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Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

abeg op pass me her number

pierreojo101:
Hello peeps,

I need Advise. I try to be a nice husband to my wife but recently I started noticing characters that scares me.

She is often secretive and many times I get to know her plans from strangers or after it has been carried out.

For instance, according to her ( cos I don't take note and I didn't give in one lump sum ) I gave her over 2m for her business. Unfortunately when she was to start the business she got pregnant of our second born and when she was to start again coro came and again she got pregnant.

After that she made up her mind not to do the business again. I was not informed I only heard from someone in the church who is a mother to both of us.

All of a sudden she started selling the stuff. Whatever she does with the money I don't know all I know is she is always needing money.

Each time she is on phone with her relatives and I enter the room ( she goes inside to receive her calls ) she immediately ends the call or change topic or speak In a way that you know she is not comfortable.

Many atimes I have had to excuse her from the room.

Ever since we got married it has always been one issue to the other. My friend was telling me moments ago ( I started seeing my old friends again due to the fact that she is never available for me ) that I am in a sexless marriages.

Two years ago I discovered her father is her next of kin and till date.

Her siblings will be rude to me she will look away. When it turns to fight she will apologise and when same thing happens she blackmails me with me not being forgiving and Christ like.

1. Do you guys think I am overreacting expecting that my wife feel confident to discuss any family issue in my presence especially as I do the same?

2. Am I expecting too much by thinking she should carry me along in her business decisions especially as I do the same. She has all my passwords both for bank and emails. Only recently I changed password for phones cos she keeps reading my messages while her own phone is password.

3. Recently her friend's sister was rude to me which I told her the reply is the girl insulted me and I insulted her no issue. This is someone who I had to because of relocate from the state I have lived all my life for simply because she was rude to my mother and my mother chose not to be forgiving ( Mumsy hardly ever forgives ).

Bro u sitting on a time bomb �

Ejunka2021:
Please I want to confirm how genuine is Droom Soccer because I got a mail from them about a scholarship offer to attend a 1 month development training in Madrid Spain.

1000 euros provided by droom, to be completed by self with a sum of 500 euros for the registration which would qualify me to travel to spain.

Bro don't try it but you want to pls be sure before putting a cent, I was scammed back then in 2008 like that

WoundedLamb:
You're asking NL people who never see anything wrong in whatever a man does? Lol... save yourself the time.

Your moniker says it all, I wonder what guys has done to u..... Lmao

Lukaku12:
Bro, I never said I know it all...I only criticised the action....the Nigerian mentality is that anything goes...I leave u to ur own belief and foresight of things....shalom

What Nigeria mentality is that anything goes... Everyone want justice but where and how would they get it when only famous and wealthy that control our society, if op is your sis would advice her spend her savings on useless bum issues all because she want justice?

XXXXTENTACION:
This is Nigeria. you can sue him to court and see what happens maybe by the time you relocate to America we can enforce that.

U bam

Lukaku12:
A good example of someone who knows nothing .....

Mr know it all are you saying she should sue him lol come oshodi or iyana ipaja come see many touching when people dey rush to board public transport, it unintentionally.. We all need to stop this western victim games and focus on the problem, do u know several problems the op is dealing with secretly so tell me that one time touch is the most of her problem that y'all wanna see as something out of the world

Lukaku12:
From the comments I have read so far....it shows that there are more sexual predates....someone asked a question and y'all are acting like it's all normal....

See this werey na which court u wan carry the matter go for naija u better get up and hustle for ur daily bread

Hintona:
Tueh! Not me.
I don't touch boys nyash only my fellow girls.

Even your fellow girls yansh na still sexual harassment

Useless bum bum shaking by force

Cr7 coming with hatrick ⚽ ⚽ ⚽

Kellibae:
Foolish woman
The woman is Yoruba and from the look of things her husband is Yoruba too.
But see how much he hates tinubu to the extent of throwing his wife out of the house.
But Yoruba here always says igbos are the ones hating tinubu.

