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FamilyRe: My Mother Rejected My Fiancee After Dating For 9 Years by Olami90: 12:26pm On Sep 02, 2017
Passy089:
I've already done that... I'm so very angry,i can't bear the thought of betraying my fiancee.my conscience will kill me.
Smiles. Don't be angry.
Stamp your feet to the ground. Do everything possible to assure your fiancee you are for her. Do not leave that precious lady.

Your mum will eventually come down no matter what.just for her to know u mean business
FamilyRe: My Mother Rejected My Fiancee After Dating For 9 Years by Olami90: 12:25am On Sep 02, 2017
I will implore you to be a bit more patient.
Whatever patience can't solve would be grounded.

Op, I personally hate when an individual is rejecting/condemning something without proffering solution or alternative or close substitute.


You can't be totally angry with your mum.
Ask her to give you close substitute/alternative if she doesn't want your choice for you or come out clear why she is against it (this is to make her realise she is going extreme, just to tease her because I won't accept such too).
Ensure you exhaust all options and carry people she respect along.

If it is not working, stay away from the family house for a long time. Till they care about your whereabout. By then, they will know you mean business to defend your choice/woman no matter what.

The waiting will eventually worth it. You may have more revelations during the waiting period.

In all, be prayerful. God owns everyone's heart and can control it how he likes. He can humble her.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid vs Barcelona, Spanish Super Cup (2 - 0) On 16th August 2017 by Olami90:
When PaulinHo is introduced,

Barca will overturn the table.




#HalaMadrid
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How To Apply For Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) Recruitment 2017 by Olami90:
teawhy85:
Sure..u for don drop am sef
I am here.....



Thanks
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How To Apply For Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) Recruitment 2017 by Olami90:
JennieCutie4U:
hi, pls can you send me the past questions too via akunwanneamara@gmail.com. would really appreciate it. thanks
EducationRe: 2017/2018 University of Ibadan(UI) Postgraduate Forms Is Out by Olami90: 8:28pm On Jun 29, 2017
fergie001:
PGDE school fees is slightly lower than the school fees for MA/MSc.

UI doesn't run PGDE for Industrial Chemistry.

Wish U success.

Cc: Olami90
I didn't mean PGD in Education(PGDE) I said PGD in Industrial Chem.

And what about the prospectus I sent you pm for please
EducationRe: 2017/2018 University of Ibadan(UI) Postgraduate Forms Is Out by Olami90: 9:16pm On Jun 28, 2017
thank you fergie001, i wish to have the prospectus too and i have sent you pm.


I will also like to know if UI offers PGD in Industrial Chemistry and the tuition fee for postgraduate diploma students.

thanks so much
FamilyRe: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Olami90: 3:46pm On Jun 07, 2017
specter:
Marriage is work bro. Strong work and it requires each partner to play the fool at one point or another.
Yes it has its good side, but the not so good side requires strong hard work.
Me wen be lion for street and if I roar cold go dey. come see as my woman dey scold me like primary 6 pikin. Even my parents nor bold scold me like that cos I gat play the fool. And most times, she is keeping it 100% real.
We dated for a while, she caught me butt naked screwing the living day out of other girl friend I had , while we were still dating. She handled them with maturity. Prayer , advice and scolding.
She has earned my love and respect and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. Even most of my friends nor come understand me again.
Every thing bad I have stopped from drinking, partying regularly, clubbing, going on sex spree, smoking weed , cigarette, etc.
She fought on her knee. The day I caught myself sharing church flyer in bid to win soul for Christ while Chelsea was playing a crucial match, I was laughing as in na me be dis.
She has changed me. That is what marriage is all about.
It's hard work, not a bed of roses. She will offend you, learn to forgive and forget. You will offend her too.
We communicate and play like identical twins. Older married couple in my compound dey wonder how we dey do am.
She carries her self with grace and Candor so much that I am taking classes on economics, accounting , spiritual and social responsibility from her.
Do you know the miracle? She is not a graduate and I have 2 degrees plus an Msc awaiting LLM. But she lectures me and prays for me.
Do we fight at times ? Yeap but you will never know cos our quarry is always settled between 1-48hrs and no 3rd party.
Marriage sweet whether or not money dey, if you have your soul mate for a wife.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Updated-New Job Vacancies by Olami90: 9:33pm On Jun 02, 2017
If you reside at or close to Ibafo and can teach Physics conveniently and excellently with good knowledge of geography should submit application and Cv to; Dominion College International, Lion power junction, Orimerunmu, Olowotedo Ibafo.
Urgently............
RomanceRe: My Pre Wedding Pictures by Olami90: 11:36pm On May 05, 2017
fuckboys:
You no deserve that babe, you wey dey play bet 24/7 for odugwu shop for PH angry

This girl don suffer
God of mercy!! Laughs. ........
People can know a lot and have records o.
One other person said this exact thing on last page and op is yet to acknowledge the two posts.

