₦airaland Forum

johnydon22:


Yes white wedding is also a matter of union... Once a couple is married they are married.. Once a dowry and traditional rites are performed in Africa the couple are officially husband and wife..

And a big YES sex is allowed for a husband and wife ... white wedding thingy is an european tradition and has nothing to do with the legitimacy of a marriage..

its not a necessity anymore than Europeans performing African traditional rites is to them.. only people who prize other people's culture more than theirs would think otherwise..

Are U aware that some traditions stinks of idolatry?

FREEEMANAN:
Sex is the topic here... Not just the union... Is sex allowed before "White wedding"

Sequel to my explanation in relation to the difference between traditional marriage and white wedding,
As a christian, Sex before white wedding is not allowed.
Any sex before the coming together of a man and woman in Holy Matrimony is considered "fornication"
Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia gave a clear definition of this.
While 1 Cor. 7:2 have this to say:
But because of the temptation to sexual
immorality, each man should have his own wife
and each woman her own husband.
A curse was also laid on children born out of wedlock. Read Deut. 23:2
In fact God frown so much at it!

As usual APC don go bribe this organization, them no want make e be say na only GEJ dey shine!
which fight corruption? how many has he fought in Nigeria since his resumption?
How many has being indicted?
The loot recovered, how much is it? where is it channel to?
As I speak, his administration stinks or lacks transparency!
PMB children oya your food don land!

Its difficult to comment since I did not hear the woman side of the story! RIP to the departed though.

In this 21st century, a whole president is:
1. Shy around women!
2. Does not trust majority of the people he is ruling but only the northerners!
3. Can only work with his friends!
4. Rule with body language
5. Deny most of his electoral promises.
na wa oooooo
some northerners that has flooded Nairaland will not read, digest and look at the comment critically before wailing!
Just watch out!

Stolen:
[size=18pt]BUHARI STOP TRYING TO CLAIM AND TAKE CREDIT FOR GEJ PROJECT.[/size]

If PMB decides to finish the project, let him.
There is nothing wrong with continuity. I prefer it than having so many abandoned project.
History be kind to them as both of them will take the credit.
Politics aside, let's think of a way to move this country forward.

well spoken.
This is the first time I am observing the three arms of govt. been taken over by a particular section.
Lord have mercy on Nigeria.

Sanchez01:
Perhaps one or two persons would relate to my ordeal after sharing.

I went to the Computer Village at Ikeja on Saturday, 17th Oct, to purchase a head phone I had longed to get for a while now. I had an example of what I wanted in mind and was not ready to compromise my stand on this.

I had also made up my mind not to go too deep for security reasons; computer village touts/area boys are more concentrated in the farther part of the market and being harassed unduly was not just it for me.

The first shop I visited just by the bridge didn't have what I wanted and the guy therein cajoled me into buying something else which was not just it. I wasted no time in trying out the next shop but I noticed I was being followed by 4 mean looking guys. I couldn't tell for how long I was stalked but it was pretty obvious something wasn't right.

Fortunately, I saw the "HD Monster Micro SD Player beats by dr. dre" in the next shop and wasted no time in bargaining. I paid, came out of the shop with the intent of moving towards the bridge, only to find out that my stalkers (now about 5 of them) had divided themselves like a pack of wolves who has their sights on a gazelle.

Seeing that it was becoming a nightmare by the minute, I moved towards some policemen who were around one of their vans under the bridge. One of the touts, supposedly their boss walked up to me while the others surrounded me in no time. Micro SD sellers turned spectators as well as passers' by. I could see the policemen looking at us from a distance. They were clearly unmoved by the scene, judging by the expression their faces.

One of the touts spoke up "a ti n so e lataaro" (we've been stalking you for a while). It didn't really come as a surprise but what I did wrong is what I couldn't picture.

"Oya, fun wa l'owo!" (Now, give us money!) Their supposed head retorted. It was a dream. How in the world would touts harass someone in the presence of policemen

Quite scared, I told him I didn't understand what I had done to warrant being "fined". At my words, the minions were ready to attack me but couldn't as their boss calmed them. Obviously angry at this point, he said "a n be a so lero, o fe gbo. O fe ka gba gbogbo t'owo e, abi?" (We have told you calmly, you don't want to listen. Do you want us to take everything on you?"

