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primadonnachika:
i happened to gain access into my husband's whatsapp chats and the result is better imagined. well, its not something that has never been seen before, so at this point im sure you would guess. another woman? yes, you are very correct.

he had told me he was going traveling out of town for the wedding of an industry colleague. he was to go on Friday for the wedding on Saturday. that didn't sit well with me and we argued back and forth. i didn't see the need for him to travel on Friday for a wedding that would hold the next day when he can as well go on Saturday and still make it back to Lagos that same Saturday. he begged, cajoled, gave me the money i requested and i gave in. all along i had my doubts which were confirmed when i read the contents of the chats and as usual he was inviting another girl from asaba. of course i knew what to expect as i had my suspicions all along. I wasn't shocked, hurt but not as much as i would have. funny enough i felt a sense of elation, maybe closure but then..from the chat i could deduce he dint travel but waited in the office for the babe while calling me and giving me fake info about take off and arrival. at a point i called his two lines severally only for him to pick up and tell me he didn't know it was ringing which is impossible.

ive been calm about the whole thing but of course the attitude is there. there had been lots of issues regarding this in the past with him denying but this time i'm done with this sham of a marriage. he doesn't have time for me, keeps late nights, doesn't make love to me, i have to beg and even with that he comes in two minutes and i'm left with a loaded weapon hampered by my vow of infidelity. turns out he had a two some. i cant even bear for him to touch me or make love to me ever, so whats the point. this man has frustrated me with every reason to cheat in the world but ive remained faithful. from the pictures, they are dirty girls looks more like prostitutes.

for my matured minds, preferably the older ones who have experience in marriage. how do i deal with this, my plan now is to save up some money and move out next year or apply for a visa abd hope luck shines on me and i travel out with our son. on;y the matured responses gets to be dignified with a reply.

my husband is a public dog

present the fact to him,, talk to him. Forgive him.
Don't worry things will get better.

barackodam:
I didn't know Marca can be this savage too

what date is the match ?

oh please bring on chelsea,, Bring them on.

frozen70:
Something is behind that his attitude, plus don't stay away from his siblings, find a way and let them know what he told you secretly be close to them you never can tell when he starts behaving like animal and if you haven't being relating with his family, you will be left alone.
He is hiding something that will eventually bust in the future for you.

nothing is wrong with his attitude,, stop giving wrong advice to people.

Preciousgirl:
He doesn't want me get close to his own blood brothers
he even gets angry when I talk about them
he only says I greet them, nothing else, no hug, not even talk about them

Please is this behavior of my husband normal??

You are married to him and not his brothers.

Dzeimzb:
Which yeye lane should he maintain. I will choose my paddy over any unfaithful bitch any day. Please don't waste time , tell your guy asap. Its this type of girl that will raise a bastard for your friend only for him to find out when the kids are in their 20s that hey are not his. Since he always got your back, the rule is friendship b4 any girl.

one like for you.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
who exactly in their right senses tells a girlfriend about such? How are u sure d pregnancy is not for your friend? Your senses should tell u that the friend might be envious of her friends relationship. People should use their senses and intuition when dealing with people Biko.

what if she had the abortion for another guy..

Op,, tell your friend..

alexistaiwo:
I will keep this short and precise.

One of my close friend girlfriend just had an abortion for another guy. On a normal day, I wouldn't think twice before deciding to keep my mouth shut but this is a friend that always look out for me. He always have my back, if the roles were to be reversed I am sure he will inform me of such betrayal.

His girlfriend been avoiding me since she discovered that I am privy to the information of what she did. She probably think that I already told him.


Should I keep shut?


Modified for those asking how I got the information.

I got to know about the abortion through one of her very tight friend.
I was just whining as usual her the other day that may God judge she and her friend as if I am holding a grudge against both of them and she spilled unknowingly).

first confirm if she really had an abortion,,
then tell your friend.

I repeat,, tell your friend.

No griezmann abeg
Too many players already in barca
Offload the bums first.

Ennyholar:
The back houses a 13MP camera with QUAD-LED flash system and just below this is the fingerprint scanner and the TECNO Logo. The fingerprint scanner double as a camera button and also for unlocking the phone.

