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JESHAL007:
I say they are sex objects. You guys still don't get it

That's *ALL* they are. Everything else - the degrees, talents etc is secondary.

They are primarily, fundamentally sex objects

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True man,when a female tries to get my attention,they like seduce either through their body language or speech,and u keep wondering can't they offer something better,cos ever since females weren't mysterious to me anymore,I lost interest in all their predictable games..
I'm not even fazed anymore

Men don't benefit anything from women..
Confirmed this a while ago..

Manculated:
My comrade, I'm glad you are gamed too.

The system have been in place since time immemorial. It will only get worse.

That one is certain, I no go born muumu offsprings most especially my sons. They must have my DNA 100%.

Women matters are walk over for me. Most of them will always avoid you immediately they sense you aren't plugged to the matrix. Some of them would even help you inform their friends about you😂

Nigeriaa has the highest set of seempsons men in the world and it's very unfortunate.

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When you're awakened, females will look for you and find you..
This reality is just weird..
If you're awake in this matrix,the agents will come for you..
Yea,some females couldn't manipulate me,maybe I'm the first make they've ever come across,soon their friends became intrigued about me😹.

Heard that if these NPCs could still take you despite your awareness,it's same thing as Destiny swap..
It's lonely being real amongst NPCs 😣

olioxx:
Bruhhh!! See there are some truths you discovered that will make you live life calmly without stress and argument.
Till tomorrow I keep asking how Esther was able to succintly write that book in the early 1970s and the truth is still valid till today.

See ehn if I born boy tomorrow, from age 10 my son(s) must understand what I understood in my 20s about women. Its not even about hating women, it's just about evading their manipulative tactics that they(women) have MASTERED for long time.

Same here I also have this trait of not giving a f**k and maybe I just didnt see need to chase women cause I lived with women for a long time, maybe when i lived with my uncle was when I started having time for women cause my uncle nah flex man



I am reading that this weekend. Esther cooked in her books. I wished more men can just read her books.

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Imagine having a boy child and telling him about female nature from age 10-20's then he will be the equivalent of a female..

Sadly,99% of men have come across are simps..

Reason I look at women and see nothing worth liking is cos of their nature😣,so undesirable.

olioxx:
I hear this a lot, even though your gender will say, "If you spend on a man, he will relax and bla bla bla", but you lot are willing to accept from a man.

One thing I have come to know about women is women see men as work machine that is dispensible when not useful, women are stingy and consumerist, they spend more money than men, women withhold sex for manipulative purposes, women arent thinking about men the way men are thinking about women.

Now knowing this, I plead with every man reading this to please be stingy with your resources, rarely help women who wouldn't do same for you when your chips are down.

I must confess that even I blame and critic men for cheating, but now, I dont blame again. I blame and critic men for marrying multiple women, but now it is very needed to prevent oneitis.

As I am like this, all my disposable income will be spent on myself, my dad, then my mum and my blood children.

Women are callous, men needs to be.

Women have mastered the art of suppressing loving emotions, they have mastered the art of suppressing sexual needs all for MANIPULATION.

Aje nah Me First e go be henceforth. I am not even arguing with anybody, but MEN PUT YOURSELF FIRST, YOUR RESOURCES MUST BE SPENT ON YOURSELF AND YOUR BLOODLINE. That is the mantra for 2026 and henceforth.

Same women that wouldn't help themselves financially. Women only support themselves to promote their manipulative shenenigans, but when it comes to the other womans benefit, they are callous.

I have understand women to that extent, and I thank God and God bless Esther Vilar, you opened my minds.

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What a great revelation 😌

Keepamsafe:
I will school you further. It’s high time we start seeing ladies as grown up adults and not some kids that are oblivious of their acts.

When you say “the ones you messed up, you leaving it for who”. What do you mean?

If a virgin 18+ decides to lose her virginity on account of love or relationship, she made her decision and should be held responsible for it.
Nobody “messed” her up…. Dead that mentality.

Aside rape, any lady that loses her virginity willingly has herself to blame. Stop making excuses for grown up adult ladies. They are not kids.

I will add this as a bonus.

