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Most people get married not because they love each other

They are big-mouthed people. The few ones with money are just loud. No be say na Dem get pass

IPDGP:
But them say all their houses na mansion, this picture may be from another state

Your opinion.
Often times the good partner dey always meet the wrong person.
Law of attraction na by God's grace

Sabadon:
you attract your type, be a good man you ll attract a good woman... tho not a general rule, but most often times than non

Abeg e be like you dey another page for this post oh..
I no see where them write graduate🙄

Talkisneeded:
A 22 year old graduate what

And some others will wait till you fall so they can rush to help like they're saviours. Later which they will use such act to control you

ademijuwonlo:
I agree with you 100% because I know most people are just trying to manage. However, some people would feign ignorance as if they don't know you, just because they don't want to help, even when they have the means while some would just be rude, just because they don't want to help.
It doesn't take anything away from people to be kind while letting someone know they can't help at this time.

I feel you deep down. Earphones have been of great help in this aspect. After God, protect your peace oh. Money no dey buy peace

sorosoke101:
I had the worst nagging experience of my life today. chai how can someone complain from 9:45 pm to 3:00 am.

What started this argument I don't even know I kept quite for 2 hrs only for me to burst out in anger because I was constantly reminded how I was a failure, how I stole my sister's 5k fifteen years ago, how I spent my own bursary allowance at the university 10 yrs ago, infact all sort of irrelevant accusations where being dug up, it was like a blast from the past and I almost ran mad, not because of the accusations but because of the way those words kept disturbing my peace.

This same nagging experience from the past made me buy earphones all the time, but today I couldn't find any. My ears heard a lot and I bursted out in anger and Spit out painful words, cos I was frustrated by the noise.

Now am regretting my actions, I should have kept my cool. The regret plus the nagging is suicidal. I just had to play a verse of the Quran (yasin) on my playlist even though am not a Muslim (found that quranic verse on my song list). Have you experienced such before? Whether from family or friends or total strangers

This guy lips dey give me one kind of feeling. Lwkm [center][/center] [center][/center] [center][/center][center][/center][center][/center][center][/center][center][/center]

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oI00I7Cf9O4?si=DLz6feSsFCIyo9wH

If you drink fanta before or after eating mango, you'll die.

eyesoflagos:
https://eyesoflagos.com/10-nigerian-myths-parents-still-use-to-scare-their-children/

I used to love that basketball game in the video CDs

Stephen0mozzy:
Luxury became when Video CD Players also came with gamepads and 99+ games hehe.

Graphics that was weird yet they blow our young minds 😁

Na that app wey no wan open be my own palava oh. The other ones na normal thing but na that my money wey dey app go ease the pressure from the other ones[.quote author=isholamedoo post=136661134]How una dey my people? .... So I stumbled on this tweet and I feel like to share it to the house for mutual opinion.

Which of the below fit make all things boring to you:

-Data don finish
- Transformer don blow
- Gas don finish
-Bank app no dey open[/quote]

Right 👍

obinna58:
Common person

Hahahahahaha
Funny.
Which one if I may ask please?

obinna58:
If na only me dey this world burna boy will have nothing doing in the celebrity industry

I have over 500-1000songs in my playlist but na only one of his songs entered the list

7k to 10k in early 2000s?
I was receiving same amount from 2017 to 2023. No foodstuffs, no accomodation. Just school fees paid

Veryniceguy01:
Apologies you feel that way. No be about validation. Na genuine question. I went to Uni in the early 2000s with average monthly pocket money if 7 to 10k.

The emphasis is on average. For an average student from an average family.

We wey dey collect 7k no foodstuffs weekly yet dem dey complain say we no sabi manage money. Still expect make we graduate easy & come out with first class because them done manage pay school fees.
Poor man pikin done see shege

BodePolScience:
Around 40k and 50k monthly should suffice and this should only be for his 100 and 200 level. By 300 level, the money should be deliberately reduced so as to enable the student get more sense and to prepare him for life after school.

Nowadays you could be lonely even in the presence of others

ogododo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/06/871000-die-from-loneliness-every-year-who/

And I dey find food to chop since yesterday.
It is well

ediko5:
This man said a lady called him a fool and a gay after he spent money on the lady without demanding for kna-ck and he asked his friend if he's actually foolish for doing that.

So is he really a fool?

@BigDicksoon wrote:



https://x.com/BigDicksoon/status/1937610454349881443?t=olI61JXOhRMR3110wN-kuA&s=19



45k food
20k extra
7k cab
30k dress
= 102,000k

Quite strategic

SlavaUkraini:
The South East now have a chance to produce a Vice President if Peter Obi will team up with Atiku Abubakar in the upcoming election....

Only that Alliance can defeat Jagaban

If Peter Obi contest alone, he will lose

If Atiku Abubakar contest alone, he will lose

When Atiku Abubakar is done with his Presidency, then Peter Obi can become president.

Just watch as Obidients will disagree with me on this..

Una dey try oh
Maybe na because I no get money but I no fit run am.

shibyc:
Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures.

I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.

Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument.

Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts eh, like I’m begging her.

She forgets one thing:
The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine and everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.

Now I’m realizing that, if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.

So now I’m asking you all:

Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially ?

I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking, but now I dey reason am twice.

What do you all think?