Still hoping it is all joke cheesy
CareerRe: FUTA SPGS Admission For 2016/2017 by Olami90: 10:24pm On Apr 30, 2017
kidscamp:
Pls tell your friends that are interested.

THE FEDERAL UNIVERSITY OF TECHNOLOGY, AKURE ADVERTISEMENT FOR ADMISSION INTO POSTGRADUATE PROGRAMMES FOR 2016/2017 ACADEMIC SESSION

Applications are invited from suitably qualified candidates for admission into the following Postgraduate Programmes of the Federal University of Technology, Akure for the 2016/2017 Academic Session.
Click here for details

Application payments can be made nationwide at any bank branch that is on etranzact platfom. Please note that you do not need any account number to pay for the Application Form, just indicate on your teller that you want to pay for FUTA Postgraduate Application Form.
Please note that only payments made via the eTranzact platform will work on the portal.

Click on 'Application Payment' to verify your Application Payment and complete the Application Form accordingly.
Thanks.
http://secure.spgsfuta.com/bin/pg_advert.pdf
please i will need update for 2017/2018 futa postgraduate form when it is available.
Thanks so much
RomanceRe: Am Tired Of My Relationship by Olami90: 12:42am On Apr 28, 2017
Missteerious:
You don't have to do that, just be patient and if its not working out, leave him..
My boyfriend is exactly like this and the last time I asked him, he and his big bro made it clear to me that we ain't married and I can't question his moves, I felt deeply hurt but I've decided to just chill and not ask him anything again but if he ever marries me mistakenly, I've sworn to make his life a living hell for him just like he did to me, he'd regret everything he's done, but for now.. I'm just pretending to buy his bullshit, I hate him and his Bro though.. But they wouldn't even know.
My dear, I plead with you not to tow this path.
It is obvious you are hurt and ready to go on a revenge mission by marrying him once he is willing. Honestly it is one of the wrong reasons to marry anyone.

*Do you think you will be fulfilled by doing this?
*Do you think that will stop him from getting worse?
*What do you want to become of your children wen u two have gone haywire?
*Don't you deserve career growth, happiness/peace of mind rather than channeling your strength to punishing someone?

All his actions u av seen are big red flags which d best way to deal with it is to walk out.
A lady heading into marriage for revenge mean;
*such a lady isn't mature yet neither does she know her worth - low self esteem
*such a lady is selfishly benefitting some things from d guy or his family.

You are obviously being emotionally tortured. You aren't meant to be in that relationship if u are actually experiencing evils.

I'm sorry if it hurts but patience u are preaching here equate foo.lishness/extreme low self esteem.
Don't think of settling with him for revenge else you will be building a miserable life for yourself too with ur eyes widely open.

I hope you will truly understand where I'm driving at in relation to "purpose of marriage" and make a wise decision..... It is well with you.
EventsRe: How Much Did Your Wedding Cost You, How Much Are You Budgeting For Your Wedding? by Olami90: 6:19pm On Apr 14, 2017
This topic suppose to be on frontpage. It will help a lot of intending couples learn from those that have done it in a certain way.
We need experiences to be shared by married men and women.

Lalasticlala please help with it.
RomanceRe: Man Who Recently Married A Lady Who Snatched Him From Her Friend, Speaks by Olami90: 5:08pm On Mar 31, 2017
agitator:
You should understand that some women think because of their beauty, her man should just be grateful she is dating him out of all the thousands of toasters. Some don't even bother to do little things to please the man, like chatting, cooking food, even how to serve the food, etc.

So when a friend sees these little requirements they tend to show the man, they can change and accommodate.