Same way a POOR LADY has the right to set a standard to get married to rich men only (When she is obviously poor). That’s normal in the society. And guys like you will applaud them. I doubt you will give excuses for the men such ladies might have deceived or even scammed of their hard end money all in the name of a relationship.


But, a fellow man like you can’t set a standard to get married to a virgin lady only.
To you, he dare not. After all, is he a virgin?

But, is the poor girl wanting only a rich man rich too??

Now you see your folly?

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A terrible real thing,In a terrible false world😌.
Man,you see too much

SixSeven:
Men in your 30s are different from the past.

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Esther Vilar was just out of this world 😹

Dtruthspeaker:
It is because you don't know that when you have money, you would hate women even more and you would be tired of them even more because it is then you would see and know that ALL of them are filthy oloshs.

It is also then that you would know that the more you gbensh dem, the more you die and the more life would be painful and useless that you would love death. See how Wizz kid, wande coal, dbang, kiss Daniels are looking.

Why do you think superstars kill themselves?

Riches makes living worse.

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Real👏

SOZINN:
If you're looking for something serious with a woman, this is important for you to understand. Women are often smarter than we give them credit for. They know all the things men use to judge a woman's value—those are outdated tactics that revamped or repentant whores have used to attract high-value men. They know what you're looking for. Once they decide that it's time to get serious they'll metamorphose into something that men will take serious. There's nothing you can watch out for that's hard for a woman who's determined to use you as her retirement plan.

I say all this to tell you to vet and investigate your woman thoroughly. Even if she idolizes you, shows genuine interest, and does everything else, that doesn't mean she's the one until you've done your due diligence. How she treats you isn't enough—what she does with her life is more important. Women are really good at faking things because they can create a false belief and believe in it themselves. A woman who has hopped on a thousand dicks still believes she should be the life partner of a good man who makes an honest living, as long as she can become what he wants, no matter how long it takes for him to decide. Don't let anybody deceive you, sincere women are rare, there's work to be done.

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Sincere women don't exist..
Her primal nature thrives on lies,,I've seen alot to assume this..
How she gets the man to commit is throuh selling him an illusion (lies).
Basically, everything with these beings are lies..

Friedrich Nieztche even said it "Her great art is the lie" 😹

Does she exist?
All girls are the same😹
In juice wrld's voice

MikeofKd:
I won't lie everyday I log into NL it's one gender war or the other , the truth is in as much as we men talk bad about women , we still can't do without them and in as much as women talk bad about men , they can't do without men. So what's the point of all these gender wars

They should be more sensible topics than gender war every time , it's getting really stale , y'all should wrap it up please. Thank you.

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No,men are just coming to reality about what was hidden from them about female nature..

As Emil Cioran will say
"What a revelation"😹

Diamond098454:
What makes a strong man God?

Every strong man out there still have a woman he warship

Trump can't raise voice on his wife but can destroy his fellow president in another country (strong men) but can't cough when his wife talk

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This is the problem with y'all females, y'all think all men are simps or weak, you all think all men are emotional to pander to their wives feelings?

Till they meet a man who doesn't give a fvck about their beauty and they become sad and intimidated..

Go out there and experience how detached some men are..


So back to the topic..
I went to sew my boot,some young guy wanted to buy something,a female inside the shop was like,woow you smell nice(a complement to the guys cologne).
But the guys demeanor showed that he wasn't even impressed or he saw the complement as nothing,proved everything..
The future will be 🤣

Dtruthspeaker:
You are mixing up 2 laws. Natural Law and the fake law called legal (man made law.)

Under Natural Law everyone, including women have rights. But because of they are evil, they lose many rights.

It is this area, which devil, used the strong man to raise legal to protect his ivu children (females). That is what is going on

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Tell me more sir about this females 😹
Are they really of the devil?

JESHAL007:
Growing up, I overheard my mum and other women saying that if a man can be sexually disciplined and master himself in that aspect, majority of his troubles with women have been solved. Thinking about this myself, I can tell you that sexual discipline will help you a lot, especially in your red pill journey and overcoming many female manipulations; it becomes obvious when you realise that the strongest weapon women have in breaking down your defences and controlling you is their sexuality and many men, great and ordinary, have fallen to this.