The crowd had increased by this time and they watched helplessly while the policemen didn't move a nerve. It was at this point it dawned on me what I was up against. Without wasting time, I reached for my wallet which was carefully tucked away in my pant's back pocket and offered them #500 but he (their supposed boss) refused it, claiming my money is #2000!

I was baffled. I tucked my #500 away and gave them #1000 which they collected and started stumping a foot each on the ground as they sang my praise. I heaved a sigh of relief as I quickly proceeded to leave the scene. It was pretty embarrassing to say the least.

I shared my ordeal with a friend yesterday and he confirmed he had faced something similar. His case however was shocking. He claimed he resisted and the policemen "arrested" all of them while he "bailed" himself with #2000 without going to a police station.

Please be wary of these touts at Ikeja. Some officers of the NPF have no life.

Lalasticlala, please help raise this awareness.

Thanks for the awareness. At least I now know what I might be up against when I enter computer village.
I am sure it will also be of great help to so many out there.

DrGraveYardz:
Next time,you copy the names of the police officers and upload them on the net. Expose every corrupt police officers involved.

That is if they use their name tags.

I watched Barr. James screening, I was so impressed that I couldn't tune the channel.
But saying however is not the problem, will he deliver?
I wish him the very best and pray he practice all his promises when confirmed.

OP screening is different from confirmation and if he is confirmed without clearing the allegation against him, I will never again believe in PMB's fight against corruption.

Yomboy4ever:
pepper am indeed buahahahha
bt I tot u said u will nevr reply me again, u are not even a man of ur words.
we knw your types bunch of town criers...
Pls Tell me wen are u going start ur own protest on d street of PH ? Remember Wike promise to crush you and ur Jobless mofos. Am waiting

my pikin, I can see that U are looking for attention. I replied U because I thought U have learnt your lesson but I was wrong. children like U who manage to get a phone from their mother never learn.
So keep wailing.
Silence is golden and that can only be the answer to a ...

If Saraki goes down, then APC is finished in the Senate!

Y must it be El-Rufai that goes with Oshibanjo? To govern a State no be moi-moi!
Beside what experience does he have in the subject matter?
There is more to this stuff!

Yomboy4ever:
U sound so saucy I can nevr be in d same level with you. Those who are in ur level are awaiting trials and d outcome will be prison. I bet you they are regretting der actions already.
Yes am empty but you are full of noise making..

Lolz! eyaaaaaa e don pepper U. Next time learn how to talk to people. U lack manners!
Don't forget U started it. Mr saucy.

creebhills:
oga oo we go set match ring for both of you ooo. biko he never reach for you to to clutch on P.

My brother, e tire me! the pikin no want make I rest. na so e dey follow me up and down. Them no dey comment, na him I comment? haha!
na wa oooooo.
Him no go even make tangible contribution. Abuse don replace him blood!
no be small thing oooooo.

DrDauda:
oya APC E-rat wailers, food done ready, make una come chop

My brother no be small thing ooooo. Them no go even make tangible point. na to abuse, na d only thing wey dem know be that.
You don't need to go far before you know who them be.
lolz!

Yomboy4ever:
Noise maker shut up !
go and protest on d street and go to prison like mandela if you want to be like him and stop protesting on nairaland.

I see say NairaLand don become part of your inheritance. Na your papa land.
I have being weighing your comments and its amount to nothing.
Don't expect me to reply U again because I only discuss with people that has tangible thing to offer.
U are far below my level. U are empty!

shiizzy:
.illiterate poster you can do better than that... after all everyone was given stupidity...if you choose to showcase yours..that's not a problem..keep it up!!..whatever rocks your boat

silence is the best answer for a ...

