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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by Olami90: 5:48am On Jan 19, 2018

Harjet:
Were u also invited for interview at that address??

Yes.

so may I know what you applied for?

and if you have gotten a clearer description to get there, kindly tell me

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Olami90: 7:41pm On Jan 18, 2018*

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Olami90: 7:41pm On Jan 18, 2018

Good evening house.....

I need description on how to get to 23 Ikoyi crescent, Lagos.
It is urgent please thanks.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by Olami90: 4:40pm On Jan 18, 2018

Harjet:
Good morning everyone.. Pls can anyone help me with directions to 23, Ikoyi crescent From Oshodi

good afternoon bro.
May I know the position you applied for?

Romance › Re: A Relationship With Two Friends: Please Advise by Olami90: 1:21pm On Jan 16, 2018

The First Lady has gotten her share of your destiny and decided to invite her friend to come get hers. lol
laughs at the kind of ladies we have nowadays.

These girls have gotten one of their targets in 2018 so early.

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Romance › Re: I Feel Insecure Now by Olami90: 6:13pm On Jan 13, 2018

am surprised you consider quitting the relationship because of those points you mentioned. They are normal phase most ladies go through and the way she handles it will tell the kind of lady she is.
You confirmed it that the conversations she had weren't romantic, she even put them on speaker for you.

Guy, relax! She is trying her best to be loyal to you and you need to appreciate that.
Do not generalise by thinking all female undergraduates are same and lose the babe.

Don't be insecure as you can misbehave to her for scenes that will only be playing in your head and do not let her see the insecurity in you but try to give her reasons she will consider you being the best for her.

You should be prepared to see more of that even when she is done from school.

Give her chance but be open and prepare for whatever comes because life itself is full of uncertainties.

Be mature about it, don't allow fear ruin your relationship.

Also ensure you work smart and let your pocket be whispering.

Family › Re: My Lover Owns The Twins Not You – Wife by Olami90: 10:54pm On Jan 12, 2018

stup*d woman....

I thought she initially said the babies aren't for him and she still doesn't want him to re-marry. This woman has gut o.

people always wanting to eat their cake and have it.

Countless women has subjected innocent men to this very torture/wickedness.

They will be acting weak gender. #nonsense

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Post Entry Level/Industrial Trainee Jobs Here For Those Without Experience by Olami90: 4:29pm On Jan 05, 2018

Michelle55:
it went well. why couldn't you meet up? some peeps came late for it though

I didn't get the invite on time as a result of power outage for long hours and I am
I am far away from Lagos right now.

You were given only written test?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Post Entry Level/Industrial Trainee Jobs Here For Those Without Experience by Olami90: 3:52pm On Jan 05, 2018

Michelle55:
yeah..

that's okay. How did it go?
I was unable to make it to the place.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Post Entry Level/Industrial Trainee Jobs Here For Those Without Experience by Olami90: 2:39pm On Jan 05, 2018

Michelle55:
tnx alot..

were you there today for assessment invitation of HR Operations Executive ?

Romance › Re: Please Advise Needed. by Olami90: 10:46pm On Jan 02, 2018

You are losing interest but never bothered about the capital you invested??

I hope deliverance won't be necessary to remove the black and red cloths used to cover your head and face before you can move on.

Romance › Re: 12 Kinds Of People You Should Avoid Getting Married To In 2018 by Olami90: 6:08pm On Jan 02, 2018*

It is unfortunate a lot of people make this decision to marry their spouse based on emotions and mundane things e. g he/she is good looking, he/she buys this and that for me (which doesn't equate to being treated well in marriage) etc

Until when maturity sets in, when men and women start checking for practicable/workable qualities like that OP listed, more will continue making mistakes others have made and regretting.

Bad marriage destroys anyone (career, purpose, focus etc) faster anything.

Only if people will come to term with reality

Romance › Re: Do Parents Still Chose For There Children Who To Marry This Days? by Olami90: 10:41am On Dec 09, 2017

Mikeshine:
YES

anyway, brace up bro. You will get over it with time.

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Romance › Re: Do Parents Still Chose For There Children Who To Marry This Days? by Olami90: 10:19am On Dec 09, 2017

Mikeshine:
Her parent ask me to bring my parent. They invited me twice before saying they have to see my parents which I did.

oh! I am sorry for that hasty assumption.

are you of same tribe?

