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This emotional emotional... you're just mentioning like water is just a woman thing. It's no much deal for men abeg. Yet you keep mentioning it like having sex is entering emotional prison.

Excess emotions kills fun and fantasy abeg

Regina's parents are at fault

Oga, fence up your land and plant plantain and banana there

You be realist baba. Enjoy your dress and couch and enjoy your life

Eyitayo29:
Please, I need experienced men in long-term happy (not enduring) marriages to share their experiences and provide a blueprint on how to successfully select a good wife and how to be a good husband/father. I need this NOW more than ever please.

I have a strong feeling I know you outside nairaland

SpiritualWealth:
The New Journey Begins!

Yes

Time for Glory!

End of training.

Unfortunately, women who have both virtues prominently are very rare, In fact, almost not existent. One virtue usually supercedes while the other is recessive and that's fair

It's the man's duty to build up the lagging part of her and cut down the excesses. If she has it all sef, you suppose fear as a man.

You just touched an area women don't agree they're at fault o. While in the flow of the relationship or in forming hard-to-get stage, the man is seriously busy watching and hearing things from and about her that has made him know this is not a person he can spend the rest of his life with, not his kind of dream wife but all the money he's spent on her can't go in vain, he has to open the torchlight at least once and shut out

GanagiBitrus:
The man just reduced his life span by 3x10 years.

On the contrary, men who have more wives live longer and don't have prostate enlargement in their later years by recent research

He's my mentor.

An adage says if a child is wise to die, an adult will be wise to bury her swiftly.

The solution is inherent, it's a matter of how smart the man is. The solution is deception.
Promise her marriage and look as real as a super serious dude. Before her brain awakens to the reality, you're long gone on another kpekus bearer.

There's a group of 2 married men with kids each, who contributed to rent a room and parlour self contain in this Lagos, each bringing his side chick there at intervals of one week after each other.. like turn-by-turn, one week on, one week off, calling them their fiancees pretending to be singles. So the girls thought they've found would-be husbands. The girls do not know each other and never met each other.

One acted as the landlord for the other. The other one who acted tenant kept complaining that his rent will soon finish, he's broke and the landlord is pestering him, the girl as a future wife, helped with over half of the rent and the guy bleeped her pvssy within that 2 years terribly.

The other guy who's the landlord did the same to his side chick acting as the tenant calling the other guy his landlord. That one's girl paid all the rent as working class wife material. After 2 years of intense bleeping, they changed apartment and got new girls. A real life story narrated by one of the victim girls who called on an abuse report program on radio.

In every Nigerian problem, there's a Nigerian solution so men should wise up

May their souls rest in peace

Is she still married to the husband?

Oga calm down and stop concluding on the surface. Are you married? There's more to that lack of planning beyond using separate rooms.

I used to superficially blame couples who don't use same room before I married too. But now I can categorically tell you as a married man that there are a lot of reasons couples use different rooms some of which include health issues among others though me I don't

Being in separate rooms does not stop them from planning together if they're at peace with each other. Some couples use different rooms and they're united still. So it depends on why they're are using different rooms. In this case there's more to their separation. They have a strong quarrel between them left unsettled.

BBL originated from there and took it's name from there

Lamanii22:
Oh really? What happened to your bio which says 'You love peace but not without justice' hmm

Are you educated? Please re-read my post. I supported justice clearly.

Perhaps you dropped out of school

DJ Kulet was heard telling Mummy Favour that Emmanuel had been having sex with her daughter for months. The victim was heard corroborating what DJ Kulet said.

Does dj kulet have a child before marriage? If so then they are birds of same feather. With her kind of job sef, I doubt if they'll be attracted to disciplined men. It's good she separated but she shouldn't have blasted it openly this way. Silent walk away is just best to protect her daughter's self image.

He's conversant with ogun state especially. He should extend the love to other Nigerian zones too. He'll soon bag a chieftaincy title in ogun state and I hope the UK divorce syndrome won't default this his Nigerian glory

Hope you're romantic. I only roll with romantics

Carndidlaydid:
Only broke men won't like the chat...

Don't ever pray not to get it right with marriage and pregnancy like this o

South African men are fools. Little wonder their girls crave Nigerian men

lovediehatelive:
Check the original post

He modified it later. He did not include it before

lovediehatelive:
Nope

Which country then?

China.

Always Asians first

Gbas gbos for who no look face.

OR

Do anyhow, see anyhow!

That woman is an example of women who enter marriage without knowing what marriage really means and entails.

It's a married woman's duty to set boundaries and know when to set them, not the man's duty on her behalf. If she doesn't know that, she should cover her face in shame.

It's not new with women. You learn only in the hard way. The huge difference between a man and a woman. Men tend to learn before it's late and problematic

I'll view it at a region. I can't wait to hear the prophecies for next year

He's not against the wedding. He's only saying he as the head of a denomination, pple read a million meaning to see him attending such weddings and it has raised criticisms. It's like being the captain or coach of a team and wearing the jersey of another team. His not attending does not mean he's against it.

Nnamdipapa:
Patience is never a virtue and we were deceived. You have to rush your goals on life in other to achieve them.

Patience is a virtue and it's a great virtue as a matter of fact among other virtues. It's knowing the right time and way to apply it that matters