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Penssuwa:It makes much sense to me, hence the post. Though the spelling of the girlfriend was short of 'l' which was a typo, but it had been modifeid. |
Meet the man who has two live-in girlfriends and is on the hunt for his third Meet Adam Lyons, 34, who lives with his two girlfriends, Brooke Shed, 26, andJane Shalakhova, 25. Adam and Brooke have just given birth to ababy boy, Danté - and the 'throuple' hope to raise their child together in Los Angeles.The trio - who share a super-kingsize bed and take it in turns to have romantic date nights together - insist that they can provide a loving family environment for their newborn.Adam, from east London, says:'We're just like any other family. Except in ours, there'll be one dad and two mums who live under the same roof - and there'll be nothing but love for our children.At highschool, I was voted the least likely to ever get a girlfriend. I believed that no girl would ever want me so I withdrew into myself. I became a nerd who stayed at home all day.'But at the age of 25 whilst he was working as a janitor, Adam decided to learn how to pick up women.'I started reading about pick-up artists and how you can use psychology to make yourself more attractive. 'I would practice by standing in Leicester Square at lunchtime and after work, trying to get girls' phone numbers as they walked past.In no time, I was sleeping with amazing women I could only have dreamed of back at school.'Adam became so knowledgeable at seducing girls that he started a career as a dating coach - running the popular YouTube channel AFCAdamLondon.'After being a nerdy loner all my life, I was suddenly leading this Hugh Hefner lifestyle.'It felt like I could sleep with any beautiful woman that I wanted. At one point, I was dating fourteen girls at the same time - it was crazy!Dating all of these girls became very stressful and boring - I realised that really I wanted to fall in love and settle down.'In 2007, Adam met Alexandra*, who was five years his junior, at a nightclub in London and fell in love with her.After dating for a year, they got married and started their new life together in Texas, USA where Alexandra came from. Adam explains:'I was madly in love with Alexandra and our life together was perfect.We had a verytraditional, monogamous marriage. We were like any other normal, happy couple.'But after three years together, things between the couple began to sour when Alexandra still wasn't ready to have children with Adam.He says:'I wanted to have kids as soon as possible but Alexandra had no interest in having any yet.The baby issue started causing other problems in our relationship. But Alexandra and I still loved each other and we didn't want to get a divorce.'In a bid to save their marriage, Adam and Alexandra decided to give 'polyamory' a go- meaning they could have other sexual partners besides each other.'After many discussions, we chose to 'open up' our relationship and start seeing other people as well as each other.Alexandra and I figured that if we had a polyamorous marriage, then perhaps we would have a better chance of staying together.'Alexandra started sleeping with a few different guys and I started dating a woman I met in a bar. It was great!It brought the two of us closer together. We'dsit on the sofa and talk about the fantastic sex we were having with different people.'I even met and became mates with some of the men Alexandra was dating. It was really good bonding for us - chatting about our sexual exploits was a turn on and we'd go make love to each other afterwards. It helped our relationship.'But things got complicated between the pair when Alexandra suggested that Adam sleep with one of their mutual friends, Brooke.'Alexandra and I were really close friends with a woman called Brooke, who was bisexual. By 2012, I had started spending a lot more time with Brooke - playing videos games and going on nights out together.Soon she'd become one of my best friends. One night, Alexandra and I were chatting about our other sexual partners and she suggested that I date Brooke.'Alexandra thought we would make a great match and I agreed. I had always thought Brooke fancied women more that men but Alexandra encouraged me to make a moveon her.'Adam approached Brooke about the idea and the pair first had sex during a trip together.Brooke, who worked as a bartender at the time, says:'I had always liked Adam. We had a lot in common and from the moment we met, there was an instant chemistry between us. Over time, our friendship grew into something deeper.'The two began sleeping with each other regularly and Adam ended relations with the other women that he had been dating before Brooke. He also realised that he wanted to end his marriage to Alexandra.He explains:'It soon became clear that Brooke and I were in love. Alexandra still didn't want children any time soon and she'd also begun dating a guy that she really liked too.Alexandra and I had a long chat and in late 2012, we decided to amicably separate. She moved into her own place with the man she was dating and I moved in with Brooke and her son, Oliver.'Although Adam and Brooke were thrilled to be together finally, neither of them wanted to have a completely monogamousrelationship.Adam says:'It was amazing to be living with Brooke now and I loved hanging out with her and her son, Oliver.But after trying marriage out with