₦airaland Forum

Light999333:
Women are very cunning people, and if you are naive about their antics you're done for. She is agreeing with everything you want because she knows she has to get married. She has to sweeten you up and make you feel good, just so you'd be stupid enough to put a ring on her finger.

I'm pretty sure she's overfeeding you with sex, feeding you nice meals, rendering financial help sometimes without fighting you to pay her back and her vagina makes you orgasm endlessly. These are some of the things women do when they want to upgrade to the status of a wife. Marry her first, then you see if truly she's an altruistic person. A woman has shown you her real attitude, and the attitude she showed you isn't a nice one, and in your heart of hearts you know she isn't the one for you, yet you want to make your life sad.

Don't mind them. This nairaland is becoming something else. Someone acting nice doesn't mean they are. From march till now is just four months and he observed something he can't tolerate because if he can he wouldn't come to seek advice. Women are indeed more cunning than men and my pastor told me that this early morning. He noticed more terrible character but the flesh he is enjoying from the girl won't make he think. Those telling him marry her and manage her will soon tell him you noticed she was like that during marriage and you went ahead to marry her.

luminouz:
Care to tell me the full gist?

My first ex who left me in year 2018 to date another guy came back last year and gbam I started dating her without questioning her history that much but before we broke up I knew she has character issues, like how she talk, she lack feminine trait that a man can enjoy from a woman. As soon as the relationship started my entire life crumbled into pieces. The worst and my most toxic relationship ever. I broke up with her March this year. Two weeks later another ex I left before I dated her showed up and the mumu started dating again not knowing that she came for financial help. She did all her best to milk me but all failed that prompt her to start disrespecting me badly to the extent where we brokeup with fight and cursing eachother. A day after we broke up I got a job as software developer. I a fine now and I am happy how the previous relationship ended. Time to focus on the future

True. I suffered twice trying this bullshit. I view never to date any girl I broke up with

When we tell them to avoid single mothers dey call us names, bittered bla bla. It will never end well for any man that marry single mothers.