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This death was masterminded, likely by a woman who may be her rival when it comes to loving a man

This is deep

[quote author=Preciousjewel01 post=94786736]NO LOVE IN MY HOME (Advice pls)

My name is precious( wrong name). Opened this acct to go strictly anonymous. All kinda comments are accepted, good or bad. All I need is great advice pls. This is gonna be a little long story but pls bear with me.

I was born and raised in port Harcourt but moved down to Kano 2013. My dad is never home 'cause he works in the USA. So, believe me when I say I hardly know my dad. Comes home once a year sometimes once in 2 years. So, it's been just my mom all along. He's the very protective type not minding the fact he's never home. Especially since I'm his only daughter. Thing is I've never had my freedom, always indoors 24/7. Childhood memories are also boring asf, just the ones from school that's all.
Being in the USA, my dad is the type that loves to flex and chill a lot. Gets me nice clothes and all that. When we moved to Kano, he decided to open a clothing business for my mom with the capital of 4M. He agreed and had it done.

Along the way, they began to have issues 'cause my dad kept claiming he's the owner of the shop and wants all sales made to go to his own acct. My mum disagreed 'cause she was like even a sales girl gets her own salary. The agreement they made was that she's gonna send the money from whatever sales to his account while he pays her monthly for looking after the shop and selling the materials. Not minding the fact she's his wife o. They ran that way for months till my dad stopped paying her. She complained about it 'cause this man doesn't give her own personal allowance even as his wife. The shop was closed down for months.

He finally came back to Nigeria, my mom got pregnant but lost the baby to miscarriage. Just a month after, my dad married another wife. Even me as his daughter kept pleading on whatever issues they have and to resolve it but no. It was as if he was under voodoo. My dad is 50 and the lady he married is just 23.His first son is 25,imagine.

I asked my dad why he did all that but he told me was that my mom is proving stubborn. Fine, so thing is his family were super happy he got married to another 'cause he finally married their tribe. The young lady he married is igbo and my mom is Hausa. There's no single person from my dad's who likes my mom plainly because she's a muslim and not their tribe. We're Christians

In just one week of marriage, he already gave the new wife a car and also opened a shop for her. All this while, he stopped eating my mom's food. Claimed she should only prepare food for us her kids. And so it was
He travelled again after spending a good whole year at home with us (for the very first time) to stay with his new wife. When he got married to my mom,he got her pregnant and left the following month. So, he never stayed with my mom. But when he got married to this one, he stayed with her for a year.
He left again before the lock down while his new wife was pregnant. Before then, he was closed to divorcing my mom. That's just like some months after he got married to his new wife. My mum stood her ground that she's going no where so, my dad and one of his brothers went all the way to Jos to go talk to her parents. By the special grace of God, they didn't get divorced.

He travelled leaving my mom with no cash and no business. He never calls us, even we the kids. My mum collected goods on credit and is even currently planing to take a loan just so, she could feed her 4 kids. The other wife's business also fell. She finally gave birth to a baby girl and also always kept complaining that my dad never calls her. My mum would only laugh and tell her that's the way he is. The new wife would go to her parent's place to ask for cash sometimes be in tears and be like what kinda marriage is this? My dad only called my mom once ever since he left early this year just to inform her that his new wife had given birth and that was it. Today is October 10th,my dad never called my mom nor we the kids. He called once on sallah day ranting and asking why we the kids never called him. Someone that doesn't send us cash, abeg how are we gonna get money for airtime and all that. With the little money I could get, I'd always send a vn via WhatsApp to always check on my dad but he never replies but reads the msg. I stopped checking on him.

The new wife keeps complaining on how she's gonna live with her lil baby and still calls her bf secretly saying she's fed up with the marriage and would like to see his face. She claims the marriage was all a rush and never knew all that glitters wasn't gold.

We always have light issues 'cause we use a prepaid meter and we always gotta recharge. Since my dad doesn't send money home no one wants to buy including one of my eldest cousin who my dad asked to begin to stay with us as a watch on the house ever since he got married to his new wife 'cause then, both my mom and the new wife always beefed each other. But they all good now
So, once a while it's gonna be this my elder cousin to buy the Nepa bills. Though, my mom was buying ever since my dad travelled not minding that she wasn't receiving money. She was also feeding this 21 yr old cousin of mine all through but stopped when things got really hard.

We had water issues since we had no light. So, we went to the next compound to fetch water, immediately that night my dad called and had someone give us 36k to keep for the light bills just so he could save his name outside. My younger sister stopped school recently and attend a home library Islamic school which one of my uncle's own. Since it's family related, it's gonna be easy for her to sort.

I've cried to my dad, kissed him a mil times, told him how much I love him but no, he listens to no one.He just neglects us, I'm so fed up and feel for my mum every day. What do I do to bring back love to my family as a their child? I need advice pls

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These are my comments:

1. There has been lost love between your mom and dad even before you people were born. It might be due to unfaithfulness from either party.

2. Your dad has a bad home-omen, as in a neglecting attitude to family responsibility. No one can change it.

3. He may have committed himself in a family way over there (abroad), such that he can not be seen communicating on the phone. (Perhaps the oyinbo family may sue him to prison)

4. Your dad may be very broke.

5. There has been hatred from his family over you people for long. And that must have caused or started from your mom's attitude.(he once told you that your mom is a stubborn woman....first impression will last for long)

How much is it? Always complete your marketing when advertising a product

More blessing

God will continue to raise you up. Amen

Five million

15m

Please, be specific in your pics. I can be interested if you are clear

So after 8 years, you have not reduced your price?
Unless someone call you before you can make reductions

It is available

Which state has an airline?

