₦airaland Forum

Catalyst4real:
Lol, the Situation was Really Tragic O, Most of the Victim's Credentials Got Burnt.
The Cause of the Fire Incident is Still Unknown and Under Investigation. No be Small thing

Eyah, I pity for those guys. And the one that his school fees got burnt in d fire 75K+ mehn..
Bt u knw, I think a week b4 d incident there was this rumour that some unknown boys in dat open town attempted to burn one block like that bt failed.. Mehn I fear that open space for that school ohh

Catalyst4real:
Thank you Very Much, We Appreciate it

How d Holz ? I hear say una burn block A Hostel.. Una set don scatter sbrs ohh. Badt guys. After watching d video I could only congratulate u guys. Una reall try. Lol Hope una ready to squat more pple ba

strongelink36:
did you do sbrs.

NO!

hadizadeezy:
ah NO 1!!!!!!!

I just dey watch u

Catalyst4real keep up d good works. Always remember we will always be here anytime, anyday so don't hesitate to mention Us for Backup anytime u need one.

Yours faithfully
2014/2015 NL thread members

hardayemmie:
he is nt yt a student......... he's still applying . u can check awt the same thread I created . I can answer any questions there

don't make us start with u..

hadizadeezy:
hello mai gida

:/

Feminism on the rise..

hazyfm:
It's really annoying, When you login to Nairaland to read people views on topics only for you to storm a "comma" by a space booker

Its not funny at all

Maybe u should check d post again for 'comma'

U didn't even give me a chance to modify them.. Nawa ohh

I've been forced to believe that there are only five people on nairaland

1) Seun
2) Lalasticala
3) TheRealmrstan
4) Moderators
5) Others

thanks

Nigerian Govt will never learn. They think this Foreigner have good intentions for us. After they finish funding the project it becomes theirs so they'll take over operations..

Anyways...

2 tho its confusing

mrjagz02:
abeg have any returning student been able to pay schoolfees or click room? coz d portal hav bin fuckin me up sice ystday

It opens only with school wifi

Meenanw:
pls how many hrs does it take u guys 2 be able to edit ur profile nd do ur course reg afta payment at d bankbecause i've paid since yestday mornin nd up till nw if i log in dey keep on tellin me i havnt paid for d 2014/2015 session

I paid mine @ 1st bank and It didn't take 5mins... Go to bank u paid and complain to them...

Idrhas:
thanks a lot and its engineering actually. Necessary documents nko?

Check mrklock's Post above...

Idrhas:
pls pls and pls could u tell me aw much I should hold(the range) and all documents I should hold. Been sick nd I wanna come 2morrow. Pls help awt

School fees #25,750+ #300 commission = #26,050
Accomodation #7050+300 commission = #7,350
Faculty fee #2500 (may differ)
Departmental fee #1500 (may differ)
SRC fees (for Hostel clearance) #500
MSS fees (for hostel clearance) #500
NUESA fee (for engineering student) #500
miscellaneous (Transport fair, printing from d Internet, food) #3000
Total= #41,900
Note: you will spend Less, it depends on ur Faculty..
Education is Paying #23,750

I just gave d total average For engineering just incase..

mrklock:
kai kai kai!

Yo! Yo! Yo!!!

tonywirelex:
i saw and shook hands with d almighty OBEENAH today....
Atleast i meet one nairalander....

Lols, I'm flattered. Its my Pleasure meeting u anyways..

So Now you know my Little secret, remember to keep ur word by not telling anybody ohh

I was 15 and you were 13. Exactly one year
and four months apart. But they will say two
years because apparently, in months, we are
supposed to round up. I had never met you
before, even though we went to the same
school. After the usual Friday night routine
of underage binge drinking and smoking to
look cool, we ended up staying over at a
mutual friend’s house. His not-so-traditional
parents made it an ideal hangout.

We were talking casually when I first noticed
you flirting. I wasn’t exactly a looker back
then, and definitely not the kind of guy who
girls at our school usually flirted with, so I
guess I was flattered. I made some kind of
attempt to mirror your advances and we
kissed.

“Bed” turned out to be you, your friend and
me sleeping on three mattresses in a dining
room. We held hands when the lights were
out and you guided my hand to your breasts.
We gave up our virginity in eight minutes of
clumsiness and confusion. You took my belt
off and I battled with your bra. We were as
silent as we could have been so as not to
wake your friend who lay just two metres
away, asleep.

I think we were both relieved when it
finished. We didn’t use a condom, I guess
because I never expected to have sex any
time soon and if you did have one with you it
wasn’t offered. It was entirely mute apart from the simple, but essential, “Do you want to … ?” and “Yes.” We parted with closed-mouth kisses and I returned to my mattress to sleep. I woke up being shaken by my friend’s father and two policemen. They were telling me to get dressed and come with them. I didn’t have a clue what was going on. One of the officers instructed the other to “bag” my T-shirt so my friend’s dad gave me his to put on; all the while I was being
escorted through the house rubbing my eyes
and asking what was happening.