Alexandra, I didn't want to limit myself to being with just one person ever again.I loved the polyamorous lifestyle because it's okay to date someone else if one partner can't provide exactly what you need at that time.'Brooke says:'Equally although I loved Adam, I didn't want to stop seeing other women.I really pushed for us to have an open relationshiptoo. So Adam and I decided to work as a team and pick up girls to have sex with together.'The first time we slept with another woman was when we went to a strip club and picked up one of the strippers working there.'Adam adds: 'We ended up checking in to a hotel and having two nights of incredible sex. I barely slept the whole time!Most of the time, Brooke and I slept with women together. But there was one occasion when I had sex with another girl during a work trip.'I made sure to tell Brooke about it before and we were texting each other throughoutwhich was kind of funny.'Adam and Brooke continued having casual threesomes together but were also lookingfor a third woman to permanently join their relationship.Then in April 2013, the twosome met photographer, Jane, in a nightclub in Texas and immediately hit it off with her.Adam says:'I knew Jane was unique from the moment we met her. The three of us clicked as soonas we started chattingWe left the nightclub to go grab some dinner with Jane and then Brooke and I took her back to our house for a few drinks.Brroke top,Jane BottomBrooke adds:'There was an immediate spark with Jane -she was super fun and very intelligent.'I knew that sex could have happened that first night but I really liked Jane and I didn'twant to push her into anything. I wanted tosee whether this could be something more.'Jane - who is bisexual but who had only been in a monogamous relationship before - says:'I loved how there was no pressure to do anything when I first met Adam and Brooke.'We just hung out, spoke and flirted at theirhouse. I had never experimented with polyamorous relationships but with Adam and Brooke, it felt so natural. They were two awesome people.'It's like imagine you meet your soul mate. Now multiply that by two! It's twice the love.'Adam, Brooke and Jane met for dinner again soon after and on their third date, the trio had sex. They kept meeting up witheach other and fell in loveThe party insists that their relationship is like any other normal couple's.Adam says: 'We are just like any typical family. We wake up in the morning - Brooke will go downstairs to cook breakfast and Jane will make fresh juice foreverybody.'Then we'll sit down at the table and eat together before I head off to work.Adam, Brooke and Jane say that time management is crucial to the success of their relationship.Brooke explains: 'We have to make sure everyone gets time together so every pair has a set date night.For example, Jane and Adam will go to an art gallery date together on Tuesday and then Jane and I will have a romantic evening on Thursday.'On our date nights, Jane and I like to cuddle up and watch a movie. We are a lot more sensual.Occasionally, the throuple like to involve a fourth partner in their sex life.Adam says:'Every so often, Jane, Brooke and I like to pick up another girl. Recently, we all had sex with a female bartender we knew - it was a crazy night of debauchery.'Brooke says:'We are committed to each other. But we would be open to adding another person if we met another girl who we liked and fitted into our lifestyle.'It's not something we're concerned about at the moment, you can't instantly introduce someone to your life.'In the same way that it's hard to find one person to commit your life to - there's three of us who have to agree to the next person. 'Culled fromDailymailAdam adds:
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And this also Topic: Two great ages for christians www.nairaland.com/2247921/two-great-ages-christians |
I think this definitely is front page worthy Topic: Our distorted value system www.nairaland.com/2196687/distorted-value-system#32794284 |
PastorOluT: |
XBLadez:Is he expecting result from the North, or inec will make another anouncement? |
Hmm |
davien:Nope, we have people of other religion with integrity, but sir that doesnt make them justified, it takes only the blood of Jesus for one to be Justified! |
dorox:Why, because we dont have people with integrity again? |
Beautiful! |
Kay17:I think u misunderstand what freewill means, also freewill is never d same as free reign. Freewill simply means exerting ur will in decision making without any constraint. Now this never meant doing that without consequences, as it remains u have a freewill to exert ur decision on anything with any restraint but that does not mean u wont be held for ur actions. Or ow do u think the world would be with freewill=free reign? |
God bless u sir |
Timely words, God blesses u real good. |
PastorOluT:Hmm, truly said, many are sincere but unfortunately they are sincerely wrong. |
plaetton:Smile, 'mental slavery' what an irony? The evidence of living in the flesh as a result of the forbidden fruit, anyways the choice is urs to either see the light of the glorious gospel or continue to grope in the darkness of self enlightenment which i nothing bt slavery in disguise. Wishing u all the best in ur quest for knowledge. |
