Kobojunkie:
Are you also a programmer or what?

Intergrated:
why?

Kobojunkie:
So, you have a university degree sef? Hold on... He used his university degree to become a programmer and stuff while you are doing what exactly with your own?

Olamidegal:
my father refused , he would not allow me to come home , I am still begging him till today

Intergrated:
madam go your family house. Until that man is ready for the marriage. I hate reading stuffs like this. In law it's advised you separate first and see if there would be changes

Ohizman73:
Did you not first date your husband before settling with him as a wife. which involves knowing his family and viewing them. Then also knowing where you are to reside during marriage and such necessary stuff that involves cohabition.all these have to have been sorted out b4 you took in.

LaShawn:


How is it going now?
Send me an email where I can talk to you.

Mindlog:


The most important thing you need to do right now, is to pack your things, that of your baby leave that family when they are not around, go back to your birth family and end that marriage from your family's house!

Until you leave that toxic environment and marriage, you will never achieve clarity on how to rediscover yourself and move ahead with your life.

Kobojunkie:
Wow... Sounds like the situation became a lot worse after the begging. Not sure what you went to beg for by the way. Please consider heading back to your family home if you feel the condition is no longer conducive in that home abeg! I am not certain how long it will take for you to get a job but at least if you are in a place where you can get your mind more settled, you can move forward from there to seeing what you can find.

IyaTola:
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SMJay:
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olamilekan9:
chai🥶 omo,sis i can smell that you re going through alot,God forbide but imagine if your husband enemy is no more,omo eith what you have tabled about your in-laws it will be a lose lose for you oo,one solution i think i can usher out is relocating,can you and your husband relocate to another area you know a bit far from that inlaw abi wetin u feel

Gloriagee:
O ya mi lenu o. My own is when did his bad behaviour start? Cos after cooking, ironing etc, they say she's too comfortable. Immediately after our court wedding all this started , different alien ideas just begin to fly in , my husband became a completely different person, like a Tyrant ! At first I was obeying all their rules even when it's hurt, 6 month down I became afraid of my own husband such that I stutter if I want to speak with him because I'm speaking in fear to the point that I started distancing myself physically from him , I just don't want to be anywhere arround him even if we are not having issue I just stylishly give him space, emotionally I became distant yet I never turned him down whenever he comes close because I just want to be a good wife , but situation keeps getting worse he keeps demanding for me to bend more and more so much that I can't even recognise myself anymore , u can definitely tell I am not happy and I am always absent minded

NaBanga:
If there are no children involved and you are able to support yourself, leave this marriage. I feel you will regret it, if you don't. People like your husband and his family see a wife as a product or accessory. They don't view you as human or equal to them.

chatinent:
Have you tried rubbing minds with your husband?

Or have you also checked yourself if you aren’t overly territorial?


In every report, the teller doesn’t always highlight the roles they played that may have caused or fueled the problem…until we hear the other side of the story.

I don’t support anyone’s interference in my marriage anyways. Meanwhile, while you can try talking to your husband, also make sure you are accommodating. It’s too early you know..

Kobojunkie:
Given that the marriage is young still, can you maybe work towards being accepting of the situation to see where it likely leads?

You can maybe think to distract yourself by focusing on your business, your kid or even your studies in the meantime. Do you think that is doable, at least until this all maybe passes?

burp18:
Your husband is somewhat responsible for this. He ought to be the one to draw the lines with his family. What is your own family saying about this?

MrBrownJay1:


let your husband deal with this, if not they will always bring that family land/authority issue in your face.