Op, take her along..
You know, A real man will do anything to make his wife happy..

Basalt:


My thought exactly, though it depends on the woman. She can be coming over regularly to visit you anytime she wishes and you spoil her with money and get her a car to cruise around with.
Some Nigerian girls are very decent and would never cheat on their husband especially when you treat her well and provide her with enough cash to take care of some personal things even without her asking.

You seem like a Nice guy..

Lol, eyes go clear you shaa

WO man..

W0E unto man

marlow1962:
My mum is not lousy like them other women

This NAWALT man..
Will learn though!

Jashub:
You should exclude that one too.

Know this and know peace!

How a sane man think of committing to an adult(wife) in the name of love amazes me..

Faber:
Something strange happened 2day. While I was at home earlier 2day, a name of a classmate when I was in primary 6 jst flashed to my memory. I was the senior prefect then and she was my assistant and we were best friends then. I left them after graduation and attended a boarding school in a far away state. later today, I deceided to go and buy food stuffs, vegetables etc in the market to prepare my favourite soup, omo na so I jam her where I go buy meat. She called my school name, and I turned I moved over to the shop but the girl don change, I could'nt even recognised her. She was dark then but now she is very fair and super hot. She rushed and huged me inside market, and took me to her shop, how she managed to recognise me after 17yrs still bafled me. Cos I have changed a lot, I was small then, but very huge now, fair with beards, she was all over me. We exchanged contacts and since I returned home she have called 3 times to check on me. I dont know what to do, many ladies are already on my starting lineup.

so what should we do bro?

As e dey pain dem, e dey sweet us

Simps are the problem...
Sadly this constitutes 99% of Men(males)

Lakaka:
Wait oo . I can relate with some things on this thread. Aaaah I've been a fool and a play thing all the while.

I think I need to stay long enough on this thread

Lol

The travails of real men and married men..
Sp!ts!

MGTOW...
I'm not always Interested cos
After the s£x, the feelings die off.
Oh my soul..

sukkot:
of course marriage is an achievement. but whats an even greater achievement is keeping your marriage loving and happy forever. being alone gets old after a while. you can manage being alone till you hit fifty five years old but after that you just get depressed

How rev, fathers dey run am?

A wise man once said, as a man, as you prepare for marriage prepare for divorce..

You better have pre-conceived notions or else vvomen go use you play.

acewines:




Nice write up

But what if he gets (tricks)her to sign a document where it states that in case of divorce, she is only entitled to anything the husband gives to her or she is entitled to nothing as spousal support etc?

What if he has a trusted brother or family who will keep everything

Eg.. I have properties in my brother's names etc, and just lil in my name, what happens should there be divorce??

the lil properties in your name will be shared amongst your child and wife,though half of your your current and continuous source of Income will be substituted to them..

Lol, This your Idea is dope though..
If you have trusted family members,deal is done.
Good

Woman wey we dey carry hold body,my man come privatise am..

Joking oo.. Hbd.

Vinnie2000:

Well, It is an Achievement!

Particularly, in Nigeria and Africa!

To Pay a Girl's Dowry, House Her, Feed Her and Her Mother, Brothers and Sisters no be Beans oo.

G.O.A.Simps

You ooze "stinky puci,Stinky puci"

Dont give a fvk

If she was good,she will never be found.

newdawn2017:
u ygly p*g! if a woman earns hire, its only normal she brings in more.

See this f!shy sm£lly vvoman oo..

If bills are to be shared 50/50, you dement€d f!shes will cry foul..

I pity the simp that married a walking L!zard like you

marlow1962:
I’m a big time introvert, I don’t socialize cus I hate ppl.
Humans are pathetic, everybody out der is fake.

I got my family, my small circle of childhood friends ( rip to the ones I lost bfr dy could hit 20, and the ones that couldn’t make it out the hood), my weed and my PlayStations.


