₦airaland Forum

It's called dark forest not evil forest

Your life is a proof that there's nothing in this life and God decides to use us for what he wants.

Igbos should learn from your case and review their culture. Thank God some Igbos now marry other tribes but this idea that a man that does not pay bride price can not claim his child is not natural or biological. It's pure cultural mislead and diversion.

She's not the only one. The female gender of this generation in general are mentally poor. Imagine having an entrepreneural opportunity with a hookup mindset. It's a gender so used to receiving and coveting and know almost nothing about becoming a giver or employer. Even the few who are employers rise from the effort of a man. The extreme mental gap between the two genders is one thing I would change if I had the power. Men should also learn not to relinquish their strength (finances and utmost attention) to women. They'll bring you down.

You dey craze o. So a girl kept you like this for days now and you're wasting your value where it is not needed. You're really a worthless person. Get another girl and ignore this one. Don't block her cuz she could be hit with insult from d dick she's been fucking then suddenly remembers you.. If I were you I will Bleep the living daylights from her life when she returns. But for now, get someone else.

turmacs:
it's jealousy that will kill alot of you Nigerians My man will never lay his hands on me in this life no matter what, you don't know him more than me so rest, idîot.

Lol. You dey trust man. You forget say some people don dey there before you. I give you only 2 years after wedding, he may not beat you but if you no find this post back and refer to my sayings then you both must have been pretending. The way e dey be when the fresh love dey shack person, na so e dey do you for now

Ayjay44:
where in my original post did I say things hard for me. Na amadioha go punish your bastard father if you quote me again

The curse can't work cuz my father is not a bastard, he's a true son. But wait o, it seems you escaped attempted abortion during pregnancy but the D&C scrapped some part of your brain, that's why your sense is not complete.

SunShowAfrica:
Men are not meant to be gentle.
You'll b taken for a fool and taken for a ride.
Have you ever wondered how hot headed men are able to have and control more than 2 beautiful women?

They say love is blind but marriage opens eyes.

Let her marry him first, you see that first point she made about running her mouth anyhow, that will be her first lesson when he uses Mike Tyson kinda uppercut to shift her jaw, remove her upper incisors and re-shape her face, then she'll wonder where his gentleness went and she'll learn to tame her tongue

Ayjay44:
u are very stupid. God punish u

Loolzz. So you no wan die. Why then are you calling on suicide when you're not ready? Maybe na God dey punish you for your abusive habit sef weh things hard for you. You said you're always thinking of crime. You forgot to add that you're always abusive too. When you become logically rational and sane, you'll be able to focus aright and things will work for you. Goodluck!

You weh never go through half of wetin I don go through. You dey think of suicide. Oya commit the suicide na. We don too much weh dey find better life for this naija sef. So it pays us if you commit suicide.

turmacs:
I'll go first

My experience
The fact that I can run my mouth like a tap in any small argument or misunderstanding, even though i know fully well that he can beat me to comatose if he was that type of guy

Others are okay but you see this one, I bet you the pleasure won't last long if not curtailed on time. That comatose weh you never experience, you fit experience the overdose not necessarily from him but from your mother and sister-in-law or side-chick to a level of no return. You need to tame that aspect of you to perfect your compatibility. Goodluck!

CyrusVI:
Idolatry?

Most of these guys are Christians who do this Masqurade thing to pass time and to uphold their family traditions

Dem go go church on Sunday. They do it once a year too

Whether thats true christianity or not, that one na their pastor headache o

I know that very well

It's still idolatory

pansophist:
So you want to tell me that if I am a dwarf like Aki and Paw paw, a street vulcanizer, and I buy your book, women will start finding me attractive?

You dey mind the idiot? All this mental energy he's investing into getting women's attention, if he invest it in what will fetch him good money, it's women who would read books to get his attention. It's a no-ambition man that pursue women instead of financial bouyancy

That's why I support men marrying older or slightly older women. Although women will always be women but there are significant differences.

