Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

no go drop DNA test first ...... !

This is what I bought here in Zaria ..... Abeg is this not bad ?? Very crazy abeg

The cost in Zaria, Kaduna today ..... Make Government just shoot everybody Kenan !!!

Christians need to come on this and fight it out ..... This is total rubbish

obailala:
In what kind of world does someone who earns N60k monthly buy a land and build a house? A married man at that... Even if he saves 50% of his salary, how do you build a house with N60k salary?

dey play !!!! When u have a goal, it's unstoppable

Oga you are simply extravagant and wasteful. I believe it's your type that wants to wear and do what politicians wear or do

It's better you work on your spending and have the consciousness that ure earning 300k while saving at least 100k.

Let your wife know and cut cost. Get a target savings either to get a house or buy land or an investment.

Most times these money and time don't come as often and don't last for long except ure the owner of the business at least.

Cut on your rent and children school fees even expenditure of the family. Baba the journey is still far

Make we no hear, there was a time my daddy was very rich .... Toh !!!!!

So no school to teach, nothing else to get hands doing ...... is he sick abeg how can an able bodied man rely on NPower ? I belive at a point he will go that route

Kelly308:

Funny how I didn’t come to Narialand to very before embarking on this deadly Journey
Please Sir I will need your assistance I need to leave here. All my money gone

una get mind o .... Some of you just can't stay one place and think or even plan your journey well, esp. we Igbos we no just enter bus and that's all. Anywhere life pushes is we go thereby suffering.

Call your people at home for money. Una no dey hear word

ezenwaez:

Exercise patience, all has been initiated it will be paid gradually.

Any hope for C1 again ? I mean december payment

kestolove95:
Another obidi0t down...

you are indeed tagged with stvpidity!!!!

Humble432:



Thanks but don't you think it will open old wound especially for the father? Though I am concerned if the man said or laid and curse back then.

its important you clear your name bro

Humble432:
I knew this girl because her mother and my mother were friends back then. They both had shops in the same market back then thought the shops were not close to each other.

I was in SS3 and a boarding student. I was home for first term holiday & used to help my mother at her shop. This girl sometimes pass through our shop while going to their shop & stops to say hi once in a while. My home town is less than one hour drive from where we lived so my parents usually visit home most weekends for either burial, wedding, church program or for other reasons.

That particular weekend(Saturday) my parents travelled to my home town & I was alone in the shop. My two siblings were in the university and the other ones have finished and were working & living on their own, so I was home alone. The girl was going to their shop & stopped to say hi as usual. We talked for a while & told her my parents travelled home so she said she will come back later. She came back in the afternoon and we talked about many things, from life in school to family issues, I also tried to introduce her to James hardly Chase because I was already reading & enjoying it. Later in the evening she came back while I was closing & helped me to pack the goods and we both went to my house together. While at home we played, kissed, I touched her breasts few times but we DIDN'T HAVE SEX. She didn't even pull her pants and my finger didn't even touch her private part. I walked her to the road & she ran back home. The next day was Sunday and in the evening my parents returned from their journey. The following weekend school resumed & I went back to school.

I was in school & life was normal until one evening I went to the business center to call my mother. I wanted her to bring money for my extra lessons while paying next visit but she told me to come home next day immediately after school so that I can return back to school same day. My school had both DAY STUDENTS & BOARDING STUDENTS, and like 40mins drive from my house. Her voice was a bit harsh & I could sense she was sad.

The next day I went home immediately after dismissal. I met her at the shop & she welcomed me but there was something different about her that day. She bought food for me and immediately after eating she asked me, "what happened between me & Ukamaka"? By then I had forgotten the small fun I had during the holidays. I told her nothing happened then she called my name and asked again, what happened. If my mother call your name in that manner before asking you anything, just tell her the truth because if she finds out you're telling lies,,,,body go tell you. I told her what happened the weekend they travelled home while I was alone. I admitted that we kissed but there was no sex. I saw the way she was looking at me, she believed me BUT NOT 100%. She thought I had sex with the girl maybe I was afraid to admit. She told me the girl was PREGNANT and told her parents I was RESPONSIBLE. At that age I remembered I didn't have sex with her but I was afraid because of the little play we had, I was even confused whether that could result to her being pregnant. My mother was mad at me, she told me none of my siblings ever brought such shame to the family. She gave me money for the extra lesson in school and also small extra cash and I went back to school same evening. I told few friends in school and they laughed at me and called me "Daddy twins". The whole thing affected me psychologically & my studies as well.