plaetton:I agree with u even on the distorted religion playing a major role in the Nigeria's value system, bt I strongly diagree with u that scriptures cant be relevant in these case even used as a solution. For the fact that many have miscontrued, misappropraite and misrepresent it doesnt change the truth of what the scriptures really teaches. I advice maybe u closely look at the scriptures as concerning what it says on many issues before u draw ur inference(s). I have been seeing some of ur post (many of them seems reasonable), bt for the fact that u probably have phobia for the scriptures anything that relate to it u tend to throw away or discard to tally. Jesus loves u bro, give Him a chance in ur life, peace. |
dsquare33:True talk! |
Hmm, God bless u sir for this. Very timely word, on point. |
Thanks be to God who daily lead me triumphantly in Christ Jesus. |
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Bless u sir for this. |
emusmith:Thanks, and wishing u the same too. |
emusmith:This is really cool n I love evry bit so much, this are d type of topics that ought to be gracing our frontpage n not dose rubbish. God bless op for this, wishing to have a woman that would do all this for me. |
My Immediate elder bro, he led me to Christ which was d best thing that ever happened to me. |
"Something moving, something changing, see His glory, feels like Heaven on Earth" I guess that is just a glimspe incomparable, because eyes has nt seen, ears has nt heard n neither has it entered the heart of men what the Lord has prepared for us. |
Royver of course. |
Bless God' holy name, evil shall never prevail no matter what in Jesus name. |
In the New Testament, God never designedus to be guided by prophecy of man. That is why he put his spirit in us. We are supposed to be guided by the spirit of God.Today’s prophets are supposed to confirm something God has put in our spirit, not to put something contrary. The issue is that a lot of believers don’t grow themselves to the point where they can hear God for themselves; they are too lazy to pray and study their bibles, and they need someone else to do the work for them. What will bring an end to this will be for people to take out the time and discipline to strengthen their own personal relationshipwith God.These prophets capitalize on the ignoranceof people. I have come in contact with a number of people who fell victim of false prophets. By the time we got together, sat and talked, we realized that there was no way what the so called prophets said couldhave been true. This is a time where there are so many challenges facing the average Nigerian today: terrorism, kidnapping, sickness, as a result people are just lookingfor anything that looks like a solution. We need to have knowledgeable about God and His word. The bible says that those who know their God will be strong. |
She wanted him to know that she cared forhim. She also didn’t want anything to stand in their way to the altar and so she worked to make him strong and unwavering. But she feared that if Michael adhered to the advice of some people around him he could change his mind about their marriage. And one way to get things done was to lure him to a seer, a prophetess of some sort who would guide them and probably make sure he ignored all distractions that could threaten their planned marriage.Michael did not believe in seers. He did noteven believe in witchcraft, fetish or any voodoo phenomenon.It was difficult to convince him to follow her to a seer. But like it was in the beginning of time with Adam and Eve, Stella succeeded in luring Michael to the seer in Olodi Apapa Area of Lagos.“Some people would be against their marriage and they would work for it not to happen,” the seer told them, warning that something bad could happen to them if they did not start praying immediately as some people were already after them. The seer also told them that only prayers couldsee them surmount the forces against theirmarriage. She even said that they were notmeant for each other but prayers could change everything “as there’s nothing God cannot do”.And for the back pane that Michael was having at the time, the seer told them that it was the handiwork of his people from the village and that he needed to come regularly for prayers to be healed. Michael and Stella left and promised to return for prayers.Did the seer succeed in creating fears into this couple so that they could always visit and sow seed during prayers?If Stella fell for it, Michael did not.When they got home, Michael bared his mind to Stella: “I did not give any background to the seer on my back pain and she goofed big time. My back pain is asa result of an old sports injury that comes and goes from time to time. And here was somebody telling me that my people in thevillage were sending pains to me? And all the story about the forces against the marriage is for us to be coming regularly for prayers after which one must make offertory. This is how these people operate. They live by creating fear into people, prophesying falsely and reaping victims off”Michael never went back there. He was strong-willed not to fall to these so called seers who do many things in the name of God . Although he had problems with Stellaafter marriage he strongly believed their problem was more attitudinal than spiritual. They have all moved on.Many Nigerians are not as strong-willed as Michael. And that may be the reason they easily fall prey to money-hungry prophets and prophetesses in the country. Many Nigerians do terrible things in the name of God. They thrive