₦airaland Forum

Now they are begining to realize that everything is not by force n propaganda...

We havent helped ourselves we want others to help us... Look at how Ebonyi was transformed over night... Yet one governor is asking the people if the flyover he is building if they asked him to build it....

November24:
Did just fine where?
Where are the record of your so-called fore father's?

Oba relax abeg

Go village ask questions ooo

eneazi:
Same thing we are saying, did you miss the part where I used the word "talk" what if she tried to but horniness kept him away from listening

So ur excuse is that he is always Hot..
Na wetin him come dis world to do ba... Reason well na

Premiumwriter:
you're talking to someone that knows the history of isrealites but can't even name two or three of his relatives?

Loool....
I hear u sir

QuickTrade:
Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

You abused her belief from the beginning and that's where you laid a wrong foundation.

Secondly, you lost her when you were in a fight concerning her commitment to church activities. You knew what she stood for and went ahead to marry her without intention to align, and now want to change the other. That's an abuse.

Brother, you are lucky to have married a praying woman, instead of encouraging her the reverse was the case.

Way out is God factor. Awake to the path of Godliness. Keep your ego aside, dialogue with her on a neutral level and seek God for mercy. Reawaken her spiritual consciousness and align with her. You helped made her week and that opened the door to the enemy. Closing the door calls for both of you working together. Stay blessed

Are u normal
In the past our forefathers didnt have church but they did just fine...
So wetin u dey yan abi u dey find likes & shares ni

Use ur head oo

Bros in summary no b u get dat belle....

U na official husband dat Ato na unofficial but na him get benefits pass....

Anybody wey use religion dey front fear dat person....

Well my brother na to begin find other options oo...

U fit leave d marriage for her since she neva born for u yet....

Or u go chill once she born u do DNA.... E get why

Ecne:
She probably must have had sex with some other Dude and felt withdrawn from her hubby, for a while... happens a lot these days.
Very soon, wives will start sleeping around with their full chest.

@OP, just divorce that babe for your peace of mind, she's done with you. Just pray she doesn't raise up a rape case against you.
You can leave your daughter with her, and visit her whenever you like.

Very simple

eneazi:
Being his wife is no justification for his vile act. What he would have done when the whole rejection thing started was talk to her about, did he even talk to her about it, like find out the reasons behind her actions.

Nothing to figure out... Marriage is about communication... She should have communicated

Ishitinyourlife:
You're a complete nuisance,it is useless animals like you that gives men bad names, oloshi, your wife don't wanna have sex with you and your brain doesn't tell you that you need to figure out why she's behaving that way and fix the problem,your reaction is to hit and rape her, e no go better for you

U get sense ooo

ledaman:
Don't mind them most of them are on free data to be typing trash. How can a reasonable spouse denied her husband sex? With no tangible reason.

E no pure na

IamRandy:
@Noah9.... Don't IGNORE THIS ADVICE!!!!

Haba, a wife starved her hubby oooo,,a whole MONTH

Before e pass be careful

Waffarianman:
That's just it many of our men don't understand all this

Wahala dey avoidable shaaa....

Waffarianman:
Same thing comes to mind, why on earth will a married wife starve her husband with sex.

For me oo I knows how to handle these kind of issues with my wife no 3rd party's involved we settle things in few weeks

Just try reason with am if she no gree...

Jeje leave house for her go somwhere dey....

mixta140:
The woman brought out the bad side of the man... why cus the problem in the first place.... the force the man used to the extent of slapping her to coming to bleed from the mouth is definitely too much from the man.... but still why starve your husband of sex without telling him why in the first place ... its totally wrong from both side though

Na so we see am

saintbillion:
very dangerous specie man

Yes oo...

To trust em di risky

cococandy:
Y’all never fail

I hope your mothers are men

Well luckily for me i got that....
A woman by nature a man by thoughts...

Thanks though

Hathor5:
The same woman he chose to get married to.

U female can pretend naa u know dat....