The front camera equally houses a 13MP camera followed by a mouthpiece and a flashlight.


The Camon CM has its multitasking, Exit and home buttons on the screen

The TECNO Camon CM is TECNO’s first smartphone with a full view display. The device is quite light in the hands which is something many smartphone users will like a lot.

The Camon Series are known for their photography prowess and the new Camon CM is no different. The device retails for N47, 000 in Nigeria and can be purchased across all TECNO retail outlets.

This thing is not full view na,, see bezels at the side, the phone is crap. k9 plus is better.

InvertedHammer:
If you didn't thank your parents, that's your problem.
Some people get good jobs and buy cars for their parents.
If you choose to buy a car for your pastor instead, then you need to listen to Freeze more often.

A gift to a pastor is not a gift to God. Thank the right person but give glory to God.

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Blessed is he that gives a cold to a man of God - Matthew 10:42

Seunosewapenis:
Tecno just released the almighty canom cm to succeed the cx.
Its no suprise that the canom cm is made for taking those perfect photos so am going to compare it with the pixel 2 xl since they are both on the same level.
The canom cm is no joker in specs as it beats the pixel hands down.
Here are the specs of both devices:
The comes with an advanced display technology which gives you a 18:9 aspect ratio on a 5.7 inches display.
The resolution on the full view display is a whooping 1440 x 720p this gives clear and crisp display which makes it stand out when compared with the pixel 2.
The canom cm has a very powerful Processor which has 4 high clock speed cores to ensure your apps and games open very fast coupled with 2gb ram to ensure that buttery and smooth experience.
The canom cm currently has the best smartphone camera with 13mp rear camera which is far more clear and it captures more details than the 12mp camera on the pixel 2 coupled with another 13mp camera on the front with flash.
The canom cm promises the most advanced camera any phone has to offer and its sold at just 46000 naira.

A phone that runs on 1.25 quadcore processor.3000 MAH,, 2gb ram,, 16gb rom is Almighty. I know you are a marketer but please market with sense.

FCB Barcelona


Best In The World.

it is like gomes is dating valverde's daughter..
won't be surprised if he picks him ahead of coutinho.

dmcdad:
It's not a bad thing to like a player. Heck, even VivaLaByke with his immense love for Dembouz wouldn't make such a ridiculous comment because of a pass that Suarez failed to give.

Anyway, it's all good. We are all hoping he finds the back of the net soon. But no rush for me, he should just maintain the upward trajectory in terms of his performances and the goals would rain in when the time is right

I retract my comment.

dmcdad:
Are you for real? Just because he didn't pass to Dembouz then he should be thrown out? Wow...

I know it's necessary for Dembele to find the back of the net ASAP. But heck, I am firstly after him delivering good performances and getting on his stride, like with the OK performance last weekend and the masterclass he delivered during the Copa match. Later, we can talk about goals. But for now, performing at a high level should be top of the priority, and he seems to be on that pathway already. So, the goals will come eventually, its only a matter of time.

hmm

I believe, I just like the boy. As for suarez I didn't really mean it like that.

dmcdad:
Let Suarez go? Be careful what you wish for...

But that guy with his rabbit teeth should have passed to dembele.
Dembouz would have had 1 league goal.
3 behind oponunaldo.

The players should support dembele so he can score..
I am looking forward to his goal.
In the game against celta,, dembele was free but Suarez and rakitic decided to shoot wide. Same dembele that gave suarez an assist in his first debut. Now you see a chance to help a poor boy desperate for goal you allow selfishness lead you.
No way he would have scored in that game for he was super amazing.
.
End of season come and let suarez go.

semedo out of todays game.

AdaIhiala:
Must every thing as in every misfortune, problem, be attributed to spiritual influence in Africa? SMH

take it or leave it,, it is spiritual, I was not the only one that confirmed it on the thread.

sweettease:
Oh dear! That's not the part I have a problem with, the part that I find odd is that you are advising a married woman to intentionally create the illusion that she is courting other guys. That's really messed up!

BTW, I am all for showering my man with love but if he acts like a boy and not the man I thought he was, then that love is dead and gone, I don't have time to play catch, you are either in or out! While change what I am about cos he can't handle it?

