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Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Banana Taped Artwork Sold For $6.2 Million (Photos) by Obviouslyblunt: 1:19pm On Nov 22, 2024
Money laundering
Phones › Re: YOU NEED THIS INFORMATION BEFORE BUYING THAT IPHONE by Obviouslyblunt: 7:50am On Nov 21, 2024
247man:
How many of the buyers can afford a brand new sealed iphone?

If they tell you battery has been changed to a new one but you will see the hardware error at the about page, will you buy?

So it’s the buyers that is making them lie since the truth won’t make them sell.

My 2 cents
this is a weird take from you. why buy a defective item and lie to your customers in other to sell it? I'd just say, buy your item from a very reputable source. Gchucks and Onyizee have been reputable for me here.
Politics › Re: Benue State Governor Approves New Minimum Wage Of ₦‎75,000 For Workers by Obviouslyblunt: 9:55am On Nov 19, 2024
Approving isn’t the issue, implementation is.
Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid Breaks Record As “kese” Released 24 Hours Ago Surpasses 1.5 Million by Obviouslyblunt: 3:14pm On Nov 17, 2024
mytime24:
Bots
I played that song throughout yesterday and I’m not a bot.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 11:28pm On Nov 13, 2024
donforeign:
Console your wife and don't always remind her that you don't love her bla bla, it's not worth it. You for no shout for ur wife for the family present and talk all that things, u for just waka comot... Nobody can force you to marry and if e dn tire u, make una find ways to separate o.. all of a sudden she's not attracted to you but her pussy sweet u, if Dem give you pepper soup now Dem go say people bad. Regarding the billing, don't pay for it and stand your ground, you are not their son wey you go help bury their papa. If you get 1mil, give them voluntarily case closed. If you don't talk, Dem go see you finish o. Let your word be your word ... Lastly, if you manage go the burial, lodge hotel and no eat o... Try guide urself too spiritually..
returning to that family is him killing himself.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 11:27pm On Nov 13, 2024
jessylaurel:
Do you men sleep with women you’re not attracted to physically?? I don’t understand. Were you drunk the night you met her??
do you women spend the money of a man you are not attracted to physically?
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 11:25pm On Nov 13, 2024
jessylaurel:
You’re not a man but a princess.
How did she force you to marry her?
Did she force you to have intimacy with her?
Don’t you know what protection is?
You don’t love her and you still meet her every night for sezzz😂😂.

They are obviously heaping the expense on you because you don’t have sense
never you in life OP, take the words of a stupïd woman serious.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 11:23pm On Nov 13, 2024
protocol:
lol, my prayer for you is that you make money. how much is a goat or mortuary expenses or even a casket. In some places, you have to come with a cow and some bags of rice. This is your wife and you already have a child that people are praying and fasting for. One day, you will make money and you will regret your action. Keep working and believing,God will reposition you soon.
words of a stupid man.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 11:20pm On Nov 13, 2024
JASONjnr:
Stop justifying nonsense.

A woman's body changes and their hormones gets altered when they get pregnant.

You can't love a slim girl and when she's pregnant she gets obese a d you feel she's no more attractive to you because she's fat after giving birth to your child.

You did the right thing to legally marry her.

But do you think it makes sense telli lng people that a grown up man was pressured to do some never wanted to?

Please, you are a married man, you should grow into learning how to manage a situation as you will have to teach your children lot of things.

Your wife will stand by you if you two have an understanding and she will not allow her family to use you. But you don't carry her along because you now hate her.
trash.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 11:07pm On Nov 13, 2024
optimismlaz:
My brother if you cares to listen, you did wrong , that their tradition other sisters of hers are not traditionally married and they cannot be tasked or asked to bring something. You must perform your traditional duties and there a lot of benefits and also there also consequences. Act wise
now, what if he no longer wants to be married to her?
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 10:56pm On Nov 13, 2024
Farrason:
Indeed, you sounded like someone under pressure. I believe as an Adult, no one can force you do what you will not want to do... You feel furious cos you think that your wife took advantage of you with the suicide thingy.