A woman can kill you slowly

saintbillion:
seen a case where a woman poison her husband just to inherit his properties

Haaa......
Ife na eme..


We cant trust dat specie ooo

Well it shaaa depends on d kind of wife him get shaaaa.....

No b everything woman suppose know...
Tell ur family e get why....

InTheCloudySky:
1. It doesn't matter if you're dating someone, or are married, no means no. Whether na your babe or wife, rape is rape and is a crime in both instances.

That's Bs... What are the chances of one raping his wife?? U sleep on same bed, walk around nude, etc..


2. Learn to read. He said "recently", meaning her refusal is recent, not over a long period. Even if it were over a long period (which isn't the case), the right thing to do would've been talk to her or seek professional help together to get to the root of the matter, not abuse and rape her. Forcing anyone to have sex with you, whether na your babe or wife = rape.

Ur correct...

Dis one brain don rust

Bros conduct DNA test on that ur daughter ooo...
U cant bee too sure these days.....

Umu asa di mean....

InTheCloudySky:
You didn't bother asking her/finding out what was going on with her to have refused you but you resorted to violence.

Slapping her was bad enough but slapping her to the extent of her bleeding in the mouth meant you must've been done with a lot of force, not to mention the force you must've used to rape her. Sorry (not sorry): you're a beast. After being violent with her, what do you expect?

Get on your knees, plead with her, ask for her forgiveness, then let her know you won't ever repeat such violent actions towards her. Secondly, you're selfish if you're expecting her to cook for you after what you've done. You should be the one cooking for her during this time ―to appease her. Things should fall back unti place if you do that, otherwise keep eating the indomie you've been eating.

Na him wife oo no b babe oo...
Abeg
D kingdom of God sufferth violence...... Etc

Lemme ask why on earth would his wife starve him. Of sex for over a long period with no reason?

E make sense to u

I don't support rape oo....
But.....

lovegeneration:
Then tell them to get the new VAT they just introduced on carbonated drinks from the farmers then na....

Have u every heard VAT on farm produce??

English please.....

UncleKoboko:
Your antecedent is very wrong and biased.
They asked a senile demented old fool why the country has deteriorated since 2015 and all he could say is that we should allow people go back to the farm and you supported him. Does that even make any sense to you?

Yes cos maybe you just understood the literal meaning of "FARM".

Vicilo:
I have been reading ur post, u talk like Adesina and Lai. pls were u paid? U talk abt govt not suppose to create wealth instead security/protection, bros I have a newly planted plantain farm in Ondo which is due for cocoa plantation but no one has agreed to venture into our farm to work bcus of fear of being killed by Fulani herdsmen, is that not the agriculture Buhari is telling Nigerians to venture into, they should ask him what he has done concerning the killing by herdsmen over d years. If u can handle d job let me know. Besides his answer is totally opposite of the question.

Congrats on ur farm bro.....
But lemme ask is buhari meant to stop d envaders or that's d job of ur Chief, Traditional ruler, LGA chairman, house of Rep, senator, before FG?


My issues is we tend to call and blame the president for all the wrong doings whereas there are people who dat is their job....

BigBashiru:
Well said! There has never been a president in Nigeria that Nigerians appreciated.... its a very bad attitude...

Na most people nature em always look for who or what to blame...
If u no sabi business do am fail na village people, u no succeed na village people or one of ur uncles... People wey dey make am or succeed em not get uncles n village people

BigBashiru:
And he is very experienced....

I agree and he is a good president.... boko haram etc comes from Chad mali etc...

Kidnapping is the greed and evil nature of Nigerians.

Many things Buhari is blamed for are really to be blamed on State governors....

Thank u....
Ur mama. Bress milk no waste.....

We wey suppose hold state govs, senator, reps, chairmen etc we go leave em say na buhari....

DubaiLandLord:
Are you a farmer?

No sir.... But i would love to be..

Would apply IT in agriculture

Sharp....
.make we see those wey go cry