Crime › Re: Bandits Attack Ariko, Kaduna Churches, Kill Seven, Kidnap Others by olorunthobby: 3:34pm On Apr 05 |
Again?!!! This country is fuck_ed up bro This country is gone bro.. We are nothing but numbers in our government eyes.. No human feeling at all from this government. Killings/Kidnappings/Terrorists doing the most everywhere everyday |
Career › Re: How Much Does A Dispatch Rider In Nigeria Make Monthly by olorunthobby: 12:21pm On Feb 23 |
Yoo!! Dispatch rider earns like 30k a day? Did y'all consider his fueling that day? How many agberos e go give money? Or Police wahala and even possible accidents on the road?? Have y'all also considered the level of stress it takes to go about riding and carry heady goods on our bad roads every day?? How much he's being used to service his bike?
All of are just saying he makes 300k monthly! Na the money dey enter una eye! U know how many riders dey break hands on a daily on top mainland bridge?? |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Eurobond Oversubscribed By 400% Despite Trump’s Threat by olorunthobby: 9:23pm On Nov 05, 2025 |
Bullshittt!!! How on Earth does this news stop the killlllliiinngsssss and murderingggggssss of fathers, mothers and their children. I mean these are not the people who are rich or enjoying any benefits whatsoever from their Government but all these people wake up and hustle everyday some of them are farmers!!! Killing them in thousands as if they're just lab rats meant for experiments.
Ahhh.. all the our Government people Dem don gbabode for us. Anything wey go make them dey Power na him Dem dey ever do. Na Buhari gan gan be the KeY sponsor for BH in the North. Why because e wan use am frustrate Good luck komot for Power.
Nigerians make una wake up oo.. APC is not for the people ooo.. They are blood sucking demons, na Dem first start terrorism for this country o. Na Dem ooo !! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: U.S Preparing Invasion Of Mexico To Fight Cartels & Drug Lords (Photos) by olorunthobby: 8:25pm On Nov 03, 2025 |
Informantng: Invitation of Americans to destroy Nigeria by unpatriotic and uninformed elements. Akin Loye These are the usual suspects, among Nigerians, who lack patriotism in every ramification. They are it again, fanning the embers of destruction. Trying to drag Nigeria to the slab of destruction in a dangerous geopolitics that they don't understand. World Powers are not friends with anyone aside from their interests. They are only interested in the resources of target countries. Look at how they destroyed Syria, Iraq, Libya... and how they are pawning Ukraine against Russia. But you unpatriotic folks are there always gaslighting your government thinking the world powers will come and save you. Tueh. You make your money in Nigeria, but you so much hate Nigeria. What a hypocrite you are?! So you think Nigeria does not deserve a better government administration that can protect them? Some one is coming to help you and you're complaining. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Do You Understand By 11th Hour Miracle, Have You Experienced It? by olorunthobby: 1:06pm On Nov 02, 2025 |
Hezzyluv: Mine was so obviously obvious.
Last 2months, 'was driving and began to feel as though my back tyre was flat, I just decided to pullover to check. Immediately I left the sport I was standing (not up to 5seconds), a coaster bus lost control and crashed into the ditch, directly the point I left standing ooo. In fact, the vehicle even brushed my leg.
If I was still standing there, I would have been in the grave by now or with broken legs and in critical condition. But, I escaped by the skin of my teeth. i.e, eleventh hour miracle saved me. Praise the Lord....
MayGod always show us mercy and guide our steps each day we go out for our nominal daily bread. That's crazy Bru! Thank God for that, who no come no go know. |
Family › Re: Man Shares Experience With An Entitled Relative Months After Giving Him Millions by olorunthobby: 6:32pm On Oct 30, 2025 |
[size=8pt][/size] Kobojunkie: Black tax has always been optional. Una wey dey carry am for head like say na duty, na una get problem.  They don't even know that.. I know how to intentionally avoid these family people dey tax me anyhow. When it comes to support, I dey do my best. But once I notice sey this thing dun dey turn billing, the way I go ignore u ehn. If u like go radio station go report, shi shii from my hand you no go see. |
Family › Re: Try To At Least Have A Child Whether Male Or Female. Read This Live Experience. by olorunthobby: 12:00am On Sep 04, 2025 |
LilMissFavvy: I was thinking you will be talking about how a man of 56yrs lived without having a lawyer or a written "will" at age 56. Even some illiterates do have a written "will". It would have been better he willed his property to the orphanages than leave it for $uch a brother.