What happened to the man who brought the Airline industry to you?

The internet is universal, give details of the location

No contact?
Where is ughojor?

Saraki is not out yet. Wait for the official results

There was never a time APC is welcomed in Enugu,

Atiku dey come

No worry

wise0ne:
Brethren in the house, let us be realistic here.

The administration of president Muhammadu Buhari can only be described in one word as horrible.

Let us not deceive ourselves, his administration is the worst since the return of democracy in 1999. We can not afford to let him have a second tenure in office as it will be disastrous on us all.

Purchasing power of the Naira has reduced drastically such that you can spend a million naira in gee hours without having much to show for it.

Security of life is almost at its lowest as the marauding herdsmen could strike at will and not a single one of them will be caught, and the sad part of it is that the media has been gaged.

The summary of all I am saying is this, *we need a change of Government and the opportunity before us in tomorrow's election is something we cannot afford to misuse otherwise we will live with the consequences for ever*

Brethren, let's go out there tomorrow and vote for a change of government. The choice before us currently is the choice between Dr Atiku Abubakar And Malam Muhammadu Buhari. Every other contestants do not have what it takes to emerge victorious in tomorrow's election.

Therefore, this is my humble submission, *Go out there tomorrow morning to vote for Dr Atiku Abubakar, the PDP Presidential flag bearer, so that at the least, posterity and generations unborn may have a cause to smile at you for the role you played on saving our country from its descent into calamitous disaster*

Nice one, you have good intentions for Nigeria
I support you

To the wailers, no worries " Atiku dey come"

Already, news of Atiku winning the election has brought the dollar exchange rate down

[quote author=vicdom post=76004990]
By this time in 2015, even the trees were chanting "SAI BABA";
In my experience in Zaria then, it was a suicide mission to put GEJ's posters in parts of the north;
the chant of CHANGE echoed louder than our national anthem.
The faith in Buhari was out of this world..... He was seen as the new Sheriff in town.
Even at the mention of his name at that material time, Nigeria was working.
Lol.... Do you remember the body language era?
And finally the true Buhari began to show... He lost the National Assembly ;
six months no ministers; he fell sick, and so weak;
became super clueless ;, NEPOTISM reigned.... 97% vs 5%, despotic;
Aisha Buhari began to lament ;
he sided with Ganduje against Kwankwaso;
he watched helplessly as herdsmen ravaged and massacred Benue people....;
Agatu got burnt;
Southern Kaduna was wiped out ;
Plateau returned to rivers of blood;
IDP camps scattered throughout the country....;
Bokoharam resurfaced even more deadly ;
our soldiers became soft target of the terrorists;
Nigeria shut down !!Baba is not aware of anything !!
In all of these negative developments, the government has an auto response to all the problems.... BLAME IT ALL ON PDP’s 16yrs.
It actually worked initially.... But it became boring and obsolete. The war on corruption song soon become exposed to Nigerians as ordinary media trial of the opposition members. Whistleblower became a history.
Money discovery in suck-away, farms, Ikoyi apartment, Balogun market, Kaduna airport, etc all became Nollywood fiction and Nigerians got tired.
Things got worse.... hunger and famine got emboldened ;
suicides became regular;
depression hits ;
recession became permanent in the land. Nigeria kept sliding down the pit.
Naira kept falling helplessly..... foodstuffs become unaffordable;
several businesses folded up;
millions of Nigerians lost their jobs;
banditry and other crimes increased .
The government kept lamenting the sixteen years of PDP.
Yet they are embracing and welcoming every PDP member to their fold. Nigerians wait patiently for the PROMISED CHANGE but they got CHANGE of PROMISE.
Decampe to APC you become a saint, but remain in PDP you are a criminal.
Boom! Godswill Akpabio made the first move to APC and he was freed and became a SAINT.
That's how Buhari and APC lost it.
The goodwill died down... the hopes were dashed and Nigerians kept yearning for a change that will change the hazardous change of Buhari and APC. Buhari and APC had their chance BUT deliberately messed it up!
Buhari is weak,old and tired.
Let us join hands together to help him retire back to his wife, children and relatives who need him the more.
Congratulations to Nigerians for surviving Buhari's terror reign. Let try someone else!
Vote Clear-sightedly !!
Vote wisely !!
God bless Nigeria!!!
The TIME is now!!![/quote

They vehemently opposed and disobeyed court orders
If you complain, you will be branded "hate speech '

Amechi

Fake news

No shaking, come what may

Atiku dey come


No worry.

Exchange number wìth Atiku

This time around will favour pdp

The race is not for the fastest

Finally

Good morning my nairalanders,
I have been on this platform since 2006 and never was there a strong message like this one that came to me during my morning devotion on election campaign . Let me share it with you.

Isaiah 17: 12 - 14
" woe to the multitude of many people who make noise like the roar of the seas, and to the rushing of nations that make a rushing like the rushing of many waters..........but God will rebuke them and they will flee far away.....then behold at eventide, trouble! And before morning, he is no more. This is the portion of those who plunder us.and the lot of those who rob us."



No worry, Atiku dey come

No one at home

Farewell visit