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That's so sad

KanuSE:
Did you mean to say 'dictate' ?

Yeah... Thank you

When you make your money, don't allow anyone dictact what you do with your money. It's yours, so enjoy it fully

Femmyfamous4u:
Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting.

My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough.

I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get.

She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food.

Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about.

It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours.

My income is more than hers though.

Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?

Haaaaa, some women are blessed shaa, but they don't know it.
You allowed her with the notion that her money is her money while still in relationship, so I guess you will continue with what you started, if you would call her to talk to her.... you better do. And that amount for soup alone is ok. Whatever she can add, let her do. This marriage is a two-way thing and if anyone refuses to get involved, complaints, nagging feeling cheated would set in. For me, I would say NO ALLOWANCE but from time to time, get gifts and then take up some personal expenses like making of hair or nails.

Even the lines are poor.... What sort of discussion is that 🤣

Deceive who's deceivable not sane people.

Why killing unarmed protesters who doesn't pose any harm to you?

renderme:
You are just being clever by half. Other campuses in Nigeria do it. I know for a fact the only bread and pure water sold in BIU is by their university. And it's not the first.

Nigeria is a poor country with poor people. If you don't want school fees above N150k then allow universities make money in other ways. Education is not cheap.

No one is saying they should not have businesses for the school but it's not a commendable achievement as a prominent university for that matter. We celebrate mediocre so much that we don't even see beyond that.

RuddyFusion:
Can you imagine?
Just because of coincidence in their names you assumed she will be unfair? Cry me a river!

You have not meet her before, do you need to meet her when you have your foot soldiers to do the job?

And you did not even denied that you came with money and intimidation

Abias voted for LP top to bottom, Alex was rigged out before but this time the OBI effect didn't allow you guys repeat your magic.

You can imagine an LGA with official accredited number of voters of 27k coming up with 108k votes.... What sort of wickedness is that?

This man has drank that his champagne again..... Dey play 🤣

Tareq1105:
No, it's bcoz he wants to revive his dying career.

Let the zobidients dance to his music.

Falz we know and have known.... please who are you?

muhammaduyusufu:
I guess you don't have data to watch the twitter video. The jollof rice and Okpa na your fellow nyanmiri talk am

While our brother is kind to report about Lagos, here is Nsuka Enugu State. The Labour party has refused any other party faithful to vote.🙄 pic.twitter.com/D621hkpNyC

— Ayodele Faroun (@qualiserve2003) March 19, 2023

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Mtcheeeww.... Thought I was talking with a literate adult. Rubbish

muhammaduyusufu:
And you lie that they did not rig despite the video evidence. Aside the shooting, they were also giving jollof and okpa. I hope you collected yours ebina. I nefa chop.

Let's not talk about the election sheet manipulation.

You said they were shooting, bring evidence... you are coming up with the Jollof rice bullshit. Stick to what you said and stop running around. Can you imagine what you brought up as evidence, is it not laughable 🤣

Tee2027:
Falz f u c k to hell we no longer care who the hell are you so
f u c k off and rot in hell.

You still cared, that's why you jumped into the thread

bro4u:
But why is falz taking this thing serious lyk dis

Because he's a patriot

[quote author=muhammaduyusufu post=122179601]There is a videos on twitter see below. LP supporters were shooting to scare voters away in the east.

While our brother is kind to report about Lagos, here is Nsuka Enugu State. The Labour party has refused any other party faithful to vote.🙄 pic.twitter.com/D621hkpNyC

— Ayodele Faroun (@qualiserve2003) March 19, 2023

lie

What happened in Abia should tell you all that South East has decided what is good for them... We plainly voted for LP even other party members did same as long as Presidential is concerned. Oh!! You were fooled by the number of persons that were coming for PDP APC rallies😁.....?
Those parties already had existing structures which their members mobilized rally attendees... The polling unit was the destination and we wanted a real change.

He bought what he could afford, there are other expenses he's still going to make within the period, unless he's a cunny man who wouldn't do that if it was his own.

rickleye:
Haha, it’s called midlife crisis.

Just tell her she is right and start the dating process again.
Many of us think our wives are like our mothers . Marry and keep for home. The game is changing bro. I am sure she has a friend on WhatsApp with whom she has discussed this with already.