Having children is not compulsory, one can "will" his/her property to the poor, orphans, churches, etc.
Many people don't know this. |
Family › Re: Try To At Least Have A Child Whether Male Or Female. Read This Live Experience. by olorunthobby: 11:55pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
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Family › Re: 'What Happened The Day I Tried To Change My Sister's Baby's Pampers' by olorunthobby: 11:33pm On Jul 29, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: What Is That Thing Home Training Will Never Make You Do? by olorunthobby: 2:28pm On Jul 04, 2023 |
a lot |
Celebrities › Re: “Remind My Kids I Love Them If I Die Unexpectedly” – Tonto Dikeh by olorunthobby: 4:38pm On Jul 03, 2023*. Modified: 5:14pm On Jul 03, 2023 |
I hope it's not that heart condition she mentioned recently? If that is the case, may God heal her. I pray nothing bad happens to her.
Please, children of the world don’t wish her death or write RIP to her while someone is still alive. What if she’s battling depression. I hope someone checks up on her. All she needs is help. Nobody is perfect in this life not even me or you reading this post. |
NYSC › Re: NYSC Denies Forcing Muslim Corps Member To Shave Beard by olorunthobby: 7:07pm On Apr 29, 2023 |
nothing Peter obi will not do to steal the mandate from Asiwaju |
Nairaland General › Re: I Quited My Job But My Boss Wife Is Threatening Me (SOS )!!! by olorunthobby: 10:15pm On Mar 18, 2023 |
Nexovantreality: Good morning Nairalanders, I once posted here about a real estate company I work with for over 2 to 3 years now and we've never had issues from the day I began work to the day I quited, they kept paying me same salary of 40k which was very small for me to even use for transportation and mind you I am the supposed manager of the company.
The whole issue started when I asked them to increase my salary to 80k cause. 1. I am the web developer 2. I am the secretary 3. I am the manager 4. I am the Social Media manager 5. I am the marketer.
The wife of the guy that owns the Real Estate Company sacked almost all the staff, remaining only me.
I worked with all my heart both in sun and in rain, so when I told them I was tired with the old salary, they flared up that they can't pay me 80k but 60k, I told them it's not enough to do anything, I travel 65KM everyday to work and back from Kurudu to Garki Area 2 in Abuja and using public transport costs around 1,200 daily and I go to work Saturday atimes.
She said I should come and drop the office key the next day, I went to drop the key and she began to talk and insult me that how her husband has helped me, me I betrayed them.
I told her her husband didn't do anything for me and sincerely except atimes that he will say 1k take and that's alike once in 3 weeks there's nothing Special he does for me and I do appreciate him, when he was celebrating his birthday I bought him a gift worth 40k my salary just to proof to them that it's not the salary that's sustaining me it's God.
This morning she and her driver called and started threatening me that they will deal with me, that her husband is a police officer that she will arrest me and lock me up forever.
Please what do I do, I have the recordings of all this conversation and I swear to God if we go to anywhere I didn't do anything bad to them for the 3 years I have worked there, they have never had reasons to scold or punish me I always do my job.
The last land they acquired costs about 40 Million I was the one that purchased it and worked the papers.
One of the reasons I stayed there for long was so I can gain real estate experience since I wanted to go into real estate later in the future. drop she and her husband contact let’s greet them for you. |
Politics › Re: INEC Results From Lagos - Photos by olorunthobby: 9:18pm On Mar 18, 2023 |
Eriokanmi: Lol. Na how many people com vote today? Merely half of the 25th Feb results would be achieved in today's elections. Turnout in most places was so poor. Ikorodu is one of those places
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Politics › Re: Nicholas Felix Steps Down For Osinbajo (APC Presidential Primary) by olorunthobby: 11:24pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
I believe its already been all planned out !
by Tinubu! Its just a shame to see how people here on nairaland change their comments to suite every posts about politics on this platform!
Please, never take any comments seriously on this platform! They all simply act according to the topic in the post, totally forgetting all they have said in the former!