Me I dey do painting oh. I dey find work like this, check my signature

dre11:
https://punchng.com/anambra-directs-residents-to-repaint-houses/?amp

Or she was more like a boss
She was probably not even tripping about this guy

DyshApp:
Billionaire heiress, DJ Cuppy’s ex-boyfriend, Ryan Taylor throws shade at her as he shows off his daughter on Father’s Day.


He took to his Instagram page to celebrate being a father as he shared a photo of him and his mixed daughter.

Sharing the photo, he noted that he is solving the problem of racism by birthing mixed kids.

In reaction, one netizen commented that the child looked like DJ Cuppy, his ex girlfriend.

Ryan Taylor countered by noting that Cuppy couldn’t have created such a beautiful child.

His words …



https://www.instagram.com/p/DK61Y5kJZ5h/?igsh=dXdhdGppOXp1YmJj

But before you buy car, na guys wey get car dey give you lift make you no Waka from one hook-up to another under sun

Chilipepper:
Since I bought a car, I started finding it very hard to date a man who does not have a car - Anthonia Umerah reveals.



https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C3wdKMDRB/

Thank God say na natural nyash and natural bwess only wey I dey look. Everything else is invincible

DelilahMakinde:
Nigerian women please read about how we waste time and money trying to impress men. But men really don't give damn about these things

Butt enhancement surgeries

Let me let you in on a little secret a polygamist told me .
Your BBL , fat transfer, Mexican butt lifting operations we risk our lives for don't mean or rather have no meaning to a Nigerian man.

As long as they know it's not natural , it can never turn them on. In fact it's the opposite. Just like Offset said....it even starts to stink after a while.

Imagine a sister who got a big NY*S* but cannot kn**k well ....what's the value to most Nigeria men. Zero


The cost of your wig/hair

Most men don't want to know if your hair came from India, china or mars. They don't want to know the cost.
They do want you to look as natural as possible whatever you're wearing.

Some men don't even like wig or attachments at all...


Your nail fixing

Men want a clean woman. But they couldn't be bothered about the cost of your acrylic nails.

If your nails look nice or you use acrylic nails . Don't go overboard with scary designs, colors and shapes. Don't openly boast about how much you paid for them either. They couldn't be bothered.

Shaved or shaped eyebrows

If you have no eyebrows better not let him catch you before you put them on.
Men prefer a woman's eyebrows to be as natural as possible..
Obsessing over your eyebrow shape is just a complete waste of time.

The best way to end insecurity in Nigeria is for the leaders to call the sponsors of all these chaos to order. They know them. Asides that, no other method will work.

Celestialsword:
https://dailytrust.com/insecurity-state-police-no-longer-optional-tinubu-demands-constitutional-reforms/

My own na love oh.
I try am once, my mind touch ground. Since then I dey on my dey with my jay

IBenardoo:
Omo nah Bet9ja o
Mine wasn't once sha, there's this myth about hitting the green on your first try omo tried that shit a couple of time didn't favour me, sharp I drop am like hot Yam

With this your capital, you must risk something or continue whatever gave you that 500k

binary123:
Forex trading and betting are not business.pls I don't need such business ideas,
I cherish my money. I beg.

You dey cage and raise something that is meant to be free. Na so una dey cage and raise children till they become depressed, unhappy, introvert that can't even be independent
Free all the birds abeg

Zeion422:
I'm heart broken and very depressed over the death of my bird....for four years I've nutured and trained my bird. . I have these two left

One yeye struggling single mother one try bill me make I buy phone for her, I ask am if she fit live with me with her child make we grow as family, she say no. Na so me I Waka oh, she come dey vex.

Chilipepper:
Single men, what is the most ridiculous excuse a lady gave for not dating/marrying you?

No need to deploy army. Whoever send the herdsmen should simply tell them to withdraw. Stop wasting resources. Omo I hate this country

TimeManager:
https://punchng.com/special-forces-arrive-benue-to-tackle-insecurity/

Idiot man dey copy oyibo ways like say him fit run am for naija.
Nonsense and ingredients

Maxymilliano:
https://guardian.ng/news/nigeria/metro/nigerian-healthcare-worker-jailed-in-uk-for-kissing-vulnerable-patient/?fbclid=IwQ0xDSwK7zz9jbGNrArvPPGV4dG4DYWVtAjExAAEegbjEMPs2MSWSa-I9EJe09E78mkek_EEG_OHqW46FXis7JqcacFQujSoqWA4_aem_PqHxp-n6pajDL6ar9tR8EA#google_vignette

Life wey rich people dey live for here with so much money na normal basic life for that side. Naija no get level

immortalcrown:
This is a proof that money is not everything. Money can be made in Nigeria. But there are levels of comfort that money can never guarantee in Nigeria. Some poor people abroad are more comfortable than some rich people in Nigeria.

Exactly what the herdsmen and their sponsors wanted. Unfortunately, it doesn't stop here,na so them go dey encroach dey go until they occupy majority of benue. Destroy and conquer tactics

jmoore:
Benue links buses moving people out of yelewata Guma LG this night, this is our land, our very own land we are evacuating for outsiders to take over



https://www.facebook.com/100090401025967/posts/pfbid0Nd6NqABM8qMSM7csRbYSVTxPv4HqGzBaaJjnHnCLZLY99A6frtJXBbCNT3WLzy7dl/?app=fbl

Count the politicians, then count the suffering masses. Who plenty pass? Our eye never clear well, else we for sabi wetin to do for each region to stop all the nonsense for this country.

Newsgeek24:
https://news360ng.com/verydarkman-visits-benue-community-where-suspected-herdsmen-killed-over-200-video/