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I woke up this afternoon and found myself singing this song:
Let the Lord's name be glorified
Let the Lord's name be glorified
Let the Lord's name be glorified
Be glorified forever more.

I have never heard this song before.

Totally confused, can anyone help?

IamLEGEND1:
Sister for where?
E better make I die single,miserable & alone than have anything to do with fucktàrds like that gírl..

Ignorant slüt.

Bro, take it easy abeg.
Why are you vexing

It's something I had really wished to do back then, having seen the way and manner my hussy spends large amount of money without explanation or project but will rather try forcing me to empty all my salary to him or explain what I used the money for, has made me swear never to try that shi ..t. #teamgoodwifeturnstubbornwife.

Victorakats:
A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.' 
-Proverbs 14:1 NLT

God in his infinite wisdom created a woman to play a vital, significant, and extremely important role in the life of her husband, her home, her children, and the society at large. 
Some wives, with their two hands, destroy their marriages and homes only to run to pastors and priests for endless vigils and prayers. When they go to a counselor, they don't see themselves; they don't want to be told what they've done wrong, they just want to blame their husbands for everything.



For some of these ungodly women, there is no moment of peace in the home. In fact, there are women who naturally love commotion and so all the husband gets are insults and provocative utterances. These women don't believe they have to feed, nurture, and groom their man. 


Some have devised ways of manipulating their husbands with sex; yes, I have seen and heard women tell others to demand money before sex. And I always ask; in your own home? You are nothing but a prostitute in your home, yes, a married prostitute. A male fan once called me telling me how he's found himself with another woman. This man's wife denied him sex for three months insisting he buy a brand new SUV when the last one he bought was just two years old. This is the problem with women who keep a lot of friends with no vision, all they do is compete for material things. Well, she got what she deserved as the man found himself in the arms of another. If you are a woman like this, you are a manipulator, a thief, and a prostitute.


Some have invited strange friends and relatives and have allowed them to run their marriages and destroy their own homes. Who told you that your mother who ruled your father's house has to come and rules your own husband's house? Who told you that your sisters have to leave their husbands' houses to come run yours? Who told you that your ungodly friends have right over your marriage, telling you the way you treat your husband and domestic staff? Yes, who told you that your pastor has the right to eat what your husband does not eat from you? You won't cook well for your husband, in fact, your maid does his cooking and laundry, but you dedicate time to cook for your pastor and even do his laundry. You are shameless! You are destroying your own home.

Its the duty of the woman to keep her home but a situation where a man changes after marriage, become bossy and abusive, takes the woman 'S humility for granted, above all brag's of the woman being his property of which he can do/deal with anyhow and takes decisions on his own. Do you think the woman will have the patience to exhibit the characters of the famous virtuous woman /wife?

Please so interested in this topic, my 6years old daughter came back from school and I gave her some snacks I had kept for her. In the midst of her jumping and celebrating she said "mummy let me tell you something, somebody wrote in the school toilet t.o.t.o is good for boys and girls. " that she and her friend ran outside after reading it. To say I was shocked is an understatement .

Why are the young people of this generation feeling lazy to read.
Does it mean people don't read novels or story books again? No wonder Nigeria is producing half baked graduates.

It's such a pity that the OP and most of those commenting here do not know the difference between police uniform and civil defence uniform . That shows the level of illiteracy in country

Omotakins:
My son(almost 4yrs) is in the reception class. He doesn't respond to teachings at school, doesn't talk or play. This is the exact opposite at home. Plays very well at home, sings and talks about all he's taught in the school. He responds very well to the teachings of his home teacher. His teacher in school is saying he will repeat class 'cos there is nothing to show he's learnt things. What do I do? Teachers, educators and Co, ur help is needed pls.

Pls change him from that school to another and also try to lovingly teach him the one you can at home .
My daughter was exactly like that some years ago, I change her to another school within a month she became different . Even though the fee is high, I feel her intelligence is worth it. I also come to realise that she is a gifted child as she takes first in middle term exam, terminal exam and always the best in her section for the past 4 yrs . Buy the necessary textbooks and more importantly don't fail to pray for the child. Cheers

kekakuz:
[size=40pt]. o shut the burp up.
o yes I hate Rinaldo. am a Dog person not a cat
Rinaldo is a selfish self-centered sick camera hugger.
why the noise you only won the euros not the world cup
he act like actually care . you can never be the best
pelle maradonna and messi. case closed go and hug the plane's propeller[/size]

What's this one saying, did you see any name like RINALDO in Portugal team.