Forget what anyone might say, mastering yourself sexually is very possible. It doesn't mean you won't feel the urges, but such mastery simply consists in knowing that you are always in full control of your decisions despite the urges you feel.

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Yea, that's the only thing they can offer,so when you're not fazed,you automatically take away her value from her.
Or better still the best way to take away her value from her is to be in a constant state of post nut clarity

Women don't wanna be soldiers fighting in wars,they don't wanna be bricklayers or truck pushers..
They only want juicy positions they didn't work for..
Cos they have a piece of organ😹..

A drunkard(man)is more intelligent than 4 women with PhDs

Fryx:
I recently met a lady.

She was throwing me green signals. But on a norms, I can’t just jump on a woman because she is interested in me. So, I decided to take things slowly.

My thought: if she is cool enough, she can become part of my inner circle.

I guess she grew impatient. So, this is what she did next.

I had a “not a friend per se, just someone that love hanging around me”

She noticed I am close with the guy and unknown to me, they have had a dealing before, but the guy didn’t asked her out.

So, it came as a surprise to the guy the next time we were together and she came running to him excitedly, wanting to see him.

She became lovey dovey to the guy since then (whenever we are together)

Based on my knowledge (didn’t ask, just observations), they don’t usually speak on phone, even though they shared contacts. The guy called her but she didn’t pick or return the call. (I don’t have her contact yet myself as I haven’t asked)

But, whenever we are together, you will think they are in relationship.

I am not new to women antics when they are trying to get my attention, so I understand it. But this particular behavior of trying to make me jealous; I find it insulting, and I usually lose interest fast.

Note: Whenever the guy is not around me, she specifically try to make eye contact. Leave a cheeky remark or roll her eyes at me while smiling. But she pretended I don’t exist whenever the guy is around.

So, when next I see they started their lovey dovey something. I decided to play on her feelings too.

One of my babe lived close. Unlike her impatient and classless self, she is a gorgeous proud girl with grace and poise. And above all, she is very beautiful, way above her league in look and status.

I asked if she is at home. She said yes.


I gave her my location. Told her I wanted to see her. She said she isn’t coming (she meant she is coming)


Shortly after, she came. Walked straight to where I am with gaiety.

We share gentle communication and based on our usual communication style, naughtiness and cheekiness, you can feel the chemistry.


The lady I wanted to pepper was looking.

And I loved it.


Since then, she has been avoiding me.

When our eyes meets after that episode, no smile, no cheeky remark, nothing. She just looked away.


Today I saw her again, she avoided me as usual.


Many women have that habit. The worst are the o es that disrespects their man to make me feel special.

That’s disrespect. 0 regard to your man.

Well, I am not her man, but I still find it insulting.

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Time beats manipulation and also not reacting..
This two combo will blow up her mind, she'll now know that not all males can be fvvked with

JESHAL007:
CONCEPT OF LOVE
What is often forgotten is that until quite recently marriage and relationships were a pragmatic decision often made by the families of the couple, not the couple itself.
The concept of love based on emotions is beneficial to women. Man is weak when emotional as such he will be willing to do anything.
Women use sex to get what they want from men… but since sex is often a temporary thing as in a one-on/one-off situation. Women needed a more permanent/ long-term solution.
The reason why women need men to fall in love is because “in the name of love” men will DO THE 3S’ (SHARE, SACRIFICE, SUPPORT).

Men will SHARE their time, wealth, resources and wisdom… voluntarily SACRIFICE their hobbies, friends, opinions and dreams, even their very safety and security and SUPPORT her materialistic lifestyle.

Sure I can list many others but you get the point. When a man falls in love he will beg, borrow, steal and kill for his woman… this is why women push love over sex… because sex is just a physical thing, so after the sex, you’re gone… but love, love is an emotional thing, lasting much, much longer..it’s the thing that makes you stay and pay her way.

At best, women can ONLY love a man conditionally. Unconditional love is only reserved for her child, never the man.

Love is the greatest tool a woman has in her “Trifecta,” to control and manipulate a man (the other two being sex and deception).

