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pc guru:
totally agree,it's more of how u carry yourself. woman are good at body language they can tell if u are nervous,or scared. just get comfortable and say whats on your mind. or Go read David D'Angelo that's only when you have hit rock bottom

Believe me, she will feel more comfortable around you if you seem honest than trying to act a flirt.

Be honest with your intentions and dont beat around the bush. No matter what you say, your actions will speak lounder than words.

When a guy introduces you to his friends, it does not mean that he is getting serious with you. It may be that he wants you to be a part of the group.

dreeldee:
https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/18.gif phew! thank baba

You can say that again.  

KarmaMod:
This is not Nigeria where women don't have any hope.

She could easily get a restraining order. They are plenty of things that can be done. Even mafia wives can escape.

And what makes you think that the mentality of men change depending on where you live. I don't care how many laws there are to protect people from abuse. IF they gona beat you, they gona beat you.

dreeldee:
r u married

Nope  

Life goes on. Get up and start moving.

HCH3COO:
perfect time to slip out of the house and run away. perfect time to time him to the bed and inflict your own abuse on him. but perfect time for murder seems to make the most sense to you, right?

Naw, I doubt she would have lived to see the day he would let her walk away. She would be running for her life everyday of her life. I'm talking about dangerous men here.

HCH3COO:
This woman killed a man in his sleep, while he was harmless.

Harmless while asleep but a ogre while awake. Perfect opportunity to kill the bastard that beats the hell out of you every day.

onyinye2:
Oka now that kid from Virgina Tech was obviously not sane. If he lived to see his trial, they would have done the same thing they did to that Texas woman who drowned her kids. And that is send him to a secure facility. Same with the folks in Columbine, who went and killed i believe five-seven students. They were obviously not sane.

And they attacked innocent people. This woman killed the man that was abusing her.

You are not saying anything new. We all know the poor want to get rich and the rich want to get richer.

KarmaMod:
and how many has actually gotten off the hook?

jury eh? hmm. what a surprise.

You would be suprised how many are getting of the hook.

dreeldee:
he posed no threat, he was asleep

@post i think she deserves to be shot while in an unconscious state

Would it have been any better to kill him when he had his eyes open and looking str8 at her? Do you think her chances of living would have been good? If this was the only time that was safe to defend herself and her life depended on it, hey, got to do what you go to do.

Class is not so much important as the type of job he does.

Killing out of fear sounds like self defense.

What does intelligence matter if he is a bullshitter.

I would not date anyone that swears all the time. What kind of example would that be for the children.

I think you should always listen to what your family has to say. If they are making a compelling opinion of him/her, you should consider it but if they are not, you are making a good judgement to go with your man. Not liking someone because of where they came from is not good of enough reason but lets say, s/he comes from a real disfunctional family, it would be worth looking at. Always remember your family wants the best for you, you should always have open ears for them.

Bringing up ex's is a no no.

I am feeling you is not the same as I love you. Most of the guys I know that use that statement, are simply stating that they like what they see. They like you. Do not get those two confused.

Age is just a number and does not determine the level of maturity of a person.
There are young people who act very mature and people of age who act very childish.