And you think all this things you listed aren't too cumbersome for the comprehension of a girl way younger than a man that she looks up to? How many sense women get let alone those with younger age

The fear of bullet is the beginning of wisdom.

Idolatry fears two things
-Fire arms and weapons
-Mouth words backed by strong belief

The truth you need is simple...

If she wants to go, let her go. Don't stop her at all, just be responsible for your child and wait till your mind is settled then marry who soothes you. She's after-one already, when guys f*ck her in and out and she realize that the world outside is not what she thinks it is, she'll come back begging but it'll be too late cuz apart from having someone else in your life, I wouldn't take back who guys have slept the living day out of, while I was busy planning my future

It's just an African culture. There's nothing wrong with it

SaidaBoj3:
Thank God for you. I'm glad you escaped poverty as a Nigerian.
You will never understand what it means to escape poverty in life, especially as a Nigerian. Just be Good.

Fact! And he should be helpful to the poor and needy too. Riches are worthless without making humanity better

That's why tenants and landlords can never reason in same way and they are hardly in good terms. When you see a tenant who's a landlord of some property elsewhere, his reasoning will be outstanding from other tenants.

You're sharing about a 200k responsibility weekly and you don't know you're to have a legal agreement in written form with the property lawyer for the contribution let alone the help you rendered.

Well he don show you boss and there's nothing to do to him for that as there's no evidence. Get your own gen or prepare to leave in the next due time

jeromestarks:
How Is it possible for someone to manipulate the dream of another person?

It simply means some people are not ordinary people

You think it's everyone you see physically that are just humans? Many sex gods disguise as very beautiful girls and men fall in their traps everyday.

For now, ensure you don't have any sexual contact with her. If you do, you may lose your virtues or get entangled. If the dream and her reaching out to you continues then it confirms that she's behind those dreams. To me she actually is, to have called you by herself and keep doing the callings after a sex dream and not you calling her. She's after something in your life. Make sure you don't tell your girlfriend.

Withdraw anything you're doing to her that she likes. Simple! Don't eat her food, don't respond to her actions. Act cold. It's not wickedness. You may need to withdraw your availability too, meaning you need to be emotionally independent on your own because the more you're being there, the likely she'll let familiarity creep in between you two. Familiarity is something too big for them to handle. Most women are not emotionally dependable

If she asks why you withdrew, tell her her exact disobedient actions despite several warning instructions. That's how to prove you're in charge and that's how they change. If you do that and she refuses to change, she's not yours. Go get a groomable one.

Lol. Just pity her condition.

The funny thing is someone like her will still get mind come online say men are scum. Shameless hungry mofos.

If I could change anything in this world, it's the huge gap of mental rationale between male and female

And in Nigeria, the societal norm that a man must be older than his wife. Only older women equates the level of mental reasonability of a man they're 2-3 years older than. Age mates are trouble, younger ladies are worse except one who has spent a long time with her father, else no great understanding is expected from them.

TooResilient:
Dear Ladies,

Your body, your rules.

No man born of a woman has the right to ask you "what's your body count?". He has disrespected you already.

A man will pay expensive bride price with his hard-earned money over who he sees as a wife and not be certain about her body count? Stop living in delusion and stop acting like you're far from marriage. I'm sure your age isn't

illicit:
Hmmm it is well


Even inside well....

Everybody wishes to die well

Babamide:
Na only foolish man go date divorced women. You can have sex with them and get favors from them but to truly be dating one is really a huge waste of time

You have to make it look like dating to them to enjoy steady sex and favour from them. They're women, have you forgotten that?

Only few fathers get to experience such joy. Now this is why some children do better than thier siblings. If you know, you know

Contact that hermaphrodite that was all over the internet last week. She won't collect money from you

It's the blood of the innocent protesters that was shed yesterday that's crying for veangeance

Hmmm. Until one takes blame for his or her circumstances instead of blaming others or the govt, no result will be obtained.

Sister, you're not the right person for many to marry, period! Not a bad governance problem