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Land of d midnight sun.

Tinubumustfail:
Anyways, she is not my gf just a sex mate. Because she specifically told me 'we are not dating, I just fall for you, and I am in a serious date'. She is playing the real guy not me.

I like ur moniker, he must fail.

Tinubumustfail:
Earlier this year I met this beautiful damsel in one of the shopping mall as a cashier. I do come to the shopping mall every week because I have a business relationship with the MD and his Son managing the mall.

Fast forward, I collected the girl number and we keep talking and she told me plain that she is in a serious relationship and can't go into another one. But my goal is just to have and move away.

Fast forward, after few day, I invited her over, she refuse for several days. Later she open up and told me her ex stays in same compound with me. The compound is a twin four story building flat and I stay in the second building. She eventually visit me and we make out the rest is history. Now this lady sleeps in my house every week when she is on night shift. The mall closes by 10pm and where she stays is far. So from my house to the mall is N50, so she comes every week. But the funny thing is that, each time the boyfriend called her, she will tell him she's in the girlfriend place or at home.

This same act goes on for 4months until she finally got admission to continue her HND. Each time she visit me from school during weekend, she will still branch to see the ex to say hello. The ex have ask her who she knows in the compound and she lied her girlfriend they both work together. Wetin concern me, my own na to collect. At a point I start feeling for the main guy. She opens up that she has done all manner of crazy things with men. Infact she took in for me and hang it on his guy neck when I told her to keep it. What actually happen is that, she visited the main guy on Friday from school, they both make love, on Saturday she came to my place we make love and I come on her. Two weeks later she missed her period and visited me from school to tell me. I told her to keep it but she refuse. On Sunday she went to see the main guy and told him same thing that she is pregnant. The guy man was shock that he did not come on her how come. They both calculate when he met her, and it tally. Guy man abort the baby (God forgive me). And this is not the first time she is carrying out abortion she told me.


This girl has been visiting me often from school weekend and sometimes ordinary days and go back next day. She visit the ex too. She really love her guy so much I can attest to that, but if she do, how come she sleeps around with other guys?

Just yesterday, she told me she will be visiting her ex living in the same compound with me on weekend, that next week she will visit me. I was angry at her and ask her why is she still visiting her ex? Note they broke up due to Genotype. They are both AS. I started feeling for the real guy. Her boyfriend always provide for her, make her feel comfortable, send her money. I only give her food and transport each time she comes from school 3k. I have seat her down and let her know that even though am benefitting from it, is not good to sleep around. I have advice her but she won't listen. Mind you am only talking about the one I know, what about other guys she visit I don't know?

My conscience is not at peace. Should I tell the real guy, or should I let go of her and not communicate to her again, or should I just let her be. I just want to avoid her and have peace..

Criticism and advise is welcome.

Y not summarise dis whole thing into 2 paragraph. He bleeped her on Friday nd i bleeped her on Saturday thing no go help u. Wise up guy, dis gurl d play both of una. She still get guys for school oo. No use condom save ursef from STDs else u want die young MR raw banger. Shalom.

shantti:
How can u prevent it from spoiling quickly

Dig a hole under any tree DAT has shade, den spray ashes inside d hole before piling d potatoes into d hole nd use plank or stick to cover d hole before putting d soil u dig ontop d plank or stick. Dis method is use wen u can't finish d potatoes in 2 or 3 months tym. Each tym u bring d potato out is as fresh as ever with stems growing on it.

Mom007:
Sweet potatoe is in season now... Stock up and enjoy!

It usually get spoilt ooo

YourBestWriter:
Guys good morrow to you all.

So it's going to be my 39th birthday next year and I still don't have one Kobo in my bank account. Still under my parents roof and no job. In a scale of 1 to 10, what are my chances of making it in life?

No be ur fault bro. U d try to make am but Nigerian factor is pulling u down. God will pick ur call one day in as much as der is life, der is hope. Be prayerful.

Mathew Ajayi go soon enter labour market.

Nu

udumosam23:
Use Chrome browser

I have completed d registration.

Thallyheart:
Can’t capture using a phone…am I the only one having this isssue pls

Same here oo

Mr OBI.
He has d interest of Nigeria nd Nigerians at heart.
He will develop d country beyond imagination.
D rest of d two r just desperate to milk d country nd suffer d masses. One of dem even turned a whole state in S/west into his money making venture. I no mention name ooo.