You see yourself?

mcversatile:
and if i may ask.... Whats so special about ur english name?? And when he finds out u call it stalking.... Na so them they stalk??
All this kiddults sef...... Mtshww

How come MIDDLE NAME turn to ENGLISH NAME. how do you read and pass exam

butanep:
Good morning Nairalanders.

I know this forum has been providing vital solutions to problems from time immemorial hence the need to pour-out my worries on this forum to get solutions become inevitable.

I was preparing for the final between Portugal and France yesterday when my girlfriend called me she will be coming, that I should be at home by 5pm. I was like why today of all day now! I told her I won't be around that I will be going to my parents place that evening. She began to act cold via the phone and later told me she will come let's go together. I haven't even seen your parents one on one she said... I was like which kind stubborn babe is this... I replied let's see about it but it will be better we make it another day. Don't worry today is the perfect day she said and cut the calls.

I tried calling no answer. This babe has come again because she don't like hearing football. We have had issues on this football matter severally but I told her she can't dictate what I will do or not, that I started watching football before I meet her. She first stop me from playing my soccer game when she is around. my friend have to call me when coming during the weekend to play games if she is around or not. I had to stop doing it when she is around to avoid problems.


Fast-forward... She came few minutes to 5pm. She was looking superb, probably to impress my parents. The desire for romance and sex came but I have to rebuked it because if it start, then my match is cancelled. How do I tell her I ve changed my mind from seeing my parents to watching football she never like or want to hear when she is around. We talk and talk till about few minutes to 8. She observed I wasn't coming closer to her as usual. She was like, a you expecting another woman. I smiled...

Then I busted it. Baby lets go and watch match. This one is very interesting. It's a final match. Ohhh match again. Aren't you going to your parents place again? I said my mum called to tell me she won't be around. She became relaxed. Please cancel the match... I want to cook something, you need to assist me. I was like baby am not hungry. I ve eaten. I am watching my food intake this period. She said that's my own, she wants to cook and I should be with her. The hatred against her started again. I said if you don't want to follow me to watch the match, eat your food alone. You can't stop me this time. Even my mother can't stop me from watching this final.

I left the kitchen. I called a friend to reserve a seat for me. She was frowning bitterly . I have made up my mind already. Few minutes after Ronaldo was brough -down, I received a text from her. " Dear so your match is more important than me" you can forgo me just because of match you can still watch later...it's a pity you don't love me. All I was thinking is how Ronaldo will come back again. I didn't give the message a second thought.


After the match. I was so happy Portugal won after the heat from France. That is when I read her message again. I quickly ran home. It was almost 11:30pm. She has slept. I send her a romantic message and told her am sorry about it but she should try to let me enjoy my football.

She woke up this morning. She was still frowning that I abandoned her for common football. I try to make her understand how important and interesting the match is to me. She left in anger and said I should either choose my football or her. That when I have made up my mind, I should let her know.


Though decision for me to make. I am not scared of loosing her anyway but I don't want us to break-up just like that... I'm not ready to drop sports again because of her. I told myself the sacrifices is too much, maybe I have to let her go... I have made up my mind not to call her.


Nairalanders what do you think on this issue? Matured advised only...

When in relationship, we need to respect each others hobby. And never try to control your partner. When I new got married, I did realised how my husband loves football and sometimes even tries to discuss it with me even with my lack of interest. To avoid problems I had to force myself to be interested in it because I can't stop him. I so much love reading and listening to news, for my husband to try stopping me is a waste of time because it won't be possible. Tell her that's your hobby and let her make the choice. If you pretend now just to please her, how long do you think you will keep pretending, problems will certainly come later. Just like you can't stop her from doing what she really likes.

He should restore the security very fast. Calabar was the most peaceful state in Nigeria but today its something else. Now it is broad daylight coordinated robbery at different places at the same time. So scared to even leave the house.

Kakamorufu:
take her to a psychologist asap b4 tins get outta hands

Thanks I'll do that

aaronson:
I'm sorry but your mum Is hallucinating and it was borne out of her past ugly experiences, bottled up emotions, anxiety, depression.

Her mind can no longer condone the random thoughts that flashes through her mind and repressive thoughts over time.