I have witnessed where two friends almost fought just for the fact that the friend advised her to treat the boyfriend better. The friend was of the opinion that the guy was not even that demanding and the little things creating problems are not that difficult or require much from the friend.

Many men in present day Nigeria have experienced this kind of scenario, only the question of morality prevents them from marrying their babe's friend, or the girl is not comfortable to marry her friend's guy. While some damn the consequences and go ahead. undecided undecided undecided
You are so right bro. Hundred likes for this your comment.

I have experienced your first paragraph personally, it is so annoying.

Until people acknowledge their values, some will continue to get stuck and be victim of emotional torture.

Over the time,i have learnt not to feel less of myself and if a lady is not it morally, let her clear off with whatever is making feel on top. I have my eyes already on what matter to me. No time for nonsense.
RomanceRe: Man Who Recently Married A Lady Who Snatched Him From Her Friend, Speaks by Olami90: 8:26pm On Mar 30, 2017
so the man would have marry the former fiancee if he had not met the friend(through her) he married now?? knowing fully well the former fiance is full of flaws he isn't comfortable with, but wanted to marry her.
#ConfusedMan

That's how people ignorantly get themselves into a terrible marriage with their eyes widely opened to red flags
RomanceRe: Man Grabs And Stares At Fiancee's Backside In Lovely Pre-wedding Photos by Olami90: 2:31am On Mar 28, 2017
Pre-wedding pix on bed/in the other room?? shocked
That's okay. Continue deceiving yourself op.

Nice shots from the photographer though
RomanceRe: Man Grabs And Stares At Fiancee's Backside In Lovely Pre-wedding Photos by Olami90: 2:18am On Mar 28, 2017
Pre-wedding pix on bed/in the other room?? shocked
That's okay. Continue deceiving yourself op.
RomanceRe: Hilarious Conversation Between A Man & His Ex-Girlfriend Who Cheated On Him by Olami90: 12:23pm On Mar 27, 2017
Wow!!!! Can't believe my eyes. This is an old friend/schoolmate, Abayomi Akinbo

Tho I don't see how this is hilarious.

The babe self look like some1 old enuf to be his mother.
PhonesRe: MTN Loses 714,000 Internet Subscribers by Olami90: 10:28pm On Mar 25, 2017
mrlaw93:
I load 1k on Glo to get 3.2GB data and still get 2k to call all networks for 2wks..



Tell me y i no go GLO grin
Me self don port to Glo since January they announced that BB sub cancellation. But I don't knw abt d 2k ooo. Kindky enlighten me on what to do or how to av access to it
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Updated-New Job Vacancies by Olami90: 7:47pm On Mar 25, 2017
Dieumerci1:
No, not at all. Why?
This ur monicker is the friend's nick/name, same field and location. The diiff is she is about passing out of nysc. I thought u are probably the person.

Sorry about that.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Updated-New Job Vacancies by Olami90: 10:46am On Mar 25, 2017
Dieumerci1:
. Hello, please what is the nature of their test/assessment for this role at aramex? I got an invite for this next week. Thanks.
Please are you a graduate of Madonna univ. and about to round up youth service at one of d north central states?
TV/MoviesRe: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Olami90: 5:02pm On Mar 24, 2017
mediocre:
Thread has turned to chat room, no more updates.
This is what about two bitter and sorrowful guys caused.

They are useless and unproductive in all aspect, yet criticised, bad mouthed blessed princesskab that was updating voluntarily till they brought her down.

Tell me how such people's life will not be in shambles....

I only blame those still acknowledging their foolishness, if only they can ignore every mention or post from them till sane and sensible folks with like mind come online.

It is better to leave them here since their pathetic lives revolves and end here.
TV/MoviesRe: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Olami90:
I have tried so hard not to be involved in debate or argument here but the level of stup.idity displayed by some particular guys need to be checked/handled by moderators.


As someone that started following this thread two weeks ago for updates, I cannot but agree the first thing I noticed here is a bitter personality called threebear.
Honestly there is no way an individual will not exhibit lil of what they portray on faceless social media sites out there in the society

I wouldn't know the situation that have shaped/moulded you into this destructive lifestyle but the truth is it wrecks irrespective of gender.

As a man that is meant to lead a family, it is more terrible/pathetic.
A whole lot of issues/utterances you are meant to ignore totally.
I even imagine how a man will have time to post severally within an hour or respond to every comment against him.

