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Ladies it’s money it’s not extra life. Being richer than ur hubby doesn’t mean the wife should disrespect him. Especially if he’s working, loving caring n not lazy. U are just more privileged than him in that aspect.

Boland:
A man should take the responsibility of providing for his woman, and of course not everything she asks for but her basic needs. If she's willing to stick to what you're offering, fine.

Most young men don't subscribe to the ideas of feminism and at the same time they want their women to be independent, be able to cater for their needs and sometimes support their men (financially). These are the qualities a true feminist possess and it will be unfair to condemn what they expect of their man (which is equality) but want the goodies they offer.

I don't subscribe to the idea of feminism and as such I don't believe that Men's responsibilities is to be shared.

Like I said earlier, let the Men be Men.

We are still sayin the same thing bro. But as u have said I’ll stand on this fact that a man can take most responsibilities if only she’s willing to stick to what the man is offering. So we good.

2buffagain:
If you have an issue with her hipping her issues on you, then young man, you need to embrace feminism like your deek depends on it.
It entails her providing for her own damn self.

I personally have nothing against feminism, issue is most nigerian females don't know what feminism actually means, and just feel it means eating their cake and having it. There are responsibilities that need to be embraced with it, and most naija females hate those responsibilities.

I’m not sure u understand my quote o. I was asking OP is all he is saying is that a guy should take all responsibility of a girl he’s not sure of marrying?

Just a lil reply to ur post tho.
I don’t n will never support all these fake naija feminists, it’s just selfishness that’s making them think feminism is a struggle they should stand with without have a basic knowledge of what feminism is. Smh for them.

Dormitila:
OK tnk u. Pls do.

There’s a plaza close to chida hotel at utako just close to the traffic light before chida hotel.

Boland:
You see; That's where the problem lies:

If you want a real relationship, of course Marriage should be in the plan, if not it's just flings and that is more of a contract. If you want her to be your sex mate, what will you be bringing to the table?

If the lady feels like she's bigger than what you're offering, there shouldn't be a fuss about it.
It's simple, you're the one that wants to purchase a commodity, the price on it shouldn't give you headache.
And if you say both of you will enjoy the sex thing, just remember that you were the one that asked her out, you asked for it, you should be able to deal with whatever comes with it.

U only just making ur point clear now n that’s good. But u were not specific in ur post as to whether it’s a serious relationship or not. I get ur drift now. But bro even in a serious relationship a guy is not expected to take full responsibility of taking care of the gf except he decides too

So u mean a woman who is not your wife can hip all her responsibilities on her bf especially if there’s no guarantee yet that she will marry him?

OP boobs that we will stress our eyes to see u still sensored it en. Wickedness of men. Not nice

PurestBoy:
Report said she was the only bride's family invited, I still do not understand that, I'm still baffled

Wow only family of bride invited? That’s racist mehn.

She was actually sitting alone. No relation or children etc or mayb cos she’s black they only acknowledged her cos she’s brides mum

ViaFast:
, Choi see Name Demon ..

Demon pass Demon.

Blonchilli:
Ironically what they were trying to avoid what happened today. Meghan has black ancestry so we might see a black man as King /Queen of England.

True talk. Her ancestral lineage has being a problem to that royal family but they just didn’t want to make it an issue because she’s a reputable person in her own way n not broke. Etc

forreelinc:
She came?

Haaaaaa!!! She came ke?
If she was there everywhere for scatter now. That was her and prince Harry back in the days. Princess Dianna is dead. She died in a car (orchestrated) accident.

The guy wants to die. Lol

zeedof:
These are the reason y most of single ladies will remain single till they expire..

He's full of excuse because YOU NEVER GIVE HIM JOY

He Break Promises because YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A BURDEN

He Doesn't put you first because HE HAS PARENT B4 YOU

He likes to win argument because YOU ARE ALWAYS STUPID

He won't take responsibility because YOU ARE ALWAYS DEPENDENT

He has an Unhealthy lifestyle because YOU ARE NOT GOD and you don't love him

This got me cracking “He likes to win arguments because YOU ARE ALWAYS STUPID”. Guy where’s ur chill?

blakky97:
hmmm some house helps have tempting stuffs sha

Hahahahahaaa u can say that again. But it’s still left for the man to kill that desire in he’s mind. The women are not left out o. No b only men they cheat.

Adasun:
u don't knw what u are saying.