Grow bro... You shouldn't have gotten her preggy in the first place, who were you relegating her with the pregnancy to?

Now is the time to man-up. I believe no one in this life can pressure you unless you allow it.

The inlaws are not a problem at all. As an in-law, it's customary that you support in the burial if you can. So, just settle them what you can support them with and lock up. You are married already - None of them can do you anything again.

For marriage between you and your wife, You need to talk to yourself in clear terms... You feel your wife played you emotional blackmail - this is the issue here. You may be wrong... What if she meant it

Forget the expenses... I bet you, if your heart was in it(wife, baby, marriage), the money no be problem. More money will come. Amen

Remember the story of a lady who quarrelled with her fiancee and jumped off 3rd Mainland bridge... I bet he too called it a bluff.

Whether marriage met you settled or not... You have a baby on the line in it now.

My advice is act responsible ..... in what ever way "responsible" means to you.
fck off.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 10:53pm On Nov 13, 2024
pointblank247:
You need to apologise to your wife if possible in the presence of her family. Do you really know that gravity of what you said. How will she talk in the presence of other siblings with what you reduced her to. Even if you are not doing again, you should not have belittled the mother of your child(ren) like that.

Now to the billing
You should have calmly told them that you wouldn't do it. Without raising your voice..
If I were you I would go back and apologise to save the face of your wife and then tell them about the unacceptable billing.

I also will like to know the name of the state of your wife and if possible the name of her village
make this Nigg fck off jor.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 10:43pm On Nov 13, 2024
Free2Fly:
But he over reacted nah grin
He should have calmly told the brother inlaw that it's not acceptable for any particular amount to be levied on him as an inlaw, but he would give whatever he could raise willingly to them as a gift.
The family can levy their daughter, but not the husband.
The husbands can only assist with whatever they can offer or help their wives fulfil the levies shared to them.
you are talking about a guy that wants out of that marriage.
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 10:37pm On Nov 13, 2024
BlindAngel:
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.

That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.
if you’ll listen to me, leave that marriage. If you go back they’ll never forget this. Leave, they’ll eventually come begging when they notice you are serious but don’t panic, stand you ground and leave/
Family › Re: My Wife Family Mounting Their Father Burial Expense On Me, How I Reacted At Once by Obviouslyblunt: 10:17pm On Nov 13, 2024
kevwemike:
Guy wat is wrong with U? Why are U talking like a child, U don't like the girl but Ur dick like her pussy to the extent U got her pregnant, and U are here saying that she force u into the marriage, u dey here urself? The truth is that wat the family counted for U is the right thing to do as in-law , just try and do the needful is Ur in-law.
you gotta be kidding.
Education › Re: FG Suspends 13 FGC Enugu Students For 6 Months For Bullying And Assault by Obviouslyblunt: 2:28pm On Nov 13, 2024
Bigboytinz:
Social Media has made life so easy. If you went to boarding house in those days this was so normal. Infact it means virtually all house captains would have been suspended
it was normal doesn’t mean it wasn’t a very bad thing.
Properties › Re: Man Building A House Came Across Ant Hill And Preserved It by Obviouslyblunt: 7:50pm On Nov 10, 2024
dynicks:
as well Install inverter and sink a borehole for the ants......
he should make it his man cave.
Politics › Re: Governor Obaseki’s Whereabouts Unknown, He Fled Through Land Borders - Okpebholo by Obviouslyblunt: 7:15pm On Nov 10, 2024
God1000:
the current governor of kogi state is protecting him from prosecution, I think the current EFCC is weak, or they are following orders from above
this is what you get, when your loyal anointed candidate wins, protection.
Politics › Re: Lawmaker who assaulted bolt driver, Granted ₦‎500,000 Bail by Obviouslyblunt: 9:34pm On Oct 30, 2024
How much will the bolt driver be getting?
Politics › Re: Pictures From The New Flyover Project Along Enugu-Abakaliki Express by Obviouslyblunt: 4:09pm On Oct 30, 2024
Ikaeniyan0:
Look at how ugly the environment looks like, nah to dey cry about other people state/region dem sabi
that is more like a village. A very much abandoned village until this flyover.
Technology Market › Re: Palmz and franktejiri by Obviouslyblunt: 4:01pm On Oct 30, 2024
Franktejiri:
Good afternoon nairalanders.