Confirmedzombie:
Terorists sympathiser show us pics where they killed them b4.

You like to hear bad news of bandits attack or ESN / UGM attacks but when the military kill this terrorist e dey pain you.

Bad news will remain your portion except you change your mindset

God bless our gallant soldiers. We want more of this

I no d support bandits, ESN or IPOD na old pictures b dat. U carry ur bad mouth d wish me bad luck. Na u DAT curse go fall. I no fit xpress my view again bcus of una. Abeg comot make i face jor.

SamOchuko:
Serious? I beg share the post where them take post am b4

Just dat i no save d pics daz y. Na old pishures.

Handsum64:
Are you normal?

If i slap u ehn. No b old pics u d c der.

How many times dem go kill those guys in d pics.

Nigerian police is not nd will never b my friend.

Gten:
This is what ought to have happened in 2019. It would have limited the damage by oga.

Bro, den Obi was not in d race. Majority of our vote should go for Obi, dis old cargoes buy votes should b discarded come 25/02/2023.

APC done fail us. 16yrs of PDP era is far better dan 8yrs of dis devilish party called APC.
APC go hear am wotowoto come 2023.

Dis is sign of end time. Cus with d way people r dieing is alarming. Yesterday 150 people died in Seoul Halloween, 100 people died nd over 300 injured in Mogadishu. Today, 30 people dead while others r missing in India. May God av mercy on us all.

Bro, never give up. E go better one day.

ahnie:
Then be prepared to have issues in your home.you def needs the consent of your wife.


My husband's mum had an accident 4 yrs ago,my hubs is the first son by circumstances.
I vehemently told him straight,I cannot care for your mum,I don't want to be saddled with her,as I barely have time for myself.

Las las she was bundled to the house of her first daughter and she's staying there.

Okay

[quote author=VenumX post=117987583]You are speechless because you just told every one here that your mum is beneath you to care for by yourself.

Ingrate.[/quot
R u dis insultive ma'am?

VenumX:
Sh1t talk from an ingrate.

You can't use your bare hands to care for your own mother. You are now using African bullsh1t talk and 'we are one' manipulation tactic to prove a dumb point.

If you can't take care of your mum, leave another woman who has her own mother alone.

OK na.

[quote author=olabrinks post=117984999]try it first and see the problems it will bring to your home. Never ever bring your mother to live in your marital home… it is very wrong! Your wife shouldn’t try the same too. They can visit, but they can’t stay. If your mother is sick, siblings should work together to get the best possible treatment for her. Wife can also put in her judgement and help. But it is wrong for a mother to pack her load into her child’s marital home, unless it’s a critical life and death situation and she has no where else to go. [/quote
Na ladies d complain like dis oo.

VenumX:
it's also a taboo to care for your mum yourself abi?
Ingrate.

Been my wife u r me nd i am also u. D both shall bcum one body. As my flesh nd helpmate my mum is ur mum urs is mine. U ought to take care of my mum like urs. We shouldn't argue over dis. We r Africans nd we got tradition binding us not like d whites who clamour for gender equality.

VenumX:
Marry your mama. Easier that way.

If for ur side una d marry una mama, here in my place is a taboo.

HeroHero:
Pls who knows about fhi360, i learnt is an NGO. Pls, is it a good place to work & what is their salary range for graduate with experience. T for thanks.

Herohero my guy. God done answer ur prayers oo. Pls, remember me wen u get there.

Samantha123:
Either I'm gonna hire a professional to look after my mother when she gets old, or I'll take her to an elderly care home nearby where I'll be staying, so I could visit her every week.

Elderly people can be very tiring and irritating, trust me when I say you wouldn't want to live with any of them.

Ever since my grandmother moved into our family house, there has not been any peace.. she managed to turn her own daughter's kids against each other and she'd insult my mother, her daughter whenever she does something she doesn't like.

Mom is even praying for her mother's demise because she's tired.

Young lady remember one day u will also become a mother in-law oo. As For me, i don't need my wife consent to bring my mom to stay with us period.

My bro, if u r finally bouyant help d poor children cus things r biting harder in 9ja now. Remember dis children will help u in one way or d other in future. Shalom.