Lol. I've watched it too, though I didn't watch it critically but I noticed all you said in it.

The best way to manage anger after prayer is to deprive it of expression. When you're angry, hurt the anger feeling by keeping totally mute. Do not say anything or do anything at that boiling moment despite people calling you a foool for not responding promptly to provoking occurrences. If you do that over a period of 3 months, you will be a noticeably changed person, especially because you've taken the first bold step by admitting that you have a weakness which you must overcome. Many people won't admit that.

If you can't outrightly keep mute, you can start by saying only half of what you used to say when you're angry, then graduate it to keeping mute later. Whatever has expression becomes stronger but whatever lacks expression becomes weaker and fades out.

What she said is just right. Besides I sincerely like the fact that she focused on men. The society has focused too much on women that men have believed there's no need for sanctity of masculine sexuality.

MatrixReloaded:
And you are still selling food for 3800 naira. You no see Ikoyi club for falomo open restaurant or go for Ikeja hotel airport road buy space build hilda bachi empire restaurant.
80m? wetin concern me and guiness record recognition.
Tell us say man wey go keep u 4 hse na 80m b ur target cash out for marriage/relationship to stand. "As per world record cookaton individualholder".
Seriously we need to dey give Nigeria women enough space I swear down. I no fit lie.

Abeg I wanna ask sef. Will guiness pay her or give her some huge money for breaking record or wetin motivate her to spend money for cooking record like this?

Ihateheadslamer:
Like a blink of an eyes, everything about Buhari no longer relevant

Even his phone won't ring like it used to

Merry100:

This is mistake a lot of people make when picking a partner, they believe they can change their partner's attitude. He is doing himself and the lady a favour if doesn't marry her. Why force things? She will find someone that loves her the way she is and he will also find that his compatible with him.

The change process is not in marriage, it's during dating

boborosky:
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Thanks, but what if she doesn't learn....?

She will bro. Be optimistic

My advice is to give a little more push. I'm saying this because most resourceful ladies might also find it difficult to submit. I know there may be a lot of ranting and criticisms about submission but I'm giving you a honest advice as a realist for your future. Nothing makes you a fulfilled man than to have a resourceful wife who allows you to be in charge: such women are very rare. Once they can work hard on their own, submission with their money gradually slides out...it's psychological.

Now considering the fact that you can't find all you need in one person, you have to weigh your options which emphasizes the role of grooming. Grooming means training her to soothe your taste or standard. To be frank, it might not be a sweet experience at first but it's worth it. The point is you're not ready yet, when you're ready, you will drill her seriously and your love for her is the fuel. I did it for my wife. Anything that gives you peace of mind as you said; that she has good character, should be seriously guided and guarded. Only few women will give you such peace despite their imperfections.

Start from a small level, get her a shop if you can afford it to start selling provisions or likely things and monitor her totally so far she's not pissed to say you're domineering. In my case, my wife enjoyed my control and that made it easy for me. She said she likes the disciplinary love and that someone is mad over her. Now she's super-productive, she even charges me for her services and collects her money promptly. Business is business. I trained her.

anointedlinks:
Here are a few;
Don't bite your fingernails (there is dirt in between them), get a pedicure and manicure instead (can do this by yourself as well)

Wash your hair regularly so it doesn't smell

Bath at least once a day

Floss in between your teeth to remove large food particles of meat etc (very important to prevent tooth decay and bad breath)

Brush your teeth and tongue with toothbrush and tongue scraper (preferably twice daily)

Gargle your mouth with salt water before bed. You will be shocked to wake up with zero morning breath (even if you didn't brush before sleeping).

