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please write them down n show how you can achieve it.
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sparkleboy:
Please this question is directed at the financial gurus in here!
I have about 2.2m in my account and I won't be needing for atleast a month,
I'm thinking of fixing it to yield interest for 30 days.
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ShirelleBaby:


Doesn't apply to me
I stay in a position and still wake up perfectly in the position I slept in.

U be wood?

kheart:
Op u re 100 percent correct on dis cos I ve seen an incident where som1 picked a call while praying.

May Allah swt guide us all aright. Ameen

*smilling*

subhanallah ....... very funny though

OUR PHONES ......................

One of the hardest task in this 21st century is for the youths to spend 30 mins without "touching" their phones!

Almost everyone is now a phone addict.

It's the last thing you touch before you sleep at night.

It's the first thing you touch when you wake up at dawn

Some even put earpiece on their ears overnight.

Some still wake at night to download films but they can't wake up for tahajud.

Some are always "online" chatting.

As early as 6am they are online and they remain online till midnight.

They have thousands of friends online whom they chat with but they don't relate with their families at home.

They isolate themselves in their rooms.

Some argue till midnight about aqeedah issues, yet by fajr time, he is sleeping and snoring.

Immediately after the tasleem in salat, you see people pressing their phones again, no time for adhkaar!

As if all their past and future sins have already been forgiven!

When accidents happen, instead of saving lives, you see people snapping the victims with their phones.

When a house is burning, instead of quenching it, you see people snapping so as to be the first to upload it on social network.

When a person loses a loved one, instead of thinking about the funeral issues, the first thing the person does is to upload the news on social network perhaps to get
comments!

We are so addicted to phones, we even chat when we are on motorcycles.

Some still chat in the exam halls.

Some play games with their phones in the masjid.

# Subhanallah
Some watch films in the masjid.
What a fitnah befalling the Ummah.

Along the road, some keep pressing their phones, until perhaps they narrowly dodge an accident or until a banana peel slips them.

Even when we have guests, we still concentrate on our phones than our guest.

Some ignore their spouses because they are chatting with "mere friends" on Facebook!

Some use Suratul Asr to hasten their salat because of their phones, not knowing that Suratul Asr is talking about spending time in righteous deeds.

Many are those whose phones have made them "hypocrites". Many are those whose phones are leading them to hellfire
Because of your phone, you are the last person to come to Juma'ah and you are always the first
person to leave!

Allah said, 'Closer and closer to mankind comes their judgement, yet they don't take heed, and they turn away' (Sura Al-Anbiyaa vs 1)

Sheik Uthaymeen rahimahuLlah said, Whoever does not spend his time for the sake of Allah, what is better for him is DEATH!

May Allah forgive our numerous sins, ameen.

mytime24:
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Dnt just open ur mouth and talk , think and ascertain fact .

pls let get fact b4 we conclude, it is not Arab culture, it is islamic. Prophet muhammad (SAW) was sent to the whole world not Arab only. He never said any of His doctrine/sunnah is for Arab culture but for the whole world.

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CHANGING NAME AFTER MARRIAGE?
IS IT ISLAMICAL?

Taking The Husband's Name After Marriage - By Asma bint Shameem In our eagerness to copy the West, we Muslims have adopted many of their practices which have no basis in the Sharee’ah.

And among them is the practice of a woman changing her family name to that of her husband after she gets married.

The fact is that Islam does not require woman to change her name at marriage and there is nothing in the Sunnah to indicate that a woman should take her husband’s name after she gets married.

Actually, the Ulama tell us that this is an innovated practice that is not approved of in Islaam.

Now, I know some people will say…“ Oh, come on…What is the big deal?!!”

So read on and you will know what I mean….

The wives of the Prophet [pbuh] are the Mothers of the Believers, and the Prophet [pbuh], is the noblest of people and the best example.

And yet when we look at their example, we will realize that when the Prophet [pbuh] married any of his wives, NOT ONE of them took his name.


On the contrary, each one of them kept her father’s name even if her father was a kaafir.

Similarly, the wives of the Sahaabah and those who came after them did not change their names.


Did you ever think why they didn’t do that?

Surely, if it was a good thing, the wives of the Prophet [pbuh] would have done it and the Prophet [pbuh] would himself have instructed it and encouraged them to do it.


That is because it is Allaah’s order to keep your father’s name as an indication of your lineage.