Majority jumps to front page just to score cheap likes on their posts ! |
Celebrities › Re: Leave My Wife Alone - 2Face Tells Annie Idibia's Critics (Video) by olorunthobby: 8:24am On Jun 01, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:

They should leave your wife when you don't respect the so called wife. You're fun of leaving her to Pero. It seems Pero pussy is more sweeter than that of Anie Please what is your business in another man's marriage? Did they call you ? You people cannot mind your own damn business, for crying out loud, this family is not even complaining!! You just like to put your mouth into everything! Cho-Cho-Cho-Cho-Cho!! Wetin be your own sef! You dey use paracetamol for another man's headache! Wetin Be Your Own!! Abi dem swear for you!!! ?? 
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do In A Job Interview by olorunthobby: 12:07pm On May 30, 2022 |
one time after traveling from Edo to lagos for a Job interview I was asked this rubbish question. a bungalow is painted white roofed with blue roof what is the color of the stair case? mumu me answered white  when I left I realized that a bungalow doesn't have a stair case. so after 4 years and NYSC person wey I wan use my energy work for de ask me that kind question. I was depressed, after that day I swore I wont apply for any job. na modeling and brand advertisement I dey do now. those people wey ask me that useless question na ogun go kill them. |
Romance › Re: 4 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Send Your Naked Pictures To Your Boyfriend by olorunthobby: 6:49am On May 26, 2022 |
La click La bend  |
Phones › Re: GB Whatsapp Ban by olorunthobby: 8:17pm On May 25, 2022 |
I still use gbwhats app and I've never been banned  |
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Satellite TV Technology › Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by olorunthobby: 6:02pm On May 17, 2022 |
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Investment › Re: Things To Look For When Purchasing Effective Solar System by olorunthobby: 7:52am On May 17, 2022 |
Megamind246: Solar Inverter,
Inverters are the mechanisms that convert the direct current (DC) produced by the solar panels into the alternating current (AC) that homes require. There are three types of inverters: The least expensive inverters are string or centralized inverters, however they can be inefficient. This is because there is a risk of production loss if the roof is shaded. Micro inverters are more expensive, but they are linked to each solar panel, allowing for smooth functioning even when some panels are shaded. Installed in each panel, power optimizers optimize the DC output of each PV module before sending it to a string inverter for conversion to AC power. They cost less than micro inverters but significantly more than string inverters. You should estimate your power requirements before purchasing an inverter. You can’t power and run your entire home with an ordinary inverter. On the off chance if your energy prerequisite is more than 4000 VA, at that point an inverter alone can’t cater to your requests viably. Most likely a powerful inverter can run your fridge and AC, however to what extent? Here your battery won’t last over a couple of hours. Henceforth it’s ideal to go for high capacity solar panels.
Types of solar inverter
Different types of inverters are available on the market. Sine wave inverters, square wave inverters, and stepped sine wave inverters are among them. The sort of inverter that generates a sine wave for which an appliance is intended is known as a sine wave inverter. Most appliances can be safely operated on this current output. On the other hand, a square wave inverter is also known as a digital inverter. It produces square wave AC output, which is insufficient to power all types of home appliances, which are designed to work on a sine wave AC pattern alone. Some of the devices will also emit a humming sound. The devices can bear this but still, this square wave is not recommended to run your home appliances, based on reasons best known by EPA. The stepped sine wave inverter falls in between the above two types. This type of inverter is apparently a low-cost power solution for running computers and other types of electronic gadgets. Getting the right product becomes quite a bit of an exercise as there are loads of options for Solar inverters available in the market. Some people can even mislead you with aggressive marketing. So, before getting into buying, you need an expert to make the right choice for you. EPA has the purchasing skills interns of quality and efficiency of inverters that can suit your requirement. With our knowledge of how various inverters converts and supply power to appliances, be rest assured that you get nothing but the best.
Net meter
A net meter is a key component of solar systems that are connected to the grid if your utility offers net metering. Any solar electricity you produce that you don't consume (or store in your battery) is sent to the grid if your utility provider supports net metering and you have grid-connected solar, with or without a battery. To keep track of how much electricity your solar panels create and how much electricity you use from the utility, the EPA recommends and assists you in purchasing a quality net meter. The EPA will also educate you on why a net meter is required for the small grid but not for off-grid. The EPA has kept this information hidden so that our solar competitors do not take advantage of it. EPA as a solar system expert gives you the best quality net meter that will keep tracking your energy usage even if your energy is used wastefully without you knowing.