All these isn't to incite you but with the hope that you can actually think it through to be a better individual.


Princesskab, I really wish you know how to ignore whatever anyone says. It isn't what people say that makes you but what you make out of yourself. It doesn't define you either. I wish you know to detail how silence works.

I implore people that aren't disciplined enough, not to insult/attack people that are supporting their favourite HM, everyone is entitled to their choices.

Finally, I will implore moderators(I believe that is one of your responsibilities) of this section to restore discipline/sanity on this thread, this forum is bigger than any uncultured/loosed individual
Thanks

Cc: UjSizzle, dominique, mynd44, lalasticlala, fynestboi, missyB3
TV/MoviesRe: Tboss, Bassey, Bally And Debie-Rise Up For Possible Eviction by Olami90:
cheesy With d method today,big brother actually put efe on d spot.He can't be blamed.

Any of bassey or beautiful mama T that is always hammering on being older should leave.

After Efe, debie-rise would be my next favourite. She only needs to be emotionally stronger, else she would be always be a prey.

.
BTW, mr Thin Tall Tony never reach naija or has he gone to meet his acclaimed dead family??
TV/MoviesRe: Thin Tall Tony Evicted From Big Brother Naija by Olami90: 8:28pm On Mar 19, 2017
I hope he has learnt that family is all that matters than cash.

This guy isn't so intelligent. Still want to deny his marriage on live show until Ebuka puts it direct to his face, talking about his late grandmother/grandfather/uncle etc

This same immediate family he has been hiding are those he is going back to...

I wish u success in your endeavors.
TV/MoviesRe: Bbnaija: Thin Tall Tony Evicted From Big Brother Naija House by Olami90: 8:10pm On Mar 19, 2017
I hope he has learnt that family is all that matters than cash.

This guy isn't so intelligent. Still want to deny his marriage on live show until Ebuka puts it direct to his face, talking about his late grandmother/grandfather/uncle etc

This same immediate family he has been hiding are those he is going back to...

I wish u success in your endeavors.
TV/MoviesRe: Big Brother Naija 2017: Live Thread by Olami90: 10:41pm On Mar 18, 2017
deeMarc:
Lmao.....do you know it's actually "I AM AT ANGER" the woman was always saying in that old movie .Nigeria people turn am to ayamatanga. Lol
.


Looooooooooool grin cheesy. Lmao grin grin
This ur comment made me laugh so tey water dey comot for my eyes.


My sis almost injure herself as as she laughed hard, I showed her.
FamilyRe: A Nairalander Prewedding Pix. I Just Had To Create Another Moniker For This. by Olami90: 9:43am On Mar 14, 2017
Op, u and ur fiancee looks very good......... Trust me



Did u create another moniker because u u don't want people to bad mouth you or ur fiancee?

If so, you need to realise there are people that av signed contract with bad belle-ism nd critics can't be totally eradicated. You only need to learn to ignore most of the time.


I pray for success in ur marriage(amen). Congrats to you both.
RomanceRe: My Pre-wedding Pix.. My Woman.. My Everything by Olami90: 11:16am On Mar 13, 2017
With some comments here, some nairalanders didn't wake up fine this morning at all. Seem the situation of things has gotton so much into them. cheesy cheesy

Be happy for people taking bold steps now.


Congrats op. God bless your new family.
RomanceRe: The Pains Of A Busty Lady by Olami90: 2:02pm On Mar 10, 2017
waluga:
abeg now

gbenusi no be atenu
i will be a good boi wink cheesy kiss undecided
Looool. Crazy guy cheesy
No taste kankan cheesy tongue
RomanceRe: The Pains Of A Busty Lady by Olami90: 2:00pm On Mar 10, 2017
waluga:
in fact this is somptous
i dough my hat milady
acquaintance needed? wink cheesy grin cool kiss
See urself..... tongue
Boobs be making guys loose class. grin grin
U get eyes ?? cheesy
RomanceRe: The Pains Of A Busty Lady by Olami90: 1:10pm On Mar 10, 2017
Ayinke93:
Given bath u say?? grin cheesy.... Anyway busty ladies like me don't need olodos like u tongue
Only you is "busty ladies" ? wink
Anyway it is my type you need so I can take very good care of u wink , coping with ur excesses. I appreciate ur type more wink

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