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Romance / Re: A Cheating Wife Seeks Advice On What To Do by Oluromantic: 7:57pm On Jun 25, 2023
I fear woman o

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Romance / Re: Man Commands Car To Drive & Stop On Its Own With Chants (VIDEO) by Oluromantic: 6:12am On Jun 24, 2023
Sheistoopretty:
Africans are too backward,,, don't even get me started by linking dis to spirituality, it's all false


I don't believe in spiritualities,,,,,.dere is notin like dat
This car stuff truly might not be real...I don't know, but to say there's nothing like spirituality, my sister, don't open your mouth to say that again. It's too gibberish to say that.

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Romance / Re: Did She Truly Love Me? I Need Your Advice Guys by Oluromantic: 6:01am On Jun 24, 2023
Bayonle David, you're a mumu

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Romance / Re: This Single Picture Shows The Harsh But Sad Reality Of Life (photo) by Oluromantic: 8:51pm On Jun 22, 2023
Money is powerful

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Forum Games / Re: Logically Who Would Come Out Alive From These Four? by Oluromantic: 6:50am On Jun 21, 2023
spy24:


Anacondas are not venomous
Oh okay thanks. I never knew
Forum Games / Re: Logically Who Would Come Out Alive From These Four? by Oluromantic: 10:54pm On Jun 20, 2023
ironkurtain:



Well said.
Yeah bro
Forum Games / Re: Logically Who Would Come Out Alive From These Four? by Oluromantic: 10:45pm On Jun 20, 2023
Les:
The Lion has pride but it's not really the strongest compared to other strong animals.

I don't know the possibility of the anaconda constricting the bear šŸ» and the gorilla but it might not work because those two beasts are super strong. If the grizzly bear grabs the anaconda by the head with its strong jaws and sharp claws, it's gone for real.

The real fight there is between the grizzly bear and the silverback gorilla, I don't know who will win but I go for Kingkong. That beast is strong!
A piece of venom for each of the other three is all the anaconda needs to conquer. Unlike python which only constrict without venom, anaconda has both. I go for anaconda

However, comparing the strength of a silverback gorilla with a grizzly bear is funny bro. it's not just about strength. Have you seen a furious bear in action before? A bear is a crude and uncultured beast. The primate nature of the gorilla supercedes his beast nature, he's intelligent enough to consider surrender to an uncontrollable beast not because he's weak but he has no claws and does not bite as the bear does. He also has vulnerable parts in his ventral surface (stomach/abdomen). There's no attack he launches on a bear that he won't come back with deep cuts. All he can do is to lift the bear which is really difficult based on size and aggression. A bear will keep attacking despite cuts till death, it's aggression is so crude and untamed.

The tendency to reason before acting is not in a bear at all. The gorilla has it more and that will make him not continue the fight.

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Family / Re: My 17th Wedding Anniversary Today And Getting Stronger by Oluromantic: 7:34pm On Jun 17, 2023
Happy wedding anniversary sir and ma.

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Family / Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Oluromantic: 7:17am On Jun 17, 2023
Every home has it's issues. The bone of contention is sometimes the man and other times the woman.

I however remember the answer a wealthy music performer once gave in an interview when he was asked how his marriage could last despite the numerous number of women flooding over him. He said he's rising with ease because his wife is at peace with herself.

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Career / Re: Blind Mechanic Perfectly Repairing Cars In Abuja (Video) by Oluromantic: 10:08pm On Jun 16, 2023
TsbAfrica:
Amazing ... They should empower him to teach his methods to others ...
Unfortunately, the nigerian system doesn't work that way.

Instead someone will clamour to be his manager and make money through his blindness and even cheat him by giving him lower currencies than they claim because he can't see
Career / Re: Blind Mechanic Perfectly Repairing Cars In Abuja (Video) by Oluromantic: 10:02pm On Jun 16, 2023
Politics / Re: Obi Remains Best Candidate For Nigeria, Says Obasanjo by Oluromantic: 6:09pm On Jun 16, 2023
I pray obj will not fall out of respectful honor after having done great for the nation like breaking point after elastic limit or diminishing returns
Romance / Re: What Signs Made You Realize Your Relationship Was Over? by Oluromantic: 11:06pm On Jun 15, 2023
My ex before I married was resourceful but disrespectful. She would look me in the eye and dare me disrespectfully. She also had emotions overshooting controllable limit. The flow lasted 4months and unfolded. I had to go back to my respectful girl whom I left because I felt she wasn't resourceful and flaky.

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Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Oluromantic: 10:59pm On Jun 15, 2023
You kept a lie for a year! Haba. No matter how little it sounds, lying is bad in a growing relationship. How would you feel if you were lied to. Tell him now before it's too late and set your mind free. You've been rolling together for a year which makes it seem like the relationship is growing.

