₦airaland Forum

QuestC: I cannot give you a generic score, hence there is no fixed cut off mark for admission. It is imperative to note that, it is the general performance that actually determines the cut off mark for each year. I would advise you, nay, all and sundry to put in your very best in order to be among the selected few. Very soon the sale of the forms will commence. They sold it in september last year. All the best!

thank u.i understand u.i actually meant range because i saw wot som uniben guys i considered reputable posted on jambites thread.i was able to deduce dat management, art nd humanites related courses usually av d highest cut off marks nd medical courses while eng nd sciences is still within d range of 50-60.
all d same i appreciate u.

Michdear: Didn't choose yabatech(bsc) in jamb but thinking about buying the pume form,please I need more info about the 4 years degree
course heard is affliated to UNN

dnt worry if u did nt pick yct for bsc prog, it does nt matter.if u choose dem as polytechnic, u can apply for d post jamb.then u wil buy d change of course form to change to bsc course afta d exam.
i wil guide u on wot to do wen it is tym to do dat....

Michdear: Didn't choose yabatech(bsc) in jamb but thinking about buying the pume form,please I need more info about the 4 years degree
course heard is affliated to UNN

yes it is affiliated to UNN.it is possible to buy d post jamb form ONLY if u choose yabatech as polytechnic.it is stil possible to get any of d bsc courses by buyin yabatech change of course form afta post jamb to change to any of d related Bsc courses.dats d trick.
i am sure u wil b givin bsc course follwin dt step.a lot of pple got dis opportunity while seekin for Ond admission nd did nt meet d cut off of their respectiv dept buh dunno it was an opportunity.

aieha2: Does uniben accept 2:2 OND frm yabatech into industrial chemistry or geology. urgent answer pls

wait aunty kudi peepspz, pls are u done @ yct?did u study SLT or polymer? nd if u are thru @ yct, wot year is dat?
tnkz

MslleSonia: Hi everyone, pls is uniben d.e form still out
Pls can i get French education past questions ?

divinetreasure35@gmail.com
thanks

good morning madam. how are u doing?i saw it dat u sent me a mail buh av nt bin able to read it....wil try today buh if i cant find it i wil giv u another address to send it....

to ur questn, i bliv u applied for direct entry frm jamb bfor now.as for uniben internal post de form, it is not available yet.we are still waiting

Ernestsimeon: wat bank will i pay 4 d form?

Bro, u are nt payin to any of d banks.it is online application and
payment.that is where it challenging to most people.
read d procedure for payment in d advert on yabatech website nd try it if u av d details to make online transactions.if u are not getting it, u can come to school to meet me , mastermynd or any other trusted individual to help with it.dats why i nd mastermynd is here, to giv u necessary info frm schl nd help u wit any challenges.
wish u d best bro.

sory for d multiple post.it is an error frm my end.

fashoo2010: Pls d 2014/2015 post utme info is not on their site yet... Its only 2014/2015 online application dat is dere... Is it d same thing wit d post utme

dat online application 2014/2015 link is not for post jamb oo.it is for
OND(part time) and HND(part time and full time registration).
yea u are right bro.as at yesternyt,we av 2013 post jamb application
link there.d schl is still developin d link for 2014 post jamb
registration.jst b patient till d end of today whch is thursday or
friday.it will b up and
running vry soon.....

fashoo2010: Pls d 2014/2015 post utme info is not on their site yet... Its only 2014/2015 online application dat is dere... Is it d same thing wit d post utme

dat online application 2014/2015 link is not for post jamb oo.it is for
OND(part time) and HND(part time and full time registration).
yea u are right bro.as at yesternyt,we av 2013 post jamb application
link there.d schl is still developin d link for 2014 post jamb
registration.jst b patient till d end of today whch is thursday or
friday.it will b up and
running vry soon.....

Ernestsimeon: wat bank will i pay 4 d form?

Bro, u are nt payin to any of d banks.it is online application and payment.that is where it challenging to most people.
read d procedure for payment in d advert on yabatech website nd try it if u av d details to make online transactions.if u are not getting it, u can come to school to meet me , mastermynd or any other trusted individual to help with it.
dats why i nd mastermynd is here, to giv u necessary info frm schl nd help u wit any challenges.
wish u d best bro.