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Chaiii, coming to think of it.
Women actually control men via sex..
And most men love sex..
It's a woman's world..

That's why I don't want any female to gain from me,either via attention,any form of kindness etc..

When I walk past the street,I see how these females look at this males with total disgust 🙁..
When I was a child,I was always angry at rich men who beat their wives,now I see the reason why..

The man knows if he had nothing no.one will be with him,hence the reason he wants everything to be done his way and his way alone..

Even in medical school,males are always in a silent competition amongst themselves..

Maybe to have the attention of their female colleagues who most of the time do t really give a fvck about them..

Damnn bro,most males out there are very naive,such that I pity them,cos all they are working for will be taken away from them via love 😹..

I've seen a whole lotta shiit,such that sometimes I feel consciousness is a curse,I think,I suffer..

This rabbit hole is truly endless..
I was warned though 👐.

I love this thread cos most times I find myself wanting to simp,but when I come back here,I see reasons not to give a fvck and live only for myself..

A red pill a day,keeps simping away..

JESHAL007:
CONCEPT OF LOVE
What is often forgotten is that until quite recently marriage and relationships were a pragmatic decision often made by the families of the couple, not the couple itself.
The concept of love based on emotions is beneficial to women. Man is weak when emotional as such he will be willing to do anything.
Women use sex to get what they want from men… but since sex is often a temporary thing as in a one-on/one-off situation. Women needed a more permanent/ long-term solution.
The reason why women need men to fall in love is because “in the name of love” men will DO THE 3S’ (SHARE, SACRIFICE, SUPPORT).

Men will SHARE their time, wealth, resources and wisdom… voluntarily SACRIFICE their hobbies, friends, opinions and dreams, even their very safety and security and SUPPORT her materialistic lifestyle.

Sure I can list many others but you get the point. When a man falls in love he will beg, borrow, steal and kill for his woman… this is why women push love over sex… because sex is just a physical thing, so after the sex, you’re gone… but love, love is an emotional thing, lasting much, much longer..it’s the thing that makes you stay and pay her way.

At best, women can ONLY love a man conditionally. Unconditional love is only reserved for her child, never the man.

Love is the greatest tool a woman has in her “Trifecta,” to control and manipulate a man (the other two being sex and deception).

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Chaiii, coming to think of it.
Women actually control men via sex..
And most men love sex..
It's a woman's world..

That's why I don't want any female to gain from me,either via attention,any form of kindness etc..

When I walk past the street,I see how these females look at this males with total disgust 🙁..
When I was a child,I was always angry at rich men who beat their wives,now I see the reason why..

The man knows if he had nothing no.one will be with him,hence the reason he wants everything to be done his way and his way alone..

Even in medical school,males are always in a silent competition amongst themselves..

Maybe to have the attention of their female colleagues who most of the time do t really give a fvck about them..

Damnn bro,most males out there are very naive,such that I pity them,cos all they are working for will be taken away from them via love 😹..

I've seen a whole lotta shiit,such that sometimes I feel consciousness is a curse,I think,I suffer..

This rabbit hole is truly endless..
I was warned though 👐.

I love this thread cos most times I find myself wanting to simp,but when I come back here,I see reasons not to give a fvck and live only for myself..

A red pill a day,keeps simping away

JESHAL007:
The difference between a prostitute and your regular girlfriend is that you'll know the amount it will cost you from the beginning and you are sure to get what you came for.

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Prostitutes are more honest than wives cos they'll tell you the price upfront 😹

sharpwriter:
He could be a connection from past life or not, but love at first sight is real. If anybody likes, let them call it lust or not. 😘

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Same thing just happened I think last 2yrs till this year..
Saw her the first time,I felt like I have known her before..
But cos I'm pro redpillled😹.I fazed it off
I didn't care,she also felt it,it's all in the eyes..
But I cared less though,up untill it started feeling intense such that wherever I go I'll see her,some weird paranormal situations (Heard there's no coincidence in the universe).

Like I went into research I now heard about twin flame shii(maybe she's there to teach me a lesson etc).

