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Gifthappy:
OK o. Baby bump abi? U try

Malawian:
pm me sister, am am also an Ex Engineer

Gifthappy:
OK o.
Check out this MALAWIAN SIGNATURE:
People are more likely to assume you're arguing with them when you're actually just explaining why you're right.

IT'S COOL AIN'T IT?

OILSOUP YOU SEF NA HARD JOB... What a Sunday workout. Daalu nwanne, k'emesiaa mobu k'odi mgbeozo. God bless.

Gifthappy:
OILSOUP shebi you Don see answers upon answers... Your head Don cool now abi but... u be AMEBO o allow Malawi now make him no come dey shy now o

Gifthappy:
Malawi you make laugh.. I am Igbo Lady front and back. Onwere nsogbu di? I like you though or ARE YOU A GHOST LEMME KNOW OOO
Malawi you make laugh.. I am Igbo Lady front and back. Onwere nsogbu di? I like you though or ARE YOU A GHOST LEMME KNOW OOO

Gifthappy:
oga my husband is my husband and that which he toiled for and got for himself with the help of God with I as a witness and possibly a contributor no woman or man from his family will come dragging when I have his children to take of even with out children.
oga my husband is my husband and that which he toiled for and got for himself with the help of God with I as a witness and possibly a contributor no woman or man from his family will come dragging when I have his children to take care of even with out children.
Secondly, any issue concerning him and his sisters over their father's belonging say considered their own family matter which I may not directly have a say in but can privately advise my husband.
b]Even the divorced given a share depends on what she meets after her return otherwise if there's nothing left unshared she can be supported willingly. Also going to drag anything with a woman in her husbands house is utterly out of questions. What for? And where was the person when those things were being gotten? Imagine some thieves who hate to visit North but when their kinsmen returns from a journey from the north they are the first to line up in his as early as 6a.m to collect gift of beans, onion, kuli kuli etc as if you owe them. Also when death occurs they want to inherit the wealth he made from a foreign land neglecting his children.
OILSOUP I KNOW DAMN TOO WELL WHAT AM TALKING ABOUT OK? AM NOT JUST BLABBING FOR ARGUMENT SAKES.... I have walked through this way ok? But guess what? We won!
#fuckAllTheVulturesWaitingToFeastOnIheritancesWithoutMakingEffortToAchieveTheirs#. [/b]
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Gifthappy
No qualms but...
Glory to God. Actually this October marks exact 12years of Dad's demise and his soul is sure resting in peace because there's no battle of who owns this or that... Thanks to my big brother for his fatherly role who believes in giving everyone the best and mostly empowering we the female children. He ain't greedy and I need no land but stores and a house for rental purposes is not bad for the girls even businesses for her to manage. All of us four siblings are best in supporting each other and that's the more reason our mama is still alive and smiling.
All I am saying is that Igbo male folks should be more considerate to their daughters with regards to distribution of things inherited. . Your sister may be the one to look after your children tomorrow when you are no more much better than your brother because women naturally thinks of home and families and cared so much of their own more than men so don't hurt your sisters because of things money can buy. No one knows tomorrow. K' odiri anyi n'mma isie.

Gifthappy:
Don't mind that one he is a lazy cow. With such mentality I pity his sisters. That's why some Igbo women who are frustrated in marriage fears to seek divorce and go back home rather she remains, suffer abuse and eventually die in the process because if she returns home the tigers and lions called men and so called heirs will mock and frustrate them even further for the fear that she might partake as gift for her upkeep from that which is left for them to share. Greedy people killing themselves over inheritances they did the work for.. Please follow and take a good look at the thread you'll their likes talking trash

Malawian:

If i catch you enh, i will impregnate you and nothing will happen.

Gifthappy:
It doesn't matter if from Kebbi. This is Nigeria and one can live anywhere he or she wishes. If I like I move to Chad or Washington DC and will still say am Igbo because that's my Origin. Although, I cannot change where I come from but I can choose where I wanna be and belong. Truth is always bitter.

Gifthappy:
abegi Malawian abi Italian go o.

TonyeBarcanista:
This is a welcome development




Nigeria Judicial system is miserable. Case of 1981 is decided in 2016, a whopping 35years after.