Rinse your mouth with water after meals (can floss too)

Visit a dentist annually as some oral issues can only be corrected there

Keep your living space tidy

Use water to wash your rectal area after using the toilet (use a bidet or bottle), it is a much more hygienic method than the use of tissue paper and leaves that area odorless

Use water to rinse your urinal tract after urinating or use a kleenex if in a public restroom where water is not accessible. This ensures your underwear does not get soiled and smelly from mild incontinence

Apply lotion on your skin daily to keep it from looking dry and white

Get a nose hair trimmer

Eat less oily and junk foods and more natural whole foods to reduce propensity for acne breakouts

Exercise regularly (at the very minimum walk more often) to stay fit and healthy

Go for regular general health checkups

Let go of bitterness of all forms to stay disease free (forgive even though you don't forget the offense, learn from it)

Smile more often, be kind and practice boundary setting to avoid burnout

Shave regularly where necessary (more for men)

Use a deodorant to prevent body odor

Be mindful of your posture and get help to correct it where necessary

Learn correct clothing colour combination and dress smartly with freshly ironed clothes

Get comfortable shoes to prevent foot injury and pain which cause bad moods

Invest in knowledge to make you a well rounded and financially stable person

Avoid debt except for business purposes and pray before taking such

Get counselling and therapy where necessary to clear emotional baggage issues

Connect spiritually with your creator


What tips do you have that were not mentioned? Comment below

What you listed are just health tips

Did you not forget to take your pill after the sex you had with that riffraff last week? You're pregnant and you don't know.

Or perhaps the next guy you sleep with will get you pregnant. He's a lucky guy

It's a black flag. The relationship won't last. Take that from me

wentroublecomes:

U don't need to wish me, I've already wish myself so keep Ur F**Mouth shut

Lol. Frustrated fellow

I wish you what you wish yourself

Bluezy13:


Your point is not valid.
If the behavior of the men is ascribed to high sex drive, then what stops the men from paying for sex only? And last time I checked, there are brothels everywhere and a man must not go on a date with a lady of the brothel before having sex.
Leave innocent nature out of it.

Lol. You love argument for fun: it's obvious. I strongly suggest that you read wide, read a lot of books ranging from science, psychology, leadership, followership to commerce and arts. As they say readers are leaders. An average African especially Nigerians will spend more time on social media or parties than reading. They even buy expensive phones for social media purpose. When you're very enlightened with knowledge, your argument, if there must be will be more fine-tuned. However, you won't even engage in so many argument because you understand better. When people like you hear the word psychiatry, what they immediately think about is "madness or mental retardation" whereas psychiatry isn't just about madness.

1Sharon:


Most dates happen in public places, a woman doesn't need to have her guard up as much.

This is different to a random woman offering a man sex. Sex is hidden and intimate.

Like i said before, honey trapping is targeted to men, not women.

You still don't understand the difference between the laws of nature and gender responses to nature

Are you a learner? Abraham pleaded for one soul in Sodom and Gomorrah. God allowed him plead but there was no righteous person at all, not even one in the entire city. Evil don dey taytay

Bluezy13:


That's not nature.
That's weakness.
She's right. Most men are weak.

Your argument is not enlightened pls.

Everyone has different strength but high sex drive in men and low sex drive in women is simply nature. That's the underlying reason behind those chats. That's my point

An olosho girl needing a sugar mommy. But both of you are female nw

1Sharon:
That is why honey trapping works on men and not women.

Most men are weak.

That's not weakness, that's nature.

Most women will collect money from strange men too. A girl ate 12k food on a first date. That's women's nature. One could say women are weak too when it comes to money

Fucck-a-thon guiness record

Smoke-a-thon guiness record

Some ladies longer throat is so uncultured and untamed. You might say the videoing is not necessary but how then will we know such a thing happened

Rayban25:
Those boys were very stupid...they still recorded her on top what's the meaning of that? I'm very sure that the bo even borrowed that car to take her out.

Blessing STD

Congratulations. May you born triplets 6 times

The odour will be hectic

Stay away from sex oga. Focus on career. Let your penis rest a little

A female ex still acting nice to you after break up. Is she over 30 years?

That's why if you understand girls very well, it doesn't make sense to have only one. Chat up 5 if you need 3, and 4 if you need 2. One fumbles, call the other. You should also play on them based on their temperament. Some are emotional and empathic while some are stone-hearted. You use their soft spot to catch them

rainmoredays:
KNOWLEDGE may empower you, it is BLESSING that will position you.

Deep