"Call them by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allaah…”
[Quran 33:5]

And the Prophet [pbuh] said:
"Whoever calls himself by other than his father’s name, will be cursed by Allaah, the angels and all the people"

(Ibn Maajah -Saheeh by al-Albaani).


And he [pbuh] also said:
“Whoever knowingly claims to belong to anyone other than his father, Paradise will be denied him”
(Ahmad, al-Bukhaari, Muslim).


Now some might argue….“

But the woman is not claiming that her father is someone else.


She is just honoring her husband or she doesn’t mean it that way.

She just wants to belong to her husband out of love for him.”

To those people I say…. If it was a matter of honor to have the husbands name attached to the wife’s, wouldn’t our Ummahaat have done that??

Isn’t it the biggest honor in the WORLD to have the name of the Prophet [pbuh] attached to yours??

And yet the wives of the Prophet [pbuh] didn’t do that. Ever wonder why??

And if it was a matter of expressing love for the husband, no relationship between a husband and wife on the face of this earth was better than the relationship between the Prophet [pbuh] and his wives.

And yet none of the Mothers of the Believers expressed their love for the Prophet [pbuh] by changing their last names.

It doesn’t make any sense The last name is an indication of the father of the person and represents the person’s lineage.

Shaykh Bakr Abu Zayd said:
“This is one of the beauties of Sharee’ah, because calling a person by his father’s name is more appropriate for knowing who is who and telling people apart…..”
(Tasmiyat al-Mawlood, 30, 31).


Originally, the woman is ‘the Daughter of So and so’, and NOT ‘the wife of So and so’. Since there is no blood relationship between the husband and wife, how can she take his last name as if she is part of the same lineage?

And surely, she is not claiming that he is her father!!!!

Also what happens if she gets divorced, or her husband dies, and she marries another man?

Will she keep changing her surname every time she marries another man?

In addition to this, there are rulings attached to the woman being named after her father, which have to do with her inheritance, spending and who is her mahram, etc.

Taking her husband’s last name overlooks all that.

Also, if you think about it, the husband is named after his own father, and what does she have to do with the lineage of her husband’s father?

This goes against common sense and true facts. Besides, the husband has nothing that makes him better than his wife’s father.

So why should she give up her father’s name and take her husband’s last name??

And why does the man get to keep his father’s name and not the woman??!!

It just doesn’t make any sense.

Sheikh Salih Al-Munajjid says:
“A woman changing her family name to that of her husband after she gets married is Haraam and is not allowed in Sharee’ah, because it is not permissible for anyone to claim to belong to anyone other than his or her father...


Not only is it so in this world, but, we will also be called by our father‘s name in the Hereafter as well.

The Prophet [pbuh] said:
“On the Day of Resurrection, each betrayer will have a banner raised beside him, and it will be said, this is the betrayer of So and so, the son of So and so.”
(Bukhaari, Muslim).


So, all you single females out there, don’t be in such a hurry to change your maiden name after you get married.

And those of you who have already done that, it is never too late.

Take back your maiden name and reclaim your identity.

It is part of the Sharee’a.

Source: http://www.farhathashmi.com/articles-section/women-and-family/taking-the-husbands-name/

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falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

Guy, dont tell her mum, call her and counsel her, tell her d dangers of self servicing with morals, religion and quran or bible references. Tell her d consquence if her mum shld knw so, better she stop it.

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VALENTINE'S DAY CELEBRATION IS UNISLAMIC, MUSLIMS MUST DESIST

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

INTRODUCTION

In view of the prevalent kinds of Days being celebrated and commemorated in our contemporary time, it is always important for us to consistently enlighten the Muslim ummah on the need to be steadfast in our deen and avoid anything that is capable of denting our acts of worship before Allah. Among the days being widely marked and celebrated across the world today is 'Eid el Hubb, popularly know as 'Valentine's Day' which is celebrated on 14th February of every Gregorian calendar year. The whole world is warming up to celebrate yet another Valentine's Day in a couple of days time. In order to examine whether or not Valentine's Day is appropriate for a Muslim to mark, recognize, celebrate or commemorate, we need to ask ourselves these germane questions;

1. What is the genesis of Valentine's Day celebration?

2. What is the import or purpose of the celebration?

3. What is the Islamic perspective and scholarly opinion on Valentine's Day celebration?

ORIGIN AND PURPORT OF VALENTINE'S DÀY CELEBRATION

This article was first published about three (3) years ago. It is now being re-echoed with slight modifications. A critical research on the above questions would afford us the opportunity of knowing why Muslims should not celebrate Valentine's Day in whatever form.