FrancisTony: Pls, what subject will SLT aspirant write in P.utme?
Jamb combination?

lols.my faculty aspirant(chemical science, how far??#winks
kindly check my reply for heeboy94.lil of jamb combo wld b there buh maths,eng and general na sure banker.

pls do ur best to av good score in post jamb(whch is bonus for
intelligent ones) for ur aggregate to be high.(others pls adhere to dis too).
SLT is one of d depts. with highest departmental cut off after post
jamb.
i am wishin u all suxes.

fashoo2010: Pls d 2014/2015 post utme info is not on their site
yet... Its only 2014/2015 online application dat is dere... Is it d same thing wit d post utme

dat online application 2014/2015 link is not for post jamb oo.it is for OND(part time) and HND(part time and full time registration).
yea u are right bro.as at yesternyt,we av 2013 post jamb application link there.d schl is still developin d link for 2014 post jamb registration.jst b patient till d end of today whch is thursday or friday.it will b up and
running vry soon.....

FrancisTony: Pls, what subject will SLT aspirant write in P.utme? Jamb combination?

check my reply for heeboy94.
lil of other jamb combo buh more of maths,eng nd general paper(whch are constant k).
maths, eng nd general paper is sure.buh lil of other jamb may surface.

mastermynd: olami,help me out o.

mastermynd well done.i am always here buh no questn to respond to yet.

@ heeboy94, yabatech used to test all candidates on maths,eng nd general paper only buh finz has changed a bit.u will be tested on ur jamb combo(buh d questns wunt b dt much compared to eng nd maths) nd general paper.
get it straight bro, eng, maths general paper(constant k) nd vry little questns on other combo.

fashoo2010: Pls d 2014/2015 post utme info is not on their site yet... Its only 2014/2015 online application dat is dere... Is it d same thing wit d post utme

yea u are right bro.as at yesternyt,we av 2013 application link there.d schl is still developin d link for 2014 post jamb registration.jst b patient till d end of today whch is thursday or friday.it will b up and running vry soon.

Mcslize: i believe we will be course mate.

#winks. by God grace.
nyc one

Mzflexydeeva: well well....just doing a lot atm but i'm not sure how much flow I can give on NL again. just be patient, i'm sure they will soon. I am hoping dis week though. How jacking?

i dey try small small.i was steady som months ago buh doin dt @ a slow pace recently because of so many finz takin my tym.buh i av got no fear.

Mr questC, oya tell me wetin u knw abt it as i don tell u wot i applied for.giv an idea of wot to score to b safe.
i actually chose Industrial chem as second choice course.

QuestC: Your current standing is ok. All you need is a minimum of upper credit! All the best!

dnt mind d guy jor.He is on distinction o wit dt gp.i am sure he cant graduate wit anyfin less.

QuestC: Well, I don't particularly think there is a restriction on the
discipline that can qualify someone for admission into Law, so long as the o'level requirements are met. During clearance, a guy who had a
first degree in Accounting lost his admission due to an o'level
defficiency in Literature in English. Some of my colleagues have UNIBEN Diploma in Law, with credit, others with Bachelors Degree from Management Sciences, Arts and Humanities and Social Sciences, with a
minimum of second class lower. I have seen lawyers who have first degree in Pharmacy and Geology! UNIBEN is my alma mater! What course did you apply for?

Chem. Eng

Frezhkid10: Plz am a student of Yabatech studying mechanical engineering...I am hoping to get admission into Uniben next yr using
D.E...plz what gp will be best to graduate wif if I am to enta next
yr... am currently on a gp of 3.75

labour et veritate.
freshkid, are u high? lolzzz
dats distinction my boy.is dia somfin more dan d usual 4.0.
dnt Bleep up ooo.though u nid upper credit buh i am sure u can graduate wit ur distinction.
how is aunty kudi?

Frezhkid10: Plz am a student of Yabatech studying mechanical engineering...I am hoping to get admission into Uniben next yr using
D.E...plz what gp will be best to graduate wif if I am to enta next
yr... am currently on a gp of 3.75

labour et veritate.
freshkid, are u high? lolzzz
dats distinction my boy.is dia somfin more dan d usual 4.0.
dnt Bleep up ooo.though u nid upper credit buh i am sure u can graduate wit ur distinction

Mzflexydeeva: Olami90 how body? I have been around but low key.
wad up with u? I just decided to mark present here. wats been happening wit u?

i am doin fyn nd waitin patiently for dis schl to advertise applicatn ni oo.missd ur flow.
wld lik to hear frm u even if na once in a while....enjoy sure lady

[quote
author=Hisvoice]A new sort of infidelity has been on the rise for
decades, and it’s one of the biggest threats to marriage and courtship:
‘emotional affairs.’ Today’s workplace has become the new danger zone of
opportunities for ‘emotional affairs,’ surpassed only by the Internet.

