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Since the bride is a Christians, the wedding should be held in a church. Objection by his parents to this is a sign of very bad things to come in the future for the girl.

Or better still, that wedding should be entirely court wedding without any religion involvement if the guy is sincere

bukatyne:
@bold:

She obviously doesn't.

What I expected from the OP (in addition to transparency) is which wedding should I add to the court wedding to satisfy both sides.

It is well.

Proudlyngwa:
Ogbeni do you even know what or who jews are.
How old are you self
How can you say all Israelites are jews
Israelites are descendants of Israel
Jews are descendants of Judah and Benjamin

And they went separate ways after the reign of rehoboam

Stop bringing religion into a cultural perspective

Do you even know the meaning of Israelites? They are made up of 12 children of Jacob, who was later renamed Israel. When Jesus was forming his disciples, he made them 12 to represent 12 tribes of Israel. You can't be am original Israelite without being a Jew!

Stop propagating misinformation

Proudlyngwa:
Ogbeni do you even know what or who jews are.
How old are you self
How can you say all Israelites are jews
Israelites are descendants of Israel
Jews are descendants of Judah and Benjamin

And they went separate ways after the reign of rehoboam

Stop bringing religion into a cultural perspective

I challenge you to provide verifiable source of information that says not all Israelites are Jews.

The kingdoms of Israel, Judah and Benjamin were all unified as one under King David around 1000BC, long before anything called Palestine ever existed..

So, separation of north and south Korea now mean the two countries are occupied by two different tribes?!

Proudlyngwa:
Everybody knows that jews are Israelites, how come you don't know something this simple

All jews are Israelites
Not all Israelites are jews

Understand that

Moreover this current occupants and Isrealis and they call themselves state of Israel
They have nothing to do with Jacobs Isreal

Palestine, Syria , Jordan all have claim to same ancestry.

Stop lying for ala.

All Israelites are Jews and al Jews are Israelites.

Palestine , Syria and Jordan were all occupied by Jews until Minarmied and his gang of arrmed robas chased them away!

olayinkabank:
Please Nairalanders, I need your sincere advice. I am confused.
I have been a member of this great platform since 2010 when I was in secondary school (SS2), but this is the first time I am seeking advice here. I was quite active and popular on the platform from 2010 to 2014, especially in the sports, politics, and education sections though I just created this new account today.
I am currently engaged to a lady. We have done the introduction—both families have met, and we have collected the marriage list. The wedding is planned for late March next year.
My fiancée is a Christian and from the Igbira tribe, although she understands Yoruba more than Igbira. All her siblings are married to Yoruba spouses. I am a Yoruba man and a Muslim by background.
Initially, her family strongly objected to the marriage because of religious differences. However, after much persuasion—and after my fiancée threatened to harm herself if she was not allowed to marry me—her extended family members who are Muslims intervened, and the family reluctantly agreed.
On my own side, my mother also objected at first. She dislikes my fiancée because there are rumors that her elder sister did money ritual. After much pleading, my mother later accepted the marriage.
For context, my fiancée’s parents were originally Muslims but converted to Christianity before they died.
The main issue now is that my fiancée’s siblings, especially the elder ones, are insisting that we must do either a church wedding or a court wedding. They say a traditional wedding alone is not acceptable.
As for me, I work with a financial institution and was converted to professional staff last year. I also run a football viewing center and a betting shop. My fiancée just finished her tailoring apprenticeship (freedom). She is a graduate but currently unemployed, and I am planning to open a tailoring shop for her.
Because I am the one providing almost everything financially, I feel a court wedding may not favor me in the long run. At the same time, my parents will never accept a church wedding, especially since my father is the head of a local Asalatu group.
Please note: I am not a religious person. I consider myself agnostic—I believe in a Supreme Being but not in Christianity or Islam. However, neither my family nor my fiancée knows this, because they would likely see me as evil or someone possessed.
My fiancée has agreed to convert to Islam after the wedding, which makes my family happy. Personally, I don’t really care about that because I believe more in humanity than religion.
Now I am confused and stuck between:
Her family insisting on church or court wedding
My parents rejecting church wedding
My own fears about court marriage
Religious pressure from both sides
Please, I need honest and mature advice from Nairalanders. What is the best way forward in this situation? especially to those who have done interfaith wedding before or in an interfaith relationship?

If the girl likes herself, she'll run away from you.

Your parents will make life difficult for her because of religion

It is Meuslims that are bombing Meuslims. They bomb Christians and their fellow Meuslims!

Yet, their fellow Meuslims will be opposing help from America, which means Meuslims are happy that their fellow Meuslims (Boko Haram) are ataking dem

SuperEagles:
Whenever you are ready to do away with self induced religious bigotry from jews that spit on you, pick up a book to know how isreal stole a land no God ever gave to then in 1947 n have been slaughtering the inhabitants with the help of those that enslaved your fathers n mothers since then.

Israel stole the land or Britain divided the land between Israel and Palestine?!

You claim you read, yet you display igneoriance!

Proudlyngwa:
Thanks for the update so Jesus was a jew not an Israeli, all that area metamorphosised to become Palestine.

Everyone knows that Israelites are also Jews. How come you don't know something this simple?!

Houseontherock1:
She knows her husband has no love for her, she knows the man didn't marry her for better for worse but only for better... otherwise, why would sex be a priority for either of them at this point? Misplaced priority

The husband has no love for her but sold most of his properties to pay for her cancer treatments.

What a duomb, highly myopec reasioning!

SuperEagles:
Like jews have-not been. Slaughtering them for the past 2 years

Typical narrative of a decieptive Meuslim.

Did Israel atack Palestine or Yemen witout these other countries atackin Israel first?!

