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Dharniel:
It all started about a year ago, I'm a 25 year old teacher in a secondary school and she's one of my ss3 student. There was this boy in her class who made advances towards her and she decided to report the issue to me. She requested I warned the boy to stay off her tail and I did just that. Then it all began, she became my friend on Facebook and began chatting almost on a daily basis after school, initially there was no feelings at all but I do enjoy her company online. She later summoned courage to request for my WhatsApp number and the chatting migrated from Facebook to WhatsApp. All we talked about was school and studies and sometimes we talked about the relationship life of other students (her classmates). It got to a stage I couldn't do without chatting with her but sometimes I do pretend I'm not enjoying her company. I made sure I never initiated the chat on a daily basis just trying not to be forward and besides I'm the teacher, she's the student. Lately I discovered, I've been so emotionally attached to her. [b]Because of her I decided not to use Cain anymore in her class, cuz I can't stand flogging her. [/b]And by the way the feeling is mutual, I'm certain about that. I just don't really know what to do. I haven't done anything stupid but I can do any moment from now. And please before you judge me, I know this kind of relationship is wrong cuz she's underage and it's a teacher-student relationship. It's a kind of relationship that is frowned at. I'm not irresponsible as I don't flirt with students and I don't womanise normally. But I just love this girl. So please Nairaland, what should I do?

cc: farano, Rocktation, lalasticlala

The bolded is one of the reasons why a student-teacher relationship is a NO NO. I ain't a saint, but bro, you have to stop the interaction with her, it is wrong. The reason why you developed feelings for her is because you started spending too much time talking/chatting with her. What you have to do now is the opposite. Act fast before this gets you in trouble. She might be a great person to chat with, but she is your student, and also still young in the mind (even if she has an adult's body). She might soon do something that would make people know you guys have something going, and trust me, you don't want that.

Kelvin30286063:
You've been using the wrong tools. I'm sure you're been trying to compress instead of cut down.
What you should do is use a video editor on either pc or a power video editor like fillmora to cut the video into pieces. Maybe like 4 pieces. Then you can upload the video to YouTube and download it back. YouTube will automatically compress the video while retaining the quality.
If you try compressing with all these Android apps, the video will lose its quality.

Thanks a lot. I also thought about cutting it down to pieces, but the girl's windows phone couldn't download the app to do that. And the phone couldn't download Xender too. If not, I won't have this problem, as I would have gotten the video on my phone, and cut it down to bits. Thanks anyway, I will look for a way to cut it down on my laptop.

Hello guys. Please I need your help. I helped my aunt cover an event, and the phone I used was a windows phone. The video was just 30 minutes, but it turned out to be 1.6gig in size. I have been regretting using that phone, which I got from my friend, cos my Android battery was down, and she went along with me. Now, I have been having problems sending the video to my aunt.

I tried one time like that, over 6 hours, I couldn't successfully attach the video, and had to abort mission. I have also tried so many online websites to compress the video with no success. Please, can anyone help me out?

vicfuntop:
I don't have a problem with you, okay. Have a nice day. By the way, do you know the moniker

No I don't.

vicfuntop:
Ok. So you laughed because someone called me ugly.
Look at it this way, someone i met offline asked me to send a picture and the picture on his profile was a cocumber. You know the deal with it. How do you expect me to trust the person? I told you to remove the picture if you wanted any serious girl. How is that defamation? Your picture wasn't there.
And now you are telling me it's the same with what I did to you.
I checked your profile to see the kind of girl you were looking for. For the record, I was never interested in sending any picture.
Back to the matter, the reason why I wanted to know the moniker was because he didn't call me out. That's a coward and that's why I want to know.
And pls don't justify laughing at the thread because I told you the truth. I didn't defame you, or were you expecting me to send a pm to tell you that?

No.

Well, thanks anyway...I will always remember to use my serious accounts for serious posts and vice versa from now on.

vicfuntop:
Do you know his moniker?

Hi...I started this thread a couple of days ago, and had to abandon it when you sort of indirectly accused me of being a predator, and advised people not to send me their pictures...all because I had a picture of a long cucumber in my profile. I had to leave this page because I didn't want any further damage to my name. By the way, the cucumber picture was put up as a joke, a couple of months ago, when I was chatting with a particular girl and I asked her to check my pic...I forgot to remove the pic because I rarely use this account.

I ended up loosing out a percentage of that deal, because the girl I got from here wasn't what we saw in the pics she sent (I guess she was using wonder bras or something) and she didn't fit what they were looking for. Anyway, that is gone. I said all that to say this...when I saw the thread of the guy calling you ugly yesterday, I just laughed. Not that I thought it was a good thing, but I felt now you know what defamation of character feels like. All I was trying to do the day I put up this thread was to help someone get a little cash (and earn some percentage myself), but you went ahead to paint me black...business is different from pleasure, and all I was doing with this post was business.

Considering the fact that you checked my profile, I am guessing you fit the description of what the people were looking for, but you let negativity cloud your judgement. Anyway, it is all good. Have a nice day.

Thanks to all the people that reached out to me, I have found someone. Nairaland can really be super useful.

vicfuntop:
Honestly your profile picture is discouraging. I wouldn't send my picture if I had that body too or recommend anyone. Sorry.

Okay. But remember I am helping someone post this...I am not the one that needs the model.

IamKashyBaby:


Chaaaaiii! U dey deny me U will never get this hot white bori joor..Lemme call Sinz & Luminouz to attest my sexy bori..

lol!

thesuave10:
Op there's no lady like that on NL. Most hot ladies are not on Nl. NL ladies are not hot.

Hmm! Okay.

Hmm! I didn't know it would be this hard to find what we are looking for.

IamKashyBaby:
Op, im a model ooo

I no mind if ur friend no pay me ..juz for exposure sha contact me if interested

Sorry, we'll pass.

AliasJoice:
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Do you have a body like the model girl I posted above?

ivanurs:
old check my profile, to no if am fit

You don't have any picture in your profile.