It really became intense such that we started communicating telepathically..
Like I can dream about her then the next day, we're in the same transit going to the same place..
Damn weird things..
But I prefer clarity,I don't do illusions 😹.
Cos I dont believe in love fairy tales..
Cos I've seen that when men are in their lowest they are mostly left alone etc..

Or maybe she was just a mirror to test how strong I was..
Cos her and her friends tried to make me chase her or react,but I still.maintained my cool..
Untill she started chasing me,I still didn't give a fvck cos im like "why is there anything if there could be nothing..

Amd from my school of thoughts"I seem to see life as a meaningless program..

My favorite Philosopher Emil Cioran said" By all evidence we're here to do nothing..

So I really wanted to know if this past life stuff is real😌.
Thanks

obiekunie01:
Straight divorce bro.

If you allow her to emotionally blackmail you into forgiving her, just know u r finished - and I mean it literally.


TO THOSE OF YOU WHOM YOUR WIFE WORKS, SCHOOLS, OR JUST DO ANYTHING THAT TAKES HER OUT OF THE HOUSE FOR 2 HOURS EVRYDAY, JUST KNOW SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU - IF SHE IS NOT DOING IT YET, SHE WILL DO IT LATER.

You don't believe me? No problemo!



You may find it hard to accept this fact, WOMEN ARE SO BIGAMOUS BY NATURE! NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO TO SATISFY THEM, BELEIVE ME YOU CAN NEVER EVER SATISFY THEM! THEY SO BADLY NEED DIFFERENT SPERMATOZOA ONCE IN WHILE. Pray they don't go getting it from someone far far far below your level! Yes you heard me right! They dont know what dignity means. They only see dick where you see wheelbarrow pusher or okada rider.

Thts why you will put her in a mansion, buy her the latest cars, she will still somehow manage to fk ur gateman, your driver or your office errand boy - or even eff the guy that sales vegetables to her in the market!



I am really glad I know them so well.

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Same bro, what a great revelation ✌️..
What was once a mystery ain't mysterious again😹

Watch how 2026 will be sir..
Clarity will make men detest the one with vagina 😹

Meedon:
You mean I should lust?

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But don't show it,or don't let it get the best part of you..
Appreciate her beauty and move on..
Females do cost a mans peace

Meedon:
Master master how can we learn to emotionally detach?

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Nothing belongs to you..
Resist your self and run only on lust sir..
Analyze everything in your head, every one is your friend, every one is your enemy 😹

ARISHEM:
Women are smart and clever. If they want to get you they will do it with seriousness

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No sir,not all guys are simps..
The easiest way to take away her value from her is to stay in a constant state of post-nut clarity..

But if you're always Hot and seeking for females affection,the you're done for..

Or better still,If you have some battles you're fighting in your mind,the she won't freak you

emmaodet:
Well, about sex - I will tell you your chances of getting good mind blowing sex is higher being single than married. Talking from experience. So I wonder why poor men will want to run into marriage that won't gaurantee good sex unlike if they are single and free.
The only logical thing I can think of why men want marriage desperately is due to Loneliness.
When you have options in life like the average woman, running into marriage that will cut that off won't look encouraging nor interesting.
Reason 80% of divorces are initiated by women because they know there will always be toasters into their late 50s provided they look okay.
But for a man, the opposite is the case.
A man can stay for a year without anyone calling him, sends credit or data, no happy birthday wishes nor gifts.
Just silence
Silence
Invisible to the millions of humans walking the street yearly.
This scarcity triggers fear and a man will be ready to settle down at the little slight of opportunity when he sees a woman that will atleast listen to him.
It is a different ball game to men who have resources and constantly been showered with love and sex

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Deep type shii..
Man is met with silence,this makes me 🥶 cold..
Cos in my worst,I was alone..
I'll never give this heart or goodness to anything 😔.
You'll meet a pure cold me

SixSeven:
“Take me back to when men were men.”

Girl, he’s probably just another guy trained by life to play it safe and not make a move unless he’s 100% sure he won’t get embarrassed.
Or he was just shy. Happens.

But here’s the truth. You can’t control his conditioning, only your own actions. You liked him too. You could’ve said hi.