Romance › Re: Do Parents Still Chose For There Children Who To Marry This Days? by Olami90: 10:12am On Dec 09, 2017

Mikeshine:
I'm really fed up, just looking at all the, emotions, faithfulness, truthfulness I've put into the relationship. Risking my parents life to come know her parent, it's really hard on me but I believe time is the best healer. Thanks

You should have waited to get her parents consent before making your parents go visit them. All these shows desperation.

I am of the opinion that everyone should have a part of them that can accept disappointment. Human can disappoint anytime, so don't get too confident.

she should be the one fighting that course and not you. If she isn't doing that, no matter the step you take to convince her will be a waste. True love should not be this stressful.

Forget all that, you will get over it with time. Make new friend(s), hang out with few responsible people, catch fun in a simple way you then u see yourself putting all behind

Romance › Re: Do Parents Still Chose For There Children Who To Marry This Days? by Olami90: 9:49am On Dec 09, 2017

If she is ready to dance to her parents tune then she isn't mature/decisive. I believe it is also her decision, forget other excuse(s).

You are already forcing yourself on her by wanting to do all to win her.

What is the essence of making her see things differently when she isn't ready??

Romance › Re: How Do You Guys Deal With A Selfish Girlfriend by Olami90: 7:57pm On Dec 07, 2017

ashjay001:
How did u decode all that, without marrying her? Lucky u

I had to do thought provoking analysis.

Her mum once asked me one of the days I went there "if I am sure I can handle her" thereby leading to more revelations which I appreciated.

I have also had brief experience of such before hers.
After I tried my best for this particular one, she had gut to tell me "certain guys are doing this and that for their babes"

Funny enough, both are so called Christian ladies o.

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Romance › Re: How Do You Guys Deal With A Selfish Girlfriend by Olami90: 9:49pm On Dec 06, 2017

Op, I was in your shoe some years back.
My immediate ex was extremely selfish, proud and knows too much.

I gave her time to change but I discovered it has been her way of life. Her mum told me sometimes then that when she and her other siblings were much younger, she is the only child that will refuse to break her save-box to assist her with their little savings.

I loved her so much then that she felt on top like I can't do without her.

She is very stingy but fashion conscious (clothes, shoes, jewelries etc).
I chose not to ignore that attitude (a big red flag) and I have never regretted it one bit till today.

Save yourself future headache because a lady like her will only make you poor and be the one to rub it on your face.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Should I Marry Her?!!! by Olami90: 7:24pm On Nov 07, 2017

Bigcola:
Thank you so much, this is good enough for me. Appreciate

You are very welcome.

beside it is lalasticlala and not how you typed it up there.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Should I Marry Her?!!! by Olami90: 10:35pm On Nov 06, 2017

Bro, the fact that you both have opposing interests and not always in harmony is a big block except you do not plan for progress in your marriage(which i doubt)

It goes beyond loving her to the core as you said and the moments you do play hard is just one of the open windows.
It hasn't gone awful because you aren't married yet (when most people feel they have gotten the license to do what they like to their spouse).

If your level of disagreement outweighs your level of agreement, you don't need a prophet to tell you what to do.
You do not have to what it takes to change anyone except an individual decides to change for better.

Foolishness is when one is seeing a canal just few miles ahead but thinks it will automatically level when you get to the spot.
Do not forget miracle does not happen at the altar.

Note: You also need serious work on your temper(as you stated)

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Romance › Re: Share That Songs That Makes You Go Emotionally by Olami90: 7:15am On Sep 27, 2017

MrDandy:
Haha no bro.. actually, I've been desperately looking for that track too for about 2 years now when I started listening to his show but I couldn't find who owns that track.. so fortunately, I coincidentally found the track just yesterday.

I remembered when I was searching for the track on google around the early months of this year, I saw this your post then via google so that's why I wanna share it with you.. track name is "Kenny G- Jasmine Flower". Search on Spotify or iTunes

#shakesHimFirmly.

God bless you bro.
I knew it would be Kenny G because I am quite familiar with his tracks and style. You won't believe I have searched a very good no(over 20)of his songs but couldn't locate this very one.

#ShakesHimAgain cheesy

I will check it up. God bless you bro

Romance › Re: Share That Songs That Makes You Go Emotionally by Olami90: 6:24pm On Sep 25, 2017

MrDandy:
Lol.. have you gotten the title of that track?

Smiles........ Continue to pull my legs.

I haven't anyway. Guess it was made solely for his show anyway. Except you know something about it u wish to tell me

Romance › Re: I Love My Present Babe But My Ex Never Give Up On Me by Olami90: 9:23pm On Sep 19, 2017

See question!!!!
Hunhun, do not tell her to stop calling. Tell her to pack to your house.

