I just have this conviction that everything will work out fine.

The best advice is in your post already.

Follow your heart. If you're strongly convinced about going there, I'll advice you go.

Good. Let the brotherly love continue

Broke her heart...
Was there a promise of marriage between them?

May God answer all single men and women this year

God I thank you for my wife o. I notoriously hate divorce

It depends on you and the girl involved. It doesn't mean the relationship won't end well. I'm a proof of that

kyber:


Just cause you know it doesn’t mean others do
What about the rest acronyms listed?

You sha Dey find way discredit my thread

I'm not trying to discredit your thread. Just fine-tune it sir. TV isn't necessary on that list

Considering she's the only child of her parents, her parents would naturally love to see thier grandchildren around them. However, your decision is primarily dependent on 2 things.

1. How much regard your wife has for you. Whether you believe it or not, it will reflect in your children no matter where they are. Note: I didn't say how much love she has for you. That's one of the problems that leads to divorce that many young unmarried girls don't know. Her duty to you does not stop at love as many people think it does. It's your duty as the man to love, not hers. Hers is to submit (simply meaning- regard and respect) to you. If you give her a lot of free hand in the name of love, you might not be able to handle the effect of that free hand on your children.

Only you know your wife: If she regards you well, you can leave your kids around her and her parents. she will raise them to honor you. At least she has no siblings especially sisters who will jampack her brain with faulty reasonings and her father is still alive.

2. Does your job allow you to come home daily? If you will have enough time to relate with them very well, then thier location matters less, because it is who children see around them they know. That's why it's very easy for mothers to gain the attention of thier children and even manipulate them.

If these two things are not adequate, then I don't advice you to raise your children close to them

Is there any section called "comment section" on this forum?

If to say na me be God, before you finish the statement, I don cut ya head comot

You need to be distinguishing your fact well

Everyone knows the meaning of TV. MC is also known by a lot of people.

800k

Na she go first menstruate? Make she learn how to handle the menses with proper relationship

Lemme show you the way. But can you donate your mama sha

KINGOFHEART4064:
Pls nairalander, what are the solutions to a woman dat is not have sexual org, even though she is naked with a man in the room.

Normal for women. Her own nakdness cannot put her in mood. Same with your nakdness too. Take her out, spend money for her, money money

Thunder gbagi na labia majora

Let Divoc19 and IyaebeTheGreat come and advice you about thier junior colleague

Reminderz:
Marriage is a woman's greatest achievement and luxury... getting married to a good and rich man is her ultimate goal in life

You hammer the truth without any apology. Gbam!

mamagee3:

We eat goat meat pepper soup here in America too…

What are you saying? You’re ignorant!

Me ignorant Lol I know wetin I suppose reply you but you be my American baby so I free you.

How that boil for your armpit, e don less?

mamagee3:
Goat meat pepper soup is my specialty…

I love it!!!

You no behave like American o. Your Enugu DNA still strong

foleskay:

Alase. Make a 70yr old man hit d gym. Poor man telling a rich man how to live his life. Mumu

Abusive uncivilized man. There are 70+ men and women at the gym where you don't go

He's 70 and fat like this? He needs to hit the gym if he values longevity. You can never see a fat old man. All very long-life men are slim. Happy birthday to him

Babe are you a lizard? Cuz Agama eyez on you

Yes but as Joe Biden first son based in Italy where ashawo girls are based

The very reason a woman's persuasion should not be prime about a man's decision. A woman who may be ready to file a divorce for her husband's (not just any man o) molestation (what they call domestic rape) is willing to keep the product of forceful sexual violation from a stranger without considering the psychological trauma because of what she stands to gain from it.

It's a daily job. Right? Meaning you won't be in the hotel day and night, you close each day. If so, I advice you take the job so as to save enough money to expand your barbing business. Meaning you will be resuming at your shop daily at evening time. Fortunately most barbershop sales are more at evenings so your customers will know when to come when they know you go to work in the morning. When you have been able to expand your business with many customers and apprentices, you can quit the job if you like. I wouldn't if I were you though.

But if perhaps you got promoted in the job with a bigger salary, I'll advice you keep doing it and get a manager for your mini company. You're a Nigerian, you can multitask should be productive. Every means to expand your income should not be overlooked or rejected...

Ensure you do every good thing possible not to pick up that money. It simply means he wants to be in charge of your finances, you living from hand to mouth while he gives you crumbs that you must always look up to him for.

Next time you see him in the dream, command him to pick it up by himself and get out of your site

Yeah make I miss them. E pay me to miss them than to remain here and have them

This deep knowledge about masculine sexuality coming from a lady is commendable. You're not a superficial girl. You seem to rather seek solution to a problem than walk away from it. Keep it up girl!