I don’t need no frnds,if u want to be frnds wit me(that fine), I value loyalty more than anything in this life. The moment u start acting funny ( be ur a bitch or a nigga), I will distance myself from u.

I don’t forgive and I don’t forget, there’s no second chance in my dictionary.

Same bro, No forgiveness, no second chance..

Who cares Who gives a fvk?

Jeezuzpick:


All this story makes one wonder if there isn't some substance to the rumour.....

Tell my wife I'm gay, and she'll laugh at you so hard you'll wish the ground could open up and swallow you.

Pessin wey know me inside out?

Your wife knows you Inside and out??

What a finished man!

Persephone1:
A broke man will want a beautiful woman to drop her standards and stay with him but when he eventually becomes more financially comfortable or rich, he upgrades himself and turns to knight in shining amour to 18-22 years young ladies full of baggages.
Heaven help that woman if she dares question him, then she will have to tell him "what she contributed to his life" other than "staying". Lol.

Dear women, be wise.

Evening Newspaper with experience!

Angrygoat:
You are razz,dirty,ugly and def would have a stinky mucus like smell pekus.ugly gal

@op, Know this and know peace!

Kingstanding:
. With your statement , you're very stupid. Why saying I'm weak and have no balls? You this nonentity. You can do that in America not in UK. I will never share bill 50/50 with my partner.

You cant share bills with your wife cos you a slave, okay, you can comfortably share houschores with your wife.. You simps are the problem,

orohbiro:
your sis,mum, and your babe if u have any no reach me

With your fried legs and hands..
Cry more!

Chosimba:


This is the type of nonsense advice that will prevent you from being able to function normally in a professional environment.

Listen to the advice given and remove your conji from the equation. What she's saying is that people do not feel they can speak to you without feeling intimidated and that is a MAJOR red flag for any hiring manager. This means that you possibly lack emotional intelligence, teamwork and communication skills.

It's crazy that that is what you picked up from such a professional comment.

Olodo that can't comprehend.. I said apart from work related Issues,give no fvk about her..

In civilised societies like America, do you think your co workers will like to know whats going on in your relationship.life and family, this boy

descarado:

Eatery you said. People are paid to clear the table.
In your home, I repeat, in your home, unless you have a paid hired hand, you have no reason not to take up the plates you used and wash.

See proud haughty spirit.
When you guys are supposed to act like men with balls against men from other countries that neo- colonised you, you transfer that to your equal all in the name of marriage.

I've been married for a long time and trust me, you wouldn't want to know who my husband is but from courtship till today, unless I'm doing dishes when he finished eating, he usually clean after himself. I don't dish food for him. He can wash every other person's plates and what have you if he is doing dishes. His manhood is still intact. His respect is intact. He is the man and father of the house. His children are learning how to behave as me that value and respects women. No wonder Nigerian women transfer bottled up aggression to poor maids or even kids cos our men feel too proud to be humane. We wonder why there is so much low self esteem among Nigerian men. Cos their fathers don't know what home training is.
They assume its by being aloof as showing their humane side will make their women ride over them. What inferiority complex!
Fact is that countries who do that are zillion times better than you guys. Its a fantasy that will never materialise for Nigeria to be like such countries Cos you lot decided not to accept reality. Reality that your wife is your equal and not property. In this 2023, a human being still waits for his wife to dish out food and clear table after eating Cos he has penis. And if their sons start beating up their girlfriends, they will ask why he is violent. Seeds planted by their father.

Massaging ego never build a home, community or country. Nigeria is a failed country, thanks to our men who can't wash common plates they ate from in their home.

And your brok€ father collected bride price

I thought you guys are equal..

Woke b!tch

Martinez39s:
Apparently, I see a lot of simps on this thread.

Martin, I am disappointed...

A man must acquire an atom of f00lishness to get married..

Imagine the bulls!ts..

If its paying and sharing bills equally,the vvomen will tell them its a mans work