The part of the brain for this is the Cerebrum context, its for deep thought and consciousness.

You mum needs a professional to restore her mind back to equilibrium functioning. Take her to see a psychologist, counsellor or a psychatric doctor. They know what to do. Meantime, The best antitode to her mild hallucination is giving her anti-depressant drugs to calm her nerves. And also also get her sleep enhancers drugs NOT Tylenol.

Make her switch environment often and take her places new, QUIT ANYTHING RELIGION with her not ever going to church, it would bring back old ugly memories. Make her watch comedy movies to laugh or you often joke with her.

My whole epistle in one sentence is - "Always engage her mind to be busy" otherwise, she would get all up in herself trying to put pieces of puzzle together that don't exist.

Trust me she would be fine as you try those aforementioned therapy.

I actually know its hallucination, I told her that thinking is affecting her but she wouldn't agree and insist those people she attacks look for her trouble. I do talk her into going to church as she stopped attending church about 5yrs ago, I think I will stop bothering her about that. She is hypertensive, diabetic and asthmatic I spend nothing less than 15k for drugs every month with my meager pay with this included hmmmmmmm only God will help me.

Sometimes 2008 mum who attends The Ap.....c church was accused of witch craft ( her friend who is in the same line of business with her was diagnosed of stomach ulcer with so much pains) during one of their fasting service, prophecy was said through one of the church members who said the woman's pain is caused by her best friend whom they do business together. That she conspired with the woman's In-laws to bewitch her. The whole church rose against mum that she is the one bewitching the woman. Right from that day, mum has been crying day and night. Though she was ridiculed sometimes. I have always tried my best to encourage her but all to no avail. 2yrs ago I noticed she was virtually angry with everyone that comes her way both children and adult, young and old.
The greatest fear I have now is that she is saying and behaving abnormally eg any where or time people gather to talk, she will go and abuse them that they are talking about her, if people laugh even inside their houses she will still abuse them, she also complains about the young boys and girls that they do hide to snap her picture when she is dressing inside the house and be watching it and downloading among themselves. 2 days ago she woke up 12midnight crying and praying in her room. Later she started moving up and down in the house, I was so scared as she couldn't tell me anything, I thought she wanted to kill herself, I couldn't sleep throughout. The next day one of my neighbours complained that mum promised to pour his younger brother acid. When I asked her, she said they were watching and monitoring her through their phone. How? She said they are using a phone that is like satellite, that ones someone is with that phone, they can monitor actions even from a far distant. I tried to let her know there's nothing like that but she wouldn't listen. Moreover where this boy's were sitting is far from my house. When I tried to let her know that what is doing is wrong, she even accused me of going to download her nude pictures from somebody she abused meanwhile I only went there to plead the woman.

Reasons for fear:
1- She takes care of my children including my baby of 2 months
2- I'm afraid she might commit suicide(she ones told me she had sometimes planned taking her life)
3- I'm suspecting she is having a psychological or mental issue.

How Do I talk to her to free herself from this thinking, how do I talk her into seeking medical help and where do I even get the medical help. I am her only hope as siblings have no job and are young, uncles and aunties are running away from her because of the stigma, dad is late. Av completed official documents of transfer to join my husband in another state which means she'll be alone. Already she is not in terms with almost everyone in the compound.

Pardon my long write-up please . Positive contributions please.

The guy is heavily loaded. Who will not complain in this harsh economy. It is called survival of the fittest. If he was poor will they struggle him? Mtcheeew.

Gud

Drama unfolding

Freedom at last .

All this funky pastors and their PASTORPRENEURSHIP business. Chris Okotie married 3 times yet it was not working out he still divorced all, I know he still some bed warmers. His name sake is equally warming up to be like him. If their marriages don't stand the test of time, how can they counsel /advise me when I run to them to help marriage.

BTW it is better to divorce , live and create your own happiness than to live in continuous regret all through your life. Though uneasy lies the head that wears the crown.
Na the woman wear shoe and she know where the shoe de bite her, so respect her wish

Yomieluv:
My newly born baby can suck all day. As in non stop.

Wife said we get baby food to augment breast milk, but my doctor said no baby formula now,till at least three month.
Am confused. I need suggestions, and advice on what to do.
My boy is just 13days old.

