MrKings1:
My guy, if u truly love her, u shouldn't allow common football to bring issue btw u and ur bae.

just tell her what she needs to understand.
using my self as example..........most times i miss some important match cos of same issue. i just hv to be checking highlights and score update. just to pleas her.

Dab2mydick:
that girl is an angel... I hate football like kilode, I rather have the whole time in the world for the one I love, than watch the most important match in the world...

Them go pay me? I fit even use fuel power up my generator (wasting of money) but what do I get at the end

Nothing!

And my bank account remains as I left it, while each players gets the dough (win or no win)

No! I cannot fit never to doning it lol.... Mba!

Valprof:
i hate guys dat dnt love ftball......most of them dy burst nyash

mizzbouqui:

Actually she can't change you from being who you are, she will endure if she loves you there are somethings one do for love but let her know its not that you are choosing the game over her that its just one of the things that makes you happy

butanep:
Good morning Nairalanders.

I know this forum has been providing vital solutions to problems from time immemorial hence the need to pour-out my worries on this forum to get solutions become inevitable.

I was preparing for the final between Portugal and France yesterday when my girlfriend called me she will be coming, that I should be at home by 5pm. I was like why today of all day now! I told her I won't be around that I will be going to my parents place that evening. She began to act cold via the phone and later told me she will come let's go together. I haven't even seen your parents one on one she said... I was like which kind stubborn babe is this... I replied let's see about it but it will be better we make it another day. Don't worry today is the perfect day she said and cut the calls.

I tried calling no answer. This babe has come again because she don't like hearing football. We have had issues on this football matter severally but I told her she can't dictate what I will do or not, that I started watching football before I meet her. She first stop me from playing my soccer game when she is around. my friend have to call me when coming during the weekend to play games if she is around or not. I had to stop doing it when she is around to avoid problems.


Fast-forward... She came few minutes to 5pm. She was looking superb, probably to impress my parents. The desire for romance and sex came but I have to rebuked it because if it start, then my match is cancelled. How do I tell her I ve changed my mind from seeing my parents to watching football she never like or want to hear when she is around. We talk and talk till about few minutes to 8. She observed I wasn't coming closer to her as usual. She was like, a you expecting another woman. I smiled...

Then I busted it. Baby lets go and watch match. This one is very interesting. It's a final match. Ohhh match again. Aren't you going to your parents place again? I said my mum called to tell me she won't be around. She became relaxed. Please cancel the match... I want to cook something, you need to assist me. I was like baby am not hungry. I ve eaten. I am watching my food intake this period. She said that's my own, she wants to cook and I should be with her. The hatred against her started again. I said if you don't want to follow me to watch the match, eat your food alone. You can't stop me this time. Even my mother can't stop me from watching this final.

I left the kitchen. I called a friend to reserve a seat for me. She was frowning bitterly . I have made up my mind already. Few minutes after Ronaldo was brough -down, I received a text from her. " Dear so your match is more important than me" you can forgo me just because of match you can still watch later...it's a pity you don't love me. All I was thinking is how Ronaldo will come back again. I didn't give the message a second thought.


After the match. I was so happy Portugal won after the heat from France. That is when I read her message again. I quickly ran home. It was almost 11:30pm. She has slept. I send her a romantic message and told her am sorry about it but she should try to let me enjoy my football.

She woke up this morning. She was still frowning that I abandoned her for common football. I try to make her understand how important and interesting the match is to me. She left in anger and said I should either choose my football or her. That when I have made up my mind, I should let her know.


Though decision for me to make. I am not scared of loosing her anyway but I don't want us to break-up just like that... I'm not ready to drop sports again because of her. I told myself the sacrifices is too much, maybe I have to let her go... I have made up my mind not to call her.


Nairalanders what do you think on this issue? Matured advised only...

butanep:


The match wasn't aired on our local TV stations. I don't ve DSTV. My cable wasn't showing the match.


Even if I ve DSTV, I find it boring watching match alone hence I go to viewing centres where I will meet my friends and we watch and discuss together. It fun that way. I am not sure you know more about watching football. What has mobile internet banking get to do with watching football with my friends.



I are one sided in your judgement.

butanep:
Good morning Nairalanders.

I know this forum has been providing vital solutions to problems from time immemorial hence the need to pour-out my worries on this forum to get solutions become inevitable.

I was preparing for the final between Portugal and France yesterday when my girlfriend called me she will be coming, that I should be at home by 5pm. I was like why today of all day now! I told her I won't be around that I will be going to my parents place that evening. She began to act cold via the phone and later told me she will come let's go together. I haven't even seen your parents one on one she said... I was like which kind stubborn babe is this... I replied let's see about it but it will be better we make it another day. Don't worry today is the perfect day she said and cut the calls.

I tried calling no answer. This babe has come again because she don't like hearing football. We have had issues on this football matter severally but I told her she can't dictate what I will do or not, that I started watching football before I meet her. She first stop me from playing my soccer game when she is around. my friend have to call me when coming during the weekend to play games if she is around or not. I had to stop doing it when she is around to avoid problems.


Fast-forward... She came few minutes to 5pm. She was looking superb, probably to impress my parents. The desire for romance and sex came but I have to rebuked it because if it start, then my match is cancelled. How do I tell her I ve changed my mind from seeing my parents to watching football she never like or want to hear when she is around. We talk and talk till about few minutes to 8. She observed I wasn't coming closer to her as usual. She was like, a you expecting another woman. I smiled...

