adadike:

but me I be risk taker oo

adadike:
no not my real name. It means daughter of the strong

hmm...
person no fit follow you joke be that oo

In cases like this it may be difficult to stop yourself from showing you really like him. the feeling is from within you ( a good feeling though) but first thing I will suggest is that you try and make him feel same about you too, just to balance the reaction... be yourself, crack your jokes, dance to that random beat ... whether he digs it or not

Am guessing you know "enough" about him already...
keep your opinions opened during conversations, if he has a opinion on something and it differs from yours, make sure you air your opinion also ( not argument oo ), don't just keep mute and nod your head ...

adadike:
They are very good friends real life and they understand each other more than any other tribe

Adadike...
though I don't know the meaning.. but the Ada and Dike together
this your real name?

red and white. Valentine reloaded

most times its just banters and the fact that "we all hiding behind a keyboard".

sometimes it baffles me why people have to wait a long time b4 coming to reasoning on a relationship.
5 years for wetin?
If you both did not agree to wait this long... then other plans have been made without your consent and Knowledge.

thatthickgurl:

Yes

this is a good loud voice. but your last two post .... really? like for real?

@thatthickgurl Renaissance D'une Reine....

thatthickgurl:


Yep
Everytime, that's why I feel I'm the problem

yeah, that should be tiring truly.
but since you've learnt to keep talking no matter what, you should also try and ignore the taunts and insults.

people really get bad mouth for this forum oo

thatthickgurl:
Thank you everyone
You don't know how much it helped, that I had people to talk to.
I was going crazy and berating myself for ever voicing out.
I just wish it's possible to unknow some people

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well about that, you can do nothing , it's what it is...
and does this happen like every time?

[quote author=thatthickgurl post=98978405][/quote]
well about that, you can do nothing , it's what it is...
and does this happen like every time?

[quote author=thatthickgurl post=98978405][/quote]
well about that, you can do nothing , it's what it is...
and does this happen like every time?

intersexsherry, it's been awhile, how you holding up?

thatthickgurl:

Now I know they aren't
I just want to be alone

will that help you always? being alone I mean.
maybe you need enter street las las

Ishilove:

Maybe I didn't put it well. I meant she doesn't have nerves of steel. Things get to her easily.

seems exactly like that. she needs toughen up. this life no balance at all.

thatthickgurl:


That's what I've been saying.

By being opinionated , I'm made to feel like I'm doing too much

Whatever happened to individual differences

being opinionated is kinda different... it means you are saying that you "always right" which is false. no one can always be right.

have you actually met someone whom you think is more knowledgeable than you are?

how was the interaction between you two?

Ishilove:

It seems you have a heart of putty. So soft.

but sincerely, based in this thread, this isn't a problem.
having a soft heart isn't a defect in any way, except maybe am not getting the full picture

thatthickgurl:



They do hate me, they hate what I stand for

There are no genuine friends anywhere, the ones I think are my friends will stand by or participate in ridiculing me

what do you think you stand for?

those who participate in ridiculing you ain't your genuine friends, you think they are.

it shows how you really think in your mind.

thatthickgurl:
I really appreciate the contributions.

I've had to leave all the group chats I belong to, because the minute I type my opinions or feelings on a subject matter, I'm made to feel like public enemy No 1.

I just figured, there was something wrong with me, for always getting attacked.


Anyways, Netflix helps deal with the pain but it's temporal. Immediately the movie ends, I'm back with my thoughts.

try calm down small... are you the one thinking this?

people are very entitled to their opinions, same as you, so being controversial is allowed.

or you prefer to be stepped over?

thatthickgurl:
One single insult has me thinking of ways to kill myself

That can't be right

Please I need a therapist

well the first therapist to be seen has to be YOU.

do you always think people hate you? or they "actually" act and or tell you so?

the mind is some 'crazy' place, be careful how you behave down there.

Love yourself first. there are always genuine friends out there.

dotedote:


Yeah that's true. He should give her some time. Like another 4 years. Do like NEPA (One day ON, one day OFF)
Radarada

the four years was enough for anything... marriage, divorce, breakup, make up and all those things.
if he wasn't interested anymore the four years were enough for that.
there was a reason the guy stood his ground, which none of us are gonna know.
there is time for everything.
my opinion.

kokaneprodigy:

In your mind you are sharp.
Girl hasn’t called him since last year, he should wait for her, after she must have satisfied her quest with another diçk she’ll come back to him. He should even call her after sometime to check on her well-being. What kind of man are you? If this isn’t low self esteem I wonder what is!

Value and respect yourself, if you don’t nobody will.

the four years wasn't him alone... them gather dey the boat.
if he was sure of his actions, he wouldn't need any advice from anyone.
and whatever he really feels for the girl none of y'all can never know. I only gave my opinion based on what I perceived from the post.
and calling her to know her well being and not about the relationship isn't low self esteem, it portrays strength.
that is true Value and Respect.

gifted with words indeed.. ramble on and on, but ironic you had to save someone with silence.
I love Life.

samx4real:


Not yet oh my brother... The truth is that the people that did this are the people president Buhari call the vuneral people.

People leaving in abject poverty.

you mean very poor youths?

bro, at least try exercise some patience.
she ain't blocked your number yet neither is she rejecting your calls.
but you shouldn't "rely" on the mums advice, the girl in question could have made other "plans unknown" to her.
give her some space and try sort one or two important things to keep your mind off the issue.
if after sometime she doesn't call as it is convenient by you, you could call her, but not to bug or ask about the relationship( the strained one) only to ask how she faring and as a sharp guy you gonna be able to read the writing clearly.

cheap blackmail

The million dollar question.
Who go pass am?

the Senate?