largely because people are gullible especially when when ti comes to religion.Only few months ago, a man wearing a vest that identifies members of a church inLagos stormed out of Vanguard office in Apapa, Lagos, swearing against a man he called his uncle. A seer in the church had told him that his uncle, a lawmaker in the National Assembly in Abuja, was blocking his progress spiritually. He was in Vanguard wanting his story to be published. He had been so brainwashed that he appeared to be out of his mind.. Heclaimed that his uncle always turned into a bird and trailed him wherever he went. He was guided out of Vanguard office. Outside, as he sighted a bird perched on a tree, he screamed, pointing at the bird and claiming that his uncle was prowling after him again.In Benin, Tina and Eyimofe were happily married until a pastor told Eyimofe that he would have been richer but for his mother in-law who through witchcraft has denied him not only riches but also the fruit of the womb, claiming that the mother of his wifewas not happy at her daughter for not taking care of her. This sort of story is common in Nigeria. In market places, in offices and even in political gatherings, enmity creeps into relationships following warnings and revelations from false prophets. In all, the victims are miracle seekers. HOW CHURCHES AND FALSE PROPHETS ESCALATED A few churches were known to be operating before the Nigerian civil war, which lasted between 1967 and 1970. Things started changing after the war. Churches started mushrooming in all the towns. All manner of names were given to these post-civil war churches. The situationwas such that in a school, all classrooms became churches on Sundays.With the rise in the number of churches, allmanner of individuals, irrespective of their level of education, started establishing churches. Midway into the life of these new churches, internal wranglings rear up. The disagreement naturally mid-wives splinter group in the once united church and soon another church is born.Now, ownership of churches has become big business, and mostly family business for that matter. A man is usually the General Overseer (G.O), while the wife and children become members of the Board of Trustees. The church is incorporated as business empire. Most of them are peoplewho have failed in on enterprise or the other, and then fall back to establish churches. They make it if they have the gift of oratory. A man in Owerri, Imo State capital, narrated how a self-styled prophet and head of a church brought trouble into a once peaceful home: “My family was aboutthe most peaceful until our father died in 1997. Not too long after, my younger brother brought in a woman he chose to call his wife. I am not worried that this woman, who from all indications, is a good example of a woman married by hire purchase, dragged my brother into one of these new testament churches.“Before I knew what was happening, the prophet of the new church accused us of being largely responsible for his poor economic status.My wife and I were also accused of changing the sex of the babies in his wife’s womb. They bought the prophecy totally and since then, the family has never knownpeace. ”There is also a general overseer of a church in Owerri who invites all manner of sick persons to his church for prayers and claims to have powers of healing. But whenhe took ill, he quickly rushed to South Africa for treatment.Just recently, the timely intervention of operatives of Abia State Vigilante Service saved 20-year old Blessing Okechukwu who claimed to be a pastor. He would havebeen summarily lynched by angry villagers of Umudinkwa community, Ubakala, in Umuahia South local council area of Abia State.Okechukwu, a native of Mgboko in Obingwa local government area of the state, claimed to be superintending over Divine Church located in his country home,Mgboko. He had allegedly gone to Umudinkwa on a “deliverance mission.” The trip turned sour when he tried to outwit his host family but was caught in theact.Stories had it that the self-styled pastor went to the Agomuo family home to remove “an evil charm” he claimed was buried in one corner of the compound, butended up trying to plant a charm in the hole he and his accomplices had dug.In the course of digging the hole, the fake pastor smartly brought out a padlock carefully wrapped in a piece of cloth from his pocket and threw it into the hole he andhis fake prayer warriors had painstakingly dug with clinical finesse. His game plan wasthat he would carefully bring out “the exhibit” after muttering some incantations.Nemesis however caught up with him as unknown to the fake pastor, a member of the family, Engr. Chinedu Agomuo, was watching the “religious drama” as it unfolded, while other members of the family were engrossed in the anticipated outcome of the deliverance. 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Royver: Hello folks, Been overloaded with work. Will update as soon as I have breathing space. thanks for your patience.Hmm, what can I say? Never disappointed I must say, I just started reading after the long break i had from this section (maybe due to the data loss), and I was up till I caught up with u. This is definitely the definition of brilliance I must say, more mb to ur data, more ink to ur pen, and ease with ur system. Smile, dont even know what I am saying! |