Bros nothing to worry, my baby is a month old, the same thing happened to me, in fact I actually bought baby food due to frustration as baby will suck all thru the night. What I did is to eat more of hot rice and pepper soup. This makes the breast produce more milk for the baby. Now he has reduce the feeding by himself. I think it can work for her too. Try and thank me later.

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Madam ooooooooo most you paint on uniform? That's not the ethics of the job.

DEAFandDUMB:
Nice job from the NPF..[b][/b]process him and charge him to court as soon as possible so as to serve as deterrent to others..

Hmmm sister its prosecute not process

Only those in the war front understand what it means to be in a war front

tdayof:
Vroom I don't agree with this.

Why? or how?

tdayof:
Some of your points are not valid.
Nigerian police officers have monthly "targets" to reach. you don't just conclude like this a normal habit by every DPO. Your friend and his DPO keep doing illegal shiit who cares if they have made any amount ? There is monitoring department to handle such matters.

Nigerian police patrol teams maintain their "pick ups" Every station have a particular amount being kept aside for maintenance . The issue is individual officers turning patrol cars into personal use.

Nigerian police buy their own uniform and shoes: The Nigerian police has a department that issue uniforms but you have to pay. Blame the officers that go out to buy their own kits and moreover i have seen posts on Quora on how US police buy their kits and even some additional equipment.

Your points are only valid only because the Nigerian Police cannot enforce strict laws on her personnel thoroughly.


These are the real officers. I consider those ones as touts in uniform.

Target: so many DPO'S ask for target most times weekly. It it either you comply or be ready to work in the worse beats that will make you regret in life. Though few who are educated or wish to maintain their integrity always reject and are ready to suffer.

Don't be deceived once you are posted to patrol team, the fuelling, maintenance and repair of the patrol van is in your hands. Do you want them to use their meager salary for it. If it's you will you do it? Be sincere.

Uniform: there is money budgeted for uniform, socks, etc but once the money is approved, it develops wings and fly away. The fake uniforms are shared, wear it for 2-3months it gets worn out (that's why you see some and say they are dirty) but if you value neatness and quality you use your money to buy. Sometimes you are given socks or polish which is about #100 they will later submit report of giving you everything from head to toe. If you are not given won't you buy and use?

The funniest thing is that when you are caught collecting illegal money which a percentage is to be given to big man he will deny you totally, in fact you carry your cross.
Investigate well before arguing. So many abnormally in the system that needs to be corrected. The irony of all is that the promoted and recruited come to inherit and the process continues.

Just passing ooooo! But I will COMMENT my RESERVE

Time will unveil the truth

If your story is true then it's one of the bad side of life you need to face. But time will tell

Congrats

fragilebeing:
Summary: I got to know about a consulting firm here in Lagos and without second thought, I decided to start doing freelancing with them, reason being that it will be a great opportunity for me to put into use what I learnt in school. The freelancing agreement was not without a baggage that I will get absorbed into the system once there is any chance.

Fast forward, recently, the company underwent some expansion and restructuring and I was properly interviewed for a position that fits my ability and profile. While at this, I was rated by the other higher personnel to be very okay in terms of performance as I not only deliver on time, but also assist in fixing some office computer systems that had software problems which was not part of the job prescription anyway.

Problem: It all started when we asked to do presentation on some topics. In my case, I concentrated on identifying problems and suggesting possible solutions to them, surprisingly, the feedback I got was that I wasn't right. I immediately asked for another time to re-present it and my request was granted. Now, even before the time for presentation, I did a pre-presentation to all my colleagues and they say that it was ok, but surprisingly when they were asked to air their views on my performance after the presentation proper and I was given 70/100%, only one of them gave a positive comment, the rest said almost negative stuffs concerning my performance.

The climax was when the Boss asked me to go back to school as I don't know anything.

These got much better part of me and the thought of coming to work is no longer appealing.
I can't even think straight anymore...
Staying amidst of people is no longer fascinating let alone being among colleagues in the office.
I feel like it would have been better if I never existed in the first place.

Some of them laughing to my face consistently is bullying the crap out of me.

Please how can I overcome this?

Please don't mind my punctuation... I can't think straight right now.

Bro the best antidote for this is to laugh, yes laugh it out. Whatever they do or say just keep smiling and laughing out each time, I tell you they will be confused. But when you get angry or show expressions of anger they will be happy to bully you more. Do this and thank me later.