Gadamit

TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:13pm On Oct 08

In Ijawland women inherit

Gifthappy:
Thank you Kishimi tell them. That's why am so not marrying an Igbo even though am an Igbo lady as most them are so idiotic most especially those of them that has never crossed Niger bridge in their lives before. Imagine how their male fight over inheritance and against themselves but when it comes to taking care of their deceased brother's orphans and wives they are zero. Only very few of them take such great responsibility. Again there females are the ones who bothers to maintain the so called property they fight over or taking care of their widowed mother more the yeye sons who are after who to kill over a plot of land. Insha Allah my children will not have one stupid igbo uncle to drag properties with them.

Malawian:
My dad gave them this "gift" himself, he directed me on what to assign to each of us, after which he personally took it to his lawyer to do the needful. I have two elder ones so i am in no position to make decisions all by myself.

grossintel:
Of course am referring to my properties, not ancestral lands even me self won't drag lands with them it's an easy route to death. But any property I worked hard to acquire if she's my only child and her mother is late no one dares drag that with her.

Malawian:
I see the distinction now between personally acquired property and ancestral lands. It makes a bit of sense sha and my sisters only got from the properties my dad built. Funny thing, all my dad has in the village is yet to be discussed upon. I guess battle line will be drawn soon.

grossintel:
If my only child is a girl child, any of my brothers or uncles that drag properties with her is dead! I will surely put that on my will. And will enforce it from anywhere I am.

Malawian:
It's all the same thing, the issue here being that the woman's dad did not give here a "gift" in his will?

Apart from all that, how do you feel good about yourself if you let your sisters fend for themselves without a strong foothold, while you as a man balances to chop inheritance money?

Malawian:
My younger sisters inherited o. I drafted my dads will myself before it was taken to the lawyers. I am seriously surprised to learn that there is even a native law against female inheritance. It certainly isnt an igbo wide thing cos i remember when our kindred sold a land belonging to our late great grand mother,and the proceeds shared, so how did my great grand mother come into such large track of land?

nairaimporter:
Sir, after your death, your daughter can go to court and demand for a share of you properties and she will get it.

That is the consequence of a supreme Court judge.

giftedben:
I am not against any girl child from partaken in her fathers properties but it must be done with precautions. A girl child should only benefit from the properties if she is not yet married. A girl child can only partake in the properties if her mother only gave birth to girls. Ever since Nigerian courts gave this judgements there are many scenarios were a girl child is been oppressed by her husbands to sell her fathers properties even without the knowledge of the boy child. Later on the husband flees and dumps the girl child. There are igbo laws even the Nigerian Constitution can not touch and this is one of them. For those of you who think the girl child is not respected in igbo land I pity you, harm her and see if her Umu Nna will let you go scout free.

foladara777:
Mr. Oilsoup! (Whatever that means)... So u are saying d zoo and itz inmates are d ones drawing your attention to d backwardness of ur tradition?? Datz pathetic... Ur culture was supposedly more enlighten now, u guys should be able to fix these issues yourselves and not rely on the wisdom of d people from d zoo... I mean datz just common sense. Right?

wizzakosh:
it is not new, even when your father finds it difficult to folk. Your mother, you will scream yoruba. If your brother sleeps with your wife, still shout yoruba cos your life is incomplete without mentioning yoruba. Well can't blame you much, I blame your bakward ancestors.

foladara777:
Supreme?? I laugh in tongues!! So supreme that u need a judgment of the Supreme Court to tell u dat a particular custom is outdated and yet you are not ready to admit it.... Supreme indeed.

foladara777:
It is obvious from ur comments that you are pained... Wish I could feel your pain?? Well I don't, buh I do understand it. U are embarrassed by the fact that people of other tribes are condemning your traditions and exposing it as backward and retrogressive... Well, u are d one defending your traditions hopelessly, so I guess it actually sucks to be Igbo instead.

omonnakoda:
That is quite easy. You have none

You are JEWS remember?

foladara777:
God!! You are slow!!... If d Supreme Court makes a judgment against that tradition, u won't see me defending it... That's the difference between both of us.

omonnakoda:
It is just pest control. A farmer has to protect his produce from vermin

omonnakoda:
This is what is meant by the TRIBAL mentality .A people who only lived in hamlets until the white man came and gifted them baby hats. There is no record of any towns in which strangers lived in Igbo land before colonialism(They would have been eaten!) so no surprises . Every thing is UmuAkpu,Umu this and Umu that. That is the mindset