A Nigerian medical student returning to school in Ukraine tells the story of how he nearly died at the hands of Egypt Air officials who wrongly routed him to Moldova, never gave him food for days and called him bloody Nigerian before deporting him back to LagosWe serve you the story as written by JOSHUA KUNLE ABDUL-AZEEZ, the student who is lucky to be alive and whose ordeal should interest Nigerians.On Friday, August 15, 2014 my mother and I went to Egypt Air head office at 22B Idowu Taylor Street, Victoria Island, Lagos to book a return ticket for me to go back toschool to continue my studies at Dnepropetrovsk Medical Academy, Dnepropetrovsk Ukraine. This was about 11:15 am.On entering the Egypt air office we met Mr.Tony Nzan on counter 1 to attend to us andwe asked to book a ticket to Kiev, Ukraine. Mr. Tony Nzan explained to us the itineraryfor the flight going to Ukraine after which we went to the bank to withdraw money and returned to pay for the ticket and obtained two printouts, so that my mother could have my return itinerary from Kiev next year.JOSHUA KUNLE ABDUL-AZEEZWe reviewed the ticket itinerary before leaving Egypt air’s office and immediately observed that the airport code indicated on it was different from what we were familiar with, having traveled to Kiev before. The ticket indicated an unfamiliar airport code.We immediately brought this discovery to another ticketing officer’s attention who was seated at Counter 2, as we were informed that his colleague, Mr. Nzan, had stepped out of the office. This ticketing officer restated that the ticket was full economy and for Kiev, Ukraine with all the segments confirmed. However, we remained unconvinced, given that our prior experience indicated that the airport code for Kiev, Ukraine would usually read “KBP”.On my scheduled date of departure (18th August, 2014) my mother and I arrived for check-in at 10.30am. Given our apprehension, we once again mentioned our concern to the agent at the check-in counter and requested that she reconfirm the final travel destination indicated on myticket. She confirmed that the ticket indicated “KIV” and was bound for Kiev, Ukraine. My mother then told her it shouldread Borispol International Airport KBP notKIV or Chisinahu as was indicated on the ticket.Given our insistence over this and the fact that there was now a queue building up behind us she called her supervisor, one Mr Lucas to check the ticket. He asked us what the matter was and we explained to him that we believed the routing on my ticket was wrong. We also told him we had complained about this, the day the ticket was purchased but that we were repeatedly told that the routing was to Kiev.We also mentioned to him that we went back to Egypt Air’s Victoria Island office on Saturday morning (16th August ) still very concerned about the ticket. The place was closed for business. My mum then asked that I show Mr. Lucas and his colleague myresidence and study permits for Ukraine and reaffirm my intended destination to beKiev in Ukraine and not the place indicated on the ticket, which appeared to be “Chisinahu.”Mr. Lucas proceeded to telephone Mr. Tony who issued the ticket to reconfirm routing but Mr. Tony insisted that the code (KIV) was Egypt air’s code for Ukraine.Mr. Tony also became nonchalant and abusive and said that my mother “was just being troublesome”. My mother then directed that I get the boarding passes which had earlier been printed for me since they were insisting it was Egypt Air’s code for Ukraine and that they were representatives of the airline. She warned Mr. Lucas that for the airline’s sake, she hoped that they were right and we were wrong. I checked in my two suit cases with a total weight of 47.5kg and went to the departure gate and boarded the flight.I arrived Cairo shortly after 10pm same day and was compelled to remain in the transit area for 14 hours, without feeding. No accommodation was provided by the airline. I presented myself for boarding at the boarding gate at 9am the following morning (August 19th) and was the third passenger on queue for boarding to Istanbul. When it was my turn, the Egypt air boarding staff insisted that I present myUkrainian visa before processing my boarding pass. She did not ask same of the passengers ahead of me. I explained that I had a permit because I school there and presented the permit stamp on my passport, whilst explaining that the document was in my hand luggage. Still, she insisted that I moved aside and present the original document. I then retrieved it from the luggage. Continue reading here http://lm.?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.vanguardngr.com%2F2014%2F09%2Fhorror-egypt-air-wrongly-flew-another-country-tore-passport-locked%2F%23sthash.mPqe3wAO.dpuf&h=nAQH_lilq&enc=AZP9tU_pX_UosdZvcvCwOAMCrRyo35koRIs7S7wG62GX4q7bh0Pn7I80JCPA9FQ7zGY20rgH5xSKXaq3htu1z3FCcrXXKt0kgrdZy5YZPB7-V0A6ZQ5U2rYz2-d77PooHrr_PGTX9FrazOWS9AO-W9CgX2VC3w8RHNCZzFM8zybxzRcvzzLAWhFopPZmRrp8ik4&s=1 |
Dragging Nigeria's name in the mud in diaspora since time immemorial! 'Edited' But sincerely this story doesnt add up, A 21yr old being dragged home after being molest didnt scream n followed the guy home gently. Nobody saw them, she had been molested by him at home n whenever she wants to leave he wont allow. The lady suddenly miraculously escaped to the neighbour who never heard anything all through the times/days the guy was preventing her from living. Sounds more like a setup than what was put up. |
