Would you date someone of a different class level than you?
Have you?
What were your experiences?
Was there pressure from your family to find someone more acceptable?

I personally don't think class should be a yardstick for dating someone but like we know the world moves in circle.
Well ma husband* is higher tho and we are both happy.Nobody brings class into the marriage*.

I don't see anything wrong in dating sm1 in a diff class Weda higher or lower

me wont like to date someone who spoke english badly
probably not class but at least u should be on the same wave lenght, guguru no surpose mis yarn with epa

Class is not so much important as the type of job he does.

it doesn't matter at all

Of course it does.

I am in section C and can't think of dating someone in section A.

The course is the same but we are rivals!

I feel your mate is a reflection on you. If you WAY up there and they are WAY down there. well use your senses.

Class?

In this generation?

Do ppl still consider such thing?

NL is an eye opener o!!

It probably wouldnt be the only factor, but it is important. . .

People from different social classes wld most likely have different views on different subjects. . . simply put, the only way such a realtionshp would work is by truck loads of compromise

Simply put. . . . . Levels dey!

In as much as we'd like to pretend love is blind and class is a thing of the past, it really isn't. I know of a situation where this issue is causing so much problem and the "upper class" half of the union is just about done with it because the partner is soooo freaking insecure, you just want to shake the person and go "Okay, you grew up in Bariga, get over it already!" Wait a minute. . .  Badagry isn't Bariga, right? I'm sorry, I don't know Lagos that well but I am this person is from Bariga. Anyway, it's always a source of wahala. . . thinks everyone is looking 'em, takes every slight so personal, everyone has to walk on egg shells around, keeps wondering why the partner married 'em coz of they think there are much better or suitable people around, the poor partner has to constantly reassure the insecure twit they were chosen because of LOVE. They go to party or a gathering and the silly brat spends majority of the day in one corner, not even attempting to join in, of course the partner sees that and goes join 'em in the corner both of them looking miserable and you just want to tell them to keep your behind at home, next time.

I'm not saying NO! NO! to it, I'm saying it's gonna take work. . . in addition to the work normal marriage comes with.


PS
Please I don't think there's anything wrong with growing up in Bariga/Badagry. . . it's not my bias (not that I have any) on display here, it's the person who uses it as a crutch for their perceived victimization.

Just needed to make that clear. Thanks

What's wrong with growing up in Bariga        _{just kiddin o}

HCH3COO:

What's wrong with growing up in Bariga _{just kiddin o}

So you grew up in Bariga?
No wonder!

ROFLMFMFBAOPWIS_{kobojunkie style}

HCH3COO:

ROFLMFMFBAOPWIS_{kobojunkie style}

If na laugh I forgive you.

If na curse I forget you.

HCH3COO:

You know that. Which kind laugh be that? So disharmonious!

na witchcraft.

HCH3COO:

na witchcraft.

I know say na curse. My Ishan sense nor dey lie!

Tee Hee

michelin89:

I know say na curse. My Ishan sense nor dey lie!

me sef i get ishan for body.

sisi wetin be tehee

I didnt even know i had Class

yesterday, someone was asking if i just comot from America

i will date who i like! if thats a Class, then yea it matters!!!

@topic
yes it does, i wont marry below my class its either same or above

Gamine:

I didnt even know i had Class

yesterday, someone was asking if i just comot from America

i will date who i like! if thats a Class, then yea it matters!!!

i rarely agree with u,
but in these case my dear u spoke well.
how do u measure ur class?

@ lucabrasi  -

For what reason?

There are only two classes of people I recognize.
Good people (like me) and bad people (Ass Holes).
Would I date an Ass Hole? No. Why not? I love myself.

lucabrasi:

@topic
yes it does, i wont marry below my class its either same or above

You can't go below ur class but you also want sm1 above your class?
Why would you think sm1 above your class would wanna go for her inferior?

*Jst soliloguizing*

What sort of class are u on about?

Is it Social class?

Seun:

There are only two classes of people I recognize.
Good people (like me) and bad people (Ass Holes).
Would I date an Ass Hole? No. Why not? I love myself.

is this the same seun we know?
bera watch ur language.

Yes! It does.
Anyhow we wanna pretend about it, we flow easier with someone in the same social class as we are.
No need crisscrossing class. I won't date an orange seller on the road.
I'm not saying that it is bad but I just won't.

nalijah07:

@ lucabrasi -

For what reason?

cause it ll save the hassles of having to blend in either way,understanding e.t.c

Missy B:

You can't go below your class but you also want sm1 above your class?
Why would you think sm1 above your class would want to go for her inferior?

*Jst soliloguizing*

thats why i said either same class as me or above, im sayn i cant go below my class, its just being purely practical and realistic