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Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 9:40am On Mar 12, 2020
GraGra247:


What of your mom can't she help?

Please report that wicked aunt to welfare or child abuse. Search their number on Google.

My problem is that if you run, you will most likely fall into wrong hands. Men will abuse you and incurable STD.

Please call all your uncles and aunties and village people and tell them what you're passing through.

Don't let anyone silence you. Talk till someone will bring you help.
My mum is late
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 9:39am On Mar 12, 2020
SeedofDavid:

You have a smartphone right? Are you actively looking for a job? You need to expose a little more of the things you are going through so people know how best to advise you. Like on why you can't go back to your dad's, was it your aunt that requested you come stay with her? and other issues.

I can't go out of the house except to church.... And she said I can stay with her when my dad asked her but she behaves so nice when she visit us
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:52am On Mar 12, 2020
odinga1of:

How old are u? Did she have kids?

Am 21...yes she has a daughter
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:50am On Mar 12, 2020
AfroKnight:


A stranger in the sense that she just joined the home.

I know her well before.... She come to visit us when my mum was still alive
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:49am On Mar 12, 2020
AfroKnight:


A stranger in the sense that she just joined the home.

I know her well before..she comes to my father's house to visit when my mum was still alive
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:45am On Mar 12, 2020
AfroKnight:


But it doesn’t apply here. This girl says she’s saddled with domestic chores. A family that eats out cannot decide overnight to eat the cooking of a stranger.

Her story does not add up. She’s lying or hiding essential parts of the story.

They store plates in the kitchen and wash only the one they use to eat that moment and leave the rest to stink....
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:36am On Mar 12, 2020
NextD18:
Parents should stop bringing kids to this world if they can't cater for them.

Them go just dey born anyhow as investment come dey suffer am unnecessarily. angry

Look at this lady suffering emotionally and psychologically in the hands of another woman when she has parents, but her parents will be the first to open their hands should a rich man come to marry her.

My father is not having financial challenges
He sends me money at least every week
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:24am On Mar 12, 2020
Davash222:
How about the pastor, her husband? Is he aware of all these?

Yes....he is aware
Family / Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:23am On Mar 12, 2020
justnock:


how old are you and are you done with high school?

Am 21 yrs .....just completed my Nd program
Family / Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 5:20pm On Mar 11, 2020
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me

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