An interesting and a refreshing forum. Devoid of any form of abuse or mockery. Nice.

trapQ:
misplaced priorities. .. the bloggers and news sites aren't the problem with Nigeria.

the problem is all you corrupt politicians that loot public funds causing children to die of starvation and poor health care. the problem is bad roads, erratic electricity, poor educational system, corruption, abject poverty, unemployment, a dysfunctional legal system that oppresses the poor and basically everything other thing a developed society should have which we are in dire need of.

leave the bloggers alone...

Bruce I have always love your concept about changing Nigeria but I don't agree with U on this.
What do you expect from the citizens when you keep them in the dark? U leave them to their imagination!
Today, U watch the President say something, tomorrow, he denies it?
Is the President not among d dirty politicians U are referring to?

Police killing unarmed men, staging a peaceful protest? That is murder! or is it because they don't have a renowned person leading them? PMB is barbaric and a dictator. U see Y GEJ is better than U? In all Ezekwesili protest, nobody was killed. Instead they were addressed as human but PMB is always thirsty for blood.

This stampede, injury and death in the gathering of children of God tire me oooooo!
Their crowd never reach Jesus own ooooo but I never heard about any stampede, injury or death!
Anywhere He goes, He was always doing good oooo and death no follow.

Mandela was also imprisoned but that did not stop him from freeing his people.
WIKE himself supported militancy when he felt they were being marginalized. I expect him to know better!
History is in the making.
U can only delay it
But it is inevitable, when the time was right, Israelites left Egypt, South Africans gain their freedom...
When it is time, Biafrans will surely leave Nigeria and these people you are arresting will look back, smile while they tell their stories.

Chanchit:
If you cool down to read my post, I said I noticed the thread because of the traffic it pulled, fter clicking it, I noticed I've seen ur username on some Biafra threads fighting hard for liberation, why would follow you around abi na you dey inside 1k note?

and so what? am I d only one that has spoken in a Biafra thread?
So what is wrong in speaking for a cause U believe in? after all U do the same. Must we share the same view?
U all agitating against the secession of the Biafrans has being calling them names. You said they are of no good, You won't even allow them to rule in a country that you claim belongs to us all. They struggle to read, do everything but those benefitting from quota system wants to rule for ever. so why do U still want them to be part of Nigeria?
Believe it or not, if it were the northerners that was in their shoes, this country would have being in chaos.
After all, Nigeria was under Britain, when they felt they have had enough, the British let them go. Even with all the oil, Britons never called Nigerians names, never went to war with them. It was peaceful!
Why can't Biafrans have the same?
Today, are there no Nigerians in Britain, or is Britain not existing without Nigeria?
So my dear just as U are entitled to your opinion, I am also entitled to mine!
U don't have to insult anyone before we can reason together.

shadowgwalker:
sharap abeg!

No need to dignify your nonentity with a response!

Did U return the ticket money you collected when they were selling along the road side? not that it justify her pouring U hot pepper soup!

shiizzy:
a.meaning.comment ....u have been skipping eng. classes

I hate to insult people but U are practically making it impossible for me.
U think everybody is a fool like U. How can U mistake Yoruba for English.
I thought U are the master in it. illiterate poster!

Chanchit:
It means you should work harder, Biafra won't solve your problems, it would worsen it, I get my daily bread from music and I'm certain I would get more from it, work hard with what ever you have on your hands and it would multiply,there's no short cut.

so Nigeria never worsen your problem already wey be na guitar, you dey carry up and down. na Biafra wey never even begin go come worsen am.
abeg look for better point!

Chanchit:
It means you should work harder, Biafra won't solve your problems, it would worsen it, I get my daily bread from music and I'm certain I would get more from it, work hard with what ever you have on your hands and it would multiply,there's no short cut.

lol. omo see how your blood dey boil. hard worker!
no allow your shoe wear out where U dey follow me up and down.
U are a musician, yet I don't know why U clicked a vacancy post.
lolz.
It is well!

shiizzy:
can't u see it's d quality of
d pics ode

Iran di ran e ni ode.
I don't understand Y you cannot form a meaningful comment without insult.

Mr. Babachir David Lawal, U have spoken the truth as it is in the mind of many Nigerian but is PMB and other northern leaders ready for the truth?
My dear U have done your best by saying the truth. let him surround himself with liars!