Did Israel atack these eivil Isleamic countries for releigion reason or defence reason?!

Mesuslims are set of pipu who love to deseive demsefs.

Proudlyngwa:
Hope you are aware Jesus was a Palestine

No, Jesus was not a Palestinian. Jesus was a Jew born in Bethlehem. Jesus was born in an area called Judea, not Palestine.

Is this a show of igneuriance or an atempt at decepsion?!

Proudlyngwa:
God bless Palestine
God Bless Nigeria
God bless Venezuela

Palestine, the Isleamic terorist country, right?!

Are uuu also an Isleamic terorist?!

A country controlled by Sunni Muslims will never give Israel such a recognition if Israel is in the same situation as Somaliland.

Islam even teaches Meuslims to hiatte and kiel Jews. The instruction is without ambiguity!

Meuslims are getting the kind of friendly treatments they can't give to others.

advanceDNA:
If na ur sister, u go hail am as she no focus on getting better.....
Na the werey she wan marry for her husband go kill am before the cancer......because the new wife will not want her to recover and claim her spot......

.na woman is happy sharing her husband with another woman...na condition dey cause am...

Yes, I will, and I will understand her decision!

Houseontherock1:
She knows her husband has no love for her, she knows the man didn't marry her for better for worse but only for better... otherwise, why would sex be a priority for either of them at this point? Misplaced priority

The man don't love her but has sold most of his properties to pay her hospital bills.

Uuu need deleiveriance from the spirit of Sttupeed Thinking!

And yes, sex is very important.

Because uuur libido is diead doesn't mean every other human out there walks around with diead libido

advanceDNA:
U sick..but na how another person go cum dey bother you..... ?? Be like make I flog this woman 76 strokes or cane

That's a sign of selflessness.

A man with such a woman has discovered a precious stone

pansophist:
Way better than her being stubbornly monogamist and the man goes out to cheat.

If the man will still perform his conjugal duties and treat all wives with respect (Islam have a good template for the successful practice of polygamy), then they have my blessings

You mean same Islam that says husbands should beiat their wives?!

Yorubas have been marrying multiple wives before Islam came. The concept of marrying many wives didn't start with Isleam. People were already doing so long before Isleam began

BAILMONEY:
YOU GUYS SHOULD LEAVE THE WOMAN ALONE, SHE'S FOLLOWING THE CORE DOCTRINES OF JESUS ACCORDING TO PAULINUS.


DO NOT EAT PORK- GOD

BLESS PORK AND EAT IT, NOTHING IS UNCLEAN- PAUL.

NOW TELL ME, WHY WOULD THIS WOMAN OF JESUS NOT FOLLOW THE EXACTLY OPPOSITE WHAT GOD TAUGHT TO CHRIST THE MESSIAH, NOT JESUS


IF PORK IS CLEAN ACCORDING TO PAUL, THEN CHRISTIANS SHOULD EQUALLY SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A GAY PASTOR.

But uuuur keurian says Paul is a true messanger of God! Are uuu calling ala and minamed laiars? Are uuu trying to say uuu know beta than ala and minamed?!

YOU CANNOT JUST ACCEPT ONE PORTION OF THE SCRIPURE AND DISCARD THE ONES THAT DOESN'T SUIT YOUR LIFESTYLE

If so, why do uuu mesuslims focus on the part of Gospel where Jezus said he was sent by God, but ignore the part that says Jezes is God?!

A typical Meuslim ataks pipu's releigions not knowing that his atak is exposin the chiame in his own reieligion!

A woman has taken to social media to announce that she'll like to marry a second wife for her husband.

She said she was diagnosed with cancer and won't be able to satisfy her husband sexually, hence her decision to get the husband a second wife that can satisfy him sexually!

What do you think?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyZNGMYbp6s?feature=shared

Anither563:
Absolutely. The US is not doing us a favor. They are pursuing their own national security interests and we are benefitting from that.

And d Isleamic terorist sponsoring presidency makes it very easy for US to pursue their own national security interests by igneuring and denying teror atacks in the country

ModupeoreMs:
The government is doing its best and we will get there.

Yeah, the government had been doing its best to pamper Isleamic terorists until the US said Enough is Enough!

madridguy:
I will not argue with you brother. Your likes go against the Moulid Nabiyyi celebration so definately you will go against christmas.

This is a statement of fact.

We see what uuur fellow Meuslims do all over the world, trying desperately to impose their Isleamic ideologies on other people.

Even keurian supports violence

Christians were keiled and churches attacked, but shettima never said a thing.

Now, he remembers to talk when it concerns a mosque

madridguy:
I don't get you?

There is nothing like moderate Isliam

Moderate Isliam is a nonexistent concept Because Isleam is a normally a vaiolent reliegeon

Moderate Isliam is a creation of either igneuriance of what Islam stands for or self deception with intention to deceive

madridguy:
"🎄 Merry Christmas! 🌟 Wishing you peace, love, and joy this holiday season. May your heart be filled with warmth and your home be blessed with happiness 🙏.May God’s love shine bright in our lives, and may we spread kindness and cheer.

ReacherSaidNoth:
Tell Jesus make he give people light and food, no be to dey claim reason for the season inside hardship

Jesus gave you brain to invent electricity. You still want him to give you light?!

It's like an able-bodied lion praying to God to help him kill its prey after God has led him to the prey.

You people reason as if Only Igbos are in Nollywood

Arda1000:
the records are there in British archives argue with ur brai59990009n

99o1
Your hypocrisy is exposed

Show me evidence of the miental evaluation of those who wrote the information in the British archive.

Then show evidence that they are eye witnesses.