Solar performance monitoring
A solar monitoring system works through the solar system’s inverter. In most cases, manufacturers include unique monitoring software with their inverters. Solar monitoring devices that provide a more in-depth study of your system's health and performance are important but not adequate. The EPA suggests a monitoring system to evaluate the operation of your PV system, which will show you how much electricity is generated per hour, per day, or per year. The device can also detect potential changes in performance. Solar monitoring systems were created to help communities and businesses maximize the performance of their solar systems and, in turn, save money. Depending on yur requirement, EPA will provide you solar monitoring that can give you historical and real-time data on everything from how much electricity your panels are producing and how much you’re using from the grid, to the temperature of your panels, and how much impact shade has on their output. It can also alert you to problems with your system that you’d otherwise miss until you receive an unexpectedly high power bill.
Charge Controller
A solar charge controller manages the power going into the battery bank from the solar array. It prevents the deep cycle batteries from being overcharged during the day and prevents power from flowing backwards to the solar panels overnight, draining the batteries. Although some charge controllers include extra features such as lighting and load management, their primary function is to manage electricity. PWM and MPPT are two alternative technologies for solar charge controllers. They are significantly different in how they operate in a system. Although an MPPT charge controller is more expensive than a PWM charge controller, the extra cost is often justified. Charge controllers are exclusively used in solar power systems with batteries. A charge controller is not required for grid-tied systems without batteries. Between the solar panels and the battery, charge controllers are built to prevent the batteries from being overcharged and to ensure that the battery is charged at the correct voltage level. Batteries can catch fire if they are overcharged, thus a charge controller is necessary to keep your battery system safe and long-lasting.
Perhaps, little you may know that your solar equipment needs maintenance for efficient energy production and for you to derive maximum satisfaction for what you have spent your hard-earned currency to acquire. You deserve to enjoy your solar system to give you optimal satisfaction. EPA ensures that you derive maximum utility from each penny you spent on your solar system. This is the reason why you need to perform an energy audit of your solar system. Oh! You do not know what is meant by energy audit? Do not worry, you have EPA by your side and we are 24/7 available to attend to your need. An energy audit is a survey and analysis of energy flows in a building with the purpose of energy conservation. It could involve a technique or system that reduces the amount of energy input while maintaining the system's output. It is a way of using your solar system efficiently so that you do not waste the energy you paid for unnecessarily. At EPA we are excellently good at what we do, this is why we do not just obtain energy equipment from roadside seller or African situated markets. We are affiliated to the European and American manufacturers, Pylontech, Schneider, Fullriver; Index-Exide; and Deka that gives many years of warranty on solar equipment we procure. For this reason, our clients are rest assured that their energy OPM is of quality and high standard.
Energy Project Africa is a leading renewable energy business in Lagos, Nigeria with expertise in procurement of energy equipment, energy audit and feasibility solutions of mini-grid and solar farms. Supply by EPA provides solar products and equipment for corporate and institutional clients for the project and operational needs. If you need a partner with hands-on local expertise in the renewable energy space or any of our bespoke solutions/services, kindly visit:
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Investment › Re: Things To Look For When Purchasing Effective Solar System by olorunthobby: 7:48am On May 17, 2022 |
pscenergy: Wonderful write-up.
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Nairaland General › Re: The Points You Will Want To Find Out About The Sun's Amazing Power by olorunthobby: 7:47am On May 17, 2022 |
ManiMalik: You have certainly read many things related to solar energy, but this is the time to pay attention to many great and valid facts about solar energy. Solar energy is the most widely available source of energy today. You cannot find non-renewable energy in the environment that can provide us with infinite energy, such as solar energy.
The sun is certainly the center of the world, which has long provided the earth with energy. The inhabitants of the planet later discovered that they had used the sun's rays to heat and dry wet clothes.
Many of these solar amazing facts are as old as their beginnings. You probably don't know, but the Earth receives enough solar energy per hour to cover the Earth's energy needs for the entire year. The facts of the sun can definitely save us money.
Using all the different information about solar energy, it is very important to educate yourself about the positive aspects in general. These points are usually the main motives that make it really every penny and start using solar energy instead of fossil electricity.