Then I busted it. Baby lets go and watch match. This one is very interesting. It's a final match. Ohhh match again. Aren't you going to your parents place again? I said my mum called to tell me she won't be around. She became relaxed. Please cancel the match... I want to cook something, you need to assist me. I was like baby am not hungry. I ve eaten. I am watching my food intake this period. She said that's my own, she wants to cook and I should be with her. The hatred against her started again. I said if you don't want to follow me to watch the match, eat your food alone. You can't stop me this time. Even my mother can't stop me from watching this final.

I left the kitchen. I called a friend to reserve a seat for me. She was frowning bitterly . I have made up my mind already. Few minutes after Ronaldo was brough -down, I received a text from her. " Dear so your match is more important than me" you can forgo me just because of match you can still watch later...it's a pity you don't love me. All I was thinking is how Ronaldo will come back again. I didn't give the message a second thought.


After the match. I was so happy Portugal won after the heat from France. That is when I read her message again. I quickly ran home. It was almost 11:30pm. She has slept. I send her a romantic message and told her am sorry about it but she should try to let me enjoy my football.

She woke up this morning. She was still frowning that I abandoned her for common football. I try to make her understand how important and interesting the match is to me. She left in anger and said I should either choose my football or her. That when I have made up my mind, I should let her know.


Though decision for me to make. I am not scared of loosing her anyway but I don't want us to break-up just like that... I'm not ready to drop sports again because of her. I told myself the sacrifices is too much, maybe I have to let her go... I have made up my mind not to call her.


Nairalanders what do you think on this issue? Matured advised only...

joceey:


Guy I understand you am a guy too that loves football I am good in playing soccer but sometimes in life they re some things you have to ignore to let peace reign...you ain't looking at things from this angle she is scared of loosing your through that medium..let me tell you that and also don't you knw that in the gathering of some many young men and bachelor's stupid advices and motives is been given if you truly love soccer's so much then get the dstv in your house. I have a family friend that use to go to the beer parlor with his friend to watch match and drink, but the girlfriend was not happy about it did you knw what she did? Every weekend she get beers for the guy and his friend to always drink in the guy house and also the guy was forced to get a dstv in the house and they are happily married now.Except you don't have it in mind to marry her..They are lot of sacrifice you take and do for love,not a matter of control the rest in left to you to decide Adios

mizzbouqui:
Hmm but why are some guys so obsessed about football, aww how I love my boo #team no football# but they use video games to am, anyways my advice is that since you are so addicted to football and ur mama sef can't take it from you as you've said, I think the problem here is that you go out to watch your match, why don't you watch it with her in your room abi aw much is Gotv or Dstv, she is feeling neglected you can watch your match inside your house with her, she will adapt dont worry by her actions she cant afford to lose you

armylord:
ehn I.was playing NBA 2k16 on my xbox360 o.. then I switched to FIFA 16, was so engrossed in it, then ex bae called that she was home alone , I was like .. cover yaself with blanket, I.said my ba3 is low sef. nd I switched off my phone .. don't joke with FIFA o .. its intoxicating.. hehe ..

freecocoa:
Lol, no mind me jare, I been just vex as I read the write up.

My love for footie can't be quantified and seriously your babe (just like a gazillion others) need to understand how important the sport is, it's really annoying that attitude of hers.

Plus, she's too needy, try and get her to work on it.

just2okworld:
Come n help them settle this case my dear rship expert samhay

Odunharry:
I will not sacrifice football for 90min for any woman o.. Football time is football time, Time together is time together.


i don't pick calls when I'm walking a match.. a text msg is better

Going through this thread is an eye opener to me,I can't believe I hit a goldmine as a man,The kind of men roaming the streets this days is a cause for concern.

#Thankyoujesusforsendingmeamanthatmakesadifference


Hi odun

Kanyekels:
I really don't understand some women's disdain for watching football. While we were growing up, my mum did all she could to stop me from watching football in the early 2000's but nothing stopped me... And now that I'm now a grown up, someone else will try to stop me from watching the beautiful game? God forbid.

just2okworld:



One thing I know is this

Watching football amidst your friends is always more interesting, just make her understand her


BTW why is she so clingy na?

Valprof:
living in bondage

Xeinstra1:
Leave the chick, Humans who don't watch Football can't be trusted.

okesgift:
Bottom line is you are not worth it. Ur gf shod know by now cos u are being immature abt dis whole tin. Imagine breaking off a relationship ova football,tell her to go look for some1 with a mature mind cos its clear that u are not a husband material!!!
And u neva loved her from the very begining and with all the comments flying around it really confirms how shallow minded people are!!!

misspicy:

Going through this thread is an eye opener to me,I can't believe I hit a goldmine as a man,The kind of men roaming the streets this days is a cause for concern.

#Thankyoujesusforsendingmeamanthatmakesadifference


Hi odun

Odunharry:

Hi Switz... how you doing?? its been a while
U lucky to hit jackpot... Don't be too worried about guys that love football.. it's what we love..

Me personally love football, esp when it comes to European football(Man utd in particular)
Why is it that LAdies don't really like guys who love football?

I am not worried about guys love for football,but I would be worried if my man refuse to compromise football or any other thing of interest when I ask for it. (cause I wouldn't think twice doing that for him)

I wouldn't like to go personal,but judging from comments on this thread,better men done finish for naija,thank God I got lucky before the all go extinct

some ladies do,it's about preference and compromise,but some ladies feel lesser than their partner,so they bow to his likes.

every mallam to his kettle,which is why,I haven't condemned the OP or his supporters,I heard addiction is destructive enough


am doing good

smilinseun:
Haha reminds me of the time when I went to a girl 's place on a Saturday... I mean a girl that I really liked but Chelsea was playing.
Omo I dropped my phone at her place and asked her if there was any viewing Centre around... Chelsea lost, I didn't get the girl but I would do that over again