're also rather entitled because the Pastor didn't/doesn't owe you anything. If someone promises to help you and don't, you face front and find other alternatives to help yourself, not blame that person for this or that.

The only thing I would blame the Pastor for are the threats. You should go to the Police. He shouldn't be threatening you and he's obviously not a good Pastor (I wouldn't even call him a Pastor at this point) if he's doing that. However, you yourself took things too far by reporting him to the church's headquarters. If you think he wronged you by failing to help or not keeping to this so-called promise, you should've left him to God and not attend his church (and you didn't say you were an attendee). Reporting him to the church or church's headquarters wasn't necessary. It's only an entitled person that would take things that far.

There's one Nairalander that people on here have sent lots of money to over the years because this person was always opening threads talking about being stranded, staying in an uncompleted building, her sister throwing her out, staying at a church...Idk if you're the same person but sound like them.

Awwww, sad day. Rest in peace and power, Rev Jackson. Thanks for all you've done. Your legacy lives on. You will never be forgotten.

Hmm. So sad. Just like that. May God rest her soul. Amen.