Every right thinking human knows that tinubu is a disaster and a criminal too dangerous to be allowed become a president.
I pledge on sensible Nigerians from SE SS MB and some SW wey get sense not to allow Yoruba BMC put us into another hell they way they did with buhari.

Empty head, this has nothing to do with tribalism when a woman looses her dignity no responsible man will let such woman have a space in his house �

Erojepromise:
she can't cook and so? is that a pre requisite to what makes a lady a wife material or valuable? l don't think so .. cooking is an art and comes naturally to some people , that are naturally talented because they are drawn to that art.. l would advise men to learn how to cook and stop being liabilities themselves because the modern age has come and the days where women were just limited to the kitchen has gone. if l can cook it is because l need that skill to prepare my own meals and not wait on somebody else to do what is essential for my living for me as an adult.


for some of you that might what to quote know this, " the only quality you should look for in a lady is her "character" . Majority of you guys will definitely choose a bad cook with good character over a lady with very bad character who's a good cook because you know the art of cooking can be learnt from self - teaching or tutoring by an individual... cooking isn't a quality that is difficult for someone to have. pen down.

Werey u go remain single for life though jesus was single probably when he returns to earth he will probably marry u.......

sapphiere:
To those who support and protect women, may you have double celebration this month just like this woman in IJN


The FUTURE is FEMALE

LOL

Zzor

Congrats to that smart guy, bro wherever you are may god bless u for fuckin the hell out of her, make her fall in love then trashed lmao, una go hear am

Crayfish09:
What a load of rubbish. Even those western countries went through what we are facing today, but they didn't run. UAE and Israel were once shut countries, but their citizens stayed and fought for their countries, but you people have no sense of honor. I'm very sure you'll end of doing yahoo or selling drugs when you travel outside like a typical Nigerian immigrant. You hardly ever add value to your host countries.

lol see this werey na only people with no hope they talk shits like u do because if u probably have some degree or a good job I'm sure you would have raised enough money to get out the country and about other Western countries yeah they won't leave their country because they are governed by good and fair law abiding leaders compared to this shithole

Hintona:
Government is corrupt. They wail.
Economy is in shambles. They wail.
Female entertainers are doing well for themselves. They wail.
Feminists breathe. They wail.
A man falls in love with a Nigerian woman. They wail.
Zzor and Pocohantas exist. They wail.

They just wail and wail and wail like randy he goats.

Start the interview from your household

Vaughanlanrewaj:
In life, it is what you focus on that expands. If all you wrote up there is all you you focus on, that is your reality and it will manifest.
Your mindset precedes your thoughts and your thoughts precedes your words and your words are seeds, they bear fruits. The land will bless those who bless it and curses those who curse it. Every day you curse this land called Nigeria, you will not be blessed by the land and I guarantee you that except you change, years from now, you will still be lamenting and won't still see anything good in the land in your life even when others are being blessed. It is your mouth and mindset to blame.
Check yourself before you completely wreck yourself. Right now you can't afford to miss it by choosing wrong companies and not reading good books.

And for your information I'm financially independent and my wife and my son lives in Detroit Michigan, Nigeria has never done anything positive to so many youngsters out there

[quote author=Vaughanlanrewaj post=100465605]In life, it is what you focus on that expands. If all you wrote up there is all you you focus on, that is your reality and it will manifest.
Your mindset precedes your thoughts and your thoughts precedes your words and your words are seeds, they bear fruits. The land will bless those who bless it and curses those who curse it. Every day you curse this land called Nigeria, you will not be blessed by the land and I guarantee you that except you change, years from now, you will still be lamenting and won't still see anything good in the land in your life even when others are being blessed. It is your mouth and mindset to blame.
Check yourself before you completely wreck yourself. Right now you can't afford to miss it by choosing wrong companies and not reading good books. [/quote
See this fool telling his whole generations they won't be blessed lmao send your account number let help ur life stupid mofo... How many of your families are blessed, I can't bet whole life you got no single millionaire in your entire lineage

Cousin9999:
Weird things:

-marrying elderly
-marrying really fat chicks
-impregnating whites
-dating whites

So bro if any of these things so perfect for the guy don't u think he's life won't be compared to when living here?