A relationship without sex can be just as intense, or more so than the
intimate one. Why the crisis?

To understand the intensity of emotional infidelity, it helps to see the
dynamics as an addiction, a form of addictive love. That’s because it’s
easier to let go of a toxic pattern when you depersonalize the
experience.

It’s not about ‘how’ special the person is or makes you feel, it’s about
the neurochemicals that get activated when you think and behave a
certain way that keeps you stuck in the damaging pattern! It isn’t a
coincidence, for example, that persons with alcohol and other addictions
are more likely to get into toxic relationships. Seeing the
problem as an addiction also gives you access to proven steps to
identify and break free of the toxic patterns.

Why addictive?

An addiction to an activity, person or substance puts a person’s brain
and body in an intoxicating trance that, on the one hand, does not allow
them to think clearly and make informed choices, and on the other hand,
‘rewards’  them for the toxic behavior with the release of certain
chemicals that provide quick-fixes of pleasure in the body. Albeit
temporary, there is also pleasure from lowering or numbing pain, shame
or guilt, as it provides distance from taking responsibility to resolve
the real issues of life and marriage (which risk failure). What are the
warning signs?

There are at least 12 warning signs to alert you to take action to
protect yourself and your relationship from ‘emotional infidelity.’

1. Thinking and saying you’re ‘just friends’ with opposite-sex.

If you’ve been thinking or saying, “we’re just friends,” think again. If
it’s a member of the opposite sex, you may be swimming in treacherous
waters. The very words are dangerous to your marriage.

This rationale allows you to make excuses, or more plainly, to tell lies
(to yourself and others) about something you know in your gut is wrong.
Regardless how strongly TV and entertainment promote the idea of
opposite-sex friendships (and this is part of the problem!) as not only
‘okay,’ but also ‘right’ to demand unconditional trust, in most cases,
an intimate friendship with a member of the opposite-sex that you find
interesting and attractive poses risks.

2. Treating them as a confidant, sharing intimate issues. 

Sharing thoughts and deepest concerns, hopes and fears, passions and
problems is what deepens intimacy; it builds an emotional bond between
two people, time better used in marriage relationship. Giving this away
to another person, regardless of the justification, is infidelity, a
betrayal of trust. This is especially true when you consider that
emotional intimacy is the most powerful bond in human relationships,
much stronger than a intimate one. 

3. Discussing troubling aspects of your marriage and partner. 

Talking or venting to a person of the opposite sex about what your
marriage lacks, what your partner lacks, or what you’re not getting to
make you happy sends a loud message that you’re available for someone
else to ‘love and care’ for your needs. It’s also a breach of trust.
And, like gossip, it creates a false sense of shared connection, and an
illusion that you, your happiness, your comfort and needs are totally
valued by this person (when, in truth, this has not been put to the
test!). 

4. Comparing them verbally and mentally to your partner. 

Another danger sign is a thinking pattern that increasingly finds what
is ‘positive’ and ‘just right’ about the friend and ‘negative’ and
‘unfulfilling’ about the partner.  This builds a case ‘for’ the
friend and ‘against’ the partner. Another mental breach of trust, this
unfairly builds a physiologically felt case ‘for’ the friend and
‘against’ the partner, forming mental images in the brain that associate
pleasurable and painful sensations accordingly. 

5. Obsessively thinking or daydreaming about the person.

If you find yourself looking forward to seeing the person, cannot wait
to share news, think about what you’re going to tell them when you’re
apart, and imagine their excitement, you’re in trouble. This sense of
expectation, excitement, anticipation releases dopamine in reward
centers of your brain, reinforcing toxic patterns. Obsessively
thinking about the person is an obvious signal that something is wrong.
After all, you don’t do this with your friends, right?

6. Believing this person ‘gets’ you like no other.

It always appears this way in affairs and romantic encounters at the
start. It’s an illusion, and in the case of emotional infidelity, one
that is dangerous to a marriage because the sense of mutual
‘understanding’ forms a bond that strengthens and deepens emotional
intimacy, with the release of pleasurable neurochemicals, such as the
love and safety hormone oxytocin. This focus also puts you in a
‘getting’ frame of mind. It means you are approaching your marriage in
terms of what you’re getting or not getting, rather than what you’re
contributing.

