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healthserve: |
[quote author=healthserve post=8449533 Thank you for this, if I were to be the guy in question I will make out time to listen to her,ask her the reason why she had to do what she did. I will forgive and deep inside me I won't give her the chance to hurt me again. I want you to see reasons with me that there are many ways to breakup in a relationship. I'm a lady and I know what ladies could do to keep a man who doesn't want them. The OP could have played along with her. "You act like a fool to fool a fool who thinks is fooling you". I stand to be corrected. Its simple. People should think about the consequences of their actions first before doing things. When people get engaged in all sorts of actions thinking actions are without consequences, it always leads to this kind of issues. Hope you'll help us apss this message across. And that many tines greed becomes the motivating factor, the initiator of a greed inclined action always leads to loss on multiple ends and self prestige. If I were the guys brother I'll reconcile both of them. I have legitimate reasons now to do so on this issue.[/quote] |
I don't know why we Nigerian's are irrational with our thinking, we are so quick to judge and the likes. I advised the OP to see his Ex and listen to her and they can move on from there, but all I got was insults and curses, the gullible ones who thought they had sense where advising him based on there level of maturity. If we all have kept to a voice saying the OP should listen to her and make his decision from there. It won't have gotten to this level. I advised the OP to inform his FAM and that of the ladies as well. If you had informed her FAM, they won't drag you to the police station for an offence you didn't commit. My question for you is according to your post,saying she wrote a note and your number is in it, during the time you guys were dating, didn't you by chance meet any of her family members and don't they know you guys were dating. Get yourself a very good lawyer, in your statement remember to state that you have picture evidence of them clubbing and other evidence you have to prove your innocence. Mind you the guy she cheated on you with will be invited as well. Stand on your ground, Nigerian police are the highest manipulators. I wish you good luck.. |
midnighter:Midnighter, where is your stand please. |
Biingoo:Since you are more sensible I need you to please come and school me with your profound Sense of humor. Thank you |
[quote author=midnighter post=84345988]Listening to her? How would he listen to her when she hasn't said anything Babe, digest it.. Your relationship that was about to lead to marriage is crashing and all you can do is try to indirectly bait your boyfriend with immature musings about suicide so that he will forget what happened and come running back to save you. She has his number, she knows his house, she knows where to find him ... if there's any misunderstanding whats so difficult about going there and clearing it so that your husband-to-be won't have the wrong idea ![]() She is just being manipulative. That's what people do when they're trying to force your hand without admitting their own error. Attention indeed...spits...[/quo Babe me I understand you very well oooo. But I need you to know that silence kills. The guy will be emotionally unstable. They should see talk about it and everyone goes there different ways. And the guy should report the case to his own FAM and the ladies too so that nobody sees him as irresponsible and somebody who doesn't know what he wants. |
Biingoo:You are very quick to send insults. Did you at anytime see the emoji... You need to take a chill pill pls... |
[quote author=Kaycee54321 post=84345893]I would have said 'Thunder fire you there' But I don't like insulting people online. [/quote Pls get it straight, I'm not saying the guy should continue the relationship with her, I am only saying the guy should hear her out and then follow his intuition from here... Since you don't like insulting people online... |
clive2u:With benefit or without benefit pls |
midnighter:She is only trying to get the guys attention with her WhatsApp status. The poster himself should give her a benefit of doubt by listening to her and then move on from there.... |
Respect55:I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it... |
[quote author=Respect55 post=84336533]She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha[/quot |
Best comment I have read so far, the mother should be given an award for her stupidity. The security man did his job very well and deserves an accolade. I don't support nonsense in any way. Sirpaul: |
Higgies:I wish you a successful Interview. Be yourself and remain calm while answering the questions thrown at you. Be Safe. |
Slawormir:It is not tribalism, it is you not getting yourself into trouble in the name of helping the helpless. |
spyg1:Not all ladies can manage what you have with you. Your lady must have studied you and see the stability in you and learn to key into your possession...lady's of today once they get to your house and see you drinking Garri that is the end of the relationship.. The next thing you will hear is I can't come and suffer. |
MrBrownJay1:Aro in Abeokuta or other government rehabilitation centres would have been the best. There are qualified psychologist and social workers there. Not in a mosque. |
MrBrownJay1:There parents took them there not to dehumanized them, but for corrections. And yet reverse is the case. |
If I'm a judge presiding over the issue of rape and child molestation, my judgement would be that the offenders Penis be cut off.... |
They should cut away his Penis.... |
Babe, digest it..