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Being a man yourself, you should be able to answer why.

Long distance marriages can be really stressing I tell you.
You must find a way of making him talk to you. He is under stress over there ( having to live single after marriage to a woman he loves) so you have to be cautious with what you say and present. Dont for any reason send an angry mail or shout at him. Just as you need him, he also needs you. And like the other poster mentioned, he maybe insecure

Thats why I ask the distance. If it were say UK and Nigeria, na big wahala be that o.
I just pray its inter state thing

Your husband is being annoying. When he asked to speak to your friend, I thought it was so he could confirm you were actually at home.
Whats the distance between both of you? Can you travel for the weekend and be back for work by monday. I havent had a reason to beg/apologise to my husband for more than a few hours and when I try to chat him up and he still wears a long face, I let him be. Sometimes he drives off and leaves me but as soon as he comes back, we are friends again. Maybe you should let him be, stop disturbing him with chat ups, rather, send him an I love you, i'm crazy about you text early and late at nite and if possible, go visit him.

The life christians live isnt theirs, true christians will remain undaunted even in the face of faceless cowards called bokoharam

Its actually your type that is ruining this country.

I bu Chukwu nke na adighi agbanwe!

You are wicked, selfish and selfcentered. One way or the other, you will have to pay for your deceit

I am not saying you cant find a life partner here but you appear too desperate for me on this thread.
Repackage yourself showcasing your strenght and I hope it pays. Goodluck.

Please y'all should stop giving me more work. I have cleaned up the thread without blaming or banning anybody. I plead that we all act mature here. Dont push me to the wall.

Thnx

You were banned for . . . I think, trolling. Lemme check again.
Even though I didnt report you, i'm happy they did.
Then again, theres another reason why you should be banned, multiple IDs!

Goodnews. Lets see what other dudes can achieve. These ones have consistently made myGEJ look silly

They dont have to be told. Its only a tree that would be told it would be cut down tomorrow and still remain at its spot.
They have two options, fight back or leave

We are in deep shit.

Let everything that has breath, praise the Lord!

Rhino.5dm:
Ok. I comprehend your honesty here, but the bold is a little bit of exaggeration, NO?

not at all. The way both of them hugged attacked each other should tell you they've been missing each other.

Rhino.5dm:
So, you see nothing wrong with an old man in his early 70 derailing a thread? Go check who started attacking who between the duo. DedeFool is a notorious phedophile beyond redemption.

I am not taking sides with anybody. I understand both of them want each other and were just waiting for who'll make the first move. Thats not my wahala anyway, my own is that our parents have gone thru a lot to bring us to the level we all are now, the least we should do is respect them and keep them away from the thrashy insults here.
What Dede is saying about her parents are cutting thru me, and thats how what she's saying about his. I'm just pained.

Y'all are in our prayers. If you have a genuine need we can pull thru from this end, holla.

Rhino.5dm:
And so?

Beat me up, cuss me, insult me, spit on me, do whatever you want to do to me but please leave my parents out of it. Respect other parents too if you have one.

Ileke-IdI:
Did your mother tell you that I left her hanging by herself. No I'm still there

She's always first to involve parents thru insults. See how they ruined the thread

The last bombings didnt happen in the metropolis or the 'hotspot' as you call it. What happens when they decide to go that way again?

Assuming you were an adviser to him, what would you advice him to do in this situation?

Is dame Patience Kalabari?

From his tweets

Thats it. Whatever happens, people must talk.
If he allows them go for jumat and mosques are torched, wahala. He doesnt allow, wahala.
Na wisdom alone

Elrufai is one frustrated loudmouth seeking relevance in the system.

10% thithe
15% parents
5% charity
20% savings
and the remaining 50% I use as the month comes on.
The ones listed are basic, cannot be touched or altered