RiffRaff: If you are reading this and you are Single... Good news for you. I came all the way from the future to deliver a message to you. Its a simple message: "No matter what you do, Please i beg you on bended knees, dont ever get married". It is a needless trap... With the kind of stories i read here on Nairaland everyday, no one in his right sense will open his|her eyes and walk into the bondage Nigerians call MARRIAGE. Everyone feels their own choice will be different till they make the choice of UNHAPPINESS & Misery for the larger part of their lives. If you finally sucumb to societal pressure, make sure you do not marry a Nigerian.
That being said: The Moral of the story is: 1. As long as u are rich & can buy italian wears.. A Nigerian woman will love you no matter what you do to her. Smash her head with a Baseball Bat, just make sure u have money. Lock her out of the house like you lock a dog out of a cage. Deprive her of making decisons in the lives of her child because, she is just a baby making vessel that is meant to pop out children. Once you are richer than her Family, have no regard for her parents cuz afterall, what does an Ant have to say in the gatherin of Elephants.
Make money in Nigeria. You will find "unconditional" Love.
This is the story that Jesus saw in his crystal ball & Jesus wept.....
GAY ALERT HAVEN'T I WARNED YOU NOT TO SMOKE IGBO BROUGHT FROM ABII I EVEN ADVISED THAT EVEN IF YOU SMOKE SUCH DON'T/NEVER COMMENT ON NL
SOTNEG: I have read ur write up and the advice of people. My dear u started dis whole drama. Two people cannot b at fault in a particular thing. One will take action and the other reaction. I thought ur Bible said u should submit urself to ur husband. And dat ur husband is ur head. What if ur husband had refused to allow u take the exam? Why would u question where he wants his children to be? My dear stop comparing ur family with his and deal the ego problem u have. Ur family is not looked down in any way here, so stop the pity mentality so dat u stop feeling like u are been marginalized. Don't follow d advice of equality btw men and women here on nairaland. Pls go and apologize to ur husband cos dat ur Bible said dat disobedience is worse than the sin of witchcraft. Do u get it. Look the Bible and the Example of pple like Sarah etc who obeyed even when it hurts. Follow d manual of d initiator of marriage institution. Ppl of dis our days wants us to believe dat d man and woman should share authority. What has it resulted; break up in marriages. America and Europe preaching such doctrine have failed in dia family settings. My contributions is not to excite but to tell u d real truth. Leave ur mother-in-law alone she is not ur husband. Make peace and win d heart of ur husband through ur undiluted love and unquestionable loyalty. Every other thing will fall in place. I hv read pple saying stand for ur right cos 2moro they might limit u access to ur children or ur parents. Don't ur parents hv sons day can give dem grandchildren in d house? My dear for ur husband to still be confiding in his mother shows dat u have already started failing. Thereby making ur husband to still value d old relationship wt d mum. Wake up. Wake up.. Wake up.... Nobody should b close to ur husband than u. Think of dos little tins dat mum use to do for him and fill in d gap. Imagine provoking ur love to heat. Pls read anointed books about marriage.
would save money and buy you big origin because Jesu turn water into wine op if you read this comment and you are not satisfied ajepe. the devil is dancing owigiri in you marriage
qbd2: Seriously, d mil is innocent Innocent and ignored the tears of d woman as she was crying?. I think she's just a silent killer. Btw, we don't hate mils its just a womanly thing. We r often jealous of each other
word "jealous of each other" buttu why baby in Igbo man's voice kayintwa in tiv language kilo shele in Yoruba language kenemeni in ukwani language #WOMANUNKIDE
fem29: Her husband messed up by taking all the keys, that is very aggressive. How would you like to be locked out of your home, very disconcerting. They both did wrong.
marriage is not about who is right or wrong remember an eye for an eye would make the world go blind IMO and I do it often if you are annoyed to a certain extent I just leave you no matter what we should learn to be a "LITTLE"bit Patience surulere Patience is a virtue in all marriage
creamynuela88: Apologize to who? Did u read what she wrote at all? Pls go back n read btw d lines... slowly!!!
even if I read a 100times I does not change the fact that she is her MIL ABI?? IN IGBO TRADITION AND IN ALL AFRICAN TRADITION YOU CANNOT SUCCESSFULLY MARRY TO A FAMILY IF YOU DON'T GET ALONG WITH YOUR MIL FYI WOMEN DON'T MARTY THE HUSBAND ALONE THEY MARRY THE ENTIRE FAMILY IT WORST WHEN THE HUSBAND IS A WEAKLY OP JUST PAY MIL A VISIT TELL HER YOU MISSED HER CRY IF YOU CAN ALL NA SHOWBIZ BEEF SQUASHED U ARE FREE SHE IS FREE SIKENA NE
political money airfore1 make sure you do some political track for thief sorry chief tinubu and the legis-looters before baba knock job oooo if I not get my share story that touches go de oooo got m15 and Kalashnikov oooo just saying processing the license so you know
good he has apologised by buying you things just move o but try as much as possible not to let your misunderstandings get to a third party solve your issues before it get to a third party for your MIL just pay her a surprise visit stay with her and probably tell her you missed her"cool story" and you are sorry SIKENA
cool doing this since 2009 it good op but a disclaimer if you are married with kids please don't try it or if you stay with cousins or friends strictly for singles
WIN a brand new Mercedes Benz G-wagon, $5m & a Shopping trip to Vegas..All u ve to do is Name the 5000 people JESUS fed that your gift just answer the question in other new LLNP
smartesboys: many posted topics talk about women, men always are talking about women. like what do you think women like best? How can you understand women want to have sex with you? i don't know why you don't want to make post about men?