According to Wikipaedia's historical records Saint Valentine's Day, also known as Valentine's Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine, is observed on February 14
each year. It is celebrated in many countries around the world, although it remains a working day in most of them. St. Valentine's Day began as a liturgical celebration of one or more early Christian saints named Valentinus. Several martyrdom stories were invented for the various Valentines that belonged to February 14, and added to later martyrologies. A popular hagiographical account of Saint Valentine of Rome states that he was imprisoned for performing
weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry and for ministering to Christians, who were persecuted under the Roman Empire . According to legend, during his imprisonment, he healed the daughter of his jailer, Asterius. An embellishment to this story states that before his execution he wrote her a letter signed "Your Valentine" as a farewell. Today, Saint Valentine's Day is an official feast day in the Anglican Communion, as well as in the Lutheran Church. The Eastern Orthodox Church also celebrates Saint Valentine's Day, albeit on July 6 and July 30, the former date in honor of the Roman presbyter Saint Valentine, and the latter date in honor of Hieromartyr Valentine, the Bishop of Interamna (modern Terni). In Brazil, the Dia de São Valentim is recognized on June 12. The day was first associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages , when the tradition of courtly love flourished. In 18th-century England, it evolved into an occasion in which lovers expressed their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery , and sending greeting cards (known as " valentines ". Valentine's Day symbols that are used today include the heart-shaped outline, doves, and the figure of the winged Cupid . Since the 19th century, handwritten valentines have given way to mass-produced greeting cards . [1]

ISLAM AND VALENTINE'S DAY: ANY CONNECTION?

As we can see from the above, Valentine's Day does not have any bearing or connection in Islam and its genesis is pagan in nature. It is clear that the Prophet, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasallam did not bequeath this practice to us. The Quran consists of 114 chapters and there is no portion therein where Allah says we should celebrate love on yearly basis. In the same vein, there is no where in the thousands of hadiths reported from the Prophet, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasallam where he said we should celebrate love on yearly basis. Instead, the Qur'an warn us against innovations in the deen and blind followership of the practices of the kuffaar. Allah, subhanahu wata'ala says,

"And whatsoever the Messenger (Muhammad ) gives you, take it, and whatsoever he forbids you, abstain (from it), and fear Allah. Verily, Allah is Severe in punishment." [2]

In another verse, Allah says,

"Say: if you love Allah, follow me and He will love you and forgive you your wrong actions." [3]

The above verses show that we must be obedient to the Prophet, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasllam. We cannot know what Allah, subhanahu wata'aala and His Messenger, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasallam want except we learn it or ask the pious scholars of the Deen. Many Muslim Brothers and Sisters have already dipped themselves into this mess for a long time, and may not be able to get out of it easily. Some have even bought tickets for one party or the other. If you are among this kind of people, you need to see what Allah says here,

"It is not fitting for a believer, man or woman, when Allah has made a decree, that he or she should create an option. Whosoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, is in plain error" [4]

This Quranic verse shows that we have no option than to abide by Allah's dictates and the instructions of the Prophet, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasallam. My Sister, my Brother, you might not know before that Valentine's Day celebration is a form of "shirk" and hence haram. Now, you have known. It is left to you to amend. Do not take any gift in respect of it, do not give gift with the intention of celebrating it. May Allah count us among those that listens to beneficial advice and abide by them accordingly. Further more on the significance of following the path of the Messenger of Allah, sollaLohu alaihi wasallam, the Rosul was reported to have said,

"When I forbid you to do something, avoid it. When I command you to do something, then do it as much as you are able." [5]

Abu Hurayrah reported that the Prophet, sollaLohu alaihi wasallam said,

"All of my community will enter the Garden except for those who refuse to." They asked, "O Messenger of Allah, who will refuse?" He replied, "Whoever obeys me will enter the Garden. Whoever rebels against me has refused." [6]

Stop thinking ignorantly that the practice of Islam is boring or unlively. It depends on your level of Islamic orientation. There are many ways we can enjoy ourselves without breaking the rules of the shar'iah. We can practice a beautiful and highly interesting Islam devoid of fahshaa', munkar, bid'ah, tashbbuh and shirk. Make Islam easy for yourself by learning and following its rules and regulations as laid down in Kitab wa Sunnah in accordance with the understanding of the salafs. If Al-jannah is what we want, we must strive to get it by all possible means. May Allah protect us against the punishment of hell-fire.