Through the living room door, I saw more
police comforting you. My friend was
shouting something in my defence but it
wasn’t until I was being arrested at the side
of the police car for rape that I realised what
was happening. The arresting officer held my arm in detention until I finished heaving my stomach on to the street before pushing me into the back of the police car and driving me to the station.

I was processed and taken to a single cell
where the door was closed and my head
exploded. I didn’t make a single sound and
declined the blanket and the solicitor, as if
they might let me out for good behaviour.
They took my shoelaces so I didn’t hang
myself.

I woke up in tears to the realisation that I
was still in a nightmare that couldn’t possibly be true. My foster dad had been called and he came and cried with me, demanded a solicitor and sat through a police interview so in-depth and humiliating that I still refuse to let myself remember it. I had samples of my nails, saliva and pubic hair taken.

For three months, my bail was renewed
monthly while the case was investigated. All
this time, I wasn’t allowed to arrive at school
until every other pupil was in class, for their
safety. I spent every day in isolation, having
work from each lesson sent to me via
reception staff. If I went to the toilet, I’d be
accompanied inside and prevented from
talking to any other pupil in the school who
I’d spent the last three years trying to make
friends with.

My foster placement nearly collapsed because social workers were not sure if I could be trusted to live in the same house as my foster sister. I became completely introverted. The charges were dropped in January, after the worst Christmas of my life. I was told that charges against you and me for underage sex had been considered but
weren’t pursued. They did not give me any
options to take action against you. I never saw you after that night. In the six years since, I have done all I can to block out the horror of not just that night but of every month spent on bail. While the police seemed to hold true to innocent until proven guilty,my friends and their families certainly
didn’t. Even when I returned to a you-free
school, I never quite recovered. My relationships since have been damaged and I still struggle to trust my partners.
I tell practically no one now about what happened, for fear of being perceived as a rapist and because I guess they’d say stories like mine make it harder for real victims of rape to be believed.

I moved away from home and keep minimal
ties with my old life, but I don’t think I’ll
ever forget what you did. I don’t know why
you told your friend that I had raped you –
maybe because you didn’t want to admit
you’d had sex so casually or maybe because
you were scared. But I will never be able to forgive you for what you did to me.
You damaged my perception of women
entirely and the only relationship I have
since been able to sustain is with a man I
can trust.

Rape is an abhorrent crime and every victim
should be able to report it. But false
accusations of rape are abhorrent too, and
the victims too easily forgotten. Not only do
false allegations damage the life of the victim but they also contribute to the trivialisation of the seriousness of genuine sexual violence.


-Anonymous.


Please comment your say on this. Thanks

Simkreative:
No mind me jawe

I still d Zaria sha

That Arva of a gal don vacate Nairaland oo

---But nevertheless we shall locate her sister----

Lols, we shall do d needful.. D arva chick don deactivate her NL account....

dolly5:
wen beta bee sting yu, u no go gt mouth tlk

I won't mind d Pain so far na U..

dolly5:
;Di no b bee joor..

Lols.. U sting me with ur Looks

Chai, asa nwa..

dolly5:
hw d go dey go nah...finally dne wit evry evry.,goin bck to my HOME tmrw o,.hu r dos in samaru campus..oya identify urselves shrp shrp..obeenah wich one u dey..u kno i strng pass u so tlk bfr i ...,, u..lol

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Elkench:
Is like I saw you today in first bank when you went to pay your accommodation fee, you even borrowed my pen to fill your teller and for one Zainab if I'm not mistaken

Wait.. I was in 1st bank yesterday, I borrowed someone's Pen to fill a slip for some girl.. Bt maybe Its not me.. What was I wearing?

Ahh, finally...

Me & MrKlock roomates.. So so cooL!

Finally.. Paid express for Mine to be Uploaded sha... Just walk to d ICT section of Ur faculty and Shake dem with something they will upload ur profile asap, it won't even take 30sec. Naija 4u sha

mynahbeau:
@obeenah40 have u been able to log in?

nt yet, my profile has nt been uploaded.. Those faculty exco are slowing d process and collecting #500 for express.

Okies

Meenanw:
pls on dat portal.abu.edu.ng how does somone log in??cos i have tried usin my matric numba as username nd state as password nd its nt workin,nd abu said we shud log in nd chck our profile,hw shud i do it??or is it tru putme.abu.edu.ng dat dey will upload?

Same here sha.. I used my state, surname and Its still not logging in..