thewife306:
Before anyone would ask if he wasn't like this before marriage. No he wasn't. He never cautioned me harshly in private not to talk of in public.
When we were newly married he shouts at me in his younger brother's presence. (Why will they give me respect)
He did it in the presence of our plumber cos I told him the prices of the items were expensive.
Then our househelp. He does it so often that I begin to wonder what point he was trying to prove. To the extent that the lady started losing respect for me and giving me attitude anytime I caution her. That he even told her not to do what I asked her to do.
Then the most recent was in church. He was struggling wit our toddler that he fell and I asked him to leave him. He just started shouting and everyone was looking.
I really am not happy. And unknown to him, this is reducing my love for him. Cos i cant love someone dat disrespects me. I use to love telling people how wonderful he is but these days I cant. It's affecting my relationship with him.
I'm considering embarrassing him back the next time he does it so he knows how it hurts cos he doesn't see anything wrong with it and never apologize. He says he doesn't like hiding his feelings. I ask "even when your words hurt your spouse".
I'm worried cos we might be travelling soon and if he embarrases me in front of family members i might lose my temper.
I need mature advises here pls. As i do not want to involve 3rd party.

The first time I went to my husband's village for introduction to his family, my husband's step mother refused to give him food meanwhile there was food in the house. My husband just came in with anger and started shouting that I don't have the qualities of a good housewife, when I asked what was the problem he said he was hungry and I as his so called wife was suppose to prepare him food. I was surprise cos its a polygamous family house and that's my 1st day of stepping in there, how do I know when to reach boundary and stop or if they've accepted me. I just kept quiet..

Fast forward to 3 months later, in the public with so many people around if you see the way my husband shouted at me like thunder just because he was angry (which was no fault of mine) , hmmmm I returned the shouting/disgrace back with the same speed it came. Hussy was so surpised cos I had always played the good woman. Till date he hasn't tried the shiiit again.

My younger brother was born with 2 teeth, mum said people trooped to the hospital to see the baby. He is still alive living a normal life.

gameboy727:
At least their love's still strong. Nothing beats that. HBD to him

because you saw the outward show. Go in and find out and still come n tell us the same thing

pyyxxaro:
Is this Denrele normal @all

I think he is normal compared to that woman on white

Icecomrade:

I don't feel anything when a police dies in which ever circumstance.

Somehow I don't LIKE them, somehow, I don't mind whatever happens to them,

Good or BAD.

Why would I wish them RIP.

Will your RIP bring him back to life. Oh you SAINT clap for yourself

tellwisdom:
RIP fine geh. Chai

Did you go to school or how did you pass your exams?

adaksbullet:
Funny tin his that am date these gilr wen we are on sch she as a big earth she his funny and his alway go jejely


Enjoyed ur marrage deer

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If truely she dated you( I know its a lie) then she try well well because this your English and spelling is a big disgrace
In fact you just murdered ENGLISH LANGUAGE.

ConcNiggress56:
i am decent and hardworking. i don't wear provocative outfits although i stay classy. this my father's agemate has been on my neck for some time now just to go down with me. i keep telling him NO and all but he won't bulge a bit. he's got a wife and kids.. i don't wanna ruin his home neither do i want to put my own future in jeopardy by sleeping with him..

however, jobs are very scarce in this country and i don't wanna lose this 6-figure paying job cos he keeps threatening to lay me off if i don't do his bidding.. what do i do?? please advice!!


mods.. i will appreciate if you can push this to fp... i am so confused right now... i need people's opinion.


cc lalasticlala, seun

Very simple dear, I once had the same issue, my boss disturbed me constantly and someone gave me an idea which worked like magic.

One of this days, my boss confronted me in a tight corner and was sure of doing it. This is my magic:

Sir , you know I love you so much but I am being restricted by the covenant I made with my hussy to be. That we made blood COVENANT and swear that if I had s...x with him I will run mad while the man will die instantly. So I don't want him to die and live his family. The man was afraid and that was the end of my stress

[quote author=babyfaceafrica post=50230688]lolz...she didn't do it well,she just humilated her husband in the media..which is bad..there are appropriate avenues that such isssues could be channeled...now PDP and wailers are having a filled day with the statement...no matter the intention,,,,if the medium is bad ,the message is lost.It resembles the suspended UnILaG guy who ranted on Facebook,humilating the school and VC....what came out of it nothig!!!!!...what she said is not new and not suprsising,some people haved actually said it that Buharis regime has been higacked by people who did not sweat on it,Tiubu and Mr frank touched that issue briefly....but they handled it better...she just made a mess of her husband..and I am not a party to that!!![/quote

I Concord your words, she successfully humiliated her hussy in the public. What happens to talking about it to him in the "other" room than airing it in public for the whole world to hear. Buhari too never responded well, this is to show the world that there is no peace in the family. I'm just thinking of the embarassment their children are going true.

Iseoluwani:
Which kin country be this?

Accused of stealing 460k, and yet told to pay 500k, if she has the 500k, will she steal ni.


This our judges are too slack. Educated illiterates

She need not pay the money unless she jumps bail. There are other bail conditions to be made which the op did not state like surety, payment of tax, etc .

Learn to respect elders always no matter what. Google it and be informed. Thanks

PrettyCrystal:
see more photos here >>> http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/10/brides-makeup-on-her-wedding-day-sparks.html

This girls try pass her jare

[quote author=taiiremide post=49849981]

Believe me, am not cold. I'll never take her back. I just want my kids [/quote
Never say never

She is a learner , check out this babes

Gud one

lalasticlala:



https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel_Peter


Happy birthday Samuel Peter.

I'm waiting for Nairaland age detectors to come and say their thing..