Advice: Work on your self esteem too. You don't have to lie to make a man happy. Men don't need that, it's you ladies that crave it.

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Romance / Re: I Just Finished Watching Woman King And All I Can Say Is That The Movie Was A Gl by Oluromantic: 12:08pm On Jun 15, 2023
Lol. I've watched it too, though I didn't watch it critically but I noticed all you said in it.

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Romance / Re: I Hurt Her With My Words, How Can I Get Back On Track. by Oluromantic: 5:21am On Jun 15, 2023
The best way to manage anger after prayer is to deprive it of expression. When you're angry, hurt the anger feeling by keeping totally mute. Do not say anything or do anything at that boiling moment despite people calling you a foool for not responding promptly to provoking occurrences. If you do that over a period of 3 months, you will be a noticeably changed person, especially because you've taken the first bold step by admitting that you have a weakness which you must overcome. Many people won't admit that.

If you can't outrightly keep mute, you can start by saying only half of what you used to say when you're angry, then graduate it to keeping mute later. Whatever has expression becomes stronger but whatever lacks expression becomes weaker and fades out.
Romance / Re: Sex Is Not Good..., Don't Be Used As Toilet Roll, Deeper Life Mummy Says by Oluromantic: 2:27pm On Jun 14, 2023
What she said is just right. Besides I sincerely like the fact that she focused on men. The society has focused too much on women that men have believed there's no need for sanctity of masculine sexuality.

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Food / Re: Hilda Baci 'Spent Over ā‚¦ā€Ž80m' For Her Cookathon by Oluromantic: 12:40pm On Jun 14, 2023
MatrixReloaded:
And you are still selling food for 3800 naira. You no see Ikoyi club for falomo open restaurant or go for Ikeja hotel airport road buy space build hilda bachi empire restaurant.
80m? wetin concern me and guiness record recognition.
Tell us say man wey go keep u 4 hse na 80m b ur target cash out for marriage/relationship to stand. "As per world record cookaton individualholder".
Seriously we need to dey give Nigeria women enough space I swear down. I no fit lie.
Abeg I wanna ask sef. Will guiness pay her or give her some huge money for breaking record or wetin motivate her to spend money for cooking record like this?
Politics / Re: Emir Of Kano Dr. Aminu Visits Former President Buhari In Daura (Photos) by Oluromantic: 10:17pm On Jun 13, 2023
Ihateheadslamer:
Like a blink of an eyes, everything about Buhari no longer relevant tongue
Even his phone won't ring like it used to

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character But She Isn't Resourceful by Oluromantic: 7:16pm On Jun 13, 2023
Merry100:

This is mistake a lot of people make when picking a partner, they believe they can change their partner's attitude. He is doing himself and the lady a favour if doesn't marry her. Why force things? She will find someone that loves her the way she is and he will also find that his compatible with him.
The change process is not in marriage, it's during dating

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character But She Isn't Resourceful by Oluromantic: 6:44pm On Jun 13, 2023
boborosky:
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Thanks, but what if she doesn't learn....?
She will bro. Be optimistic

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character But She Isn't Resourceful by Oluromantic: 6:00pm On Jun 13, 2023
My advice is to give a little more push. I'm saying this because most resourceful ladies might also find it difficult to submit. I know there may be a lot of ranting and criticisms about submission but I'm giving you a honest advice as a realist for your future. Nothing makes you a fulfilled man than to have a resourceful wife who allows you to be in charge: such women are very rare. Once they can work hard on their own, submission with their money gradually slides out...it's psychological.

Now considering the fact that you can't find all you need in one person, you have to weigh your options which emphasizes the role of grooming. Grooming means training her to soothe your taste or standard. To be frank, it might not be a sweet experience at first but it's worth it. The point is you're not ready yet, when you're ready, you will drill her seriously and your love for her is the fuel. I did it for my wife. Anything that gives you peace of mind as you said; that she has good character, should be seriously guided and guarded. Only few women will give you such peace despite their imperfections.

Start from a small level, get her a shop if you can afford it to start selling provisions or likely things and monitor her totally so far she's not pissed to say you're domineering. In my case, my wife enjoyed my control and that made it easy for me. She said she likes the disciplinary love and that someone is mad over her. Now she's super-productive, she even charges me for her services and collects her money promptly. Business is business. I trained her.

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Romance / Re: Hygiene: What Tips Do You Have To Be Attractive To A Potential Partner? by Oluromantic: 7:21pm On Jun 12, 2023
anointedlinks:
sadHere are a few;
Don't bite your fingernails (there is dirt in between them), get a pedicure and manicure instead (can do this by yourself as well)

Wash your hair regularly so it doesn't smell

Bath at least once a day

Floss in between your teeth to remove large food particles of meat etc (very important to prevent tooth decay and bad breath)

Brush your teeth and tongue with toothbrush and tongue scraper (preferably twice daily)

Gargle your mouth with salt water before bed. You will be shocked to wake up with zero morning breath (even if you didn't brush before sleeping).

