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RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 11:18am On Nov 30, 2019
healthserve:
Smies Okay ooo, me I'm still learning.
Thank you.

Tell that to the gods. And cry me a river while at it. Your energy and intensity speaks volume on issues. Tell this to her and him when y'all see yourselves offline.


I repeat not one thread will touch him. You may be ignorant but allow me educate you


1. He didn't initiate any action directly or by proxy


2. There's nobintent to do harm nor was he around the vicinity not is there substantive prove he caused harm leading to a bruhahaha


3. She confessed to his sister before hand proving there's overwhelming case against her to give into emotional trauma


4. He can sue her for damages and win for character assassination, defamation of character in which She'll face serious issues if he tos this line. I would personally . by trying to commit suicide and pin it on him she's guilty of trying to inflict harm and pinning it on someone else.


See Ola. You never see case. People that have seen cases always run from trouble.


Leave story. If he needs support. I'll come out and bring hell to the entire fracka.


That is why many males die untimely cause females won't to kill them on the name of love.

Nonsense
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 11:15am On Nov 30, 2019
[quote author=healthserve post=8449533
Thank you for this, if I were to be the guy in question I will make out time to listen to her,ask her the reason why she had to do what she did. I will forgive and deep inside me I won't give her the chance to hurt me again.
I want you to see reasons with me that there are many ways to breakup in a relationship. I'm a lady and I know what ladies could do to keep a man who doesn't want them.

The OP could have played along with her. "You act like a fool to fool a fool who thinks
is fooling you".
I stand to be corrected.

Its simple. People should think about the consequences of their actions first before doing things. When people get engaged in all sorts of actions thinking actions are without consequences, it always leads to this kind of issues.

Hope you'll help us apss this message across. And that many tines greed becomes the motivating factor, the initiator of a greed inclined action always leads to loss on multiple ends and self prestige.

If I were the guys brother I'll reconcile both of them. I have legitimate reasons now to do so on this issue.[/quote]
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 11:04am On Nov 30, 2019
I don't know why we Nigerian's are irrational with our thinking, we are so quick to judge and the likes. I advised the OP to see his Ex and listen to her and they can move on from there, but all I got was insults and curses, the gullible ones who thought they had sense where advising him based on there level of maturity. If we all have kept to a voice saying the OP should listen to her and make his decision from there. It won't have gotten to this level. I advised the OP to inform his FAM and that of the ladies as well. If you had informed her FAM, they won't drag you to the police station for an offence you didn't commit.

My question for you is according to your post,saying she wrote a note and your number is in it, during the time you guys were dating, didn't you by chance meet any of her family members and don't they know you guys were dating.

Get yourself a very good lawyer, in your statement remember to state that you have picture evidence of them clubbing and other evidence you have to prove your innocence. Mind you the guy she cheated on you with will be invited as well. Stand on your ground, Nigerian police are the highest manipulators. I wish you good luck..
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 10:38am On Nov 30, 2019
midnighter:
My dear, Telling you the truth is not hating you.

You should have gone to resolve the situation rationally and let her go instead of being focused on punishing her and dragging the whole thing out, it was not necessary

You know the kind of person she is and youre letting her drag you through the mud. What is the essence of all this lawyer and police matter now? Did you tell her to kill herself?
Midnighter, where is your stand please.
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 11:21am On Nov 25, 2019
Biingoo:
I saw your other comments too. Sense is indeed far from you
Since you are more sensible I need you to please come and school me with your profound Sense of humor. Thank you
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 11:14am On Nov 25, 2019
[quote author=midnighter post=84345988]Listening to her? How would he listen to her when she hasn't said anythinghuhBabe, digest it..

Your relationship that was about to lead to marriage is crashing and all you can do is try to indirectly bait your boyfriend with immature musings about suicide so that he will forget what happened and come running back to save you.

She has his number, she knows his house, she knows where to find him ... if there's any misunderstanding whats so difficult about going there and clearing it so that your husband-to-be won't have the wrong ideahuh

She is just being manipulative. That's what people do when they're trying to force your hand without admitting their own error.

Attention indeed...spits...[/quo

Babe me I understand you very well oooo. But I need you to know that silence kills. The guy will be emotionally unstable. They should see talk about it and everyone goes there different ways. And the guy should report the case to his own FAM and the ladies too so that nobody sees him as irresponsible and somebody who doesn't know what he wants.
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 11:03am On Nov 25, 2019
Biingoo:
Distance between you and common sense
You are very quick to send insults. Did you at anytime see the emoji... You need to take a chill pill pls...
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 10:59am On Nov 25, 2019
[quote author=Kaycee54321 post=84345893]I would have said 'Thunder fire you there'

But I don't like insulting people online. [/quote

Pls get it straight, I'm not saying the guy should continue the relationship with her, I am only saying the guy should hear her out and then follow his intuition from here...