I believe you are old enough and mature to be considering marriage by November but i am surprised you are unable to make this decision and be firm with it.
Forget that rubbish she said that she was forced. Was she tied with rope to her husband's house?

Your sissy body language is what is still giving her access to you. Pay no attention to her again then she will learn to face her marriage.

You don't need to change your number except it has no effect in connection with your business/job.
Be a man!

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Romance › Re: What Is Your Relationship Status? by Olami90: 2:02pm On Sep 18, 2017

pweetiedee:
lol

This beautiful smile nooni.

One of the reasons I am lucky to have you kiss

Romance › Re: What Is Your Relationship Status? by Olami90: 11:55pm On Sep 17, 2017

Been waiting for pweetiedee to pluralize me

Romance › Re: Does He Really Love Me by Olami90: 6:52pm On Sep 10, 2017

xtybliss:
Please help a confused sister out.
I started dating this guy about 13 months ago and we've been getting on very fine. He says he loves me and I also love him. I'm really confused on whether to give in once again to this or stand my grounds even if it means losing him.

I have honestly never believed the saying of village people playing ten-ten with someone's life but the highlighted point up there confirmed it being true.
You do not care losing him because of white/church wedding huh

A guy you claimed he is good and you love?

Some ladies sef!!!!!! I AM JUST TIRED.

Can you sincerely explain why you are so particular about the white/church wedding?
Is that of court no longer valid?

Kindly answer these two questions, only then i will ascertain your type of lady.......

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Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Olami90: 9:03pm On Sep 09, 2017*

weldon!

Romance › Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Olami90: 1:04pm On Sep 07, 2017

Bigsteveg:
The mistake people make starts from the wedding. How will a girl tell me she does not want to have a low key wedding. For me, wedding is over hyped, I'll just go to registry and move on. Any body not okay with that should mind his/her life. Why will I feed a thousand people and drink garri in my own house later. Nonsense

Thank you my brother. You are spot on

OP's wife to-be is undoubtedly simple and understanding which is truthfully rare.
That lady that quoted me typed nonsense and generalized(especially for someone you know nothing about) just to gather likes

Family › Re: What Happened On My Way To Work This Morning by Olami90: 11:14am On Sep 07, 2017

IHate9jerians:
The OP is a pretender and a 'white knight".
Seeing the girl getting attention from other guys annoyed him because he was also attracted to her and he would love to keep her for himself

Hilarious! cheesy

Man, you have got no chill at all. You grabbed OP's scrot.. finally

Very funny but you may be right

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Family › Re: What Happened On My Way To Work This Morning by Olami90: 11:07am On Sep 07, 2017

odehaj:
and who told you you're pretty?..being fair doesn't equal pretty,colour yourself black,you worhworh!

laughs.......... cheesy

You are a clown.
You can be blunt bro.............

Romance › Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Olami90: 2:51pm On Sep 06, 2017

pocohantas:
They are not rare. They are everywhere.
OP, is very discerning that's why he could pick her out of all the karashikas. [s]Some of you want a girl with the so called 'slay queen' looks and body ...someone you can flaunt around as high class babe.[/s]

[s]That's how you guys end up ignoring the modest babe because she doesn't look overly flashy[/s]. Start observing pre-wedding pictures henceforth. Watch how modest young men go for modest young women. The best thing that can happen to anyone...male or female, is to know your size, it's not an insult...it's for ones peace of mind.

And who told you i give the slightest care about slay queen looks and body? Unfortunately you do not know me neither do you know my taste.
I am totally with you that OP is discerning. I should have added that.
None of my two exes was a slay queen but i can tell you that there are ladies with very good moral background that doesn't want to hear low key wedding.

My immediate ex is an example. A focused and intelligent but selfish individual that craves for more than what she is having or can afford. This very reason out of few others(knows too much, arrogance etc) made me cancel her out. Funny enough, she is this churchy type.
I know what i want when i see one and i know people that can help my dream, so why will i choose to waste my precious time?

When i say rare, i know what i am saying. There are ladies that are not even close to being a slay queen but aren't simple, understanding and patient.

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Romance › Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Olami90: 1:12pm On Sep 06, 2017

OP, you are a very intelligent man with focus.
One point i noticed and must commend is that you have got yourself a simple, very understanding and patient fiancee. Very rare

I am seeing two wonderful personalities that are being very real with one another

If she can stay true to it, you both will go places in some years to come.
Please ensure you do not deviate or renege on your plans/focus.

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