Understanding the facts of all solar energy technologies has proved to be a great guide and guide for those who are really interested in the transition to green energy. The only problem that prevents the return of solar energy from becoming a primary energy source is that for some it may be difficult to implement.
Learning about the iconic facts of solar energy can help save the planet. When power plants burn non-renewable fuels, they emit greenhouse fumes, which cause climate change. Solar energy uses the energy of sunlight to generate electricity.
Knowing the basics of solar energy and jewellery guide, we will understand the importance of using a green energy source. Knowing the facts about solar energy can be a useful starting point before investing in a solar energy system.
Another important fact about solar energy that you need to know is that solar technology is really efficient and environmentally friendly. Solar energy is created using a variety of methods designed to use the sun's rays from the sun's infinite energy.
It is estimated that the sun could exist for another 4 billion years. This indicates that it is a power source that will not run out in the near future. Did you know that if we can easily use all our solar energy in one day, you can easily supply energy to everyone on earth for a year? Another fact that seems to be true about solar energy is that it does not harm the ecosystem that is currently being misused. The environment has been plagued by non-renewable fuels, which have been damaging the planet for so long.
Solar energy only became a kinetic energy option almost sixty years later. The actual first methods could not give any effective results, and the cost of implementing the method was very excessive. Today, almost six decades and exotic hill stations after this green alternative to the widely used non-renewable fuel, it is finally starting to bring about positive change. PLEASE WHERE CAN ONE LEARN SOLAR TECHNOLOGY IN LAGOS |
Investment › Re: Read This If You Want 24 Hours Light by olorunthobby: 7:46am On May 17, 2022 |
Masons: Do you know it is possible to get 24 hours light in Nigeria? even with the way we get disappointed by nepa. the only way you can achieve this is by switching to a solar inverter, and all your spending on fuel, diesel, and electricity bills will be over.
Today, many businesses are being forced out of business due to the country's insufficient power supply. Many businesses require a consistent power supply and are debating whether changing businesses is the best option.
You do not need to spend that much money on diesel or fuel. We have a solution to your power issue. Unfortunately, a few people are aware of this modern technology in the market. An inverter is a power generator that runs on batteries rather than gasoline or diesel. When purchased, there are no additional costs to run it.
stop wasting money on fuel and diesel. we build, sell and install inverters.
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Satellite TV Technology › Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by olorunthobby: 7:43am On May 17, 2022 |
[quote author=FireTheSun post=112874210]Watched the Auxano/BOI Video. I must say l am thrilled that we have started from 'somewhere', guys lik that need all the encouragement they can get, to go "Automated". Having said that, l must also point out that there is a difference between Assembling Solar Panels and Manufacturing Solar Panels. What l see in that Video is a Company into " Assembling Solar Panels". I did not see anywhere they Manufactured the Solar Cells, which is the backbone of a Solar Panel, they imported the Cells and then began to put them together. But it is a good start, Rome was not built in a day. With a good enabling environment, Govt can use its Diplomatic leverage to "buy Technology" from the Chinese/Russian/Asian Govts in a BOT arrangement, for our Entrepreneurs. The Europeans and Americans wont sell such technology to us, they prefer we are always in a begging position, so they can continue to arm-twist us into submission.  [/quote ************************************** PLEASE WHERE CAN ONE LEARN SOLAR TECHNOLOGY IN LAGOS? |
Satellite TV Technology › Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by olorunthobby: 7:42am On May 17, 2022 |
[quote author=FireTheSun post=112874210]Watched the Auxano/BOI Video. I must say l am thrilled that we have started from 'somewhere', guys lik that need all the encouragement they can get, to go "Automated". Having said that, l must also point out that there is a difference between Assembling Solar Panels and Manufacturing Solar Panels. What l see in that Video is a Company into " Assembling Solar Panels". I did not see anywhere they Manufactured the Solar Cells, which is the backbone of a Solar Panel, they imported the Cells and then began to put them together. But it is a good start, Rome was not built in a day. With a good enabling environment, Govt can use its Diplomatic leverage to "buy Technology" from the Chinese/Russian/Asian Govts in a BOT arrangement, for our Entrepreneurs. The Europeans and Americans wont sell such technology to us, they prefer we are always in a begging position, so they can continue to arm-twist us into submission.  [/quote PLEASE WHERE CAN ONE LEARN SOLAR TECHNOLOGY IN LAGOS |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Blood Red Sky Blankets City Near Shanghai Sparking Armageddon Fear (Pics, Video) by olorunthobby: 11:05am On May 10, 2022*. Modified: 11:20am On May 10, 2022 |
Righteousness2: [s]The Signs of the End are vibrating in Massive and voluminous Frequencies all over the Universe.