Since you don't like insulting people online...
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 10:49am On Nov 25, 2019
clive2u:
employ her as your marketer simple.
With benefit or without benefit pls
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 10:38am On Nov 25, 2019
midnighter:
Yes, he should be willing to listen to her and not conclude too hastily. Anything could happen.

I just disagree with the whatsapp stuff...she should explain herself in person if she's serious.

Up until the time he blocked her, she couldn't even open a chat to explain. All she knew how to do was write rubbish status update smh
She is only trying to get the guys attention with her WhatsApp status. The poster himself should give her a benefit of doubt by listening to her and then move on from there....
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f): 10:08am On Nov 25, 2019
Respect55:
I have already moved on.
I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...
RomanceRe: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Olanre05(f):
[quote author=Respect55 post=84336533]She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha[/quot
CelebritiesRe: Alibaba Reacts To Queens College Student Who Fixed Lashes And Her Mother by Olanre05(f): 12:43pm On Nov 20, 2019
Best comment I have read so far, the mother should be given an award for her stupidity. The security man did his job very well and deserves an accolade. I don't support nonsense in any way.
Sirpaul:
If the girl's face had not gone viral for us to see, they will remove those lashes and deny that the girl was never on eye lashes, and you will end up punishing the security man for doing his job, this is Nigeria, even when you have evidence to prove a point people will still Denny, if you think the security man was wrong, none of you is right either, he knows the school rules and he was simply doing his job, and I'm sure he didn't record that video too, don't paint this wrong act by that woman with grammar, what is bad is bad.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Things To Do Before Going For An Interview by Olanre05(f): 10:02am On Nov 20, 2019
Higgies:
Thanks a lot.
I have an interview scheduled for tomorrow Nov 21.
My Hope is all on God.
I wish you a successful Interview. Be yourself and remain calm while answering the questions thrown at you. Be Safe.
HealthRe: Lady Collapses Along The Road In Lagos Island, Abandoned By Passersby by Olanre05(f): 9:07pm On Nov 18, 2019
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Niggarrr damnnnnn!

if we allow ourselves into the gridlock of tribalism, we're in trouble.
It is not tribalism, it is you not getting yourself into trouble in the name of helping the helpless.
RomanceRe: Please Can I Continue With Her? by Olanre05(f): 3:48pm On Nov 17, 2019
spyg1:
It shouldn't b a negative strike lol. I guess is a new relationship. As time goes on she will struggle with you on such meals. Mine told me she doesn't manage ingredients when cooking but now she can cook without vital ingredients sometimes.
Not all ladies can manage what you have with you. Your lady must have studied you and see the stability in you and learn to key into your possession...lady's of today once they get to your house and see you drinking Garri that is the end of the relationship.. The next thing you will hear is I can't come and suffer.
CrimeRe: Police Rescue 259 From Ibadan House Of Horror (Photos) by Olanre05(f): 8:56am On Nov 06, 2019
MrBrownJay1:
thats exacly the mistake they made... how can these center possibly cure these mental/psychological illnesses? its crazy to even think these demons can cure ANYTHING with beating and chains. that absurd. we also know that they send their kids there to keep the shame away.
Aro in Abeokuta or other government rehabilitation centres would have been the best.
There are qualified psychologist and social workers there. Not in a mosque.
CrimeRe: Police Rescue 259 From Ibadan House Of Horror (Photos) by Olanre05(f): 12:05am On Nov 06, 2019
MrBrownJay1:
we must be realistic here.... these centers dont kidnap people from the middle of the streets... the parents/family members of these victims physically bring these innocent people to these places.
There parents took them there not to dehumanized them, but for corrections. And yet reverse is the case.
CrimeRe: Prophet Dickson Ayooluwa Ajigbare In Rape, Sex Accusation Scandal by Olanre05(f): 8:55pm On Oct 30, 2019
If I'm a judge presiding over the issue of rape and child molestation, my judgement would be that the offenders Penis be cut off....
CrimeRe: Man Arrested For Sleeping With Under-Aged Boys In Niger State (Photo) by Olanre05(f): 9:31am On Oct 30, 2019
They should cut away his Penis....

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