Dating today is basically two people staring at each other, waiting for courage to show up.

Coincidentally, I was browsing earlier today and saw that more women are asking men to be men. Girls, this is the result of 'equality'. Men don't date men, they date women.

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You see too much bro😹.
But you'll end up not fitting in anywhere ✌️

sjx566:
‎She’ll never walk up and confess her desire.
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‎Her pride won’t allow that.
‎Her ego needs you to make the first move.
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‎So she appears.
‎Again and again.
‎At the same place.
‎Same time.
‎Same situation.
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‎It’s not an accident.
‎It’s a signal.
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‎Women don’t chase, they position themselves to be caught.
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‎If she keeps showing up in your world…
‎It means she wants to be part of it.
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‎Ignore the signs, and she’ll assume you’re blind.
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‎Take too long, and she’ll give the opportunity to another man.
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‎Pay attention.
‎Her actions whisper what her mouth refuses to say.

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Same scenario,but I don't give a fvck..
If she ain't willing to take a step towards me,then she should fvck off.

The female only comes to take btw..
She had some pride to keep?,same with me I gad some pride to keep.

JoeEeL:
Bro thank you. We must say to no marriage, especially this african-xtianity version where a man will marry one wife, pay dowry and work his ass off to keep her satisfied.

Where her happiness and loyalty is only tied to your continual harwork, success and most importantly, results. Thats not love, those are very bad conditions.

We will only begin to advocate for marriage when women begin to make equal contributions to the sustenance of a home. And if otherwise, yet they still insist on marriage, then men should marry multiple if they can afford, or at least never be loyal to that wife. We cannot slave ourselves just to please one woman whos with us solely based on the condition that we contribute far more than she does to the house. We no go gree.

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If only men could see how naive they are..
When I see a man walk down the aisle with his wife.
I see a naive sheep being taken to the slaughter 😹.

Female nature ain't pleasant bro

JoeEeL:
To be their slave. Women are fighting and defending this thing called "responsibilities".

They dont want men to wake up and realise this agelong scam. Eras come and go. Changes come. A time women never voted, today they do.

A time man has been stupid shouldering all responsibilities and dying quickly while d women move on. But surely one day, men will fully wake up to their senses. The awareness is spreading fast and women are shiit-scared 😂

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Its good reading from you sir, you're too aware for your time😹

Drifter02:
Although I'm afraid I might die alone, nonetheless I still have to admit being single without any extra responsibilities- no kids, no wife - is one of the best things to keep happening to me.

I was talking to one babe just this evening.. telling her to come, I'll cook her indomie and buy her something soft and babe was smiling coyly and bro.. I was seeing the future and I didn't like it

The future of me getting the girl pregnant filled me with apprehension. Imagine, if the girl's pregnant and I had a kid on the way, I won't have no time for myself anymore, my soft life will no longer be soft, I'll always have to be worried about money, about not losing my job.. my happy life will now be sad and constantly apprehensive and all the ills that comes with having a girl pest on your life..

Omo.. married men, I'd like to say "I feel for you" but na lie.. because asides from enjoying constant puzi you knew what you were getting your asses into.. and I'm so glad I'm not you.. and in any case not all of you have money issues

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I'm afraid of not being alone again..
I'm addicted to my peace, solitude,freedom and peace🤗

SixSeven:
While women h8 men that make advances at them, they don't like men who are also too tough and don't accept their advances.

Women reject the man who approaches too readily, yet they are equally displeased with the man who remains too self-contained to acknowledge their own advances.

In this paradox, a man should be careful after mrejecting a woman's advance because her rejection can lead to your ejection. She will frame you up without you knowing it's because of your tough stance. That one is more dangerous because you never see it coming but it's her payback for not being able to control you.

From time immemorial, women have always been used to get the strongest men. As a man, you should have principles. It will save you from trouble.

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Ok,thank you sir..
Women are most times scared when they can't use their sex to get you,like I mean when their sex appeal doesn't get you phazed..
I wonder why they are obsessed with controlling a man😹..

It's actually dangerous to reject them openly,they might go extra miles to kick you down..

Dangerous people