Rinse your mouth with water after meals (can floss too)

Visit a dentist annually as some oral issues can only be corrected there

Keep your living space tidy

Use water to wash your rectal area after using the toilet (use a bidet or bottle), it is a much more hygienic method than the use of tissue paper and leaves that area odorless

Use water to rinse your urinal tract after urinating or use a kleenex if in a public restroom where water is not accessible. This ensures your underwear does not get soiled and smelly from mild incontinence

Apply lotion on your skin daily to keep it from looking dry and white

Get a nose hair trimmer

Eat less oily and junk foods and more natural whole foods to reduce propensity for acne breakouts

Exercise regularly (at the very minimum walk more often) to stay fit and healthy

Go for regular general health checkups

Let go of bitterness of all forms to stay disease free (forgive even though you don't forget the offense, learn from it)

Smile more often, be kind and practice boundary setting to avoid burnout

Shave regularly where necessary (more for men)

Use a deodorant to prevent body odor

Be mindful of your posture and get help to correct it where necessary

Learn correct clothing colour combination and dress smartly with freshly ironed clothes

Get comfortable shoes to prevent foot injury and pain which cause bad moods

Invest in knowledge to make you a well rounded and financially stable person

Avoid debt except for business purposes and pray before taking such

Get counselling and therapy where necessary to clear emotional baggage issues

Connect spiritually with your creator


What tips do you have that were not mentioned? Comment below
What you listed are just health tips
Romance / Re: I Had A Flash Of Me Giving Birth/in A Labor Room And Iā€™m Not Even Pregnant by Oluromantic: 3:44pm On Jun 12, 2023
Did you not forget to take your pill after the sex you had with that riffraff last week? You're pregnant and you don't know.

Or perhaps the next guy you sleep with will get you pregnant. He's a lucky guy
Romance / Re: Is This A Red Flag? by Oluromantic: 3:38pm On Jun 12, 2023
It's a black flag. The relationship won't last. Take that from me
Family / Re: I Wish Not To Wake Up by Oluromantic: 1:38pm On Jun 12, 2023
wentroublecomes:

U don't need to wish me, I've already wish myself so keep Ur F**Mouth shut
Lol. Frustrated fellow
Family / Re: I Wish Not To Wake Up by Oluromantic: 12:30pm On Jun 12, 2023
I wish you what you wish yourself
Romance / Re: Women When A Strange Man Texts Them For The First Time: by Oluromantic: 12:06pm On Jun 12, 2023
Bluezy13:


Your point is not valid.
If the behavior of the men is ascribed to high sex drive, then what stops the men from paying for sex only? And last time I checked, there are brothels everywhere and a man must not go on a date with a lady of the brothel before having sex.
Leave innocent nature out of it.
Lol. You love argument for fun: it's obvious. I strongly suggest that you read wide, read a lot of books ranging from science, psychology, leadership, followership to commerce and arts. As they say readers are leaders. An average African especially Nigerians will spend more time on social media or parties than reading. They even buy expensive phones for social media purpose. When you're very enlightened with knowledge, your argument, if there must be will be more fine-tuned. However, you won't even engage in so many argument because you understand better. When people like you hear the word psychiatry, what they immediately think about is "madness or mental retardation" whereas psychiatry isn't just about madness.
Romance / Re: Women When A Strange Man Texts Them For The First Time: by Oluromantic: 7:14am On Jun 12, 2023
1Sharon:


Most dates happen in public places, a woman doesn't need to have her guard up as much.

This is different to a random woman offering a man sex. Sex is hidden and intimate.

Like i said before, honey trapping is targeted to men, not women.
You still don't understand the difference between the laws of nature and gender responses to nature

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Family / Re: Why Are Most Humans So Evil? by Oluromantic: 7:13am On Jun 12, 2023
Are you a learner? Abraham pleaded for one soul in Sodom and Gomorrah. God allowed him plead but there was no righteous person at all, not even one in the entire city. Evil don dey taytay

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Romance / Re: Women When A Strange Man Texts Them For The First Time: by Oluromantic: 7:09am On Jun 12, 2023
Bluezy13:


That's not nature.
That's weakness.
She's right. Most men are weak.
Your argument is not enlightened pls.

Everyone has different strength but high sex drive in men and low sex drive in women is simply nature. That's the underlying reason behind those chats. That's my point

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Romance / Re: Sugar by Oluromantic: 7:07am On Jun 12, 2023
An olosho girl needing a sugar mommy. But both of you are female nw

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