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FamilyRe: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by okudah(m): 11:50pm On Sep 12, 2014
perry2020: Kai sum ppl and funny comments sha.
Anyways my own opinion of a wife material is
1.a lady who can submit herself(she isn't too proud,neither is she boosy,she doesn't put herself above her husband and family)
2.a very understanding lady(sum one who understands u bcoz d key to a healthy relationship is understanding,when they understand each other some quarrels can be averted).
3.a lady who supports u and completes u(sum ladies have d ideology dat "it's my husbnds responsibility to do everything dats why he is d man"its shouldn't be dis way. a wife should be a helpmate not a liability.(take her out on a date tell her u forgot ur wallet n plead with ha to pay n c her reaction)
4.a god fearing lady
5.a smart lady and a lady who is very resourceful and independent not one who at just dating level is expecting u to buy cream,pad etc f u start now just get ready to do it forever.
6.a lady who knows how to be economical and considerate
7.a lady with good morals,very contented,not much of a gossip bcoz if she is much of a gossip my dear u are in trouble ooo.
8.a lady who knows how to improvise and multi task.
9.a lady with good personal hygiene and keeps her house clean,if she doesn't keep her house clean den how will she keep ur's clean. SHE MUST ALSO CARE FOR HERSELF PHYSICALLY so it won't be a matter of blowing up after marriage and u end up saying my wife is fat and I don't love her.
10.a lady who respect her parents and listen to advice.(if she cant obey her parents forget it she cant obey u. plus if she doesn't listen to advice whats d probability that f she does sum tin wrong and u advise her she would take ur advice and change.
11.a lady who is economical and has a very good saving spirit (this is a very important factor dat a woman must have coz some men spend too much it is d duty of d woman to call her husbnd to caution and try to impact in him d saving spirit incase of raining days)not the woman who spends all her earning on Brazilian hair.
12.a tactful and smart lady that can give her husbnd good advice when he needs it and encouragement
13.a woman who is string spiritually bcoz battles will always come. a woman is d bedrock of her home,it is her prayer that keeps her husband,and kids goin.
14.dis is quite important to some men. IF I WAS A GUY.SHE MUST BE A VERY VERY GOOD COOK COZ I LOVE FOOD AND VERY GOOD FOOD.( VARIETIES OF COOKING SKILLS AND RECIPE)the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. If a lady cooks better for him babes forget ur nigga oo.
15.she MUST be ready to satisfy him sexually(dis is another thing i noticed that drives men away from home when she gives him 2 days in a week roaster AFTER Aff Pay bride price oo. And u expect him not to look out as a young man.
16.a lady who isn't promiscuous(if she starts acting bitchy while dating what's d probability she won't turn into a LovePeddler when u get married, now it's not only men that bring in hiv and stds even women do.
17. A lady who respects u,ur relationship and everything u value including ur parents and siblings.
18.a wife material must be matured aldoe age is just a number sum times,its abt maturity.Good communication is also very necessary.
19.make sure she is fun loving(picnic,games,strolls etc) if not ehennnn ur marriage will be so boring.
20.be a husband material before looking for a wife material.f u ain't a husband material don't expect to have a wife material

Hmmmm talking too much already. this ones are d basic sha,got to look out for all dis in a lady. standards and taste differ it's not compulsory she has all.
All this ur commandment.hmmmm
How many do u advice that men can see b4 proposing since u end ur speech with not a compulsory that a lady ll possess all
RomanceRe: What Qualities Can A Man Possess To Attract Women? by okudah(m): 10:04am On Sep 12, 2014
As for me a man must first posses the attitude of being of cleanliness & other goodies e.g,selfconfidence,honest,faithfulness will follow
RomanceRe: Thinking Of Makin Luv To My Cousin.. by okudah(m): 2:37pm On Sep 11, 2014
stupid girl so you are one of those people that are from EVE generation that want to ruin the life of young men,why dont u go out and allow yourself to be admired by a young street boy or even GM (gate man) so u can satisfy ur urge instead of nursing to have a sex with ur cousin or u can even invite me to be doing it for u but pls leave that young man alone b4 ur trap caught him
RomanceRe: Can You Leave The Person You Are Seriously Dating At The Moment For N10m by okudah(m): 2:32pm On Sep 11, 2014
and what is 10M?

This is exactly where some of us are making a very big mistake because as long as i know money does not buy pure love it only buy material and deception,and some that tried it received the painful side of it though not all but it is not good for one to sale his or her heart because of money as no one knows the future of his or her present lover and by agreement and understanding God ll sure make a way for them that loved themselves
RomanceRe: Can Blind People Fall In Love..... by okudah(m): 2:25pm On Sep 11, 2014
lol...funny you...they can fall inlove and theirs are always pure and perfect because their love comes from the heart and some some unblind men who are pretenders
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Such Liars,cheats And Womanisers??? (she Need Answers) by okudah(m): 2:22pm On Sep 11, 2014
becauyse some of our girl (some) does not know how to hold men with (pure) attitude
Car TalkRe: Your Opinions: Can Innoson Compete With Giants Like Toyota & KIA In Nigeria? by okudah(m): 2:14pm On Sep 11, 2014
YES he can if only we can support and patronize him the way we are patronizing the foreign car manufacturing companies
RomanceRe: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by okudah(m): 2:11pm On Sep 11, 2014
To me why a beautiful lady is still single is probably she has not seen her choice as i believe that its better for every one to leave with his/her choice in other to make a happy home

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