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They gave him a taste of his own medicine. Kudos to them.

rickpat:
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No woman should quit her job for a man. You said she has a big position there too, so she should let that go because of him? Where's that done? If he's insecure, he should work that out with a Therapist, not involve her in what doesn't concern her. She should let him go. Bye bye.

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Naya261:
My sister said she doesn't want the marriage again but they have 3kids together. 13, 11 and 8 yrs. Its only because of the kids that she's considering going back but I told her that she can always see the kids and spend time with them.

You don't go back to a bad person because of the kids but they should be a big part of your reason for leaving. Umm, she can always see the kids and spend time with them? Is she going to leave them with him? They're going to grow up to be like him. With the way he lies, he may also brainwash them into turning against her. Those kids aren't safe in his hands if she leaves them behind. If anything, they should be in her custody while he sends her child support, and he can visit them supervised. I would not trust a pathological liar (and who has already turned against their mother) with kids.

I hope he stayed awake during the meeting. All he does at the WH now is sleeps or dozes off.

Upon all these lies, him saying he no longer wants the marriage (something she should be saying ooo) and slandering her name with false accusations, does your sister herself want to continue the marriage? You've examples of his ways going back to 2014, so this is clearly how he is and he will not change. If she knows what's good for her, she'll desist from returning to him because he sounds dangerous. You and your family need to sit down and seriously talk sense into her.

So painful. What a loss. May his gentle soul rest in heavenly peace. RIP Alex 🙏

No. Your friend is a beast for threatening to bury (kill) his children. Irrespective of the problems he has with his wife, at no point in time should he involve their kids and worse, by threatening to kill them. The woman shouldn't have left her kids behind either, including a newborn, knowing the type of person he is, so she's also at fault there. You said you saw her on the way and in the rain and she didn't give a damn initially. In a saner climate, those kids would be taken away from both of them. So no, you didn't overstep your boundaries. You did the right thing to step in to help those babies and I'm glad you also called him "a heartless beast who doesn't deserve a child" because that's what he is. You gotta call people out for what they are in these situations and not try to be nice, otherwise they'll feel further empowered. Any sort of threats and abuse towards children are a no-no and are crimes, and no one in their right mind would allow or reinforce such despicable behaviour.

Who will want their child to look like him?

Whaaaat? Nooooooo!!!!! This has to be some kinda joke.

That's serious. How sad. May his soul rest in peace. I definitely wonder if he drowned first or if he was attacked alive. And to think they found six other pairs of shoes in the crocodile's stomach! Wow. May all their souls rest in peace.

The South African Police really tried with that airlifting. This sorta thing cannot happen in Nigeria. Does Nigeria even have the technology and equipment to perform such operation? They would just leave the man inside the crocodile like that, smh. Useless country.

It's a different story if she had told you the truth herself: that not only is she not a virgin but that she has been pregnant before and has further had an abortion, but to have someone else tell you, hmmm. Had you not received the anonymous message, that's how you would go into the marriage, not knowing you were being deceived. She also lied when you confronted her. Idk what else to say. Just go ahead with the marriage. Good luck.

You shouldn't have told him "Okay, no problem". You should've told him not to come, especially with him not being explicit nor straight with his explanation, and you needing your place to yourself (duh). Somebody who cannot be honest with you and answer your questions straightforwardly isn't someone you should allow into your house. He obviously couldn't be honest about why he was leaving the previous place that he was kicked out and that he has no plans to leave if he comes stay with you.

Besides, he has a girlfriend, brother and mum. Why didn't he go stay with one of them? They probably wouldn't let him stay with them or he didn't want to inconvenience them but has to inconvenience you. If he has lived in different places before you, then he's a mooch that's just using people (other than his loved ones) to get by. Just find a way to get him out.

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Mama and baba triplets. Congratulations to them.

I had to quickly scroll down to avoid looking at the pictures. Na wa

The man is not fine at all. There's nothing for her to be sad about. She probably wanted the relationship to end.

Lmao. Greediness & long-throatedness, and it shows she's not interested in the guy and only after his money.

What is the big deal? When I'm at the gym and get hit on, I ignore. Most men at the gym are respectful. If anything, they just stare and I just ignore and act like they don't exist. There're people at the front desk if one needs help but I find more men are well-behaved, but I can't speak on how gyms are in Nigeria sha. In any case, let her live. Unless you don't trust your wife, you shouldn't be worried about anything.

They should go ahead and sue them. Some Nigerians love being nuisances. Maybe that will teach them a lesson

Wonderful Pope. Thank you, Sir.

With his pot belly. He needs to join a gym. This cannot be healthy.

Why does she keep going back to him like a mumu? Why can't someone talk some sense into her? She's not doing the kids any favor by staying with him but she's doing them more harm than good. I guess it's when she leaves in a body bag that she'll have sense.

The above comments.... do you mean there are still no lights in Nigeria in 2026? Na wa. How do people cope?

Talking about pushing him down or whatever she said. Are they waiting for him to die or something? You don't talk to someone you love and respect in that manner. Disrespectful, insensitive, and lame.

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This story sounds like a Nollywood storyline.

If she isn't putting a stop to it, then she's enabling him. This is also an emotional affair (aka. cheating), which is bad on its own, as she's supposedly in a relationship with you and she's not doing right by her sister either by having these chats with this man, but it could also turn physical sooner or later. It seems you're not concerned about these.

About time. C'mon now. The investigation should've been immediate.

This man dey craze. You started an unecessary war without consulting with anybody and you're now asking them to help you out. Smh. No, thanks.