Let's assume you've agreed to date him,next u write out a list of negative qualities u don't want in a man.e.g he must not be selfish, uncaring,greedy, bossy,bad tempered,impatient etc.next-u'll become an actress acting these things out.e.g u want to knw if he's genuinely caring:switch your mood, becom moody nd even ask him to leave u alone,(just offend him)few hrs later or d next day,send. Txt dt u are ill.wen he comes, form vomiting,do all sort of things capable of pissing someone off.let it b around d time he'll b @wk or has lectures,this is to know whether u're a priority or reserve.did he com as soon as he was thro or @his leisure.wen he comes watch his facial expressns,actions,hw concerned he feels etc never let him knw its a test.
If u want to knw if he will block your progress if u married him,tell him u'v been appointed a leader@an organisation you belong,sweet tongue d post and d responsibilities etc watch his reaction. To know If he is one dt will fight nd beat u over your income,tell him your dad or someone gave or deposited some large money in your account for u.wait for few weeks to c if he comes up asking for a loan. Further, refuse him nd watch d reaction for some days Etc
For each test score him nd be objective.never expect that he can be better/change his attitude.strain yourself to do him som favour nd see if he enjoys it or feels so concerned that u went all d way to do that for him.etc all in all pray for divine guidance.
Check his family(d siblings, d mother etc)can u cope with them?does this guy have a future?,is he enterprising, is he God fearing?, does he respect your family,etc
B o Luck

If both of u are just bF/gf, each can keep to his/her space sharing little or nothing.when d relationship grows to becom dt of fiance/fiancee both share more.@ dis point u are looking forward to getting married,buying things to put in your home to be.d final stage is getting married,in marriage both pple become 1.u share a bed,u eat in d same plate etc thus sharing a nos of things.so what stops one from reading or going through ur mn/wmn's phone.especially if he /she isn't there.if u go thro it nd there are issues, in a healthy relatnshp u two shld be able to call each other,sit down and discuss.sometimes it is not even lover relationship issues alone, it may b offic issues,debt issues, larger family(mother, sister etc)issues.As such it isn't disrespctful.

@estateprof., I'll contct u soon

Estateprof,
My firm has commercial plots &commercial building@Monatan,&Ekotedo.Shld I just call your legal help desk?