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Hmmm.... I hope not.

*walks into thread by mistake*

Some guys like gaming sha!

Haywhymido:
Let fish out the bad ones.

Gbam! Social media is the new way to go.

Abeg make them question the 29 years woman well oh, shebi pastor dey there wen she dey experience wet dreams!
Virgin indeed

Your mum calls you angrily and you answer "mama, na wetin"

You know that TV program 1000 ways to die? Let's create our naija own.

U die wella in naija when......

-police stop u for checkpoint, u no gree
-u use school fees play nairabet, Chelsea con loose d match
-container fall on u
-drive Benin-Ore pothole filled road at 150km/h
-u carry granite and sand go site, u no settle 'omonile' and area boys
-u massage ur papa with aboniki finish, u go bad or go toilet do number two
-u slap woman, no sabi say na soldier wife.

Feel free to add yours.

All this to store creams and serums to maintain the "yellow" colour. Abeg is she not originally fair?

Maybe he also plans to increase or decrease their amount na. After all asset declaration helps us do check and balance at the end of their tenure oh.

The man no serious.

My fruit seller gave birth early this year, she had a baby early last year. She opened up to me because I jokingly told her that her stomach was getting bigger. Now she has six kids, the first girl is entering jss 2 this september. I spoke to her about family planning, I got mine almost free in general hospital. She's not concerned about price, she is concerned that the procedure would mess up her cycle and she would become barren. And when I discussed my concerns about how she would cope, she said "God will provide".

I buy from her because it is convenient, near my home, so I don't expect it to be cheap. And yes, I dash her change sometimes. Her shop is a "shack". She also sells wholesale so she travels once a week on open back trucks to get her wares. If she did not have so many kids in this era, maybe she would not have to cyr so much like the op said.

lexicon:
But because 'half bread is better chin chin', this woman is forced to call you back and sell to you at little or no gain. In her heart, she cries, she's worried about how she'll survive with her children. She silently reassures herself that 'It's well.
God will definitely provide.''

I just get annoyed when I see women like this. I talk to some of them, but still wondering why they don't change their mentality.

RoyalRoy:
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Did you comprehend the write up?

Your "hard earned cash" is not feeding her children!!

She is offering you a service for money.

Its called trading not begging!!![/color]

That service she would immediately hike the price of the goods when she sees that I'm dressed flashily or that I drive big motor come.

Personally, I buy from the open markets and I have customers. If you've not been cheated by these women before, your eye never open. Even your customer can cheat you, so know the price.

OP, this your post na for oyibo oh. Nigerian mums (plus their relations and their friends) must give you advice and ask you personal questions.

And that visiting part, well wishers will even be waiting for you at home on you way back from the hospital.

Ahmed0336:
Yes i can

Yustash001:
No biggy in this...I can do it...

saintneo:
yes, i have done it.

What of when you are older? Have you seen older relations - dads,uncles, grandfathers do this?

Naaaaaa, I don't think so.

They don't even hold hands in old age like Westerners. They do turn up for occasions and parties in matching outfits sha. Even that one, ask your mum, sometimes you have to force the men at that age to wear asoebi with their wives.

Just wondering why

lilmax:
So if i do this now, it means I have "true love "

Not really. At this age, you guys can do this now while young as "love still dey catch", but will you guys do this at 70 or 80 years? At that age, our women are usually the ones serving their husbands.

It could be a culture thing though, because while many older parents love each other, I don't think older Nigerian fathers would do this at will. Except the wife is sick.... maybe

Its despicable the way some humans treat their fellows for being different.

But does marrying outside the hairy pool gene not improve the situation for the kids?

Just wondering

Why should she have 12 children and then expect my hard earned cash to feed them? Just wondering

How many naija Papas' can do this?

mavany:
Will she have married him, if he didn't go through a university and was danfo driver,*just asking

I don't think so. That's why she believed in him.

After they recover, if they catch you!

As scammers are learning to "shoot without missing", hardworking citizens are also learning to " fly without perching".

Thanks for the info OP and thanks to nairaland for providing info that helped him decide. They probably got the picture of that innocent man from the internet. 419ers always target greedy peeps. Think and tell someone before you pay that cash.


Mods......please do the needful.

An entire compound left an entire family to die horribly in Nigeria?

Feud or not, I don't believe it.

Why should d father have a habit of threatening his wife with a gun? The son should be guilty sha. Tough

Haba, she no smell am?

Some 'bad' mothers purposely give their babies alcohol, so they would sleep and not disturb them. Very common in uk with all these baby mamas.

emmyrichie:
I smell arm twisting here... These people just looking for ways to indirectly control and weaken our economy.

They want their nose in everything. Shoir!

They fear loosing control! Nosey people. Every move the US makes is always to benefit themselves first.

Why do people even use ATM's at night? Not safe at all.

Solving mine! Will come back later

Mama peace!

Abeg tell that your pastor to read the context of that scripture he is quoting. Notice the bolded is the standard for Christians today. And the italics is the variable. Even if an unbeliever, the marriage can still work and the individual can be converted.

1Corinthians 7:10 - 13
"To the married people I give instructions, not I but the Lord, that a wife should not separate from her husband.
11 But if she does separate, let her remain unmarried or else be reconciled with her husband; and a husband should not leave his wife.
12 But to the others I say, yes, I, not the Lord:i If any brother has an unbelieving wife and she is agreeable to staying with him, let him not leave her;
13 and if a woman has an unbelieving husband and he is agreeable to staying with her, let her not leave her husband.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in relation to his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in relation to the brother; otherwise, your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
15 But if the unbelieving one chooses to depart,a let him depart; a brother or a sister is not bound under such circumstances, but God has called you to peace.
1[i]6 For wife, how do you know whether you will save your husband? Or, husband, how do you know whether you will save your wife?"[/i]

Moerover, The only ground for divorce is adultery. Jesus stated at Matthew 19: 3 - 9
3 And Pharisees came to him intent on testing him, and they asked: “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife on every sort of grounds?”
4 In reply he said: “Have you not read that the one who created them from the beginning made them male and female
5 and said: ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh’?
6 So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”
7 They said to him: “Why, then, did Moses direct giving a certificate of dismissal and divorcing her?”
8 He said to them: “Out of regard for your hard-heartedness, Moses made the concession to you of divorcing your wives, but that has not been the case from the beginning.
9[b] I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality,a and marries another commits adultery[/b]."

Scam alert. You did well.

The matador!