You did not write that he is a Policeman /traffic warden

The story is drama in a church. But the pics are all showing a road side at the background. You should have cook the lie well. I don't believe you either

I'm in love with those dimples. Congratulations

donbenedict:
lol well he didn't kill her.. if all criminals where given life sentences den Nigerian prisons won't be enough to contain them. The Government sees criminals as a way of getting revenue. I asked a lawyer friend of mine and he told me every bail money being decided in court are remitted to the government. I was like, no wonder these people like bail so much


U will be surprised Dat just after one or two years in prison, he may be granted bail.

BRO bail is free in court

dapotemi:
There is something seriously wrong with NOUN, i don't just get it..I checked my result now and i have 5 As and one F...Had to quickly check the exam question paper again. That paper was my best exam, TMA was 28 and i answered ALL the four questions...I doubt if this guys really grade this script?

Dear same here. I wrote e-exam calculated my scores and got A. I don't know how noun scored me B. The one I wrote the previous semester and scored B. I even recorded it down only for me to see C. can't just understand what's going on.

dainformant:
Enugu stood still as Nkeoma Ihediwa, popularly known as "son of major 1", tied the knot traditionally to his heartthrob in style on 23rd of July 2016... Mr Ihediwa also presented Range Rover vehicle to his lady Brenda Maduekwe to mark her birthday/his together. He was also given a chieftaincy title by the Igwe of his community on that same day..

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/08/man-surprises-his-new-wife-with-range.html

Unam okuk. Ibot owo ifang ke ada ayene okuk emi ke mong buhari emi

DCTrendy:


I disagree with the last statement. Our family doctor is a good one n run his hospital well. He gave me option to come in or not into the birthing room. And I wanted to get in and watch live, but before I could return from home(went to pick something), they baby arrived.

After watching, the psychological effect won't allow you enter the "abunna" for a long time but it will make you have more love and respect for your wife.

Ask those who have entered before

hemartins:
Op, this not new. Most of the food items we eat are processed in the worst hygienic conditions.

From meats been washed in dirty water, flour been molded with sweat driping from the chef's fore head to edible fruits been washed in rivers that serves as a channel to the latrine of a nearby toilet and many more.

Na God dey save person

Don't make me vomit oooo. Your very correct

Stark22:
I don't know where to begin but post this with a sad heart.
Before I started my course, I had this feeling that I wasn't meant to be in that department. I was encouraged by friends and family members to continue that I'll have interest later on. My results kept on getting bad but instead of it motivating me to work harder, it changed me entirely and I am doubting myself cos I know how good I was compared to what I keep seeing on my results.

Does fate really prevent progress or what?

300 level sitting on 1.1 something and I don't expect it to improve cos I think my mindset is really affecting it; meaning no matter the amount of reading I do, it won't really work.


I thought a lot of guys and they're doing pretty well, don't know what's wrong.

it's appalling when people who look up to you are doing better than you.

What if I switched departments back then? I believe things wouldn't have gotten to this stage.

I just need counselling from you guys.

it's really serious and I'm sad.

Even people who used me to brag back then would be shocked to find out about my current situation.

My dear I want to use myself as a case study.
I attended one of the federal universities to study Accounting (my choice from secondary school). At the end of 5years of study, I realized I had so many missing scripts and resits. These are courses I had passed. I tried meeting the lecturers for correction but the more I try, the more I discovered other missing scripts.

I was asked to pay 250k for 3rd class. I paid but it did not work out. A pastor introduced me to buy certificate from 'genuine ' source after all the arrangements, the thought of the future if caught brought fear to me. Another exam officer said he is incharged I should pay 200k for 3rd class. My friends, colleagues and hussy advised me to pay get the result and do pgd.

In all this, I know my intellectual capacity and level of intelligence then why should I move about with 3rd class. After 10 years(5yrs for schooling and 5yrs to sought out result, I decided to start afresh though no one stood by me. On the day of making this decision, I almost cried my life out but I took the bold step. Today I am almost graduating with a 1st class result from the same department no soughting, no payment . I'm always praying God to help me achieve that.


DEAR OP IT IS NOT HOW FAST BUT HOW WELL.

munezo:


You can not write more than 24 credit load per semester. So write the 8 courses (23 credit) if you can, then for next 4 semesters, add the four you missed one per semester. Remember, it is not how far but how well and good.

All the best

Thank you so much. I appreciate your advice

Hello house! PLEASE I NEED SOMEONE TO HELP ME OUT.

1st semester I had 9 courses but wrote 5 (due to Pregie and delvry.)

This semester I have 8 courses with 23 credit units.

I wanted to write all at the same time but someone said its only if my present semester credit unit will allow me .

BASED ON WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN ABOVE, CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT?

5minsmadness:


For Papa?
So you haven't been hearing of all those men who lost their lives in hotel during active service?

Those ones go for illegal duty and die in the process. This one na legal duty.

Dear op that man will be worse than what you are seeing after marriage. Never believe he will change, its inborn. Talking from experience

Remember
A BROKEN ENGAGEMENT IS BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE.

Hmmmmmmm Kim Kardashian you have really contaminated the African culture with your breaking of the internet .

Female Genital mutilation. I hate it so much. I never knew I was circumcised until my husband (we were dating then) told me, in fact I argued until I confirmed from mum.
The annoying part is the excuse given for it.

Na eye service. Despite all the warning

Greatzeus:
Carelessness on the part of the manufacturer. And nobody should talk about sueing them cos all you have is your word no evidence, as long as the product has been opened.

Once saw 2 butter mint sweets inside a sealed bottle of sprite. I drank the sprite and licked the sweet . That means na money I miss soooo

I once bought bobo star for my 3 years old daughter, my instinct told me to taste it, to my greatest surprise it was sour and smelling.

Since then, I make it a point of duty to taste whatever my children want to eat even water.