I have spoken with Psalmz.
He said he would pay me back in installments.

the first refund will be sent before the end of next week, according to him.

Considering the fact that we had two successful dealings before, I'll give him the benefits of the doubts that he will come through.

Thanks everyone for their input.
I do appreciate it.

I'll keep this thread updated.
thank you so much boss for your patience and understanding. God will reward you more for putting yourself in someone else’s shoe. Appreciate this positive update.
Technology Market › Re: Palmz and franktejiri by Obviouslyblunt: 1:52pm On Oct 30, 2024
psalmz:
pls.i am.sorry and at the moment it's not easy,I will refund him ,that I promise,I am doing it in bits
Op, please I implore you to discuss with him privately and understand his predicament. He is human like us. I know it’s not easy to tell one to be separated from his money and still be patient. But I’m pleading to please have a productive comm with him. Psalmz, sorry brother for your predicament. These are indeed trying times.
Technology Market › Re: Palmz and franktejiri by Obviouslyblunt: 1:42pm On Oct 30, 2024
psalmz:
The truth about this whole thing is my shipping company messed up and I lost a whole lot consignment with them because Nigerian customs seized their goods, but this is not the story my customers wants to hear. They paid for their gadgets and they expect to have it or get their money back. Since they can't have it, I have to start refunding everyone little by little. I have lost millions on this , but my other customers on this thread can confirm that I am refunding them little by little. I agree that I should have been more forthcoming instead of trying to buy time with stories, and I accept my fault. I will refund the OP his money. He just exercise a little more patience while I try to raise money. It's bad business and it happens. Sorry for the whole misunderstanding
this is way more better and I commend you really for it. I withdraw my previous comment and apologize for it.
Technology Market › Re: Palmz and franktejiri by Obviouslyblunt: 1:34pm On Oct 30, 2024
You see that ishilove viewing the thread too? She was among the mods fighting for him in the past, if I can remember correctly.
Technology Market › Re: Palmz and franktejiri by Obviouslyblunt: 1:33pm On Oct 30, 2024
Sofistcatdmoron:
Which tribe is he from
does it really matter?
Technology Market › Re: Palmz and franktejiri by Obviouslyblunt: 12:18pm On Oct 30, 2024
Franktejiri:
Honestly didn't know this is how he operates.
I have been waiting for months, he always comes up with excuses and more of it.

I just need my money back.

I won't stop till I get it.
I would advice you involve the law. Lodge a complaint and have concrete evidence of the whole thing. This is a criminal matter, so if the police decide to act funny, charge the matter to magistrate court near you and his location. He will be served.
Technology Market › Re: Palmz and franktejiri by Obviouslyblunt:
I withdraw my post about the seller.
Crime › Re: Shock As Man Arrested For Murder Displays His Singing And Other Talents(photo & by Obviouslyblunt: 7:51am On Oct 30, 2024
Atleast it will help him a little in prison. He will become the little boss bitch and no one then will be able to harm or hurt him in prison.
Politics › Re: Dangote: Retailers Ignoring Over 500 Million Litres Of Fuel From Our Refinery by Obviouslyblunt: 7:36pm On Oct 29, 2024
Dangote is also part of the country’s problem.
Phones › Re: Seeking For A Phone Within 50 To 70k Budget by Obviouslyblunt: 3:37pm On Oct 29, 2024
francisisking:
Samsung galaxy a50
4gb ram and 128gb available
if everything is working perfectly on this phone, go for this.
Technology Market › Re: Awoof Iphone 12 Pro Max 550k by Obviouslyblunt: 12:29pm On Oct 29, 2024
dreamworld:
you need to go back to school oga, i've giving up on your matter already, your matter pass me,
you can do a simple search for WWU unlocked device , not even far, but on Nairaland here.

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