Signs on land, in the skies, the sun, the moon, just everywhere.
One of these days, it will be like a movie or dream. Millions of people allover the World Saved and washed in blood of JESUS Christ will suddenly Disappear from the Earth.
The Vawulence and Katakata on earth that day will be unimaginable. The whole world will be in Confusion and tormoil.
JESUS is Coming! I tell you JESUS is Coming ! And it's just a breath away.
Come into Genuie relationship with JESUS Christ. Completely surrender to HIM and begin to live according to His Commandments.
They who Have Ears to Hear... Let them Hear.[/s] This guy is either a Nairaland Mod disguising or He's getting paid from Nairaland to push Christianity Ministering online because he's prescriptions to commenting under topics like this is greatly 2nd to none and he's always making front page.
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Education › Re: I Used Last Years JAMB Email To Register This Year JAMB by olorunthobby: 1:09pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Osi247: guys pls i need urgent help,i registered jamb last year but i could not secure admission. so i am about sitting for this years jamb but ignorantly i used the same email of last year jamb to register this years own.. when ever i login to my portal it displays my last year jamb details
pls i need solutions.. thanks for reading I will advice that you visit the nearest jamb center around you before its too late |
Romance › Re: Fashion Or Madness??? by olorunthobby: 2:19pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Now you see where our young girls are following the steps of their sisters.. they are doing what they are seeing other aunties are doing all because they just want attention! Must we always expose our nudity/curves/nippl* points in the public space all in the name Fashion MADNESS just for attention sake? Most of our aunties and big sisters don't encourage wearing bra again, we now see it as old fashion. And until we begin to shame them, it won't ever stop! When you log into the tiktok app and you watch what our Nigerian aunties are posting online for the world to see, you will never wish to have a female as a child!! Hian !
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Education › Re: 21 Positive Parenting Guides To Positively Discipline Our Children by olorunthobby: 10:04pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Akinpedia: As a parent, one of our jobs is to teach our children how to behave. It's a job that takes time and patience. But, it will help to learn effective and healthy discipline strategies. The guides will promote positive development in children and positive parent-child relationships.
These Guides are for the Parents��.
Don’t make your daughter's assistant parents to their brothers
If he scatters the room, tell him to arrange it. If he rough handles his clothes, he should wash them. Never make them feel that their sister is there to SERVE them.
Your boys should be fully involved in domestic chores
There should be a timetable — the day he sweeps cleans the house, and also cooks. You should let your sons know that everyone that loves eating should know how to cook! Let them know it’s a basic survival skill!!!!
Do not ask your girls to respect their brothers because they are boys. I see this a lot in homes
The parents will tell the girls: “why would you talk to him like that? He’s a man..”. No! Let your boys know that if they want respect from their girls, they must earn it!
Do not stop your boys from expressing vulnerability
Don’t tell them to man up. Don’t shame them for crying. Let them express their full humanness. Boys are humans. Boys have emotions. Boys should not suppress emotions.
When your girl child makes a mistake, do not say things like: “Is this how you’ll take care of your husband?”. Her life is more than having a man, teach her that things should be done right not because of having and ‘keeping’ a man!
Don’t compare your kids based on gender. Some parents do this
When their girl child is doing better than their boys, they say things like: “Are you not ashamed that your sister is doing better than you?! And you’re a boy...”. You‘re teaching him that excellence isn’t for women.
Make your boys feel accountable
Some parents will scold their girls over something they’ll ignore the boys when they do it. Don’t make your boys feel that their standards are lower, & women have higher moral standards! You’re breeding spoilt boys who become terrible partners.
Parents, you need to realize that more than you’re grooming your children, you’re almost grooming someone’s friend, wife, husband, and we have many imbalanced marriages because boys were groomed to feel so entitled, and not accountable.
We have many women suffering in marriages because they end up with grown men who can’t do anything that offer the barest minimum and expect maximum results. These women keep sticking with abusive men because as kids their parents made them feel keeping a man was all... Learn more
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