Just ignore that one. They talk shiit in the name of giving advice.

ebenebegbulu:
My husband is addicted to pornography. He watches porn every spare time he has. While we were dating,I noticed it but thought it was a normal habit for bachelors. I emptied his porn collections and told him it was time to stop. He promised to stop. We got married and he still continued. Sexually, his fore play was top notch so I didn't really care that he doesn't last long. Now 15 years down the line,probably due to both work and family responsibilities,he doesn't really indulge in fore play anymore. We make love like once or twice a month but i am left hanging, because he would ejaculate within a minute. We have talked about it numerous times with no positive change. He even feels embarrassed anytime i raise the issue. I have learnt to ignore my sexual needs so I wouldn't be tempted to misbehave because i had a good moral upbringing. My anger and confusion is that he is even more addicted to porn now more than ever. I have this feeling of resentment and disgust towards him. I am in my mid thirties and I shudder to think that this is how it is going to be. I googled and I learnt that porn has a way of affecting a man's sexual prowess. My husband is a good husband otherwise and he loves me but not enough to leave porn for my sake. I don't know what to do.
Please I need mature advice on how to tackle this problem.

You husband needs deliverance.

Are you not a Christian ?

Take him to church and let him see a pastor,, don't listen to some hediots here that wants you to make him jealous and all those shits... STAND BY YOUR HUSBAND AND PRAY FOR HIM. Porn and masturbation is a spiritual thing, it is not something you just stop like that. Only God can heal and save that person.

please ma, shey you love your husband ? and he loves you too ?
Then joins hands with and help him fight this addiction.
It can be overcomed, Just have faith in God.

I pray Joy is restored to your home in Jesus name. AMEN.

Life is all about conquering and winning battles so do not give.

#STAY BLESSED.

Jman06:
Madam i'll suggest you start doing things that would get him jealous, like making him feel that you have other guys courting you. Start dressing hot and pay him less attention. Believe me, he would get jealous and want to do anything to please you and save his marriage, including stopping that habit of masturrbation and finding solution to his quick ejaculation. He feels too secured with you that is why he doesn't want to do things to please you.

I didn't mean you should cheat on him oo. Just show him that "I don't care" attitude for sometimes. You could get busy with your phone. Chat with friends online. Pretend like he doesn't exist. Hang out with female friends and up your dressing game.
You'll be amazed at how your man would turn around.

shut up

this is not the best

OP please don't listen to this guy.

Gomes and Arda turan should leave abeg.. The bums are becoming too much.
How good is rafinha and what position does he play ?

aureen:
Let your uncle's wife speak for herself, you might not know what she is passing through for there are two sides to a coin.

lol you ignored the other points I made in my post in other to further your course.
She is not passing through anything, they living fine.

I was gonna get k9 on fifteen of this month, but I am gonna wait. pray it is not more than 45k

Just pray it's not more than 45k..

I was gonna k9 on 15th of this month.

Now I am gonna wait.

Dembele will improve, no doubt he is superTalented

Money for coutinho is quite huge but we need at Barcelona.

aureen:
From observations and reviews here are some of the disavantages of a man 10 years older than the wife.

1. They belong to different generation.
2. Some of them like sending wifey on errands in public places
3. You might end up raising the children all alone.



You can add yours.

A generation is 30 years. It signifies the time children take up the role of parents and our able to fend for themselves and that's like 30 years. Make more research.

Concerning age difference. Abraham was 10 years older than Sarah, yet the bible says Sarah obeyed Abraham calling him "my lord" Abraham in turn took good care of Sarah, he even acknowledged that she was beautiful.

The life of Abraham and Sarah were the foundations of marriage. Apostle Paul advising married people makes reference to Abraham and Sarah.

You made reference to a pastor. My uncle who is a pastor is 12 years older than his wife. They living fine, blessed with two boys (twins) and two girls (twins).

UNDERSTAND, marriage is not mathematics, there is no formula for marriage. There are peeps with 4,5 age difference, they get married today and divorce tomorrow. Pray you find the right person, that is what matters.