During the next holiday I was expecting my parents especially my father to ask me about it but he didn't, neither did any of my siblings. After my WAEC & NECO exams I got back home and one day my Mom started advicing me about life & mentioned that issue again. She told me the girl's father threatened to arrest me back then but because i was still a minor & also in school he didn't. She told me the girl's parents especially the father was very angry. Fear didn't let me ask if my Dad was aware, infact I was thankful my Dad didn't ask me about it so I kept my mouth.

I left home to join my elder brother where he was working and while there, I gained admission & started school. whenever I visit home & see the girl's mother, she won't respond to my greetings and would always look at me with this bitterness. She believed I was truly responsible for what happened to her daughter. I saw the girl few times but we never talked to each other again. My father passed 2015 and my mother 2021, may God bless their souls in Jesus name, Amen. February this year I was discussing with a friend about childhood and remembered this incident. I felt the need to clear myself and let her parents know I was innocent of the allegation. I called my Aunty who also do business in the same market and request the phone number of the girl and her mother, but she told me the girl's mother died even before my own mother. She sent me the phone number of the SISTER TO THE GIRL'S MOTHER who now sent me the girl's phone number.

I want to confront the girl and also make contact with the father hopefully my next visit to home state. I will like to tell the old man that I was totally innocent. I wouldn't know if the man and his wife laid some curses back then. This might open old wound though but I am planning to settle down soon so I feel the need to clear myself on that issue.
Kindly advice me whether or not to confront the girl or meet the family.
Thanks.

pls do confront the girl ..... Accusations from Ladies are getting worse everyday

Please how good is Ailyons TVs

honestly this is totally rubbish abeg. one can have a pack which is sealed without this

Honestly I pray they pay but looking at how everything is going I just hope we have not be jonzed !!!!

Na wa o ... Abi have we been scammed ??

Emmadox90:
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Ayubz:
Have they start 2023 own?

we leva see December first ....

Abi as Tinubu win nothing again ? 😂

This election get as e be no be small ..... Why is their jubilation while it's not yet official

NonsenseGift:


I believe the message is clear! Nobody stops anyone from paying C1 riff rats. However, going forward, this will only happen when all C2 are paid or we call for non-attendance of PPA.

😂😂😂 .... Lol ... The funny thing be say you think say them no no say we no dey go PPA again Oshirishi somebody .... Pele ooo ...

Abeg my fellow C1 beneficiaries, when we dey collect December and January abeg ?? We suppose collect before Balablue enter o

NonsenseGift:


C2 good news! I don't need to respond to this riff rat.

Some of us have used our free time to question why C1 should continue to receive stipend while some C2 are yet to. Even though i have gotten my stipend up to date, this question deserves an answer.

We have formally requested the discontinuation of the payment of C1 in favour of those C2 yet to be paid and i'm glad to inform you that, the BONUS package for C1 stops at November.

C1, expect your formal disengagement this week or next! That one, we have CONFIRMED! When it comes, expect me here as always for you! I will be patient for this.

this is badbelle pro Max ... !!!! Who told you that Gvt is poor not to pay una ? Abeg shift

Abeg o, We go receive alert for November like this ??

C1 ..... Can't wait to enjoy these while it last abeg

I don't understand.... Your wife is nursing a baby and she come carry belle again

Abeg family planning no dey work again. ?


The woman don see shege no be small, abeg quickly take her for vagina swap

Payments continuation for October C1

Allah Nagode !!!

ProphetM0hammad:

Ikemefuna
Ibo won't be naija president till the end of time

and your people will still be poor, malnourished and poverty stricken till the end of time .... Wawa kawaii banza

ProphetM0hammad:
Amaka
Ngozi
Joy
Nkechi
Have all sent their body counts to INEC and more are on the way,

you are tagged with Stu.pidity !!!! @mods kindly work on this guy account. This ince.nst id.iot

ezenwaez:

It is backlog payment, I was posting about all these then but I stopped because you guys abuse me a lot.

are we still going to be paid again??

Even C1 is receiving o ..... I just received now 30K C1 first bank

So today she cover body small ... SMH for her

First bank received !! .... Thanks, 1 year ride. ... Na to bow make C2 take over

The only thing sensible I got during this regime even thou it came anyhow