7. Pulling out of regular activities with your partner, family, work.

Being absorbed with desire to spend more and more time talking, sharing,
being with the person, it’s only natural to begin to resent time you
spend on responsibilities and activities at home (and work?). As a
result, you begin to pull away, turn down, or make excuses for not
joining regular activities with your partner and family. Family members
notice you are withdrawn, irritable and unhappy.

8. Keeping what you do secret and covering up your trail.

Secrecy itself is a warning sign. It creates a distinct closeness
between two people, and at the same time grows the distance between them
and others. Secrets create a special bond, most often an unhealthy one.
For example, there may be a false sense of emotional safety and trust
with the person, and an unwarranted mistrust and suspicion of the
partner, or those who try to interfere with the ‘friendship.’

9. Keeping a growing list of reasons that justify your behaviors. 

This involves an addictive pattern of thinking that focuses your
attention on how unhappy you are, why you’re unhappy, and blames your
partner and marriage for all aspects of your unhappiness. It builds a
dangerous sense of entitlement and forms a pool of resentment from which
you feel justified to mistreat your partner or do what you need to
increase your happiness without considering the consequences.

10. Fantasizing about a love or intimate relationship with the
person. 

At some point, one or both persons begin to fantasize about having a
love or intimate relationship with the other. They may begin to have
discussions about this, which adds to the intensity, the intrigue and
the intoxicating addictive releases of neurochemicals that make the
pattern more entrenched.

11. Giving or receiving personal gifts from the person.

Another flag is when the obsession affects your buying behaviors, so
that you begin to think about this person when you are shopping,
wondering what they like or would show your appreciation. The gift
choices are something intimate items that you would not give ‘just’ a
friend. Gifts send clear messages that the two of you are a ‘close we’
set apart from others, and that the relationship is ‘special.’

12. Planing to spend time alone together ot letting it happen.

This is the warning sign that, when not heeded, most often pushes
partners to cross the line from a platonic to a intimate relationship.
Despite good intentions and promises to one another that they would not
let ‘anything’ happen, it’s a set up, a matter of time, when
opposite-sex friends flirt with the availability of time alone.
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/relationships/2012/07/12-warning-signs-that-its-emotional-infidelity-and-not-just-friendship/[/quote]

it happens in church too.u will see d ladies claiming bro jamiu, bro wasiu, bro nazareth etc is a mentor.he is jst guidin me.meanwhile she has narrated her whole life nd relationship to him.
Ignorance @ its peak

so so spot on.tnkz for dis.
most pple are victim of these buh out of ignorance do not see harm in it or see it as error on their path.

CassyTea: pls any info on d exam date.

No ma.we are all waitin for d official announcement.so if u get it first, do not hesitate to share it wit us.
regulated, u are also welcom to dis thread.
implore evryone here to stay nd lets steer dis to our victory.pls do not hoard infos.tnkz

QuestC: You're most welcome! I can't remember your moniker in last year's thread. I was actually admitted into the Faculty of Law. I would advice you all to be voracious and tenacious in your studies. UNIBEN post-UDE
is strictly based on merit. However, it is instructive to note that, there is stiff competition, as the number of successful candidates admitted is relatively few compared to post-UTME candidates. Focus on your core subject area, including Use of English, particularly JAMB past
questions and also some current affairs. All the best!

thnkz...Law??dats amazing.neva knew dia is a discipline one can use to cross to law.wot qualification did u apply wit , frm whch institution nd wot did u study??...

kindly respond to dt pascal situation as well.y u fink he was nt admitted while anoda person wit same score was admitted...

Mzflexydeeva: Passing through...................i was here.

i av nt seen u or ur post here after nairaland tsunami.y are u jst passin, i askd afta u frm Omodavoo now nd tld him to get thru to u if he has ur contact.where av u bin?how is life?y avn't u bin postin.
wanna b sure u r ok.

Mzflexydeeva: Passing through...................i was here.

i av nt seen u or ur post here after nairaland tsunami.y are u jst passin, i askd afta u frm Omodavoo now.where av u bin?how is life?y avn't u bin postin.
wanna b sure u r ok.

damilarry: pls what are the subjects related to arts and design for post utme exam in yabatech

follow ur utme subjects buh it is sure u wil write maths nd english.