The world’s biggest wildcard is North Korea. There is little doubt in anyone’s mind that the country is immensely corrupt, having been effectively run into the ground over the past half-century by Kim Jong Sun, Kim Jong Il and now Kim Jung Un, all of whom the country’s citizens affectionately have referred to as ‘Supreme Leader’. The CIA lists North Korea’s government as a ‘communist state one-man dictatorship’, with an estimated GDP of $28 billion as of 2009.
Notorious for having very little electricity and sending its citizens to prison camps, North Korea’s government and economy are effectively shrouded in mystery. While it does receive aid from countries like China, North Korea obviously has had problems producing enough fuel and food to properly care for its citizens. Military spending far outweighs spending on social programs and aid, mostly to put on appearances for the rest of the world in their famous outbursts of saber-rattling, and to keep citizens in line.
The country’s major issues can be traced back to a number of natural disasters and the collapse of the Soviet Union, as the land, people and equipment have all been ‘worn out’ over the years, according to a CNN report. With little hope for change in the near future, North Korea is destined to remain one of the planet’s most corrupt and destitute nations.
CIA REPORT MY ASS AMERICA SPEND MORE THAN THE WORLD FOR MILITARY HARDWARE AND TURN AROUND TO ACCUSE NORTH KOREA JOKE OF THE CENTURY MORE POOR PEOPLE IN AMERICA ASK TUPAC LETTER TO THE PRESIDENT
GMB is physically fit and is in a far better health condition that most of those who were prophesying his sickness and death on front pages of newspapers during the campaigns.
Keep calm and believe in GMB to rescue us from the rot of 16 years misrule by PDP.
and please tell him to avoid like plague thief sorry chief tinubu and co. I must be high on water this money it thief not Chief what am I TT typing self chief/thief tinubu
naijainfogalery: hahahahaha the bitchh lied, she was was just looking for a way to dumb the guy, the dude must be really broke, for example dangote, Bill gate didnt even go to school but those folks, married and employed the best hands Check out the scenerio - You guys met, you got to know each other, you are fully aware of his educational status, he asked you out, you said yes, thinking his condition would change, he graduated served and even started working, yet condition still seems permanent, then the babe couldnt think of another lie to give his poor ass, the girl come dey form you attended a polytechnic, now when did institution become a criteria for marriage,
This is the reason why some boys do yahooo, carry cocaine, do blood money, or better still when some boys now finally make it they treat girls like poo.
Joke of the century, If i were that guy, all i just have to do is be focused, push myself harder even if it means going to do part time, work harder, smarter and make money easy then i will come back for her.
dude that not the reason people engaged in yahoo,blood money and rituals the reason is GREED SIKENA
[quote author=holicalpha post=33646280]First of all.
That dude should be trashed for been depressed for over 6months because a lady wouldn't marry him
Second
Don't know why marriage is so hyped in some parts of the world (don't wanna say Nigeria)
Get a Job,roll with family and friends, if you must have a kid adopt one and live life to it fullest, nothing in this world is guaranteed, your wife today may bring about the downfall of your tomorrow.
As for me, I've never even dreamt of me marrying... If it comes No Wahala.
Lanadelrey: This story doesn't ring true. But if it is, the lady in question has the right to decide not to forgive her husband's infidelity and leave the marriage afterall marriage is the union of 2, even the bible in corinthians says divorce is wrong except for the sin of adultery. So before god and man she is allowed to decide if she can forgive this and as it seems she can't, she's allowed to move on with her life. And to the person who said she should be lucky a man married her after being a victim of rape, you're absolutely vile and disgusting for that statement. This woman has been through a traumatic experience already and knowing this country she didn't get any counseling or psychological rehabilitation after the incident and from what you say she didn't get justice either, she worked through this entirely on her own strength and willpower and knowing the stigmatization in Nigeria she must have endured her fair share of mockery but she decided to be strong and she got married in hopes of a happy life full of love with her real life Prince Charming, since this man can't be that for her, she should leave and go find happiness alone or with someone else. The man is an absolute douchebag and the only spell he's under is that of his utter selfishness. You find a broken person trying to heal, make them love and trust you, then break them even further. Humans are poison!!!
so venomous!!!!!! your own worst pass poison ooooo what you said were partly correct till the last statement "humans are poison" opinions differs so also those reasoning differs we just have a draw a line to whom brain is given sence is expected lolz don't JUDGE someone because they SIN DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU FINDING HAPPINESS START WITH YOU AS A PERSON IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH YOUR SELF NOT EVEN MARRIAGE/WHATSOEVER WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY
suggyspic: I can give you her Phone number if it would make u believe that not every story is like saharareporters story.
not again saharareporter you mean those people can lie for NIGERIA EEEEEEEEH NONSO WAS WRONG SO ALSO WAS THE LADY,THEY SHOULD JUST FORGIVE EACH OTHER AND MOVE ON TO MARRY BECAUSE OF PITY PUT YOU INTO MORE PITYABLE SITUATION LATER FLY WEY NO GET TAIL NA GOD DE PURSUE COW FOR AM LADY JUST ACCEPT AND ALSO PRAY TO JAH TO HAVE CHILDREN 2chillings contribution
America is supporting France to bomb and take over Nigerian territory using puppet countries: Chad, Cameroon and Niger with the full collusion of our compromised and blackmailed government. All under the false pretext of fighting Boko Haram who are funded and run by America's CIA.
So called Boko Haram insurgents are Chadian and Cameroonian troops in mufti.
All for the purpose of breaking up Nigeria before we can get a chance to elect a competent government that would put an end to its economic exploitation of Nigeria.[/size]
Family › Re: I've Been Combing My Conscience,was I Wrong? I Need Someone To Help Analyse This by obiak4(m): 12:46am On May 13, 2015