1. Plan a date nite every week . Go catch a flick and have someone watch the kids.
2. Do something together with the family once a month. Go to Olumo Rock and Beach . A family outing .
3. Don’t forget her birthday make it exciting ( get her flowers or money - depending on her love language)
4. Make an effort to show PDA infront of the kids. Steal a kiss 💋, slap her buttocks , call her sexy mamacita or siren.
5. Make sex impromptu. After coitus , ask would like a glass of water or wine to relax ( she will laugh and say , thank you yes or no )
6. If you are just Spooning dude , change into missionary or doggy . ( now sex and love are not the same) . Massage and ask her where she may want to be touched to excite her …

Make the effort !!! You might not be comfortable doing any of the above but as you mentioned it appears she never “ lived “ done anything she wanted to do . Her first born is 10.
And it’s been mummy this , mummy that !

I would give her the leg chain *

Don’t ignore her warnings or else someone else will fill the void.

BEST COMMENT AWARD.... THIS ONE SWEET ME 🥰

Gamesmart:
He married her. She should be eternally pleased and grateful and she should be consistently looking for ways to please and reward him for the marriage.

Ok nah

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Hmmmmm, wahala 🤣

She has strayed.... but tell us your own flaws too

I hope this is not true

What did I hear that woman say please 🥺🥺... Things dey happen ooo

Fake News ✌️

Jyde89:
Where in this your comment is the proof that you are not a bleeding bastArd, your baby factory comrades have been all over this thread denigrating our image but your compass refused to turn you in their direction. Anuofia!!!

You are just on everyone's mention crying catarrh and tears.... Are you Temitope Adeyinka?

I can share the bounty with your family shaa

His picture already look like a mugshot

johnprof:
God.. This is very sad I swear to God, this just spoilt my day. Seeing this young man suffer in that condition, struggling to survive and later pass away, for a crime he might not have committed, mehn thunder fire all those vigilante people and the person that invited them. They must pay for the death of that guy. Na only God knows how this thing dey pain me. If I were in a good position, I would make sure the vigilantes and the person that invited are made to suffer before they die. How can you be oweing someone five months salary and still end up killing him? Person wey no dey thief, just decided to hussle legit hussle but...... Haiiiiii, God.

The said phone was later found ooo.😭

Johnjustice:
Respect the president elect. We won't tolerate this conspiracy by IPoB and obidient, we will resist arsonist and lovers of chaos.

A drug dealer is a drug dealer....... No change of name. Answer with pride😝

optionalY09:
Yes their days are numbered, children’s of baby factory have no respect for their papa

Especially those who sells their fathers to ritualists and kill them.........

Pot calling kettle names 🤣

iHart:
There is tension as some notable yoruba indigenes have told the igbos to leave lagos. Some igbos were attacked in Lagos and intimidated against voting in the last election. We even saw some markets dominated by igbos being set ablaze. Aggrieved igbos may decide to attack yoruba businesses in the East as well.

Thank God you said.... "May". They didn't "may" ever since he lived there, is it now that they will?


This is not the first time Igbos have been attacked in other regions.

iHart:
This could pose a risk to him.

Since 1992... No risk till now.

Read, you no gree

MasterJayJay:
Crawl out from your hole and explore Nigeria so ignorance can leave you. But some have allowed ethnic bigotry to becloud their sense of reasoning.

Illiteracy is not just about book knowledge, lack of exposure is a huuuggeee problem to black man.

flokii:
Of course I have to mention Igbos cos most of us are fed up with the nonsense Yoruba leaders are doing especially in Lagos... Lagos state almost fell to the hands of IPOBs if not for God.

This same Sanwo Olu gave like 5 Igbos about 20 million naira each despite the massive looting of shops and businesses at Lekki all the way down to Bode Thomas in Surulere during EndSars.

What rubbish!!

How will Yorubas be getting treated shabbily in their own home while aliens keep getting all the compensation. How many Yorubas Sanwo Olu don help?

Igbo man must have snatched your woman, I don't see why you are having a mental breakdown even on Yoruba issues........ Let go and start healing before you comot clothes