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tosyne2much:
Though, I'm not married neither am I a relationship expert but I think I can answer this question... As per say me sef no be small pikin again nah

Well, I think people go into marriage for ridiculous reasons (boobs, size of joystick, curves, 6packs, sex styles, money, etc), and also with hopes and expectations of how they've always pictured the flawlessness of marriage on Nollywood and Phillipines movies; how people describe the beauty of marriage, and how they've been fantasizing the marriage of other people and thus, short of expections trigger disappointment, irritation, enmity and disinterest among couples.

Most people tend to overlook the flaws (ojukokoro, laziness, self centeredness, promiscuity, gold digging, tendency to become slay queens, ojukokoro, lack of dress sense, lack of respect for your friends and family members, anger problem) of their partners during courtship and will take a bumpy ride into marriage with the ideology that marriage is a "magician" that completely changes or transforms people, without knowing that things sometimes do not happen that way... What you can't change at puberty, a mere RING cannot/may not change it.

Thats why it's said that LOVE is not enough to make someone your life partner, because there are other basic things that should be taken into considerations, and failure to do so makes your marriage vulnerable to chaos and abuse

When people get married, their eyes begin to open to reality after which they will get to realize that they ought to have married someone better, someone that will not hide her character at the expense of getting a RING. They begin to see some flaws in their partner which LOVE/INFATUATION blindfolded them from seeing during courtship

In a nutshell, marriage is an eye opener that opens your eyes from fairytale to reality.

This is not the matter of satan or witches and wizards in your village firing bow and arrow at you


I don't know if my comment makes any sense

Ur comment made lots of sense. Even though U are not a relationship expert. Keep it up

Otenestbestyaho:
One of the sponsors of boko haram is dead!!! Praise God.
Next is sanusi and emir of kastina.

Some people can say rubbish with their mouth sha.

makydebbie:
Just be free...

Be yourself....

Thanks I really appreciate

decatalyst:
Bro, go make money first jare.

You wouldn't have to woo a girl...they will do the talking while you do the spending.

It works like magic.

They will try to out-do themselves with selfies for you

thanks

firstking01:
March the twenty third

oh why not march 22

Dear nairalander. Plese help. I am a graduate of 25 years old now. But has this problem of toasting a girl. Ordinarily I have a good sense of humourt, am fun to be with but when ever I see a girl that I like, it will be as if my mouth is sealed and am not getting any younger. Please I need your candid advise. No insult please.

Benita27:
Lol.

Your bro is inlove, it's not charm so just let them be.

Thats it.

jazakallahu khyran

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