If u love a woman dearly,u woun't want to hurt her.


A little cry of sweet pain frm her during sex would touch ur heart and u may decide to go slow and steady. Dat is if love is in the picture.

Lol wat if the woman u love so much wants crazy sex? N during sex she’s always telling u to go harder so because u love her u will be doin it slow abi? Lol. Once u are married both of u are open to explore sex to the fullest even bf n gf dey over do. Finally Anyways Loving someone deeply is not all about sex

blackweaver:
Not in all cases. If for instance the guy goes out with his friends for drinks and say his drink is spiked and he messes up, it's still cheating, but it's not necessarily deliberate

I get ur example. But pls who initiates the sex the girl or the guy? If he’s drink is spiked n the lady have sex with him that’s rape tho. That doesn’t come close to what is being discussed. With clear mind n head. U sef check am. Lol. Stay blessed bro

Well done. Cool

Dormitila:
The one I was given is too small for my head and its torn now.

hOE my lawd. Picture of ur head or I donbilivit.




There’s somewhere in Jabi...forgotten the name of the plaza. I’ll get it n post it here for u.

emi14:
Leave catholic church alone. This church is solidly built with learned leadership. The forces and gate of hell shall never prevail over it.

Yea over the years evils committed by these bishops or priests are being covered. Finally people can see n know the atrocities being committed. Being a priest or a bishop doesn’t mean u are not human or imperfect they can be disciplined n reproved. Nonsense. And some people will be saying rubbish. Even God is really far from unrepentant sinners.

congi:
Don't mind all the children making comment on this thread. If a man has been married long enough, he should tells if the urge to cheat never occurs to him, including religious monogamists.

Whether a monogamist or polygamist it’s a decision to stay on either side. Weather to remain faithful to one wife or remain faithful to all he’s wives. Now if he wants to have sex with someone else outside he’s marriage it’s hes decision to do that which will hurt he’s wife or wives. The point here is this. If u genuinely love someone will u deliberately or will u make a decision to hurt them? I’m not saying we are perfect. That’s why it really hurts when u get cheated on especially if it’s someone u love dearly.

Angy55:
It's even stated in the Bible, resist the devil and he will flee from you.

There are some sins we commit that the tot of commiting such sins don’t start instantly bug over time. Sins like cheating starts gradually over series of tot which have being nutured in the mind , James 1:14-15.

Adasun:
The truth is love woun't let u pound dat dat pusssy da way u want.



U can't even hang ur wives leg in north-east direction to pound and murder dat cu.nt.



U can only make love to her.




da side chick brings out dat monster in u.dat zeal to destroy dat pusssy.u neva even love her anyway.



So yes,u can love ur wife and still cheat

That’s not true. Married mates can have crazy sex with each other. They are even in the best position to have it more.

MARX77:
Pardon me to answer this question with yet another question; Have you fallen into temptation before? I bet we all have, it doesn't mean we loved the object of tempt more than anything else, well maybe momentarily we did.
So yes, a man can love a woman dearly and cheat on her. But it ain't good if he keeps up with it.

When u are being tempted to cheat....u can actually decide not to cheat because u love your wife. So cheating is a decision. Or u can say hmmmmm this lady is beautiful let me f*ck her jor my wife won’t know.....that’s a decision too. So pls let’s not get it wrong cheating in anyway is a decision. It’s just like stealing u don’t steal by mistake that’s why there’s a punishment. That’s why the Bible abhors adultery. Cheating in any form can never be a mistake.

The girl that turned OP this way no try o. Heartless lady

Cheating on your wife is a deliberate act. It’s a decision u make it’s not a mistake same goes to the wife too. because definitely would have crossed ur mind that if ur wife finds out she’ll be hurt. So it’s a decision and not mistake.

If u love someone you won’t hurt the person.

chriskosherbal:
bro come on ...you should know when money is involved anything can happen bro ...

3m euros divided by the number all of them that went is not even up to how much Messi earns in 2days. But they have a record to keep which will give him a lil bit more accolades.


Anyways bro I get ur drift tho. Everything na money

The only thing the SUG knows how to do is steal money. They steal in millions of naira. Heard the 2016 SUG bought a multimillion naira house (about 80m) in one of the choice places in Abuja n EFCC got hold of him.

Even former SUG Pelumi did he’s own then. VC liked that guy so he stole as much as he could.

I’m sure that SUG account had over a billion naira before pelumi became SUG after a long time without one.