Apart from the fact that celebrating Valentine's Day has pagan origin, it promotes promiscuous and illicit sexual relationship in our society. Especially our Sisters, they always make sure they get at least one "maga" as they do call them, before February 14th, to mark the unspiritual festival with them. Islam is totally against this. Instead of doing anything special on 14th February of every year, why not chose another day to have fun with your legal lover, and stop spreading mischief on the land.

ISLAMIC PERCEPTION OF LOVE

Love between husband and wife is not meant to be celebrated yearly basis. The Prophet, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasallam enjoins it at all time. Islam also encourage Muslims to love themselves all the time and assist themselves in times of difficulty. Concerning good treatment of our women, Allah says,

"Live together with them correctly and courteously," [7]

The Messenger of Allah, sollaLohu alaihi wasallam also buttressed the statement of Allah in that verse with many hadiths. For instance, Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said,

"A believing man should not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes something in her character, he should be pleased with some other or another trait of hers." [8]

In another hadith, 'Amr ibn al-Ahwas al-Jushami reported that he heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say during the Farewell Hajj after praising and glorifying Allah, and reminding and admonishing,

"Treat your women well. They are as captives in your possession. You have no rights over them except that [i.e. physical enjoyment and that they protect their husband's interest in respect of themselves and his property]. If they act licentiously in an open way, then leave them alone in their beds and beat them but not severely. If they obey you, you have no way against them. You have rights over your women and your women have rights over you. Your right over them is that they do not allow into your bed those you dislike and do not permit those you dislike to enter your house. Their right over you is that you are good to them in respect of their clothes and food." [9]

Similarly, Mu'awiya ibn Hayda said, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, what is the right of someone's wife over him?' He said,

''That you feed her when you eat and clothe her when you clothe yourself and do not strike her face. Do not malign her and do not keep apart from her, except in the house.'" [10]

Abu Hurayra stated equally stated, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, '

"The most perfect of believers in belief is the best of them in character. The best of you are those who are the best to their women.'" [11]

These hadiths can be found in Riyadus Soliheen of Imam An-nawawi Chapter 34 where the noble Sheikh gathered hadith dealing with 'Treating women well'. But it is unfortunate that we don't read the books of Hadith and see the beauty of Islam. We are just interested in the "lizard hole" of the Christians and the Jews that Allah warn us against.

On the other hand, women are also expected to show love to their husbands in return by being obedient, submissive and trustworthy. The Prophet, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasallam said:

"Idhaa da'aa ar-rajulu imra'tahu ilaa firaashihi fa abat an tajeeba la'anathaa al-malaa'ikatu hattaa tusbiha." ("Whenever a man calls his wife to bed and she refuses to come, the angels curse her until morning." [12]

In another Hadith, the Rosul, sollaLohu 'alaihi wasallam said,

"...Wa laa ta'dhana fiy baitihi illa bi idhnihi..." ("...And that she should not admit anyone to his house except with his permission..." [13]

The kind of permission referred to here does not have to be explicit for every individual. If the wife knows or has sufficient reason to believe that her husband would not object to a particular individual, then she may allow them into the house. But generally, she shouldn't allow strangers to invade her privacy unnecessarily. These and many other things explained by the scholars are what promotes love between couples, not necessarily a day celebration. There are many couples who celebrate Valentine's Day just for the sake of it. They only give and receive gifts, they do not have the taste of real love, care and affection that any fruitful relationship should have. They are just pretending as if things are moving fine. But in the real sense of it, they are in deep crisis.

CONCLUSION

In conclusion, by discouraging people from partaking in Vilentine's Day Celebration, we might have offended some people, most especially ladies because they take it more serious than men. But it is better to offend human beings than to offend Allah. The message here is clear, let us practice our religion in the best manner it should be practiced. May Allah continue to guide us aright.

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End Notes

1. You need to read the full gist on Valentine's Day on Wikipaedia or History.com
2. Q59: 7
3. Q3: 31
4. Q33: 36
5. Muslim and Al-Bukhari
6. Al-Hakim
7. Q4:19
8. Muslim
9. At-Tirmidhi
10. Abu Dawud
11. At-Tirmidhi
12. Al-Bukhari
13. Muslim & Bukhari

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