Vaughanlanrewaj:
I am not sure you read the story or perhaps you did not understand it ma. These are people doing well in Nigeria yet travelled overseas and decided to cheat the system of their host country.
Not everyone wants to go Yankee ma. Not even by this crooked manner . All the preliminary signs are always there. A crocodile in Nigeria can't become a Tiger in UK/US. That Henry guy must have been breaking the laws but getting away with it in Nigeria, he just carried such obnoxious behaviour overseas and unfortunately for him, he now can't get away with it anymore.

If he is not a law breaker, he should have left UK and returned home rather than living the rest of his life as a fugitive.
When people create problems for themselves they should be honest to admit it instead of blaming others or their native country.

Some people are so good on their jobs here in Lagos that they are routinely sent overseas to work and they return home even before their visa expires.I sometimes cringe when I see some Nigerians hustling and getting paid far less for what they can earn here at home but too ashamed to come back home. It is never too late to come back home and rebuild especially when you see your life goals flashing away before you eyes. Why on earth will I want to spend years overseas as a menial job worker?

Guy all u spit are trashy because your life is cool doesn't mean Nigeria is a better place for any sane people that want to survive so their upcoming generations could have a better life should stay, life is about risk even living in naija is the biggest risk.... Yeah some people sent on holidays by the companies but do u have a second thought that its every body that has the privilege to good education talk less of good job. I would rather die as a fugitive in UK, USA or Canada than living a fugitive life in curses country called Nigeria.

Oga Don jazzy u married ur best friend or your sugar mummy?

IntersexSherry:
Ya

Hope you good and safe... It been awhile, may god continue to be your strength

chronian:


So, all the girls that came from humble backgrounds beg for money.
While those from rich homes don't.



Sense will fall on you sooner than later my dear.

OK madam I know u are here to protect ur fellow feminist, can u tell me what else u can offer in relationship without exhibiting ur sexual and special begging skills?

tosaino95:
There is more to it, like they want to explore university sex life with no boyfriend stuff...

Uni is just another free world for them to explore and exhibit the sexual monster in them

Sanchez01:
So there's a pattern here and I am happy about it, in a way. If it was Kanu, they would have sent the military to take him out a long time ago. Although they tried with Igboho but they failed. They could have tried again but they can't. Why? Certain Yoruba leaders of thought are behind him and they've come out to do so. It makes the situation difficult for the Northern Oligarchs and Adamu, hence why they can't use brute force.

He has been invited several times and have failed to honour them.

The problem with IPOB or Kanu isn't because Nigeria wants to keep the Igbo Nation down. The governors of the South East will glady sell and give out Kanu to the government. On Kanu's part, he failed and keeps failing in bringing those more powerful than him on board. There should be more to his rabble rousing.

Sadly, almost all the Eastern governors of the past and present have all used IPOB to score cheap points; Umahi, Peter Obi, Supreme Court governor, Rochas, Gburugburu, Obiano, etc. The Ooni had to get involved when the presidency was scheming to arrest Igboho. This should have applied to Kanu as well but no, the governors run parallel with his aspirations and have turned his boys to ducklings that must be shot on sight.

Can Igboho take on the government alone? O course not. He is confident because some of his people are behind him and they are not hiding it.

The ESN, IPOB and anyone who publicly aligns with them are auto targets because those they elected are more interested in showing they are more Fulani than Igbos.

I have always said it and will continue to say it; the break up of Nigeria does not rest with the South East. Until the South West says it and acts it fully, no one is going nowhere.

No one use ipob uses kanu for cheap points or score, it just that kanu is too coward and weak to lead a nation, he speaks more than he act. A só call leader that never frontier in battle igboho is different from kanu